Christlike Dependence and the Way of the Cross A little baby lying in a cradle has got zero stored up anger, I'm telling you things I meditated on because when the Lord says you've got to be like a little child and I read it years ago, I said Lord I want to meditate on what does it mean to be like a little baby in a cradle because you said the kingdom of heaven belongs to such people and I want the kingdom of heaven and I want to enter into God's kingdom and I want to take it seriously, I want to see if my faith is genuine or just an intellectual thing, by intellectually I believe in Christ and it is not living faith, if it's living faith it takes me into God's kingdom and to make me like a child, that's what it means to follow Jesus and Jesus life, you know leave aside what Jesus said about who's the greatest in the kingdom of heaven is like a little child, today if you go to heaven and ask an angel who is the greatest in heaven today, the Lord Jesus Christ, he is the greatest and yet when he was on earth he said the greatest in heaven is like a little child which means that Jesus had all those qualities of a little baby, not that he had no opinions and that's then we get a balanced understanding of what he meant by saying be like a little child, these are the two things I kept in my mind, the greatest person in heaven without a doubt is the Lord Jesus Christ and yet he said that the greatest person in heaven would be a little child, so therefore I have to see in the Lord Jesus in his life on earth the qualities of a little child, if he had an opinion it was what was given to him by God the father, then he could say so his life was so dependent on the father that it's a wonderful way to live, very few people live like this I'll tell you that who seek to know Lord what is your opinion about this situation, what is your opinion about this person, I want to have that, that's a little child, Lord I don't have an opinion about this situation, I don't have an opinion about this person but because I'm your child please show me because in certain situations I need to have an opinion, for example in my case as I'm an elder I need to have an opinion about lots of people who God has put under me as I'm responsible for like a spiritual father, I need to have an opinion, if you're a physical father you need to have an opinion about your children and God can help you to have that but Jesus lived you know he expressed his opinion about many people he called Herod a fox, he said go and tell that fox Herod and he had an opinion about Peter when Peter tried to advise him not to go to the cross he said get behind me Satan, where did he get that from, children don't say get behind me Satan, how did Jesus say that, he had the attitude of a child towards his heavenly father and the heavenly father immediately showed him through the Holy Spirit this attitude that Peter has that's telling you not to go to the cross is satanic, it's the devil who doesn't want you to go to the cross, that's what I learned there because all that Peter said was Lord when Jesus said I'm going to go to the cross and die, Lord that will not happen to you, he said it in love but he was foolish, it was a foolish love and Jesus immediately turned around and said get behind me Satan, I remember years ago reading that in Matthew 16 and verse 23 and I realized that the voice at any time the voice that tells me don't die to yourself here is always the voice of the devil, where did I get that from, Matthew 16 verse 21 to 23, if you don't you're not familiar with it read it Matthew 16 21 Jesus said I'm going to go to the cross and I'm going to be killed and Peter took him aside and said Lord that'll never happen to you verse 22 you will not go to the cross and immediately Jesus said get behind me Satan, do you know there's only two times that Jesus used those words, one was when he was in the wilderness and he was confronting the devil himself directly he said get when the devil said come and worship me and I'll give you the kingdoms of the world he said get behind me Satan and the second time he was speaking to Peter, looking at Peter and saying you get behind me Satan, you're a stumbling block to me because your mind is not set on God's interest but on man's interest, so what I learned from that was a voice that tells me in any situation don't go to the cross here, don't die to yourself and in many many situations you hear that voice in your mind now don't die assert yourself here, don't die to yourself, if you can recognize that voice as the voice of the devil and the Lord saying to you your mind is not set on God's interest now, your mind is set on your own selfish interest and you're not going to qualify to get into God's kingdom that way, don't say so many years ago I accepted Christ as my savior, well you're not on your way to heaven right now if you have an interest to assert yourself and to avoid the way of the cross, Jesus said you're a stumbling block to me, how many stumbling blocks there are in those who call themselves Christians because they avoid the way of the cross, they avoid the way of death to self, the moment they hear of death to self say no I don't want to go that way, the devil says don't go that way, stand up for your rights, so there is something that we must understand properly, a child is one who listens to his father and Jesus listened to his father and said you must die, Jesus said sure I'll go that way, so let me say one more thing, I told you that the child has got no stored up anger against anyone, the child also has no memory of evil that other people did to it, one more thing is when I think of a child, baby in a cradle, he doesn't have great plans and ambitions for the future, now again you've got to understand it properly, in understanding be mature, in evil be like a little child, that's what we read in 1 Corinthians 14, so we need to understand what this means in a balanced way, is it right to make plans for the future, absolutely, God has given us intelligence for our earthly life but a person who's a child of God will submit those plans to his heavenly father, that is how a child is, he goes to his dad and says dad this is what I'm planning to do, what do you think of it, Jesus lived like that continuously all through his life, he made plans but he would always consult his father, let me read this to you in Proverbs chapter 3, it's a great passage in chapter 3 where we have a promise where it says the Lord will direct your path, Proverbs chapter 3, if you want the Lord to direct your paths, that's been such a blessed experience for me to go to God and say Lord I have no plans for my future, you tell me what I should do and I'll do it, Proverbs chapter 3 verse 5 and 6, trust in the Lord with all your heart and don't lean on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge him, that's what a child does, a helpless child will go to his daddy and say what shall I do next, what do you want me to do, it's a life of constant dependence and the Lord will make your paths absolutely straight, I don't want any crookedness in my paths, I want the way before me to be absolutely straight into God's kingdom and the Lord says if I acknowledge him in every situation, it's