Count the Costs — Stephen Kaung

Counting the Cost in Luke 14

Will you please turn to the gospel according to Luke. Luke chapter 14. We'll read from verse 25 through verse 35. Luke chapter 14 verse 25. And great crowds went with him. And turning around he said to them if any man come to me and shall not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters yea and his own life too he cannot be my disciple.

And whoever does not carry his cross and come after me cannot be my disciple. For which of you desirous of building a tower does not first sit down and count the cost. If he had what he needed to complete it in order that having laid the foundation of it and not being able to finish it all who see it do not begin to mock at him saying this man began to build and was not able to finish.

Or what king going on his way to engage in war with another king does not sitting down first take counsel whether he's able with 10 ,000 to meet him coming against him with 20 ,000. And if not while he is not yet a part of having sent an embassy he asked for terms of peace.

Does then everyone of you who forsakes not all that is his own cannot be my disciple. Salt then is good. But if the soul also has become fearless wherewith shall it be seasoned. It is proper neither for land nor for duck.

It is cast out. He that is ears to hear. Let him with a prayer. Dear lord as we continue in thy presence our hearts are open to thee. We desire to hear thy own voice. Lord we are tired of hearing our own hearing people's voice.

But lord we long to hear thy voice. So do pray that I will cleanse our heart our ear our whole being that we may be able to hear what thou hast to say to thy people. Our heart's desire is thou should have the first place in our lives.

We want to follow thee. We want to be where thou art. Lord have mercy upon us. We commit this time into thy hands. We pray that I will bless this time and make it something that will continue to eternity.

We ask in thy precious name. The Lord seemed to put upon my heart on this matter of count the cost. I think brothers and sisters we have all counted his blessing. But have we ever count the cost of following our Lord Jesus to me.

I feel this is a very important thing that we must do in our Christian life. And I do look to the Lord that he will open our hearts and understanding and be willing to sit down and count the cost. You know our Lord Jesus one day was walking and great crowds followed after him.

As you read the scripture you'll find it is not just one crowd great crowds multitudes thousands of people are following the Lord to our estimate. This will be the sign of success. Today we look for crowds.

We measure success or failure of a person. How many people are following him. How many people he's able to draw. And today people try every means to court the faith flavor favor of the people. But our Lord Jesus is very different.

When great crowds following him he turned around and he said to them hard words impossible words. As if he's driving the crowds away. Why. Because our Lord is not looking for quantity. What he looks for is quality.

He wants those who can satisfy his heart who can fulfill his purpose. Not just numbers but reality. When you hear what he said you almost feel that probably you have heard wrong. Can one who is so loving say such unloving words.

If anyone come to me and shall not hate his father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters yay. And his own life too. He cannot be my disciple. Have you heard right. Probably you would think probably there is a mistake in translation.

I look through a number of versions and every version comes out the same. There is no mistake. Is our Lord mad. Doesn't the Word of God said honor your parents. And this is the first commandment with promise.

Isn't it the word said love your wives. Isn't it the will of God that we should love our children. We should love our brothers and sisters. And is it not true that God wants us to love ourselves for his sake not to hurt ourselves.

Now why is it that our Lord should say such opposite words. When we believe in the Lord Jesus he does it all. He does not require us to do anything. He has finished the work of salvation it is grace. All he asked for is that we come and believe and receive.

And it's yours. No condition. But here when our Lord Jesus is talking about disciples you find he laid down impossible conditions humanly impossible. Brothers and sisters we are believers. We believe in him as our personal Savior.

And by believing him our sins are forgiven. We are given a new life. It is all free. It is grace. Nothing required of us. We receive everything. Now after we believe in the Lord Jesus do we continue to come to follow him.

Salvation by Grace and the Cost of Discipleship

Now if we continue to come to follow him then you'll find our Lord Jesus has a calling to us a challenge he challenges. If you come to me he said there is a condition you must fulfill. To believe is free grace.

You receive life from above. There is nothing better than that. But to follow the Lord. To be a disciple it is conditional. And only by being his disciples the life he has given us will fulfill its purpose.

Our Lord Jesus says if anyone no exception if anyone come to me and hate not. Now brothers and sisters when we hear the word hate we think back immediately. There is a rejection in our heart. How can we hate.

