What Every Pastor Should Know (Part 1)

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Welcome to No Compromise Radio, a ministry. My name is Mike Abendroth. And yes, Fred, this is a new show.

I�m recording this show, I don�t know, September 20th, 21st -ish, and so it will probably play early

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Well, my name is Mike Abendroth, and I am pleased to pastor Bethlehem Bible Church.

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before you come so I can make sure I greet you. I�ve been known to give a free t -shirt away to some of the visitors� special tour of the studio, the two microphones, the recorder, the innkeeper, and the comrades for Wretched.

By the way, speaking of Wretched, you need to start flooding Wretched with the request for guest hosts again.

I got a text this morning from Todd about a different subject, and I thought, well, at least he still knows who

I am. I haven�t shut down the place. So what is going on today?

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Church, that came out on Harvest House a while ago. And I think, and it�s hard to talk about your own book, so let me talk about the two other authors,

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A couple chapters don�t have humor because of the subject matter of those said chapters, i .e. hell. But these guys are really excellent writers and ministers for the gospel, faithfully preaching for years, and I think you�d really enjoy the book.

I think if you�ve got a young teenager, college student, a younger crowd, they�re going to like the style of the book and you, as the older senile grandparent, you will like the content.

Did I just say that? I mean, my demographic, I don�t think, is senile grandparents. Maybe a few. Tuesday guy, maybe that.

And also the new book, Sexual Fidelity, no compromise, should be out in about a month or so.

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Written in NoCo style, but there�s no weird emergent, you know, weird dream kind of things in there that have been in the news as of late, and of late, along those subject lines, this is a topic that needs to be addressed and I wrote the book a few years ago and just needed to put that out so you could read through a chapter a day to think rightly about this topic.

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Twitter handle, so if you want to, you have to tweet the no -compromise mascot�s name, okay, and then we�ll send you a free book,

Things to Go Bump in the Church, if you live in the United States. If you live overseas, I�ll send you a free book if you want to chip in for shipping.

How�s that? Now, in the summer, I�m often in California, Santa Cruz, not

Puerto Rico, but Santa Cruz, California, and I pick up books at the

Mount Hermon bookstore that sometimes I wouldn�t normally buy. Maybe I�ll buy a leadership book once a summer and then repent because it�s so lacking.

I think the pastors that are local there in the Santa Cruz area get 20 % off the books, and if you�re a pastor but you�re not local, you get 10%.

So if you drive a really long way and spend a lot of money to get there, you get just only 10 % off, but I�m thankful for the 10 % off.

So I bought a book that I normally wouldn�t buy, and it�s called What Every Pastor Should Know.

What Every Pastor Should Know, actually published by a reputable publishing house, NoCoMedia, and the subtitle in this

Gary McIntosh and Charles Arnn book, What Every Pastor Should Know, 101

Indispensable Rules of Thumb for Leading Your Church.

It�s almost like a Puritan where you have to have really long titles.

McIntosh got his Ph .D. from Fuller, he�s the president of Church Growth Network. Charles Arnn went to University of Southern California, professor of outreach at Wesley Seminary, Indiana Wesleyan University, and president of Church Growth Inc.

What Every Pastor Should Know. Now, I have lots to learn.

I have much that I could learn. I�m just trying to think of a synonym for �learn.�

I need instruction, I need education, I need tutelage. When you think you begin to realize, �Oh,

I�m understanding this pastorate a little bit more ,� something happens, right?

It�s impossible, in one sense, to fully shepherd the flock, and that is why you need a plurality of elders, that is why you need to be prayerful, and that is why you need the

Holy Spirit, because it�s an impossible job. Now, the Spirit of God is pleased to work through fallible men at the leadership level to tend his sheep, to feed his sheep, to make sure every sheep gets to heaven, right?

He will not lose one. The Book of Life has been written, the decree of God is final, and all his sheep will make it.

A good thing, because if it was dependent upon pastors like me to guarantee safe arrival, who would have a chance, who would stand any opportunity to get there?

But the book, while it probably can teach me things, I haven�t read through the whole thing.

I just thought I would go through a few of these, because this is what every pastor needs to know. And if the pastor needs to know it, of course the congregation needs to know it, either implicitly or explicitly.

Here we have number one. Now I don�t remember the intro, because I haven�t, I probably read the first, let�s see, 75 pages.

And it might say in the intro, these are in order of importance.

You know how on Amazon or on websites you can change the little button on the top right -hand side or another area, list from least expensive to most popular, new, what wears out the fastest, that type of thing.

So I don�t know how these are arranged. Number one, what every pastor should know. Some of these

I didn�t know, now I know. Now I want you to know. At least three of every five elected church officers should have a

Great Commission conscience. Now already I read that and I thought, okay, church officers.

Well, let�s assume those in modern -day churches, I don�t like to call them officers.

But I think they�re talking about elders and deacons and maybe trustees. Where�s that trustees chapter,

Tobit? When�s the last time you read Tobit? Matter of fact, it is a book that is not canonical.

It is a pographer. It is in the Roman Catholic canon, of course. And when you read what happened to Saul and his eyes upon his conversion, you can hear the faint echo of something that happened in Tobit.

Whether that is intentionally linked or not, you�re going to have to study that. But I will just throw that out for your higher educational perusal.

When the flock of God is called to be shepherded, of course 1

Peter chapter 5, �Shepherd the flock of God that is among you, exercising oversight, not under compulsion, but willingly, as God would have you, not for shameful gain, but eagerly, not domineering over those in your charge, but being examples to the flock.

When the chief shepherd appears, you will receive the unfading crown of glory.

Likewise, you who are younger, be subject to the elders. Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another.

