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Today's question is, what does it mean that the marriage bed is undefiled? In this video

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I'll answer that question from a biblical perspective. Then afterwards, as always, I'll share some helpful resources, so stick around until the end.

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Chapter 13 is the concluding chapter of the book of Hebrews, and it ends with a series of final exhortations to Christians.

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Verse 4 says, "...marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled, for fornicators and adulterers

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God will judge." The Greek word translated undefiled is only used in this exact form four times in the

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New Testament, and it means uncontaminated or set apart. Hebrews 7, verse 26 uses this word to describe

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Jesus Christ, our High Priest, and James 1, verse 27 says that undefiled religion is that which helps widows and orphans and remains unstained by the world.

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The marriage bed is to be kept pure or undefiled. In other words, the sexual intimacy shared between a husband and wife is to be reserved for that couple alone.

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God created this sexual union to be between a husband and wife, period, only.

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No other use of sexuality is ever condoned in Scripture. To abuse or misuse

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God's gift of sex is to defile the marriage bed. A marriage bed can be defiled in several ways.

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First, fornication. When unmarried people engage in sexual intercourse, they are defiling

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God's good gift of sex. Even if no marriage is involved, two people who have not vowed themselves to each other in a binding lifetime union have no right to exploit the culmination of such a vow.

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Sex was designed to be the final act of consecration when a couple pledges their lives to each other in a sacred covenant.

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All other forms of sexuality outside a marriage union are bringing dishonor to the honorable institution of marriage.

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Second, adultery. When one or both parties in a sexual union are married to someone else,

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God calls their sexual acts adultery. Adultery was punishable by death under God's old covenant with Israel.

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Even though we no longer live under that covenant, adultery is still high on God's list of moral evils and is always named as a sin that keeps unrepentant offenders from inheriting the kingdom of God.

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Third, homosexuality. Another defilement of the marriage bed is the perversion of men having sex with men or women with women.

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Despite our world's incurrent embrace of homosexual practice, this vile act has never been and will never be sanctioned or blessed by God.

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Homosexuality is a distortion of God's gift of physical unity between husband and wife and is the only sexual activity labeled an abomination.

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The prohibition against homosexuality carries right into the new covenant, as it is listed with those sins that keep the unrepentant out of the kingdom of God.

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Fourth, prostitution. Proverbs 7 gives a detailed look at the destruction that comes upon a young man who allows himself to be seduced by a harlot.

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The sin of harlotry is often used as a metaphor for unfaithful Israel. Christians are warned to avoid such immorality because of the sacredness of the marriage bed.

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Fifth, pornography. Using pornography for sexual gratification is a more modern way to defile the marriage bed.

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Pornographic books, videos, sexting, and other uses of other sexually explicit materials also defile the sanctity of the sexual union between a man and wife.

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Porn has the effect of bringing strangers into the bedroom, even if only through the eyes.

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Jesus warned that lust associated with looking at a woman is equivalent to adultery before God.

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Pornography has elevated sexual lust to an art form, but it is still corrupting to the heart and a sinful defiling of the sexual act.

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God created human beings to be pure in body and spirit. Sexual union between a husband and wife was a part of that purity.

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When Adam and Eve sinned, sexuality was tainted along with everything else. Jesus purchased the power to reclaim that purity through His sacrificial death on the cross.

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No sin, including sexual immorality, is too great for the power of that atoning death and resurrection to pardon.

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Even though we may have defiled the marriage bed, in many ways, God can restore sexual purity and holiness when we repent and commit our lives to following Him.

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