But we have to remember hate or love are only emotional expressions. If people do not know how to hate they will never know how to love. God love sinners to the extent of giving up his only begotten son there is no greater love than that.

And yet God hates sin. So brothers and sisters the word hate or the word love in itself is neutral. It depends on whether you're able to hate what needs to be hated or love what needs to be loved and not do the wrong thing.

Furthermore this matter of love or hate it's also a matter of comparison. When you compare two things and you have to choose between these two things then you have to make a conclusion what to hate and what to love.

You remember our Lord Jesus said in the Sermon on the Mount no one can serve two masters. You either love the one or you hate the other. You cannot serve God and serve mammon at the same time. If you love God you hate mammon.

If you love mammon you hate God. In 1st John chapter 2 if you love the world the love of the Father is not in you. In other words when we are faced with choice then it is a time when you make the right reaction what to hate.

That is what to despise what to forsake and what to choose what to love what to embrace and what to follow. So here you found our Lord Jesus in this matter of discipleship. Now brothers and sisters oftentimes we think that the Great Commission is evangelizing.

The Great Commission and Baptism into Discipleship

You remember your Matthew chapter 28. Our Lord Jesus gave the Great Commission and it is commonly understood that the Great Commission is the Lord. Want us to go to the whole world to evangelize the world.

But you read carefully what the Lord says. He doesn't say evangelize. He said disciple go disciple all nations baptizing them in the name of the Father the Son and the Holy Spirit and enjoin them to follow all that I have taught you and I will be with you to the end of the world.

We are going to have a baptism immediately afterwards. But do you know what baptism means. Why being baptized is not enough if I just believe the Bible said if you believe you are saved then why should I be baptized.

Baptism is the door to discipleship. When you are baptized you buried yourself. You come to the Lord and give yourself to him acknowledging him from now on as your Lord not only your Savior but your Lord.

And that opens the door of following him of obeying all that he has commanded us. Brothers and sisters are we following the Lord. If we are not following the Lord why should we be here. Just believe and you are saved.

Eternity is secured. Why bother reading the Bible. Why bother praying. Why bother meeting assembling together. Why bother following the Lord. It is not because you want to be a disciple of the Lord. And discipleship is his purpose.

His purpose is not just saving us to fill heaven with people. No the reason why he saved us that we may be like him. He wants to disciple us to train us to bring us to be like him. That is his purpose.

That is the reason why after we believe in the Lord Jesus we do not just stop but we press on. We continue to follow the Lord. Why. That we may be like him but this is not a small thing. So the Lord at the very outset he does not want us to be not knowing what we are doing.

He wants us to know from the very beginning the full impact of being his disciples. He said listen carefully if anyone any man come to me and shall not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters yay.

And his own life too. He cannot be my disciples. It doesn't mean that our Lord Jesus want to us to hate our father and mother. No. Look at our Lord himself how he loved his mother. Even when he was on the cross suffering he did not think of himself.

He think of his mother. He asked his disciple John to take care of his mother. And yet at the same time when his mother stepped in to demand of him something outside of the will of the Heavenly Father he said woman my time is not yet come.

That were woman is a dear word not a harsh word. And yet the Lord said I have to wait for my father's time. I cannot be directed by man. Even my mother. I have to be directed by my Heavenly Father. When his mother and his brothers came to him great crowds were sitting there.

They could not get to him so were sent to him. Your mother and your brothers are there. They want to talk to you. Our Lord Jesus look around and said who is my mother. Who is my brother. Who is my sister.

Loving Christ Above Family and Self

Those who obey the Word of God that's hate. Love and hate work together. Love when it is right to love. Hate when it is right to hate. When the Lord said you must know how to hate the dearest to you. You must know how to hate your long life.

These people are your life. So the Lord said. And your life too. You must know to hate yourselves and whatever is dearest to you in order to follow me. Otherwise when you think of yourselves when your brothers and sisters began to think differently from what the Lord wants you to do.

Or when your wife or husband is standing in the way of the Lord or your father and mother or even yourself what will you do. Will you love the Lord more than anything else. Will you allow the Lord to be the first.

Or do you yield to those that are dearest to you and even to your own flesh what will you do. You remember even in the Old Testament times when God called Abraham he said leave your own kindreds your own city and go to where I want you to go.

