First you see the Lord Jesus for yourself, this is the primary thing, if there's someone here this morning, what you need more than anything else, if you're not saved, you need to see the Lord Jesus through personal experience, you need to know him for yourself, and when you really know him, I remember in my early experience of salvation, I was just like bursting inside, I couldn't contain myself, I just had to tell somebody, and this is how John felt here, he just had to share, remember that program years ago on the radio, they used to have money, money, money, money, money, it came on there many years ago, and then they'd cry out, share the wealth, John said, when you get something like this, you want to share, we show it unto you, we first bear witness, and then show it unto you, sometimes the order's different, with the Lord Jesus healed the man called Legion, he first told him, return to thine house and show them, and then to whom do thy friends, and tell them, here the order is reversed, but nevertheless, there's a progression here, after you've seen him, then you can't help but bear witness, and then show unto you, and it's the showing that really counts, may I say something practical here, does your neighbor know that you're a Christian, does your neighbor know that you're late with the Lord Jesus, do they see the characteristics of the Lord Jesus in you, in everyday living, in everyday deeds, in everyday talk, are you the first one they can go to for help, the one they say, that person, he's like his master, he's so kind, he's so understanding, he's so loving, do they see you like that, do you bear witness by your life, as well as by your lip, later on we see the very contrast to that in verse six, have the eternal life, the seven titles given to the Lord Jesus in this epistle here, one of the word of life, the second one here, eternal life, which was with the Father, and was manifested unto us, now here you first have the personal experience, then the public testimony, they declared, and then you have this particular proclamation, we show it unto you, from personal experience, come into verse three and four now, we have the Lord Jesus the center of the fellowship into which we are brought, that which we have seen and heard declare we unto you, that ye may have fellowship with us, John why do you want us to fellowship with you, oh John that's because our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son Jesus Christ, and as they say it's out of this world, it's out of this world, the fellowship we have, like the Scotsman said, is better felt than telt, you must experience this to know it, and all fellowship is with the Father and with the Son, and we want you to enjoy this fellowship, now what is fellowship, what do we mean by the word of fellowship, sometimes people say fellowship is two fellows of a ship, but it's more than that, fellowship means a partnership, it's a joint participation in a common thing or common interest, it brings you right into a partnership, this is a real fellowship, this is the thought of the word fellowship, sometimes you ask people are you in fellowship, and they don't say yes I'm in fellowship, but it's a sharing in having things in common, then with who's the fellowship, with the Father and the Son from the divine side, from the human side, it's with one another, that you might have fellowship with us, and oh how wonderful fellowship is first with the Lord, with the Father and with the Son, and how wonderful it is with one another, have you ever been stranded somewhere for six months where you never had any fellowship with the Lord's people, I've had that experience, I was only saved three months when I had that experience, I was sent out to the edge of the Sahara Desert while serving with the Canadian Air Force, I was only saved a short time, and out there, we were just out in the edge of the desert, we were about a mile from a little Arab village that you could smell that far, but it was just so dirty and you couldn't, you just couldn't get near, you couldn't understand what they said, the Air Force had no Christian fellowship among the boys that I knew, they're all unsaved boys, I was just a young believer, and the only time I had a real wonderful time was when I could be with the Lord, when the boys vacated the little tents and they went to their entertainment, I used to be on my knees and spend that time with the Lord, and I, under the mosquito net, every day for four hours during the theater, reading his word and having fellowship with him, this is an experimental thing, and I may say I was the happiest man in the desert, but I'll tell you, even with that, you miss fellow Christians, and when I got back to England, I happened to be again stationed at a place outside of York, only twelve and a half miles, and I was the only Christian there for a while, then a boy came in and he was killed a short time after that, and it seemed that the Lord kept me alone, but a number of miles from me, there was not a seat with about a dozen Christian boys on there, every tent I had out on my bicycle, and I was there to have fellowship with these fellows.