Spirit of Modesty in a Princess, the (Part 1) — Dora Esh

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If it will make you feel better. I planned these notes a long time before I had any idea I'm going to be sharing them here so a lot of these. Actually, a lot of these notes were just simply I've had a vision for years for my daughters and I kept thinking what would happen if I would die and my husband would be left to raise my daughters and Or maybe he would remarry and that woman wouldn't have a lot of convictions that I have and I just wrote some of these things down and and then of course, I got a lot of it together when I Was thinking I'm going to have it somewhere else.

So it never worked out to have it there then but just so you know I did not prepare this Targeting you. I have no desire to attack you today. I just want you to know that this is my vision for my daughters.

Modesty as a Princess’s Witness

I want them to be princesses that are totally above reproach and If you can glean something what I am sharing for my daughters then praise the Lord and I do ask you to please be open. Because we do learn from each other.

I've learned from my family. It's a blessing having my family here. I mean you Good to have them back there after you speak the first time and say you don't really look at the people you kind of look Up here and so I'll try to do better with that.

We Are Every one of us checker pieces. There is someone moving us. It is either Christ or it's Satan. We often don't think of that. We think I am making my own decision. I Am the boss of what I want to do and we don't realize all we're doing is listening to one or the other and they're Just you know moving us.

However, they want to as Princesses we need to be very careful of decisions. We make of clothing we wear. Or we are allowing the devil to be using us to be moving us and to be gloating over God because he won.

The Spirit of Modesty versus the Spirit of a Harlot

Okay, my title for today is the spirit of modesty in a princess. Versus the spirit of a harlot. I think many times a lot of our young girls Have no idea that they are portraying the spirit of a harlot and I would like to just teach you what a harlot spirit is to show you what to avoid in your life.

First of all, let's define modesty. Do you have a sheet of paper that I had out on the ends of the benches so you can kind of follow along where? I'm Speaking if you don't I think there might be a couple stacks along this side you can kind of Share maybe if you have a lot.

I had made like a hundred and fifty copies so you can surely find one somewhere. Okay, let's define modesty. I looked it up in the dictionary and it say restrained by a sense of propriety bashful chaste.

Moderate not excessive bashful reserve. I Looked it up in the vines expository dictionary and it says orderly well arranged decent. Modest the well ordering is not of dress and demeanor only but of the inner life expressing itself in the outward conversation and I will be addressing that more than even outward modesty because often if we have Inward modesty the outside is no problem.

I will be addressing some outwardly but mostly inside. Okay, the spirit of a harlot is the opposite from the spirit of modesty. I looked up numerous passages of scriptures and proverbs in different places throughout the Bible where it talked about a harlot and I Looked it up in the book called the word.

I don't know if you're familiar with that. That's like 26 translations of the Bible. Together and the connotations that I got I wrote down here a Harlot is a wanderer. She's one that goes astray. She's unsettled.

To roam to air. That's what the wanderer means. It's one that goes astray. She's unsettled. She roams and she airs. A harlot is a flatterer. Flatterer means false praise. Bestowing praise agreeable to one's self-love.

It's a fawner. A harlot has a loud spirit. Loud means having a great sound or showy or clamorously. A harlot has a stubborn spirit. She is not to be moved or persuaded. She is obstinate. Harlot has an unchaste spirit.

She is not free from impure desires. She lets the connotation out about herself. Loose woman. Loose woman is to be careless to relax when you shouldn't relax. She has the attitude let my body give you pleasure.

A harlot is wanton. Wanton means not to be kept in due restraint. Frolickson rank to sport lustfully. A harlot is faithless. She does not adhere to duty that she knows. Harlot exercises deadly charms.

Deadly charms would go to enthrall or delight wrongfully using her enchantments. And a harlot has the spirit of debauchery the spirit to corrupt and to pervert. This is very strong language. We think I don't really have a problem with that.

Inward Modesty and the Desire for Attention

Let's wait until we see a little more. Let's address modesty in spirit and action first. A lot of outward immodesty is traced back to the heart issues. You can pretty well see by someone's actions or dress where their heart is many times.

If you take care of immodesty of your spirit. The outward is almost no problem. Sometimes it can be an ignorance, but I wonder how much ignorance we really have. Many times the spirit of modesty is to be Inconspicuous not to be noticeable in a crowd of people.