Abraham. Abraham talked to his father. I believe his father will try to persuade him not to do such a foolish thing not knowing where to go. And when Abraham insist the father said all right I'll take you there.

And he took lot. He took the initiative and the result was they stay in Tara. No word of God coming to Abraham until Tara died. And God spoke the same word to him emphasizing. And your father brothers and sisters there is a choice you have to make before you follow the Lord.

Otherwise your following will be in vain. Sooner or later you will say this is too hard. Who can hear it. And many of his disciples departed. Remember Moses in Hebrews chapter 11. We are told Moses when he was 40 he had to make a choice whether he will continue with a pleasure of sins in Egypt or to suffer with the people of God whether he is willing to bear the reproach of Christ or enjoy all the riches of Egypt.

He had to make a choice. Thank God he made the right right choice because he saw the unseen one. Dear brothers and sisters our Lord is so glorious. Oftentimes we talk about we sing about the glory of the Lord.

But what is glory. Where is his glory. If he is not all. If he is not first if he does not have the supremacy. If he does not have all in your life then where is his glory. The glory of God is that he is supreme.

He is above all. He is worthy to have all. That's the glory of God. And it is at least the Lord is afraid. We may be mistaken in what he said because you say hate your father and mother brother and sister wife husband children even your own life.

If you want to be my disciple now he I think he knows us. He is afraid that we may mistake what he said thinking that naturally we are to hate our father and mother. And so forth. No so he had an explanation he said.

Taking Up the Cross

And whosoever does not carry his cross and after me cannot be my disciples. In other words when your father and mother do not constitute a cross to you you love them. You should not hate them. That's the will of God.

God want us to love our parents. If your wife or your husband is not a crossroad with Christ Christ goes one way and your wife or husband go another way. If they do not constitute a cross then you love your husband.

You love your wife. If your children brothers and sisters do not become a cross to you then it is natural it is of God that we shall love them with all our hearts. And if yourself is not in conflict in contradiction in opposition with Christ then you should love your own lives take care of your life because this is the body belongs to Christ.

But when it crosses now who is to be crossed out. Think of that you or Christ. This is your cross. Cross is when the will of God and your will or the will of those who are dearest to you are at odd or enemies then a cross is for are you willing to take up your cross and follow the Lord is something we can choose.

You can take it up you can lay it down. You can bear it. Or you can bypass it. It's your choice. So the Lord said what it really means is simply this. If you want to be his disciples are you willing to put yourself absolutely completely without any reservation.

Keep yourself to him so that he's able to have free hand to make you like him. Isn't that wonderful cross is not rosy. Today people put their cross around their neck as a ornament. But when Christ died on the cross when your flesh suffer you want one way and the Lord asked for another way.

Your flesh suffer. It is as if death but blessed death because there is resurrection. No death no resurrection. No cross. Brothers and sisters best discipleship that's the condition the Lord laid down at the very outset.

He does not want us to go on following him. And then discover is too difficult too much. And so what does the Lord ask of us. Here you'll find a great cross following him coming to him. The Lord said this is not a matter of emotion at the moment.

This is not a matter of impulse. The Lord said no. This is a matter you need to consider seriously. Sit down and count the cost. Dear brothers and sisters we who have been following the Lord all these years have we ever sat down and counted the cost.

This is the advice of the Lord. Don't rush into it. Don't be impulsive. Sit down. You know when God asked Abraham to offer his beloved son he gave Abraham three days journey to think over. He does not rush.

Abraham. He told Abraham very clearly give me your son your only son your beloved son. But Lord did not say do it immediately gave him three days journey to think over. Now why is it. This matter is so serious.

Counting the Cost Before Building

Our Lord used to illustration. One illustration is he said if you are building a tower you shall first sit down and count the cost whether you are able to finish that tower. Because if you rush into it without thinking carefully about it you may lay the foundation and yet you're not able to finish it and everybody that sees it will mock at you.

You begin but you cannot finish. Now brothers and sisters do you know that we are building a tower. Not the tower of Babel. But we are building a tower. A tower. What is meant by a tower. You remember when man first showed their rebelling against God by building a tower.

