Exhort One Another Daily — Anton Bosch

The Warning Against Hardening Our Hearts

Hebrews chapter 3 and we will begin in verse 13 but let's read from verse 7 through 19 so we can get the context. So. Hebrews chapter 3 reading 7 through 19. Therefore as the Holy Spirit says today if you will hear his voice do not harden your hearts as in the rebellion in the day of trial in the wilderness where your fathers tested me tried me and saw my works forty years.

Therefore I was angry with that generation and said they always go astray in their heart and they have not known my ways. So I swore in my wrath that shall not enter my rest. But where brethren lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief in departing from the Living God but exhort one another daily while it is called today lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin.

For we have become partakers of Christ if we hold the beginning of our confidence steadfast to the end while it is said today if you will hear his voice do not harden your hearts as in the rebellion. For who having heard rebelled indeed was it not all who came out of Egypt led by Moses.

Now with whom was he angry forty years. Was it not with those who sinned whose corpses fell in the wilderness and to whom did he swear that they would not enter his rest. But to those who did not obey.

So we see that they could not enter in because of unbelief. So we were in verse 12 last week but where brethren lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief in departing from the Living God. And so remember the context is the comparison between Israel coming out of Egypt and the Christian coming out of the world.

And the warning that we need to make sure that we don't make the same mistakes that Israel made. And so this very serious warning and notice again that it's put to believers not to unbelievers. But where brethren lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief.

Now we're going to speak about unbelief in the next couple of weeks because this is part of the theme and you'll see that he ends up dealing with unbelief at the end of verse 19. So we see they could not enter because of unbelief.

And so unbelief is a theme in in these chapters are certainly up to chapter 4. And then remember chapter 11 again comes back to the concept of faith and so lest there be an evil heart of unbelief in departing from the Living God.

And so unbelief prevented them from getting into the land. Unbelief is the thing that can result in us departing from the Living God. Now he's going to give us some solutions or some answers to the problem.

The Responsibility to Exhort One Another

But there's that word so there's the possibility of because of unbelief departing from the Living God but exhort one another daily while it is called today. There's that concept while it is called today again exhort the word means to encourage to speak to one another to admonish if necessary exhort one another again.

We read these things but we don't really pay attention to them. We don't really pay attention to to what what it is saying. And so generally in most situations and even in hours we say well it's the preacher's job to exhort.

But he's not saying that the preacher must exhort but that we must exhort one another. We must exhort one another. So no one is excluded from this responsibility. Now remember the problem is the potential of departing from the God.

So because that is a problem and a potential thing we need to exhort we need to encourage. We need to draw one another near. We need to speak to one another. In fact later on in Hebrews he'll say that we need to consider one another how we may provoke one another to good works.

Consider one another. Think about one another. We live in a selfish world where everyone is just in it for themselves. And yet we have a responsibility within the context of the body of Christ to one another.

And it's not the preacher's job or not only the preacher's job or the elders or the leaders. It is everyone's job. And he is very specific here exhort one another now if he if he had elders in mind because he addresses the issue of elders later on in the book so he understands the concept of elders.

Obviously because that was how it was in the New Testament. If this was what he had in mind he would have said the elders that are among you exhort the congregation. But he's not saying the elders must exhort the congregation.

Obviously they must because they are part of the one another but exhort one another. So we must ask the question when last did you exhort someone. When last did you encourage someone. When last did you say a fitting word to someone in the congregation.

Someone that you see is struggling. Someone that you see is is having a problem or having a bad day. But we we come and we go and we we we we don't recognize that there are others that really have that have needs and and the fact is just by the law of averages that whenever we come together there is guaranteed to be some folk who are struggling.

They're going to be some folk we have who have issues who have a bad day that something has gone wrong and they just not feeling on top of it and just a word of encouragement will will in help them and willing it will encourage them to to go on with the Lord.

So exhort one another daily. Remember this concept of today. The the word day today appears over and over and over in these chapters. And so how often do we exhort one another. Well maybe in reality once a month once a year.