People's eyes won't be drawn to you. The spirit of a harlot is to be noticed. You want people's eyes drawn to you in a crowd of people. A lot of people judge you by your clothing and you might Say that is unfair.

But it's pretty accurate many times. You pretty well dress how you want to dress don't you. There's not a lot of us that force ourselves to dress. Like we don't want to dress. Talking about happiness.

Where are you trying to find your happiness and talking about the spirit of a harlot? We want to combine this a little bit. A Girl that has not found peace within in associating herself with Christ. She does not have peace with God in herself.

You will not be satisfied not to be noticed. You will continually struggle Inside of yourself to want to be noticed. Why do you want to be noticed? Why do you want to be admired isn't it because you do not have your puzzle piece filled.

The Puzzles that I had up last night. We try the craziest things. When we don't have that piece filled. You can be totally modest in your clothing from neck to ankles. I said your clothing does tell on you and it is true.

It does a lot, but there are times when we as young girls are Forced by our mothers to dress modestly. You can be totally modest in your clothing from neck to ankles and be greatly wanting in the spirit of modesty.

You might stop the spirit of a harlot and it's portraying itself a Few examples. Okay, let's talk about the eyes. A harlot uses her eyes to her advantage. Are you using your eyes to be daring and bold?

When you look at someone. When you look at a man, are you gazing long into his eyes as you talk to him? Are your eyes saying come let's talk discover me. Do you have a problem of standing in corners or noticeable places in a building.

When you go to church. Check your heart. When you get up and stand in the back or you get up and walk out. What is the real motive. Sometimes it's so. We scarcely think about it and. And yet if we're entirely honest we know you know.

It's not that necessary that I need to use the restroom right now. And I kind of want people to notice me as I walk back. We'd be a little disappointed if not one person would be looking at me would be all looking out the side.

Are you using artificial expressions? Copying others. For your way of trying to be noticed. You see somebody else that always that ever cute expression you stand in front of the mirror and you try and try and try to recopy that expression.

Because you think I want to be noticed like that, too. You have to remember the spirit of a harlot is the spirit of wanting to be noticed wanting people's attention. When you walk into a room, what kind of person are you?

Do you walk into the room with the attitude? Here I am. Notice me and Stand in a prominent place in the room where for sure all the boys or the girls can envy you and admire you like you. Or do you walk into the room with the expression?

There you are my friend. I am so glad to see you. You're thinking of other people. You're not thinking of yourself, and I assure you it is noticeable when a girl walks into a room and she has the attitude here I am.

I Remember a girl in my youth group. That kind of had that attitude it seemed she'd walk into a room just a little late. Maybe after the church service would start you struggle with coming up. Maybe just a little a Few minutes later once about everybody seated so they can see you.

Attention-Seeking Conduct in Church

Talking about walking back through church services. I want to be very kind about this. Because some of us if I realize different ones of us if we're on medication sometimes we cannot help. But we really must use the restroom sometime.

We cannot wait that long and I have a lot of sympathy believe me I know what it's like. But if you're a young girl. If you use it just before you go. Sit down. It's not exactly like you're pregnant. I need to go every hour or that you have a baby need to get up and go back.

Just consider that a little bit. How necessary is my walking up and I'm taking glory away from the Lord in the church services. That belongs to him when people's minds are thinking of what the preacher is saying and I get up and I walk back and for Ten seconds you took somebody's mind off of Christ.

And thought of you your form or your beauty. Let's not Take away from God's glory. Let's take this seriously. This is God's house and not only here. Let's feel that puzzle piece of happiness inside that we do not struggle with always wending the attention that belongs to the Lord.

We are not here to give attention to ourselves. We are here to point everybody's gaze and focus to Jesus Christ. Okay, another thing we need to watch is laughing loudly or boisterously. I'm not talking about a natural hearty laugh.

Sometimes something Very interesting is said and I mean it just bubbles out just like that and I'm not talking about that. I'm talking about a laugh or deep inside. You want to be noticed? You laugh because you want people's attention to be drawn to you.

Walking, Maturity, and the Changing Body

Giggling constantly over things that if you would be by yourself, you wouldn't even consider funny. But because you're with the right company, you know, you giggle and you giggle around. Let's talk about the way we walk.

