Ruth 3, What Are You Waiting For?, Dr. John B. Carpenter
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Ruth 3
What Are You Waiting For?
I. What Are You Waiting For?
1. Some kids count down the days to Christmas. “Tiny tots with their eyes all aglow” are waiting for toys.
2. For some things you have to wait: to grow up or retire. Some people can’t wait to graduate.
3. Some say “advent” is all about waiting. Why wait for something that has already happened?
II. The Washing (3:1-5)
A. The End of the Harvest
1. Naomi is tired of waiting. Ruth has gleaned in Boaz’s field for weeks. Now harvests is complete.
2. “Should I not seek rest for you?” As in 1:9, Naomi wants Ruth to have security.
3. When Boaz first met Ruth, he said she had come to seek refuge under the wings of the Lord (2:12).
4. Naomi might wish that Boaz would take the initiative. But she’s not going to wait.
5. As Elimelech’s relative, Boaz had a family responsibility to “redeem” Ruth.
B. The Plan
1. Step one: wash! Then “Anoint yourself” (maybe with perfume). Then go to the threshing floor.
2. Is Naomi telling her daughter-in-law seduce the rich guy? This is risky and improper.
3. Naomi is sending the message to Boaz: ‘What are you waiting for?’
4. The only way this does not turn into immorality is if Boaz really is a “worthy man” (2:1).
5. Boaz is being pursued not because he’s rich but because he’s a redeemer.
6. As such, Boaz would carry on the family of Naomi’s dead husband and provide for Naomi.
7. Naomi believes God is “Almighty”; that everything that has happened to her is the Lord’s doing.
8. She doesn’t believe that means being passive. She strategizes and acts boldly.
9. The Bible says both that God has mercy on whom He wants and tells us to “Seek the Lord”.
III. The Wings (3:6-15)
A. “Spread Your Wings”
1. Boaz has been working on the threshing floor, pleased with the harvest. He’s going to sleep soundly.
2. Ruth softly creeps up on him, uncovers his feet and lies down, symbolically seeking his protection.
3. When he wakes up at midnight, she asks, “Spread your wings over your servant.”
4. In 2:12, Boaz hoped Ruth would be blessed by the Lord, “under whose wings” she sought refuge.
5. Boaz himself can make his own prayer come true because of his relation; he is a redeemer.
B. “This Last Steadfast Love Is Greater”
1. Boaz could respond in one of three ways: like the flesh, like a Pharisee, or the worthy way.
2. Joseph, when he heard Mary was pregnant, was unwilling to put her to shame “being a just man”.
3. Boaz: “You have made this last kindness — hesed, steadfast love — greater than the first” (3:10).
4. The first “steadfast love” was in 1:16-17 when she committed herself to Naomi. This one exceeds it.
5. Like Micah 6:8, Boaz loves steadfast love (hesed) and so will be glad to marry Ruth.
6. Here, everybody is for everyone else. It’s a circle of steadfast love, a true Biblical love story.
7. There’s one last hurdle to clear. “Yet there is a redeemer nearer than I” (3:12).
IV. The Waiting (3:16-18)
1. Boaz gives her a pledge of six measures of winnowed barley poured into her cloak.
2. Boaz: ’You must not go back empty to your mother-in-law’. Empty? Now Naomi is not empty.
3. Naomi knows Boaz will wait no longer but act as their redeemer today.
4. Sex has to wait for marriage, even if you find yourself in a compromising situation.
5. We don’t have to wait any longer for our redeemer. In the incarnation, God became flesh.
V. Invitation: In the incarnation, God becomes our kin. In the cross, He becomes our redeemer. We still have to wait for the “redemption of our bodies”, for the resurrection and while we wait we will still feel the sting of death. But as we wait, we can be sure of the Lord’s steadfast love. We can be sure, that there is a redeemer.