like a helpless child, daddy what to do next, a child who doesn't know anything, like when your father is explaining a mathematics problem to a child who doesn't even know how to do that arithmetic problem, he asks okay dad I've come to this land, what do I do next and then the dad says you must do this, okay he does that, what do I do next, next, that is how Jesus lived, it wasn't a conscious asking, it was a life of dependence where the Lord guided him almost unconsciously but it was a life of constant dependence, it's a very precious thing if you learn that way of life, very difficult for me to explain it to you but that's how Jesus lived and let me show that to you in John chapter 5, you'll see how Jesus was like a little child, John 5 and verse 19, it's an amazing verse, please turn to John chapter 5 verse 19, Jesus said truly, truly I say to you, the son that is he himself can do nothing out from himself, it's a very difficult standard to attain to, I have not got there, I'll tell you honestly, I'll tell you honestly, I want to get there because I know this is the truly Christ -like life when you can get to the place where you're so much in constant touch with God that you say I can do nothing out from myself unless I see the father doing it, unless I see the father prompting me to do it and when he has an opinion, it says in verse 30, I can do nothing on my own initiative, it's the same thing, I can do many things if I want, the world is full of people who can do all types of things but Jesus said no, I will not do, I'm waiting for the father to prompt me and lead me in everything, now you may say what a life that is, you mean all the time I have to ask God shall I do this, shall I do that, no, if you have that attitude, it's almost automatic, it's like rivers of living water flowing through you, it's not a struggle but it's a life of constant dependence, Jesus another time expressed like the branch in the tree but I believe in John 5 verse 19 and verse 30, you see the secret of Jesus life, he was like a child, a baby says, what did Jesus say in verse 19, I can do nothing, is that what a baby says in a cradle, again in verse 30, I can do nothing on my own, many Christians have not understood that this is the greatest height you can reach in the Christian life because we start off saying I can do a whole lot of things, I don't need to pray, I don't need to depend on God, I can do many many things and I've heard so many messages and I understand God's ways and I do it, yeah, yeah we understand God's ways but the life of constant dependence like a baby, Jesus has demonstrated it for us and we must pray that God will help us to come to that life of constant, I mean it's not a conscious saying what next, what next, no, no, no, Jesus wasn't living like that in attention, it was a life of constant dependence, recognizing deep down that whatever I do on my own initiative will ultimately amount to zero, I believe that without me you can do zero, so that constant dependence and no and there are no ambitions there of trying to achieve something, you know, in our earthly profession, yes, do your best but the life of the true Christian is one of constant dependence on the father, now this may look like a contradiction and say how in the world can we live like this but that's why I showed you that other words in 1 Corinthians 14 which says in evil be like children but in your thinking be mature, so in many things we are to behave like mature men but then must come out of a helpless dependence upon the father, I realize that I cannot explain this but the Holy Spirit can make it clear to you and one last thing I would say is that a baby's life is one of a child, a little child's life is because it is so helpless, it's a life of perfect trust in his mother, mummy will take care of that, daddy will take care of that, I covet that life, I'll tell you we're in every single moment of my life, in my planning my life, in my handling money, in deciding what to buy or what not to buy, how to spend my time, how to spend my money, these are the two very important decisions we make, how to spend my time, how to spend my money, every day we wonder how shall I spend my time today, how shall I spend my money today, to be dependent like a child on the father, it's a wonderful life, it will not come in one day but if you work on it and work on it and work on it over a period of time it'll be almost automatic but in the beginning we seek the Lord many times, Lord what shall I do here, what shall I do there, I don't know but that attitude is what delights the heart of God, that is what faith is, faith is actually a helpless dependence upon God, not an intellectual thing, unfortunately with many Christians is an intellectual thing, I believe Jesus died for my sins and I've asked him to come to my heart and so I'm on my way to heaven, many people say all that but look at the shallow useless defeated life they live and we can talk about new covenant and new covenant Christians and all that but I've seen that many people in CFC their life is not much different from the lives of other believers in other churches, but what are we glorying in, if we have not learned what it is to be like a little baby helplessly dependent on the father, like a branch helplessly dependent on the tree, we have not understood the most important thing in the Christian life, I can do nothing apart from the Lord and so when it says God gives his grace to the humble but he resists the proud, the reason why many people don't make spiritual progress, I'm absolutely convinced after seeing believers in many countries in the last 60 years, is only one reason, they are proud, pride is what makes a man fall away from the church and fall away from God, pride is what prevents a man from spiritual growth and pride is what finally destroys a person, pride is what sends people to hell, pride is what makes people fall away from the church, no matter how much they pretend to be humble, God resists the proud, he's always fighting against proud people but he gives abundant grace to the humble and the humble is the one who's like a child helplessly dependent on him saying Lord please, I need help from you all the time, I want to recognize that spiritually I can do nothing without you, worldly things in my profession and in my job I can do 101 things but when it comes to the Christian life I can do nothing apart from you, so you don't want to confuse, I'm not saying that you can't do anything in your profession, there are many ungodly people who are very brilliant and accomplish many many things, the great inventors who've invented so many things, people who invented the computers and the airplane and smartphones and all that, they didn't depend on Christ, they were clever, they used the intelligence God gave them and accomplished so many things on earth, people have become millionaires inventing and doing many things as far as worldly things that's true but when it comes to the Christian life, we're talking about the Christian life, it is impossible to please God if you don't come to him like a little child saying Lord, there's not a single thing I can do that will please you if I don't live independent on you all the time.