This is a big one with a lot of young girls. First of all, I Want to address you girls that are ages 10 to 14 and Your physical body is starting to change. I Remember how exciting that was for me. It was such an exciting time in my life I I wanted it long before it was just so fun growing up and after a bit I got this.

Well a woman's time of life came to me and it was so exciting to think Wow, I could have a baby. I really could have a baby if I would get married and it is an exciting time. And we are not condemning you for that.

Believe me every one of us experienced that time one time in our life. What would you say if a 20 year old boy would not eat all the food on his plate? He would leave his bed a riot every morning his room a riot his socks and shoes and He wouldn't take any responsibility at all for himself.

You'd say it's time. He grows up. It's time. He accepts the responsibility that his age requires. Let's talk to you young girls. God did not give you a changing body and The form of a woman until he knew that you are old enough to begin to accept the responsibility that brings on you and There is responsibility a lot of young girls Once their body starts changing.

They are so excited about it. They think everybody has to notice and see it and rest assured we mothers we do see when our daughters grow up. It's not that hard to see. But we begin by this. Much as we can we put our shoulders back and we walk like this and after a bit and after a bit We stretch in front of other people.

We push our shoulders back as far as we can we want people to know we're growing up and it's exciting to grow up. But you need to accept the responsibility that comes in growing up. Your form is changing and there is no denying it once your form changes.

You are put into the category of a woman. You are getting a woman's body and you need to have a woman's responsibility in that. Now you have the privilege of making your body a secret and that's a privilege that's exciting.

You think my body is changing. I Have the privilege of starting to try to hide it and to preserve that body for my husband. Then there are girls Can't even bring myself to do this that believe in jiggling their hips.

The way you walk, you know. You just swam just the right way and something in you tells you that it's supposed to be sensuous. But you don't realize what you're doing. You don't realize the fire you are playing with and The danger that is in there you are starting to put a spirit of a harlot in you.

Once you have that spirit in you Rose you your life can it's one downward road. You need to see it seriously as it is and Just an encouragement to the mothers. I don't want to teach anything to you, but just an encouragement.

Sometimes it's our fault our daughters don't realize how serious this is and if we would Make it very hard for them. The more they walk that way the looser we make their clothing. I Sometimes we hardly know how to walk because we are self-conscious and there's others that go the other extreme and they just Walk around like this and their shoulders bent forward.

They're so self-conscious. They cannot stand if anybody sees them. I'd like for you and you hear of other people talking all that girl walks terribly, you know. And after did you get so self-conscious you think how in the world do I even know how to walk there?

I Don't know how I mean, I'm feeling so self-conscious and you're growing in heights and you feel gangly and you feel out of Tune with your body. Actually, I think it would be in order to do some practice walking.

This is not Something I'm trying to make you boost up your self-image. But just to learn what graceful walking is pick out someone older that really knows that you admire and knows has the Spirit of Christ and You really want to learn how to walk.

I Advise you to line yourself up with a wall with your back straight. Forget about your shoulders. Don't put them forward or back. Just keep them straight. Align yourself with the wall and walk. Put your feet maybe.

Or it depends. I'll tell you are just a comfortable medium step. Don't lift them high off the ground just glide them over the ground like this and Practice that for a while and do it becomes natural because I do have a heart when you'd really struggle With not knowing how to walk with your changing body.

But above all do not even begin to let the devil. Put a step or the spirit of a harlot in you by pushing your shoulders back and trying to reveal your body as much as You can. You are a woman act like a true mature woman accept the responsibilities of a woman and grow up.

Flattery, Insecurity, and Fulfillment in Christ

Okay, a flatterer of myself or of others a flatterer is the spirit of a harlot. Sometimes in joking we say yeah, I did so-and-so just right and We know we're joking and the other person knows we're joking but underneath there is a desire That they notice what I did and appreciate it.

I think that sometimes falls under flattery without you realizing it you flatter yourself. Because you want to have the love of others the admiration of others. Is it because your puzzle piece is not totally filled with Christ.

Are you insecure I? Assure you if you find Christ for what he meant to be is meant to be in your life. You will not be an insecure person. You will feel complete in him. Okay, let's turn to first Corinthians 615.

Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ. Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. You must remember all harlots are being moved by the master player the devil.