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- Ruth chapter 3 Then Naomi her mother -in -law said to her My daughter should
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- I not seek rest for you that it may be well with you It's not Boaz our relative with whose well young women you were see he is winnowing barley tonight at the threshing floor
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- Wash therefore and anoint yourself and put on your cloak and go down to the threshing floor But do not make yourself known to the man until he has finished eating and drinking
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- But when he lies down observe the place where he lies then go and uncover his feet and lie down and he will tell you what
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- To do and she replied all that you say I will do so she went down to the threshing floor and did just as her mother -in -law had commanded her and when
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- Boaz had eaten and drunk and His heart was merry. He went to lie down at the end of the heap of grain
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- Then she came softly and uncovered his feet and lay down at midnight The man was startled and turned over and behold a woman lay at his feet
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- And he said who are you and she answered I am Ruth your servant spread your wings over your servant
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- For you are a Redeemer and he said may you be blessed by the Lord my daughter
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- You have made this last kindness greater than the first and that you have not gone after young men whether poor or rich And now my daughter do not fear
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- I will do for you all that you ask for all my fellow townsmen Know that you are a worthy woman and now it is true that I am a
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- Redeemer yet There is a Redeemer nearer than I remain tonight and in the morning if he will redeem you good
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- Let him do it. But if he is not willing to redeem you then as the Lord lives, I will redeem you
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- Lie down until the morning So she lay at his feet until the morning but arose before one could recognize another and he said let it not be known that The woman came to the threshing floor and he said bring the garment that you are wearing and hold it out
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- So she held it and he measured out six measures of barley and put it on her Then she went into the city and when she came to her mother -in -law
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- She said how did you fare my daughter? And then she told all that the man had done for her saying these six measures of barley
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- He gave to me for he said to me you must not go back empty -handed to your mother -in -law
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- She replied wait my daughter until you learn how the matter turns out for the man will not rest
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- But will settle the matter today May the Lord add his blessings to the reading of his
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- Holy Word Well, what are you waiting on Some of us are waiting for Christmas Maybe just a week and a half away when
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- I was a kid I was one of those who counted down the days to Christmas I couldn't wait and then when the day itself dawned to be one of those annoying kids and wake up with parents early
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- Let's go rush down open the presents One Christmas Eve. I thought I had for the morning after to cut down my waiting time
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- So I was so eager for what I had to wait for that. I slept on the stairs of our two -story house so that when
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- I Woke up. I'd already be halfway down the stairs Less waiting
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- It was as though I thought that something I had got that day would be the thing That would make my life
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- And so every year I was waiting for a Christmas break from school then closer and closer to the day
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- I'm waiting for that toy or that bicycle or whatever That would be it and toys
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- Came and went and weren't the thing So maybe I'll wait for next year
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- Is that what we teach our kids? Tiny tots with their eyes all aglow. We'll find it hard to sleep on The night before Christmas because they know that Santa's on his way
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- Loaded with lots of toys and goodies on his sleigh and we teaching them that that stuff
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- There's toys and goodies is what you should wait for What are you waiting for?
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- Maybe it's not Christmas. Maybe it's just lunch Or maybe you're waiting for something bigger Waiting to grow up Wait, you get married get a better job
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- Make more money retire Feel better for something to change for some things.
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- You just have to wait Now something that this time of the year what some call as many called it
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- Advent is all about waiting as if we're supposed to wait Again for Christ to be born one
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- Advent prayer puts it quote. We await the blessed hope and coming of our Savior Jesus Christ No, we don't and They meant the first coming like we're gonna recapture it or read participate in it
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- Portray it in our lives by waiting again as if he hasn't been born another blog said that this is a time of quote hopeful
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- Wait awaiting of the coming of our Savior But why are you awaiting something that has already happened?
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- Christmas is supposed to be about the incarnation God's coming in the flesh becoming one of us, but that's done
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- Once and for all there's no more waiting for it When you find it bizarre if I said, you know, our anniversary is coming in about three weeks that I'm awaiting to be married
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- The Advent of my bride all over again is if I'm not quite sure it's really happened yet Remembering something that has happened
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- Like a wedding that's fine Awaiting something That's already been done
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- That's just Strange You don't need to wait on things that have already been accomplished
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- I've already been fulfilled and you need to know what you have to wait for and What you don't?
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- Here in Ruth chapter 3 we see some things that we can put it end to waiting for and then how still sometimes
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- We have to wait we see that here in three parts The washing the wings and the waiting.