And we say well once a week because we come together once a week or twice a week. For those who are faithful and come together on Thursdays as well. No daily we need to exhort one another. And we say well you know that was those days and they because they came together on a daily basis that says in the book of Acts the church in Jerusalem they they broke bread in one another's houses day by day they met every day.

Now we we can't do that we don't do that. It's it's somewhat impractical in our modern world in terms of the hours that people live and the distances that people have to travel to get to the meetings.

But we have modern media we have phones and texts and what's happened all these kinds of things that we're able to use to encourage one another. We we even have fake book which is used for all sorts of nonsense and yet can be used very effectively to encourage one another to encourage believers further afield.

Practicing Daily Encouragement

And so we must ask the question you see because we say well you know you need to pray every day. You need to read your Bible every day. But but part of that deal is that we should be exhorting one another every day.

And you say well preacher that's your idea. No it's not my idea. That's that. That's the text. And and you don't need to be a Greek scholar to understand the text. The text says exhort one another daily.

It's it's simple. I don't even know why I'm preaching on it because that that's the way it is. And so I think that one of the things that we need to ask ourselves every day is have I exhorted someone today.

Have I spoken a word of comfort to someone. Have I spoken a word of encouragement to someone. Have I have I just reached out and said how are you. And you know just just that is is is sufficient. Sometimes it's just showing some care and some interest.

Many folk have families around them. There are others of us who have no families around us. And sometimes life is hard because you don't have friends you don't have anyone to talk to. And just someone reaching out and saying how you doing.

And not not not. You know we've spoken about this before we we greet one another how you. Well fine because we understand it's not a real question. You're not really asking how am I. You're just being polite.

But we need to get beyond just being polite. We need to get real. And we need to care for one another. And we need to say brother really how are you doing. How can I pray for you. But there is not. There is not one person in this church or in any other church for that matter who does not have needs that need to be prayed for.

Every single one of us have things that need to be prayed for and yet no one will reach out and say brother what can I pray for. I'm very deeply grateful for brothers that across the world who reach out to me and say brother well you're on my heart today.

What is it that I can pray for. And and that that you know it's the obviously the prayer of faith is powerful. But it's not just that. It's just the the showing of care and of concern. And so exhort one another daily.

And I believe that we need to make that part of our daily exercise. As much as you should be praying every day as much as you should be reading your Bible every day. You should be exhorting someone every day.

And and if if I don't you know if we don't get anywhere further with a study. If we don't you know if you fall asleep now and don't hear anything else I'm saying please hear this. And please make this a determination in your heart of saying I'm going to make a point of exhorting somebody every day.

Encouragement in Desperate Times

From here on we're living in desperate times. We're living in times when it's just bad news on on every form of media doesn't matter whether it's the the television stations or Facebook or whatever. It's just bad news bad news bad news.

We need encouragement. We need to exhort one another. You remember that the book of Malachi speaks about those who love the Lord spoke often to one another. They spoke often to one another. The devil does he share of speaking to us all the time.

We need to hear from one another. We need to hear from the Lord through our brothers and our sisters. So exhort one another daily while it is called today. So there's that whole concept again. Not manana.

Not say well you know I'll call him tomorrow. Call him today. Exhort him or her today while it is called today. Because tomorrow is not today. Tomorrow you're not sure of for the fact that someone is laid on your heart today means that maybe the Holy Spirit is prompting you to pray for them today.

Tomorrow you're gonna forget tomorrow. The crisis may be over. And maybe the person has made a decision in the wrong direction because no one reached out no one prayed no one picked up the phone or texted or did something today today.

The Deceitfulness of Sin and Spiritual Hardening

Because here's the danger lest any of you be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin. And so the whole point is that today if you will hear your voice his voice hardened not your heart. And so becoming hardened is a very real experience.

It's something that happens to every one of us. And the antidote to becoming hardened is exhorting one another daily. That's that's why I want people to be in church. I don't want people to be in church so that I can feel good about having a big congregation or about being able to say to to to my colleague down the road.

You know we had so many people in church. It's not about that at all. Well certainly for me it's not about that at all. I don't know the numbers I never count. I don't know how many people are in the meetings at different times.