A True princess is moved by the hand of Christ himself. Watch out for these harlot Expressions and ways so that you are not being moved by the devil. Okay, let's discuss careless and loose. The way of a harlot is being careless and loose.

We flop down beside and against boys that is being totally careless and loose. That is putting a temptation in a godly or ungodly young man that is not meant to give. Are you letting the devil? Use you to Tempt one of God's servants to tempt you what you call your Lord.

Are you letting the devil use you? To Greed your Lord. You should avoid that at all times stopping down beside and against boys. It's just a careless and loose attitude about your body about their body.

Deadly Charms and Drawing Affection

Okay, are you using deadly charms in your life when you talk to boys? Or even women. Do you slaughter your eyelashes just at the right time? Do you use coy expressions? Do you pretend an interest in what they're saying when you have no interest?

Are you? Trying to get the affection of a man by pretending interest in what he's saying when you have no interest. I'm not giving room for impoliteness. There are times we need to listen. But there are times when we try to put our charms on and just oh is that right and just putting the right? expressions in the right.

Attitude and the right look in our eyes to try to draw this man to us. Does your interest in conversation stem from genuine concern or does it stem from a desire to make this man fall for you? Okay, let's talk about modesty and dress.

Modesty in Clothing and Bodily Stewardship

We are responsible for modesty in clothing. Because we are not our own. We are never by ourselves unless we're in a forest a barren desert or locked room. We will constantly be rubbing shoulders with people.

So our responsibility is to let God be glorified Continually in our body. We will give no room for the devil to be glorified at all times. First. Thessalonians 4 4 through 8. That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honor not in the lust of Concupiscence even as the Gentiles which know not God.

That no man go beyond and defraud his brother in any matter. Because that the Lord is the avenger of all such as we also have forewarned you and testified. For God has not called us to uncleanness. But unto holiness he therefore that despises not man, but God Who have also given unto us his Holy Spirit, are you despising God in your actions.

You say I do not despise him. I love him, but do your actions Really come up to that. Are you despising his teachings? First Corinthians 6 19 through 20. What know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you.

Which you have of God and you are not your own for ye are bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit. Which are God. The way to glorify God is to bring glory to him to make people's thoughts and attention go to him not to us.

Purity, Holiness, and the Witness of Dress

Purity. That's one of my favorite verses in the English language. It's purity. There's something about it. That is just so pure so noble so beautiful. Make purity your goal. Nothing is more beautiful.

You might have to pass up on some dress and activities that others enjoy. But you will be happier. A pure princess is a very happy princess. Purity is more important than friends. Purity in dress is also Friends that are attracted to you because of the way you dress are not worth keeping.

If they love you because of the heart and the spirit that is in you you will keep them. You do not need to Dress to please them. You dress to please Your father in heaven your king. If your heart and goals change, and you have to lose them.

Jesus is counting you more worthy of the kingdom of God. We strive for purity because our bodies are not our own. We are responsible to answer to our Creator for how we use his possession. There is no such thing as being totally irresponsible in the world.

Irresponsible people usually end up doing something crazy like shooting somebody and they end up in jail, but you know what there they're responsible. A Totally irresponsible person in the world is often put on the electric chair.

There's nothing like being irresponsible. Maybe you say well, I don't want to be responsible for others. The Colorado shootout occurred because people did not want to be responsible for other people. Not being responsible for other people is a very very selfish way to live.

I mean there is no happiness in a world where nobody is responsible for the others. We are all responsible and judged by God accordingly whether we decide to accept that responsibility or not. Many times we think well I Just don't believe that you think it's ridiculous if an atheist says well.

I just don't believe there's a God you said. It doesn't make any difference. It doesn't make any difference what you believe. Truth is truth and It's the same way in modesty. It doesn't matter what you choose to believe.

You are not the one that created men and women and put desires in their heart. God is the one that did that He made them perfectly. But you are not the deciding factor. With you deciding whether this is immodest or it isn't that doesn't make any difference whether it is immodest or not.

Truth is truth. Inward modesty is very important. But we need to remember that anything we wear outwardly Should be that which lets our inside spirit shine out and does not cover it. Our radiant countenances and our spirit is what will win the world.

I? Know Jesus Christ wins the world, but in essence that is we princesses. That is our Weapon to defeat Satan it's our faces our inward countenance and our spirit that shines out. Please don't wear anything.