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- Well first Naomi is tired of waiting Ruth has gone out every day now for several weeks
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- Do what first the barley harvest and then there's the wheat harvest on but about immediately after that she's gone out there gleaning
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- What grain that's been left by the workers and Boaz's field and now the harvests are complete the long?
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- Wait for a bumper crop after years of famine is over Ruth will no longer have an opportunity to go out into the field to glean and she so she won't be encountering
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- Boaz there out in the fields anymore. Naomi is thinking of her daughter -in -law Ruth And she says if to Ruth in verse 1 should
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- I not seek rest? for you My daughter I'm thinking about you and this rest is the same term
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- She used in chapter 1 verse 9 when she tried to talk her two daughters -in -law to go back to Moab Go back to your home back to your parents home and seek a new husband there there
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- You will get rest that is security the protection the provision that a good husband could provide especially in that day
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- She blesses or play and Ruth saying in chapter 1 verse 8 may the Lord deal in steadfast love
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- With you to give you rest and there's that key word of the book of Ruth Steadfast love and Hebrew chesed in other words
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- May the Lord covenant with you commit himself to you to do good to you to treat you kindly by providing you with security provision rest
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- Now Ruth though in an act of great steadfast love of her own demonstrating what it looks like in practice pledges herself
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- To be loyal to her mother -in -law to Naomi where you go. I will go where you lodge
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- I will lodge your people will be my people and your God my God It's ironic that we
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- Commonly uses at weddings now Because there when Ruth originally said it she is willing to walk away from the opportunity to get married again
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- It's what Naomi was trying to tell her go back home You can get married again there and Ruth is saying no, I'm loyal to you to be you
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- I'll choose you Naomi over the possibility of getting married again But now in Bethlehem Naomi has a new plan for Ruth to get rest in chapter 2 on that first day of barley harvest when
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- Boaz first met Ruth He said to her that she'd come to seek refuge under the wings of the
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- Lord by making her famous commitment She was seeking her protection Her rest from the true
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- God and now a few weeks later after the harvest are all over Naomi gets the idea that seeking
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- God's rest Can't wait No longer go back to Moab now right here in Bethlehem Ruth you can find your rest.
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- Now's the time no more waiting. She's not gonna put out a desperate personal ad in Bethlehem Times single
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- Moabite woman widowed Childless with mother -in -law seeks well -to -do Bethlehem businessman with a view to marriage
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- Muscle of mother -in -law. No nothing like that No, she's not going that route
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- Boaz the one who mentioned the wings of the Lord He brought that up first is the one to give
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- Ruth and herself as part of the package deal. They come together rest security protection
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- So that's what Naomi thinks Naomi has a plan Which is a good sign for her this shows.
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- She's she's revived Remember, she came back to Bethlehem crying to the local ladies that the Lord had brought her back empty
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- Remember that the Lord's brought me back empties opposed me. I'm empty That was the beginning of the barley harvest now
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- It's after the barley harvest and then the wheat harvest and she's seen Ruth come back home
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- With a 30 -pound bag of grain that first day From Boaz and said in chapter 2 verse 20 that the
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- Lord has not forsaken His steadfast love is that word again for her?
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- Naomi and Ruth the living or For the dead for her husband and her sons
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- That has revived the depressed Naomi depressed people don't make plans
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- Depressed people just given up all hope they don't dream dreams. They don't care for the future. They don't think about the future now
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- Naomi has a dream Naomi has hope Naomi can see a future
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- She might wish that Boaz could see it too. And then he would take the initiative, but she's not gonna be discouraged
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- She's not gonna wait any longer for him. So she tells Ruth in verse 2
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- It's not Boaz our relative now in their culture. That meant that he had a family responsibility
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- He apparently wasn't a brother of Ellie Miller named his deceased husband And so he's not absolutely required by the law to be a
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- Redeemer It was not a duty that he has to obey but he can be one if he wants to Boaz has been letting
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- Ruth Do her gleaning that is her scrounging Among the women harvesters without being harassed now that's done
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- He'll be winnowing the grain at the threshing floor and now it comes the plan name is plan in verse 3
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- Step one Ruth is my plan. She says wash Okay, she's dirty
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- Ruth is dirty from all her gleaning out in the fields. So she needs to wash She needs to get herself looking as best you can and then anoint yourself
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- They name he says maybe with perfume maybe just with olive oil so she gots kind of a glow to her then put on your cloak be shrouded mysterious
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- Also warm because you're gonna be out there at night then go to the threshing floor watching and waiting
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- Notice he tells her don't let yourself be known to her. So she got to kind of be hiding She's stalking the heavy tells
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- Ruth to be a stalker whatever but until he's finished working Then eating and drinking and then when he lies down to sleep at verse 4 uncover his feet and lie down literally and symbolically
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- Extending his covering over you and then he will tell you what to do. She says do whatever he says What's going on here?