Why did they build a tower. They say we should make a name of ourselves. Power is connected with name that the name may spread. Now you remember the problem. Chapter 18 verse 10. We sing that song. The name of the Lord is a strong power.

The righteous run into it and it's safe and in garbage footnote that we're safe can be translated and approachable. The name of the Lord is a strong power. What we. What. How are we building. Are we building the tower of Babel to spread our own name.

Are we building the power of God that his name may be known throughout the world. A testimony. That is what we are living for. Brothers and sisters how can we spread a name of the Lord without putting ourselves completely absolutely unconditionally surrender abandoned to him.

It takes our all. If you want to reserve something keep that something. You won't be able to finish it. So sit down and count the cost. Christian life is not only a life of testimony exalting the name of the Lord.

Spiritual Warfare Requires Total Surrender

Christian life is a so the Lord said if a king is going to fight against another key the other King came with 20 ,000 men but he is only willing to give 10 ,000 men. In other words he wants to reserve back something.

Then the Lord said it is better that you ask for the term of peace because you will be defeated. In order to fight that battle you have to be willing to sacrifice your all. No reservation in spiritual warfare.

This is what it is. Our Lord Jesus gave his all in their spiritual warfare even his life. And he triumphed. If we do not give our all we will not be able to win the battle. We will be a victim instead of victor.

Brothers and sisters Christian life is a serious matter. I spoke to myself again and again. Can I lay back. Can I be complacent. Can I expect an easy time. If I follow the Lord. Am I ready. Prepare to pay any cost.

So our Lord concludes by saying does that every one of you who forsakes not all that is his all cannot be that. Explain the two parables. You have to give your all. You cannot make any reservation for other purpose.

The Lord is all. Or the Lord is not the Lord at all. Whatever is your own forsake it. That's the conditions of discipleship. He is asking the impossible. With man it is impossible but with God all things are possible.

Brothers and sisters do not think that we can do it. Nobody can do it. It's only when the love of Christ constrains you. Then it is done. We need to see the Lord. We need to see the glory of the Lord.

Only when we see the Lord his glory his love. He's giving all. Then we are to give back to him because it's his. And brothers and sisters as you read church history biographies of those who give them all to the Lord you know what they say cost.

You cannot talk about. This is nothing. How can you say cost. When you think of the Lord he deserted it's all his he gave and he take blessed be the name of the Lord then our Lord. So then it's good. You remember Matthew 5.

Salt, Discipleship, and the Coming Kingdom

You're the salt of the earth. Who are the salt of the earth. Those who bear the character. You have the Beatitudes first in the Beatitudes you see the character of Christ began to characterize the disciples.

And that character of Christ in the disciples is the salt. There is a taste different strong assault. We who follow the Lord who are his disciples we are the salt of the earth. We have a special taste.

The world does not have. And salt is so necessary. All the offerings must have salt in it. In other words salt is that which preserves from corruption. Salt give you a taste a heavenly taste. That's what we are.

But if the salt has lost his flavor how can a salt lose his flavor. When you dilute it dilute it dilute it to the extent then it becomes salt. And when it is salt what can be done to make it season. It is not proper to put in the land.

It is not proper to throw it in the dunk. It is castle. Brothers and sisters the land here speaks of the kingdom. When the kingdom shall come are you able to reign with Christ for a thousand years. That's the land.

You inherit the promised land. What is the dunk. The dunk is where you throw away things. That's Hades is no use forever. It's useless. But brothers and sisters we who are believers we cannot be thrown into Haiti into hell forever.

Useless. No it is not proper to do that. But neither is it proper if we have lost our taste to enter into the kingdom and reign with Christ. And what will happen at the coming of the Lord. The Bible said cast out into outer darkness.

And there will be the nation of teeth. In other words you will regret that you have held back from the Lord. But thank God you are still saved but barely saved. Dear brothers and sisters so after our Lord has said all these things he said he that has ears to hear.

Let him hear what the Spirit says to the church. Let him that have ear to hear. Dear Lord I spoke with fear and trembling. Who am I to say such words. It is not me Lord this is your word. I'm only trying they to die old people.

So Lord do speak to each one of us. Do not allow us to evade nor to rush in. But show us how to sit down and count. Oh may thy love appear to us. May thy glory appear to us. That we by thy grace may able to do the impossible here we are.