I just know that some people are missing when they're missing. And and and my concern for them being missing is not because of my audience but because they not present to get the only exhortation they're going to get.

They're not going to get it from the world. They're not going to get it from the news. They're not going to get it anywhere. They're only going to get it from here. And God help us that it doesn't only come from the pulpit but that it comes from one another.

And if we're not here then how will we be exhorted. And that and of course the problem then is that that results in hardening. And it's the deceitfulness of sin that hardens us. You see when we're being exhorted it certainly is a it cannot stop us from sinning.

Those brethren who've come out of addictions understand the importance of being able to speak to someone the importance of having someone speak to you at the times when you feel tempted. And it brings about accountability.

And folk every one of us is being tempted. Maybe not in the same way as an alcoholic or a drug addict is being tempted. But we're all being tempted to sin. And if you say well I don't have that problem well you're in the wrong church.

Then we all have that problem. We're all tempted to sin. And sin is deceitful. Sin is deceitful. You remember the very beginning Adam and Eve. She looked at the fruit it looked good it was tempting it was promising.

Sin is never repulsive it sin in other people's lives is repulsive to us. But when sin presents itself to us it's always attractive it always looks good. But it's a deception. It also promises us all sorts of pleasure or whatever.

But the deception is that when it produces its fruit in our lives it produces death. And so remember that the promise to Eve in a sense was you'll really be alive if you eat this thing you'll be just like God.

This this is going to be the greatest thing in your life. But what did it do. It produced death and death upon upon all. And so sin is deceitful. And it is only in the light of God's Word that we can see it for what it is.

When we're in on our own there's no one around us. The temptation to go to the internet and watch things you ought not to watch becomes very real. But when someone is there and is exhorting you brother keep your eyes on Jesus it helps.

I'm not saying that that's the only problem we have. We have dozens of problems all sorts of temptations. But it's the exhortation that comes from other believers that keeps us out of trouble. I really think that if I wasn't a preacher I would be a terrible person.

Even if I was a Christian because I'm forced to be here because of my job I'm forced to be in the word now I'm not saying that that's yeah that we should do it because we're forced to. But I'm glad for the opportunity.

I'm glad that that that I that I'm that there is a discipline upon my life to be in the fellowship of the Saints a discipline upon my life to be in the Word of God. And that keeps me out of a lot of trouble doesn't mean I still don't get into trouble.

But folk when we when we when we're not under the sound of the word when we're not in the word when we're not praying when we're not being exhorted and when we're not exhorting one another. And we're just living our lives out there in the world it's easy to be deceived by sin.

Just have this pot of stew. You're tired you're hungry. You've been out there hunting all day and you found nothing. Here's a beautiful pot of stew. Just sell your birthright the deceitfulness of sin.

And so it's the answer is to exhort one another. It's interesting that he doesn't say. Well you know here's here's a magic formula. But here's a system here's a method that works. And so lest we be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin exhort one another daily because we have become partakers of Christ.

Holding Faith Steadfast to the End

Here's the warning. If remember this little word if over and over in Hebrews in his first chapters you're going to find that word if conditional if we hold the beginning of our confidence steadfast to the end.

Now remember the the the point that he's making Israel came out of Egypt they didn't get into the promised land. Now you need to be careful he says lest you depart from the Living God lest you become hardened through the deceitfulness of sin.

And we are partakers of Christ if we hold the beginning of our confidence steadfast to the end. Paul says he who endures to the end will be saved. And so we must hold our confidence. We must hold our confidence now what does that mean.

Well confidence is just another word for trust or faith. What is it that you have confidence in. Well I have. We have confidence in the Lord Jesus Christ. We have confidence in the work of the Spirit.

We have confidence in God. That is who we trust. That is where our faith is. And we need to hold on to that. We cannot have confidence in ourselves. If anyone thinks that they can have confidence in themselves to keep themselves.

You've got your confidence in the wrong place. If your confidence is in me as the pastor to keep you it's in the wrong place because I can't keep you against your will. If your confidence is in the church to keep you it's in the wrong place.

