How Do You Leave a Church?

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There are times when leaving a church might be necessary, but there's a right and wrong way to do it.

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Don't just up and leave. Here are five helpful guidelines you should follow. 1. Pray.

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Really, there's no decision you should jump into that you haven't prayed about. 2. Talk to your current pastor.

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If you're moving or thinking about moving, perhaps because of a job or because of family, ask for his counsel and to pray with you.

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If you're uncomfortable in your current church, it is especially important to talk to your pastor. Don't be vague or cryptic.

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Share what's on your heart. 3. Consider your motives. Why do you want to leave? Is the reason doctrinal?

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Is it because of sin or a personal conflict? Can it be resolved? Do everything you can to reconcile any broken relationships.

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4. Exercise grace and look for how God has been working in that church. If you cannot see grace there, examine your heart again because the problem is probably you.

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5. Be humble. And give others the benefit of the doubt. You don't have all the facts, and the same measure of judgment you use will be used against you.

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If you still decide you must leave, don't divide the body further, sowing discord in the hearts of those who remain. The Bible is very clear regarding what

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God thinks about those who cause division among brothers. Avoid gossip. That includes venting.

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Instead, be charitable. Even if there is hurt, you still must forgive, as you have also been forgiven.

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Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you have been called in one body and be thankful when we understand the text.