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- It sounds kind of Scandalous sounds like Naomi is telling her daughter -in -law to go and seduce the sort of rich guy
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- And not not quite But this is improper Improper this is not here as a model for young women to follow about how to find a godly man first Take a shower step one then go when he's sleeping after a hard day's work and lie down at his feet
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- No, that's not what this is about History narrative indicative in the
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- Bible is not always meant to be imperative I'm not always meant to be models and examples that we have to follow
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- Sometimes you're just simply telling us this is what they did. Does that mean well you have to do it, too Well, what's going on here?
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- Naomi is sending the message to Boaz. You know, what are you waiting for? Come on Boaz. She's single.
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- You're single You've seen how she's hard -working. She's faithful. She's worthy. In fact, the book of Ruth comes in the
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- Hebrew Old Testament immediately after the book of Proverbs So if you're reading the
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- Hebrew order, you'd read Proverbs get to the end of Proverbs Proverbs chapter 31 Which is about The excellent wife but the noble woman the excellent wife who can find she's more precious than jewels
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- Then you turn the page. Next thing is Ruth. There she is Where can you find the noble woman next page?
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- And so Naomi is saying come on Boaz You've handed her grain. You told her to stay in your fields.
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- It's been weeks now Now the harvest is over and you still haven't gotten together. What are you waiting for for her to come and lie at your feet?
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- Okay, she'll do it Some men take some provocation some movie now you can say here.
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- Well, this is improper. It's almost seductive. Yeah, it is It's giving
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- Boaz a little sample that Ruth isn't just a harvesting machine She's not just a worker out in the fields.
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- She could be a wife too, you know Boaz He'll wake up in the middle of the night Satisfied with a successful day's work a full stomach a nice aroma of ointment and coming from nearby and a warm female body at his feet
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- Well, some people think this is outrageous Because they think this would have to lead to sex and some think that is demanding that we read in between the lines here and see
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- That they must have had sex that Naomi sent her Moabite daughter -in -law there to purposely entrap him in sexual immorality
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- I think such people are revealing more about themselves than they are about the text of Scripture The Bible is elsewhere.
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- Very frank can be very direct About sex when it talks about sex doesn't leave it to your imagination, you know, when it's telling you it's telling you and So there's no reason to believe here
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- That the author of Ruth would be shy. It's just too shy to tell us and he's kind of being kind of implying it.
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- No Sure, this is improper That's why Boaz says later not to let anyone know that a woman was on the threshing floor
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- No, don't tell him when you were here Ruth because I'll think things But improper is not always immoral the only way this does not turn into immorality.
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- Is it Boaz really is the Worthy man that chapter 2 verse 1 says he was
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- So Naomi's risky plan totally depends on Boaz being a truly godly man with great self -control and she wasn't disappointed
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- Boaz is being pursued Because he's a redeemer and that's the key and what is he redeeming exactly?
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- You think well, is it Ruth but she could get married to other men.
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- It's more than just that Now keep in mind that Boaz isn't the only man in Bethlehem He acknowledged that there were plenty of young men around that she could have found more attractive
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- What Boaz offers is that he will carry on the family of Naomi's dead husband
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- Nellie Millick He will provide for Naomi too. So it's a package deal He redeems he buys back from being lost the property the lineage the future family
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- That before Boaz looked like it was wiped out Ella Millick and sons are dead.
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- There's no more hope for them. Remember and so Naomi is crying. I'm empty The Lord's against me.
