Myths About Marriage: You Don't Need to Marry Another Christian

Every month we take on a different myth about marriage, and this month's is a common one: you don't need to marry another Christian if you really love each other. Conley walks through 1 Corinthians 7:39 and 2 Corinthians 6:14 to show that marrying "in the Lord" is a command rather than a preference, and that matching on hobbies and temperament simply can't do the work that shared faith does. He then takes up the harder question this raises — how do you actually discern whether someone is a believer? — working through the marks 1 John gives (genuine belief, obedience, and a particular love for other Christians) alongside the formal confirmation of membership in a local church.

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Myths About Marriage

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Myths About Marriage - "Pets help with loneliness"
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Myths About Marriage - "Pets help with loneliness"

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Myths About Marriage - "To Forgive is Simply to Say You Forgive"
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Myths About Marriage - "To Forgive is Simply to Say You Forgive"

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Myths About Marriage -  "A Break In Between Relationships Is Healthy"
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Myths About Marriage - "A Break In Between Relationships Is Healthy"

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Myths About Marriage - "Women Should Be Strong"
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Myths About Marriage - "Women Should Be Strong"

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Myths about Marriage - They Mean It When They Want Marriage
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Myths about Marriage - They Mean It When They Want Marriage

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Myths About Marriage - "I Have To Find My Spouse Alone"
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Myths About Marriage - "I Have To Find My Spouse Alone"

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Myths About Marriage -  Your Attraction is Fixed
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Myths About Marriage - Your Attraction is Fixed

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Myths About Marriage - "Being Boyfriend and Girlfriend are  healthy step towards marriage"
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Myths About Marriage - "Being Boyfriend and Girlfriend are healthy step towards marriage"

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Myths about Marriage - Opposite Sex Friendships are Conducive to Finding a Spouse
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Myths about Marriage - Opposite Sex Friendships are Conducive to Finding a Spouse

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Myths About Marriage - "Spending a lot of time pursuing marriage necessarily makes it an idol"
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Myths About Marriage - "Spending a lot of time pursuing marriage necessarily makes it an idol"

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Myths of Marriage: "The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator is a good determiner of marriage compatibility"
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Myths of Marriage: "The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator is a good determiner of marriage compatibility"

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Myths of Marriage: "Date nights are key to a healthy marriage."
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Myths of Marriage: "Date nights are key to a healthy marriage."

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Myths of Marriage: "Honoring your father and mother means always obeying them"
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Myths of Marriage: "Honoring your father and mother means always obeying them"

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Myths of Marriage - "Don't make a woman your project"
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Myths of Marriage - "Don't make a woman your project"

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Myths of Marriage, "The church I attend doesn't affect my relationship"
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Myths of Marriage, "The church I attend doesn't affect my relationship"

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Myths About Marriage: You Don't Need to Marry Another Christian
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