No, it's just, I mean, I think it's a very manipulative way of speaking that has become very common for people to use, and it's the kind of phrase that we really need to think through what we're actually communicating there, is it possible to hurt people's feelings, is this a biblical way of talking even, like rather than the ramifications of talking this way, but I think it is a very manipulative expression itself, so if you could center on the expression, it's a very manipulative expression to use, that really refuses, like when an individual uses that, it's a way of refusing to take responsibility for our feelings, so it's a rejection of personal responsibility there, and it does function as a demand, we can talk more about how it functions as a demand, but it basically functions as a demand to say sorry, or else, but then, so I think it's a very manipulative, like emotional tyrant kind of expression to use, but then people can use it just because it's the air we breathe, it is so common, and I think there are situations where you can communicate that, and particularly if the person understands themselves to be in the wrong rightly, if they rightly understand themselves to be in the wrong, on the receiving end of that, that encounter can go somewhat okay, if that makes sense, and something useful could be communicated, but it's just a nonsense garbage expression that we need to stop saying, and it really is a manipulative expression, and I say the more that people actually use that as part of their life, like people use this expression on a regular basis, they're like very, very difficult people to be around, very, very difficult people to live with, and very difficult people to work with, so the greater degree to which a person talks this way, or speaks this way, they are, that is their character.