There's only one who we can trust and that is the one who said that the work that I that I he's begun he will complete within us. And so we need to hold on to our confidence in the Lord Jesus and his ability to hold us his ability to keep us and his ability to see us through to the end.

And so we need because that that's how. That's how we got saved. How did we get saved by having confidence in the church. No by putting our confidence or our trust in Jesus. That's how we began and that's how we need to end.

Israel came out of Egypt and their confidence was to go to the promised land. But they didn't get there because they let go of that confidence. They had a certain confidence in God that God would get them into the land.

And yet when they came to the River Jordan they turned around and they perished in the wilderness. And so we need to hold the beginning of our faith the beginning of our confidence steadfast to the end.

Again notice that there are words here that you can easily dispense of. Sometimes people who write and people who speak use a lot of words because they think that they they. It's impressive to use a lot of words.

But the Bible doesn't use words just for the sake of using many words. Every word is inspired every word is there for a purpose. Now you he could easily have said if we hold the beginning of our confidence to the end would that have changed anything.

Yeah it would. Because it's one thing to hold my confidence that I had at the beginning to the end. It's another thing to hold it steadfastly to the end. You see some people begin. Okay. And they they will sort of end all right.

But in between it's like this it's up and down and and it's all over the show they not being steadfast. We find the same idea the same word Jesus fitting as we as we're in the book of Luke and coming to the to the last days.

As Jesus goes towards Jerusalem he is steadfast. He is determined I'm going to the cross. Nothing was going to dissuade him. Nothing was going to discourage him. He doesn't take any deed to us. He lives his life for 33 years from the cross from the cradle to the to the cross.

And he's it's a it's a straight line if you will from one to the other. And yet for us as Christians many times it's not a straight line. It's up and down and it's wandering over there and wandering over there like the people of Israel.

You're going around in circles never getting anywhere particular. No we need to be steadfast. We need to be rooted and grounded in our faith. And the only way we can be is if we are doing the things that we ought to be doing praying reading and exhorting one another.

For we have become partakers of Christ if we hold the beginning. When he says being partakers of Christ obviously he means that we've we've we've enjoyed what he has to offer. And obviously what does he have to offer.

Well salvation and his goodness and his grace and all of those wonderful things. And so we have become partakers. We have partaken of Christ. If we hold the beginning of our confidence steadfast to the end now verse 15.

Psalm 95 and the Call to Respond Today

Well here he comes back to Psalm 95 again while it is said today. Now notice again remember from the beginning I warned you that one of the problems or one of the challenges of Hebrews is that no single verse stands on its own.

Every verse is linked to the verse before it. And so we can't just say well you know he said today if you will hear his voice no again. The context is if we have become we have become partakers of Christ if we hold the beginning of our confidence steadfast to the end.

While it is said today again Lord I'll be steadfast next week. Lord we're coming to the end of the year and I have things to do. And and it's just a busy time. And but but but but come January Lord I'll be steadfast no while it is said today.

So if you're hearing my voice this evening or those who are watching the video it may be at a later time today if you will hear his voice don't harden your hearts. And so he is he is coming back to the same theme over and over and over and over.

What hardens our hearts. The deceitfulness of sin. What was it that hardened Israel's heart. It was the deceitfulness of what Egypt had to offer. I mean just give me just imagine this. They had spent hundreds of years in Egypt as slaves with hard task masters being beaten because we know that Moses rescued a man who was being beaten by a Egyptian slave master being given straw when we're not giving straw that they needed to make the bricks doing terribly hard work.

You know we complained about the mandates that we have to wear a mask and those kinds of things. Those guys had a mandate that you couldn't have babies. And if and the babies would be killed if they were born.

And yet they come out of all of that they own nothing except a few sheep and cattle because the Egyptians despised anyone who kept livestock. And they come out of that. And God says I'm going to take you to the promised land.

A land that flows with milk and honey. A land that is in every way far superior to Egypt. And yet the deceitfulness of sin brought them to a place where they said it's better back in Egypt. And folk how can you.

How can you think that way. And yet there are Christians who who make a decision and they say it was better back in the world. Somehow they'd forgotten the the slavery of sin. They'd forgotten the bondage that they lived under.