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- He's taken everything from me and then Boaz comes along and he redeems the living family now Naomi and Ruth and his dead relatives
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- Ella Millick and the sons if he marries Ruth so there is a
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- Redeemer This is all about pursuing him You know the Redeemer is now pursue him
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- Well wash get perfumed get a cloak go to him when he's feeling good in a good mood relax satisfied
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- You could think that since Naomi believes God is almighty. Remember it. Shaddai Almighty, it's
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- God Almighty in chapter 1 that if you think that well, why just leave it up to him Everything that has happened to her is the
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- Lord's doing she believes that right remember everything that's happened Even her calamities are under the
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- God's control because she believes in the sovereignty of God. You could think that well Wouldn't she be passive?
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- He believes God's under control of the calamities God's in control of the blessings We'll just sit back and do nothing if God wants to bring
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- Ruth and Boaz together. He'll do it in his time. I'll just wait Naomi Naomi might think if she thought like a lot of people today
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- And that's exactly the advice of a lot of modern Christians would give her but that isn't the way Naomi thinks
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- She believes that the Lord is the Almighty God Who rules even over the calamities that she's experienced and she also believes that the 30 -pound bags of barley are proof that the
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- Lord has Not forsaken his steadfast love for her that God's hand and his plan
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- Determine what takes place? But then She is active
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- She plans she strategizes She acts boldly to pursue the
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- Redeemer Modern people often insist that but if you really believe in the sovereignty of God and however, you want to put it predestination
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- But you'll be passive That's not the way the Bible tells us to think at all
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- The Bible tells us that God has mercy on whom he wants to have mercy says your salvation does not depend on your your will or your work and some people say well then if you believe that Then there's no reason to do anything
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- You really believe that your salvation is a plan on anything you do or anything you choose it You don't do anything but God wants to say that he then he'll do it himself
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- Some hyper Calvinists say some who scoff at that teaching say predestination this belief in the sovereignty of God in Salvation that it kills evangelism
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- But the Bible says both That God has mercy on whom he wants to have mercy Salvation does not depend on our will or our work
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- That God seeks and he saves the loss. It depends on him and On the other hand it also says to us
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- Seek the Lord and you will find him if you search for him with all your heart and with all your soul
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- We sinners are called like Naomi here to seek God to pursue him chase after our
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- Redeemer go after him Seek him with a passion is if nothing else matters use everything you can to get your
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- Redeemer Because nothing else will matter If you don't find him you're seeking him is an instrument of God's finding you
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- Seek him with everything that is in you Even if you appear
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- Improper to others Don't wait for anything to happen Take what you think is
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- The initiative and go all out To get your Redeemer and if you get him you'll find out
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- Actually God moved me to do all that because he's the Almighty Ruth says in verse 5 all that you say
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- I will do So the plan is in motion. She washes she perfumes she prepares
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- She watches and then seeks the protection of the Redeemer's wings second wings
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- Ruth goes to the threshing floor where Boaz has been working. He's pleased with a great harvest. He's got a bumper crop
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- There's a heap of grain there. Imagine this big pile of grain from all the harvesting He's satisfied.
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- He's had a good dinner. Probably has a good wine and he's gonna sleep soundly there
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- You know guarding his his crops have not stolen. He's sleeping satisfied from all his income
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- Then Ruth softly creeps up on him uncovers his feet lies down there This is meant to be symbolic as she is seeking his protection.
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- She's seeking to be under his care his his wing And verse 8 at midnight he startled awake he turns over and to his surprise finds a woman
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- Lying at his feet verse 9 gets us into the mind of Boaz behold Other words
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- Wow. Look at this a woman and it's dark so he can't Recognize which woman it is.
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- And so he asked who are you? Oh, he's scooting back a little bit And she says I am Ruth And then she says something the text doesn't say
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- Naomi prepared her for Naomi told her just to do whatever he tells you That that this having
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- Ruth washed and perfumed light his feet that that should be enough get the message through Ruth decides to go even one step further make it absolutely clear what she's after Boaz, what are you waiting for?
