If you go to children, you see them fighting, it's usually the first answer is, he started it, she started it, that's childishness, let's put that childishness away, it doesn't matter who started it, if it's a brother or sister that God has placed you, or even your wife, or children, husband, placed you in relationship with, we have a responsibility to be active, to be proactive in winning our brothers, in winning our sisters, and as I think again about this proverb that we just read, the story in Proverbs 24, this is the thought that has come to my mind, if I do nothing with what's given to me, something will still happen, but it won't be good, if I do nothing with what's given to me, something will still happen, and it won't be good, let me explain what I mean by that, you don't have to do any work for weeds to grow in your garden, it'll just happen, if you want good fruit to come out of your garden, you'll have to put work into it, if you want apples, a good apple tree to grow, if you want a good orange tree to grow, you want peppers, zucchini, well, zucchini seems to grow on its own too, but okay, but the nice fruit, okay, but you know what, you don't have to put any effort to grow is weeds, in fact, you have to be proactive to take out the weeds and the thistles and the nettles, you have to be proactive to remove that, so think about this, when thinking about our Christian life, if I do nothing, let's say I sit and listen to a sermon that was living and active and I read God's word even, and God's word is living and active, every time you open God's word, something of life is being implanted into you, but if you do nothing with it, something will still happen and it won't be good, what happens automatically is never good, what good that must come out of our life will take some work on our part, some yielding to the Holy Spirit, that's where it begins, the Holy Spirit giving us his power and his grace, so that we can care for this garden, for our lives, for our hearts, if you do nothing with your thoughts, there's a phrase in the world, the idle mind, the empty mind is the devil's workshop, if you leave your mind empty and it's actually not original to the world, Jesus said that, that you remember what he said, how a demon possessed person was filled with evil and then the demon is cast out, but that person did nothing with the good that was given him, he left his house empty, untended, he didn't lock the door, he didn't watch over his walls and as a result that demon came back with seven more demons and the condition of that man was worse, have you thought that it's possible to have a demon cast out of you and at the end of it, you're in a worse situation, through neglect, this is how serious neglect is, that if I'm not vigilant and maybe demon possession is an extreme example, I don't think any of us is demon possessed, but what about the word of God, when we receive the word of God, when we listen to more and more messages, when we even read God's word, if we're reading it, I love that we're still doing a Bible reading plan, I hope we're all keeping up on it, especially children, but as you're reading it, recognize that God has given you a garden as a result of it and if you do nothing with it, something bad will happen, like happened to this sluggard in Proverbs 24, what was the fault of the sluggard?