They'd forgotten the the guilt and the shame. They'd forgotten the emptiness of the hangover the day the night. After all of that is forgotten because sin deceives and says let's go back there. No today if you will hear your voice his voice harden not your hearts.

As in the rebellion. I remember again this concept. They rebelled against God. And and of course we live in a time when we say well you know every man has the right to make his own choices and to do what he wants to do.

What. Why does God have to tell us what to do. Well when God tell told them to get into the promised land it wasn't because God was going to get anything out of them being in the promised land. It was for their good it was it was a tremendous blessing that he had it in store for them.

And and yet they rebelled against God's will for them and for God's rules and God's laws. And God's desire for us is not onerous. He wants to bless us. He wants to get us into heaven he wants to use us in his kingdom.

And yet we rebel against that because we feel that our will has been impinged on. No don't harden your hearts as in the rebellion now verse 16. For who having heard rebelled now just think about where we're at.

If you will hear his voice the previous verse harden not your hearts so he says. But who having heard so they heard. So it wasn't like they could say well we didn't hear they heard. When did they hear.

Every day every day God was speaking to them not words but showing them his faithfulness in the manna in the water in the fiery pillar in the cloud in Moses. Every day God was showing himself. God was speaking to them.

And what was he speaking to them. He was telling them he is faithful. He was telling them you can trust me. You see God's not a man that he should lie when when somebody particularly in business says well just trust me.

Well you know you can't trust him. But when God says trust me he is 100 reliable 100 dependable. And so God is showing them his dependability his faithfulness his reliability his power. And being able to bring water from the rock being able to make a cloud cover them during the day to keep them cool and and and changes to a pillar.

And then when they have to move on the cloud or the pillar would would lift and begin to move and they would follow that and where they were supposed to stop the next time the cloud or the pillar would stop and they would camp and God would be with them every day.

God was saying to them I'm faithful trust me. And for God speaks to us we have what they don't have. We have his word. We have the Holy Spirit. We have the New Testament Church. These are things that they did not have.

But in all of these things God is speaking to us. And of course God spoke to them in the Mount Sinai were in an audible voice he spoke the Ten Commandments. In the hearing of the whole congregation they heard him speak.

They saw his mighty works for 40 years. For having heard who having heard rebelled. See here's the here's the problem. And and we're gonna move on to this next week because you're gonna see in the end the last two verses which I'm not going to deal with this evening.

But verse 18 to whom did he swear that they would not enter his rest. But to those who did not obey verse 19 so we see they could not enter because of unbelief. Now just look at what he's saying. Verse 18 says why didn't they get in.

Because they didn't obey. Verse 19 says why did they not get in. Because I'm unbelief. So which is it. Well obviously these two things are connected. Obedience is a product of faith. And we're going to see this in chapter 11.

When we get there in many months time we have the wrong concept of faith. We say well faith produces miracles. No faith produces obedience. That's the whole point of the of the book of Hebrews. That's a whole point of Hebrews chapter 11 faith produces obedience.

And if we trust God we will do what he tells us to do. If we don't trust him we don't do what he tells us to do. And so those that concept we're gonna unravel that in the next in the next few few weeks.

Israel's Rebellion and Moses' Disobedience

So for whom. Having for who having heard rebelled. Indeed was it not all who came out of Egypt led by Moses. What a terrible situation. All. Well it wasn't exactly all. Remember we speak often. I speak often about the fact that when it says all it's all.

But there are times when it's not exactly all. So what was the number. How many didn't make it. Well the easy part is how many did make it to. So how many came out. And we're just talking about the counting of men over the age of 21.

How many came out. 600 ,000 600 ,000. So you add women and children and and men under 21 boys. And you end up with three or four million people. Of all of those three or four million people. How many made it to.

So how many men. So when it says all you should know the number by now because I've told you many times five hundred and ninety nine thousand nine hundred and ninety eight. Not all who came out of it.

Was it not all who came out of Egypt led by Moses. Did Moses make it. No he didn't even make it. Now it doesn't diminish from the fact that Moses was a great man and indeed the greatest prophet of the Old Testament.