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- She says to him spread your wings over your servant Remember what
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- Boaz? At first said to Ruth chapter 2 verse 12 May a full reward
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- Be given you by the Lord the God of Israel for a steadfast love for a mother -in -law under whose wings
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- Boaz thought of that idea Under his wing same word is here in verse 9
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- Under his wings you have come to seek refuge To Boaz himself sowed the seed of that idea of Ruth's proposal
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- He planted the idea of the wings of protection that the Lord would be to her like a mother bird to a hatchling and now
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- Ruth turns it around and asked Boaz to be the instrument to To fulfill his own blessing to answer his own prayer for Ruth that she would find rest under the wings of the
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- Lord in Bethlehem Through Boaz the Redeemer She gives the reason
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- Not because he's rich Cuz he's hot or cute or funny but You are a
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- Redeemer Spread your wings Boaz your protection your redemption
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- Now Boaz could respond in one of three ways first Obviously you take advantage of her He can respond with the flesh and use her for sex or a second
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- He can respond like a Pharisee and condemn her for her impropriety Get out of here. You slut
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- You're trying to tip me and is it that some people's idea of what it means to be proper or righteous?
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- And here we see though that the worthy man how he responds the third way we see that again later in The Bible when an engaged man was sure that his soon -to -be wife had committed adultery after all in all of history
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- No one had become pregnant without sex. This is not naturally possible So Joseph when he heard that Mary was pregnant
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- What did he do? Even before the angel appeared to him to tell them the pregnancy was from the Holy Spirit The Bible says being a just or righteous man.
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- He was unwilling to put her to shame Boaz here could have shamed
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- Ruth could have called her immoral told her to get out told everyone in the town about her advance but he too was a just man
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- Boaz's response Beginning verse 10. It's basically gracious. May the Lord may you be blessed by the
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- Lord my daughter Well for what? Be blessed for what?
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- She's being improper She deserves criticism scorn. Oh, please get over it be blessed
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- Ruth because you have made this last Kindness and there's that word again chesed this last
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- Steadfast love what you've just done By proposing that Boaz would be her
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- Redeemer spread his wings of her. That's her last Steadfast love kind of seemed like a poor translation here.
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- He's not just thanking her for the kindness of keeping his feet warm on a cool night He's saying this steadfast love that you just demonstrated
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- Ruth is greater than the first greater than that famous Commitment that she made in Moab when
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- Naomi tried to send her back home to find rest With another Moabite when she said where you die,
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- I will die and there I will be buried That great example of steadfast love that buds that are heard about earlier and Ruth is now famous for That is now exceeded
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- Boaz says by this Seeking him to redeem her and Naomi so that the family line will live
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- Understand Ruth isn't just going after a marriage like just for herself. So she's taken care of she could do that with other men
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- She's seeking that her dead husbands and her father -in -law's that it lined that is
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- Naomi's family Would be saved that they're not going to die off With them she could have he says gone after other men whether poor or rich, but she's here at his feet
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- Because she's seeking not just romance But a Redeemer not just for herself
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- But that her mother -in -law's and her dead husband's family would continue She's thinking not just of herself
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- But a still again like she was in chapter 1 of Naomi Boaz sees this
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- He doesn't see a sexual opportunity He doesn't see a desperate young woman stoking his ego by going after him.
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- He sees Ruth's steadfast love for Naomi and He loves that This is the good man
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- The one who does what the Lord wants in Micah chapter 6 verse 8 and here's another use of the word chesed
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- He has shown you. Oh man, what is good? And what does the
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- Lord require of you? but to love Mercy chesed steadfast covenant love
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- He's shown you what the Lord wants is for you to love
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- Steadfast love Boaz loves Steadfast love he loves it in Ruth.
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- And so he'll be glad to marry her Now to appeal to modern people the book of Ruth is often sold as a great love story
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- And it is one but it's very different than that of modern romance tales Ruth is pursuing
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- Boaz not because of romance but because he's a Redeemer and so no Naomi is taken care of too and the family line continues
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- Boaz for his part isn't swept away by Passion out of control just doing what he feels like doing
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- For his own self -satisfaction his own pleasure. He doesn't praise Ruth for her beauty man.
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- Oh, man. Are you look good? None of that we're told here are like great perfume.
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- There's some fine perfume there But he praises her for her steadfast love
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- For being in verse 11 a worthy woman Everybody is for everyone else here
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- Naomi is for Ruth should I next seat rest for you Ruth is for Naomi. She's doing this for her
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- Boaz is for Ruth because she's for Naomi. It's a circle of steadfast love a true biblical love story
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- Boaz doesn't take advantage of Ruth either physically or emotionally. She has made herself perfectly completely
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- Vulnerable, but he assures her in verse 11 now My daughter second time he's called her that You're not fear.