That's going to cover that up or draw attention to That instead of your radiant countenance you need to wear something that will correspond with it. Proverbs 8 36 he that sinneth against me. It's talking about wisdom wrongeth his own soul and They that hate me love death, and I would just like to plead with you.

Love wisdom reach out for wisdom. Maybe it's treading on your toes, but Love wisdom. If you hate it, you're wronging your own soul. You're ruining your own life. Okay I'm going to do some clothing things and I am not planning on addressing a lot on patterns.

You have your mother's and you have your pastors to advise you and Who am I to say what you should wear what you shouldn't wear? It is a mother's Responsibility to make sure the patterns her daughters are wearing our patterns that are becoming for a princess.

And I will not tread on that ground a lot, but I'm going to more Bring out. How is that pattern fitting over your body? Sometimes you think well, I'm obeying my mother. I'm obeying my church. But you're totally bypassing the entire thing that it is meant for.

I am trying to come at this impartially and I beg of you to do that to Set yourself apart from your own wishes and desires and try to just lay down your own Opinions for a little bit and let's pretend we're not women and we're not men.

Well, maybe we need to pretend we're men. Anyway, just stand outside of yourself for a little bit and help me with this. What is modesty in clothing is cape dresses modesty? No one-piece dresses. Something that covers from neck to calf.

Is that modesty? Absolutely, not. That's one of the biggest mistakes We make is we think we're modest if we're covered from here to the ankles. The world is very modest if that's the case very many times with their dresses.

Modesty is not in covering your body. It is in concealing your form. That is modesty. Okay, that's read 1st Timothy 2 9 through 10. In like manner also that women adorn themselves in modest apparel with shame facetness and sobriety.

Not with braided hair or gold or pearls or costly array. But which becometh women professing godliness with good works. You are professing godliness. Let your dress measure up to it. Okay, let's discuss a little bit and I'm going to need your women you women's help.

We are teaching the daughters and I'm going to need your help. So please be open and free to share. What body parts of a woman are considered attractive or? Considered. It is known worldwide pretty well.

That is the body parts that is a cause in which a man can somewhere have a temptation. Can you help me? The breasts, okay, we'll talk about the bust line. Something else the hip that's good. Well, this lady doesn't have a lot but it's true.

The hips is another point I had remembered legs, okay, and What's this. The waist that's what we're going to be talking about. We're going to be talking about the bust line. The waist the hip and the leg that is where you are different from a man a man tends to be you know.

More straight a woman is all curvy a lot of them are you have a curve over your bust? You have a curve in by your waist. You have a curve out over your hips and the calves of your legs in the size of your legs.

They're curved. Our Responsibility in being modest is to hide these curves. From eyes, which are not meant to see them and something I want you to remember as I am doing this. You can go put those clothing on something I want you to remember is a suggestive hint is much worse than actual sight many times and We think well, you know, I'm covered but just the suggestion of it is what often makes me people think.

And I'm getting my sisters to put some clothing on and I beg your patience. It is not what I consider modest and that is why I am Presenting this and I can't say that they exactly enjoy the thought of doing this.

So be patient with them. Okay, first of all, we're going to talk about how to cover this Area, let's look at our necklines. First of all, or rather while they're in there. I'll bring something else up.

Let's look at the point of hugging sweaters. You put a sweater on you have three or four layers on so you can't go by. You cannot go by. The amount of layers you have on this sweater is loose and it's very Cuddly we like our cuddly sweaters and I don't blame you for it.

How many of you women think that it would be possible for a man to have wrong thoughts about this some I'm not. I Realize this is this is a fairly loose sweater, but I just wanted to bring a point out with the sweaters that we wear let's wear something that has a cuff in the bottom that loosens this up a little bit or Get something that has body just whatever you do.

Don't wear something that when you walk into a room Immediately without Really trying to other people's eyes are just zoom they just zoom right in at your breast area and I was a little hesitant about this sweater because I realized it's so borderline in some but as a whole you are still showing very Definitely two separate shapes in the front and people's eyes will zoom into there.

And I'm just cautioning you to be careful with the vests with the sweaters that you wear. In that area that you don't wear something that very definitely leaves. Two rounded bulges hanging out, okay. Okay, another thing I wanted to bring out is this.