A picture and type of the Lord Jesus. But he even he did not make it into the land. Why. Why didn't Moses make it. Because of disobedience. God said speak to the rock. And Moses smote the rock. And God said disobedience will keep you out of the land.

And so how many heard God speak. They all heard God speak. They all saw the Egyptians drowned in the Red Sea. They all ate the manna. They all did all of these things. And yet only two got the message.

And folk. That's the point that the writer is making here as the same point he makes in 1 Corinthians chapter 10. And I wonder if it's any different today. And and this is this is this is this is so serious and I don't know how to emphasize it even more.

Because we're in a time when we're seeing the great falling away. People say well I heard I heard the gospel. I used to go to church. And obviously we understand going to church doesn't save us but it helps to keep us saved.

But was it not all who came out of Egypt led by Moses. Now he's asking three questions. And he gives the answer. So the question first question is who having heard rebelled did Moses rebel. Yes he rebelled because he disobeyed.

God said speak. He said he was angry and he didn't do what God said. He did what he wanted to do and that was to to beat the rock all. Right. The next one verse 17. Next second question. Now with whom was he angry for 40 years.

God's Long-Suffering Judgment

And the answer was it not with those who sinned whose corpses fell in the wilderness. So with whom was he angry at the end of 40 years. No he was angry with him. For how long. For 40 years. Now remember when Moses at the beginning says God I want to see you I want to know you.

And God says you can't see me because no man can see me. But he shows Moses his his hind parts the afterglow as God passes by and the Lord declares his attributes to Moses. And one of the attributes is that he is long suffering.

So is this a long-suffering God who was angry with him for 40 years. Yes it's a long-suffering God because by the time he had rejected them he had with them for many many months time after time they complained.

God gives the manna. No we're tired of the manna. We want meat. God brings them to water. No we don't like the taste of the water. God gives them a great man like Moses. No we don't like Moses. We want our own guys.

And the list goes on and on and on as they rebel against and complain against God. So God obviously as we've said before is righteous. God doesn't get angry for nothing. He doesn't get angry the way we get angry.

But he gets angry for the right reasons. So here's here's the scary thing for 40 years that God the day God said I'm done with you. Remembered. Stephen speaks about this in Acts chapter 7. The day God said you're not going to come into the land.

Did God just leave them to starve. No he continued to care for them. He fed them he watered them. He got he still gave them the pillar of fire and to keep them warm and give them light and the cloud to keep them cool.

During the day Moses still listened to their petty squabbles and arbitrated between husbands and wives and all sorts of stuff. God provided all of these things and yet he is angry with them. And remember he's he had sworn in his wrath.

You will not enter in for here's the here's the problem. Many times as Christians God is angry with us. And I'm not now talking about whether you're still saved or not saved. That's that. But but when we're in walking in disobedience God is angry with us.

He's not pleased when you're in disobedience. He's not pleased when you're walking in sin. He's angry but we say oh well you know God's still blessing me. My glasses broke this afternoon and I was I had an old pair and I could put another ear on and I was I was fine.

So God helped help me. But that does not prove anything. He fed them and cared for them and sheltered them and did everything for them for 40 years. But he was angry with him. But the fact that God still helps you and blesses you does not mean that he is not angry with you.

They are two different things. God is a gracious and kind God and he cares. He cares for this world. The world hates him but he still cares for it. So we cannot measure our standing with God based on his provision in our lives.

The fact that you have a job the fact that you have a house to live in the fact that you have the things that you have has nothing to do with your spiritual standing. Absolutely nothing. And so we need to be careful because we we look at these things and we say well you know things are things are good.

My life's everything's fine. So I must be good. No it means nothing. The two things are totally disconnected. God pours his rain on the just and the unjust. He fed them cared for them for 40 years but he was angry with him.

Look I don't want God to be angry with me. I want the blessing and the sunshine of of his pleasure on my life. And unfortunately so easily we we get into a place where God is angry with us because we're disobedient because we're doing what we should not be doing or we're not doing what we should be doing.