1 Corinthians 13 tells us, if you are willing to accommodate each other's imperfections and flaws, which he also has to survive the view, 1 Peter 3 verse 1, has unto the weak a vessel, if you're willing to accommodate, forgive, for every one of us have flaws, every one of us has imperfections, you won't find a woman, you won't find a man, you know, you have to remember, here is the weak a vessel husband, you see there's a time to embrace, verse 5 of Ecclesiastes 3 says, there's a time to get the success, but there's also a time to keep the success at the end, there's a time to keep what you get, what you embrace in marriage, there are many times in marriage, there's a time to keep silence, verse 7, that's how you keep, and it's not easy, God asks us, in this book, the time of peace, making peace, don't lose it, the time to heal, verse 8, the time to build up, verse 3, continues, let not the sun go down upon your wrath, God says, forgiving one another, that's even in marriage, be ye angry, I suppose every one of us have moments like that, but don't let it become something that destroys your life in marriage, sin not, let not the sun go down upon your wrath, that's a staggering commandment, Ephesians 4, verse 26 says, the greatest danger with prolonged notes of anger and unwillingness to seek God for grace to forgive, is that they come to point that anger will become irreparable in your heart and mind, the ability to obey God's command to forgive will be lost, this tragically would be a time to lose, Ecclesiastes 3, verse 6, where hatred could set in, verse 8, the hope of healing will be broken, lost, will you kill, verse 3 says, what could have been healed, perhaps you need right now to pray, while there's still a brief moment left, forgive me Lord, that I have shown such impatience with such unforgiving heart, such anger and yet unforgiveness, but now has asked of me to show love, love that covereth the multitude of sins, I suppose if it can't work in the home, how can it work anywhere, O husbands, love your wives, live joyfully with the wife whom thou lovest, God says, because you could find your lost opportunity to love, to forgive, you will realize that life's moment to even love your wife is so brief, the lost opportunity to forgive, to take time, to heal, to do anything, before closing this point, before closing this point, I would make this solemn statement, man, man is made with a need to love, don't doubt this, which if it is not grasped, nurtured and protected and through food will fill him with a tragic void, gaping flaw, gap and probably, almost certainly driving to the wrong desires, man is made with a need to love and to be loved, don't forget that, in case you think you could live without it, or better off without it, the attempt to love, our beloved times will come, that we all will face, where we despair of life itself, God's word is full of this, 2 Corinthians 1 verse 8, Paul wrote that in Asia, while they were in Asia, we were pressed out of measure, above strength, insomuch that we despaired even of life, if Paul could despair of life in circumstances, we can, Jonah prayed in despair, take I beseech thee my life O God from me, in chapter 4 verse 3, it's better for me to die than to live, he cried, Jonah was a godly man, you may be too, 1 Kings 19 verse 4 Elijah, we read that Elijah requested for himself that he might die, he was a godly man, are you more godly than him, that can't happen to you, these sorrowful times, these sorrowful times may shorten our life span, drastically, drastically, David cried out, my days are like a shadow that declineth and I'm withered, I'm my bones wax old, through my roaring all the day, through my despairing, Psalm 32 verse 3, that happened to a man after God's own heart, do you think it was his history, no, it's for you and me to know, it could happen to us, in this moment called life, but it's in these times that we become conscious, very conscious, we are the prisoners of the earth, Lamentations 3 verse 34, the prisoners of the earth which long for death but it cometh not, Job 3 verse 21, I once stood with a very godly man called Lex Buchanan, a German man, in a town close to Petersburg, a place called Cateridge, he was a farmer and we were speaking about all the injustices that come upon Christians and I particularly began to pour out my heart about all the cruel injustices and wrongs thrown at me and I was really shaken by myself pouring out my whole complaint and then I said these words, I'm so tired sir, I would be glad if God just took me away from all this, took me to heaven right now, and he looked at me for a while with a compassionate tear coming down his own face and then he said to me these words, no Keith, that would be the easy way out, that would be the easy way out, that's not God's will in the school of God, it's these things that will make you, if you stay close to God, come out more like Christ, more refined, more of all God wants and intends you to be, don't take the easy way out, it's also in these times, such times that we become aware that God knoweth our frame, Psalm 103 verse 14, he remembered that we are dust, God doesn't just look with no interest, it may be that he will cry to you as he does, I will restore to you the years that the locusts have eaten, Joel 2 verse 25, that we still seek him with all of our hearts through all these times, and endeavor to walk with him wholeheartedly to the end of our lives, with all of our souls, you see we read in Psalm 91, there's one he that dwelleth in the secret