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- I Will do for you all that you ask He will spread his wings
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- He will be her Redeemer Then like all good dramas, there's an obstacle there's one last complication one last hurdle to clear
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- Yet there is a Redeemer nearer than I he says at the end of verse 12 Maybe that's the reason
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- Boaz hasn't been willing To pursue Ruth all this time. He can't be the
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- Redeemer He can't move on Ruth until this other man has had his opportunity and verse 13 if he will redeem you good
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- Now we don't know if Ruth really thought that was good whoever this other guy is but those are the rules
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- But Boaz promises if he is not willing as the Lord lives. I will
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- Redeem you he puts her at ease She does not have to wait for Redeemer She has one there is a
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- Redeemer she needs now only to wait a short while for her redemption third
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- Waiting what have you been waiting for? Christmas lunch
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- New career more money feeling better Something Maybe not a
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- Redeemer Some package Christmas Advent. They call it as a time of waiting for our
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- Redeemer But like Ruth here We're not waiting for a Redeemer anymore only for the completion of our redemption
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- When even our bodies are bought back from death in the resurrection. The incarnation is complete with the resurrection
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- Christmas is complete with Easter Well, they wait for the morning it's the first streaks of light start to dawn and Boaz sends
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- Ruth away with a promise and a pledge a Pledge like an engagement ring is a token of being serious
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- The pledge of six measures of the winnowed barley the harvested grain actual grain poured into her cloak
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- We don't know how much that is exactly six measures of what doesn't tell us exactly but it must be a lot because he had To put it on her it says
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- Like a load and she goes to Naomi. Naomi is eager for the news. How did it fare in verse 16?
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- She told her what Boaz had said and then points her to the cloak full of barley. There's the token
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- There's the the pledge and reports what we weren't told before Boaz had told her
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- You must not go back empty to your mother -in -law empty
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- Where have you heard that before Naomi? Oh Yeah, you said You said
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- Naomi that the Lord the Almighty the Shaddai had brought you back
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- Empty that he opposed to you even with Ruth right there beside you
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- Handing you a tissue at the beginning of barley harvest now at the end
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- How empty do you think you are? Naomi replies early morning in Bethlehem wait
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- My daughter wait just today The man will not rest until he will settle the matter today now somehow naming knows exactly how
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- Boaz will act she knew he was a worthy man who would wait for sex and for marriage that he would have the self -control to wait and She knows he will wait no longer
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- But will act as the Redeemer today There are sometimes we will still need to wait
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- Sex has to wait for marriage. Even if you find yourself on what seems the most perfect Maybe even romantic compromising situation wait
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- If it can't wait you should wonder if it's really Steadfast love but some things we don't need to wait on any longer some things are fulfilled
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- Already The way that advent that Christmas is celebrated even by some churches obscures the fact that we don't have to wait any longer for our
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- Redeemer We're not waiting again for him to be born in Bethlehem or in some metaphorical way in our own hearts and the incarnation when
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- God Became flesh and dwelt among us God became our kin The kinsman to all his people of whatever race or nation he became like us in every way except for sin
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- Incarnation day would be a better name for it than Christmas. We celebrate that That God became our relative and we shouldn't distract from that by teaching kids
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- It's all about the newest game or gadget that it's all about you and what you want what you can consume now
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- The sure to make you happy Tiny tots eyes all aglow with what they're gonna get well
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- It's supposed to be all about a God who loves us like Naomi and Ruth and Boaz Loved each other some things we don't have to wait for any longer
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- That God became a man to buy us back from sin and death is the most important of those things
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- Don't wait for it Remember it
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- Remember in the incarnation God became our kin in the cross
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- He became our Redeemer And yes We still have to wait for the redemption of our bodies for the resurrection and while we wait we will still feel the sting of death for those we love for ourselves but as we wait and We're still stung
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- Still Tempted to say from time to time That we're empty We can be sure of the
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- Lord's steadfast. Love we can be sure as we wait That there is a