We think okay my ministry and my mother. Or whoever says I should wear a double layer. So my focus gets to be on the fact of a double layer. I have a fairly good neckline on here. I Am wearing a double layer and I feel pretty good about myself.

You think that could be room for temptation. Can you ladies over there see it doesn't matter how many layers we wear? One of the main things we need to avoid is showing the full curve. One thing I wanted to bring out was this.

We are women and modesty means to be moderate and it is very hard. Sometimes if we are moderate and not Over bored in our dress to not show any resemblance of a shape. But one of the main things is this.

We have a curve here. We have a curve in the back and the curve of our legs. We are avoiding a lot of immodesty. Sometimes we can't help it if the curve comes out. But what we need to watch at all times with the curves in our body is that the underside of the curve is not showing.

We as women it's hard to dress, you know practically without swimming in our things without coming out a little bit. But you are immodest once you begin to Show the underside of your curve giving someone a good idea of the size of your bust same way with the hips the hips are our focal points.

Something that you can make someone fall. If you have a waist your dress will naturally come out a little bit over your hips, but avoid anything. Oh, I'm sorry. Yes, I'll put it up. Mm-hmm. What we are to avoid is Showing the underside of the hips.

That's when it becomes immodest because people are getting a good idea of what size your hips are. Same way with the bust like I have said, I'll show you again. Sometimes. Coming out. It's almost impossible if we want to be practical not swim in our dresses.

But what we can help is this showing the underside of the curve and the same way with our legs. Our legs are shaped like this in the back the calves of our legs. If we keep our dresses long enough to always slice it right in half that the upper side of that cap is not showing.

It doesn't give the man the idea exactly how big your leg is and I was so confident when I came to something to grab on because sometimes there's So many things that are kind of fishing. You think well, how do I know if it's modest or not and suddenly I thought That is a big point to remember.

You show the one side of the curve. I'm not saying you saying you should show it but sometimes depending how we're built. It's hard to hide it. But there is no need to show the underside of the curve and show exactly what proportion your body is.

Necklines, Curves, and Practical Clothing Checks

Okay, I would like to bring out a little more about hiding the chest area. I've Talked about form-fitting clothing and vests and things like that. Now I'd like to bring in how a low neckline you can come up girl.

How low neckline? Often give people a view that they should not have. You can stand over by this mirror. Okay, if you have a low neckline you often look in the mirror and it's just maybe here and You think well, I'm modest.

You can't see my breasts. You can't see anything that you're not supposed to see. The thing is you're not doing in the mirror what you do away from the mirror. Once you're away from the mirror, you're going to go down to the floor.

You're going to pick up a toy to you. Right like that or you're going to go to the store and you think well, I'm not doing anything with children today. I'm going going shopping and you go to the store and without thinking you don't think of it every time.

Right out of check. You're the cashier can look right in and it takes so little it's shocking after I Started doing this modest affection section. I had to change some of mine. I decided I'm going to go extreme if I have to.

I'm going to see. Make sure that there is absolutely no way possible. Somebody can see in my neckline and I went like this. Probably the best posture for you to do that is to bend over and to look in the mirror and while you're bending over.

Look in the mirror raise your head as if you're going down picking up a toy and somebody say something and you look up. Putting your hands between your legs pretend you're playing croquet. That's what I started doing in the mirror.

And if my neckline if you see right in there, I think well that doesn't pass. The Reason it doesn't pass is this we think what it's such a little chance somebody will see it as A princess and you want to glorify the Lord.

Do you ever give the slightest chance that the devil may gloat over your God? I? got my servant to stumble because of yours a Princess cannot afford to take chances. Okay, I want you to look in the mirror and just show how little you need to bend until you can see in.

Okay, now you do it. Yeah, I think you touched it up a little bit. One thing to remember about neckline. Sometimes we don't have it too bad in the front. But because we make it so wide and because it goes down further in the back.

As soon as we bend forward all that looseness kind of falls like this and leaves a space that you can see in. Another thing I wanted to bring out. Oh. Another thing I wanted to bring out was this my husband told me and please don't think long thoughts about him.

He was just trying to help me in this. He said it takes almost no effort if any effort for a tall man. To look right into a woman's below neckline. You don't even have to bend over. Do you want to please the Lord you want to glorify him in every minute of your day?