place that lives to be alone with God, that lives to abide in him, that walk in the spirit that they fulfill at the lust of the flesh, for whosoever abideth in him shall withdraw, or he that dwelleth that has this continual communing with God, verse 14 says, because he hath set his love upon me, long life will I satisfy him, it's something of promises here, but there's conditions attached, in the end we take courage, cry thy gentleness has made me great O God, Psalm 18 verse 35, that has caused me to rise up and survive, my gentleness of dealings with me, but the Bible warns us that many that are first shall be last, and the last shall be first, Matthew 19 verse 30, my father was 51 years of age when he gave his life to Christ, and for nine years he lived, he turned so many people to Christ, that one of the greatest preachers in our country, at that time the most famous preacher in our country, said these words of my father, I don't know of a man, apart from this man, every step he takes seems to influence people to come to Christ, it would seem he's won more souls to God than most preachers who spend a lifetime, and all he's done is be saved a few years, oh yes he read through the Bible 68 times in those nine years, he led multitudes to Christ across the whole land, you see other people who were saved when they were young, never led anybody to Christ, never read through the Bible once, I mean how old you are, when you come to Christ you must cry, while I have life, I give it to thee Lord, what's left of life, take it for thyself, I set myself to pursue thy world, to live for thee with my whole heart, but have my life, yes, God said to Joshua thou art old, and stricken in years, that happens in a moment, but then he said these words, after he said those words, there remaineth yet very much land to be possessed Joshua, even if you're old, stricken, Joshua 13 verse 1, does God not say that to many of us tonight, to many of us, while there's life, there's reason to be alive, don't doubt that, on the swift Alps, Europe is a famous thing that many people have referred to in sermons, but I do too, tonight, a man died as he climbed those Alps, and they put his grave right there where he died, and there is a gravestone with a very large plaque that says these words, he died climbing, he died climbing, and I also want to die climbing, I want to die climbing, not giving up, not falling back, but take heed now, at the end of your life, you need to be extremely careful not to become lax spiritually, and that happens to so many, even the greatest preachers on earth, who really did walk with God, and serve God, and are anointed by God, and used by God, we need to take heed that toward the end of life, we don't become lax spiritually, we need to be careful, not to be shot down by Satan at the finishing line, just before you reach that finishing line, that can happen, as it has happened to most of the world's great preachers in my lifetime, to be shot down, shot down by Satan, Paul writes, I keep under my body, and bring it into subjectiveness, that by any means, when I preach to others, I myself should be a cast away, that could happen, it has happened, it is happening, will you be next, be careful, 1 Corinthians 9 verse 27 says, be careful here, Paul cried, I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith, what a lovely thing to end life with, 2 Timothy 4 verse 7, but as we approach the end of the road, we face sudden frailty, the Bible speaks of it, even Paul, the frailty of old age, you see, if by reason of strength, your life goes beyond what God says is the lifespan normally, the strength lays labor and sorrow, Psalm 90 verse 10, it is that my wife's mother and father were farmers, and on the farm, I used to go for walks, and they had these big dogs, one of them, Jackie, this dog was just incredible, it showed off with its strength, and it would leap like a deer, only you couldn't believe it, the way it just shot up, and you could see it was showing off, leap into the field, and catch rabbits, it was quite incredible, any movement, and with a short while, I would go for a walk, when we went back to the farm, and suddenly I saw, he couldn't leap anymore, he wanted to walk with me, he couldn't jump, just slip around, and hardly, and he couldn't walk again, that's the strange thing here, the frailty of old age hits us, no matter what strength you have, in one moment, Psalm 90 verse 10, the days of our years are three score years and 10, that's 70 years, and if by reason of strength, the day before score years, if you go on beyond that, another 10 years or so, it is their strength, labor, and sorrow, struggle, but soon it will be cut off, and we will fly away, Psalm 90 verse 12, so teach us to number our days, O God, that we may apply our hearts to wisdom, Psalm 39 verse 4, O make me to know my end, O God, the measure of my days, that I may know how frail I am, then we will begin to let this world go, we all will, the things that we held on to, gathered, the time to get, there's a time to keep, but there's a time to cast away, Ecclesiastes 3 verse 6 says, we all reach that moment, I don't want to get anything more, materialism, for man also knoweth not his time, that's the time of his death, the time to die, as the fishes that are taken, in an evil net, that's an unsuspected net, as the birds that are caught in the snare, that's an unsuspected trap, so are the sons of men snared, trapped, caught, in an unexpected, an evil time, an unexpected time, when it falls suddenly upon them,.