For God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble. Now, I understand the 1

Peter 5 passage. It�s difficult to live out, of course. But I don�t know what this is.

So, already, what every pastor should know, maybe that�s the point. I need to know what a Great Commission conscience might be.

Of course, here on No Compromise Radio, we believe the Great Commission is when the Father, in eternity past, had the

Son go rescue the elect by having the Son add human nature to himself.

Okay, number 2 in this fund, what every pastor should know. For the most effective outreach, focus on receptive people.

Hmm, well, I think there is something to be said for 2 Timothy 2, and elders and leaders should train other leaders.

And if you�re always focusing on people that aren�t that, is that right, that aren�t that, that are not leadership material, then you�re going to need somebody to hold up your arms a different way, i .e.,

Moses. Receptive people. There�s a receptivity resistance axis.

I guess what they�re saying is if there�s resistant people, don�t focus on them.

Okay. It even has the Holmes -Rahe stress scale.

I don�t know what that�s doing there. Number 3, we�ve got to speed this up when I think something�s bombing, then we�ve got to go forward.

Offer at least 9 entry events per year for effective community outreach. So, what are some of those?

Because I need help for these things that I didn�t learn in seminary that every pastor should know.

Valentine�s Day Father -Daughter Banquet. That�s not bad. Christian Christmas Pageant. I don�t know what that means.

Miss America Pageant. Halloween Festival. Oh, it says

Harvest. Fourth of July Festival. Memorial Day Picnic and Parade. Super Bowl Sunday.

Trip to the local sports game. Local Christian Sports Celebrity Speaker. Now, see, we need that.

I am 45 miles outside of Boston. 70 clicks outside of Boston.

And I cannot get Tom Brady to come here. Are there any Christians on the New England Patriots? Oh, all the ownership is

Christian. Well, maybe one of them would like to come out here. Handling Divorce Seminar. Guest Speaker on Relative Topics.

Relevant Topics. Getting Started in Your Marriage Seminar. Visit to Local Points of Interest.

Tax Planning. That really pulls me in. We�ve got to get to the church for tax planning.

Now, these kids� events. This might really get them into the church. When Faithful Christ -Centered

Exposition. Verse -by -Verse Authorial Intent. Proper Exegesis.

When that doesn�t work, we could try the Taffy Pull with the kids� events.

Now, the Taffy Pull might really work because if you�ve got dentists in the congregation, they need help.

Years ago, my children were making something and Kim has done a great job over the years helping the kids bake and know how to make things.

When I met Kim, she� Not when I met Kim, she. That would be Korean. Cabbage that�s very spicy.

Although I like that. Low -carb too. Low -calorie too. But real picey. She couldn�t hardly cook at all and we�d always go out and then we got kids and she has developed into a great cook.

I have to watch it because I�m on the Auschwitz diet, as Tuesday Guy says. So I have to be careful.

Kim is a great cook, so I just have to have smaller portions. It�s the portion control. You got it?

So then the kids were making homemade taffy. Saltwater taffy. What about saltwater taffy makes it so good?

I particularly like peanut butter saltwater taffy. That�s good. Maybe some Wassermelon.

Some watermelon. That would be good. You don�t have to send anything. I get plenty of peach coffee in the mail.

You don�t have to send any watermelon. I even sometimes get maple syrup in the mail. I have to check it. I have to do a titration analysis on it with some precipitates to make sure there�s no bad things in there.

I have to make the cupbearer taste some before I taste it. And the kids made the taffy.

And they said, �Be careful, Daddy. It�s really� I don�t know what word they say. �Sticky, gooey, and you don�t want it to pull any cavity out.�

And I remember so pridefully saying, �You can tell where all this is going, can�t you ?�

I�m not going to pull my cavities out. I�ve eaten taffy before. You get it at the airport or something, down at the carnival area, the boardwalk.

I�ve eaten taffy before. I started chewing the taffy, and man, it was good.

And sometimes if you buy taffy, there�s nothing in it except the taffy. And other times, there�s little pieces of things, chunks of things, maybe part of a little piece of the fruit or a flick of chocolate or something.

I don�t know. It�s something that�s got a different consistency. It was my filling.

Off to the dentist the next day. That was awful. So now when I eat taffy, I want it to be very, very warm so that it�s not so chewy.

You can do pet shows and races too for kids� events, by the way. Pet races.

Why do the Ramone song, �I don�t want to get buried in a pet cemetery� start coming to my mind right now?

All right, number four. The fourth thing that every pastor should know. Churches should build a minimum of two side doors every year.

Front doors? Side doors? What�s a side door? A church -sponsored program, group, or activity in which a nonmember can come comfortably involved on a regular basis.

You know, so the goats can come and feel good about their goatishness. It is an ongoing function in which a nonmember can develop meaningful and valued relationships with people in the church.

We want side doors that have been created for people who, and then it gives a list of all their, the things that they like to do.

Ride motorcycles, have children in the military, have husbands in jail, are nominal

Jews, enjoy scrapbooking. Now, what do those, do those have anything to, have right next to each other, have husbands in jail and enjoy scrapbooking?

What if you just, or one of those two, not both of those? Enjoy scuba diving, enjoy camping.

Okay. Dropped my phone here, so I better pick it up. No compromise radio.

It's almost time for a wonder word from the great Joe Osteen.

Here's your Best Life Now game. Wonder word. I pull out a card. This is the card.

It's right here. Energy. Energy. That's the wonder word for the day.

Energy. Energy. Don't ever believe your pastor if he said, the word for energy here is dynamic and it means dynamite.

Dunamis. Dan Dumas. Where's Dan Dumas? He's at Southern Seminary where he is.

Have him call me. Have him call my agent. Do some, if you have Dan Dumas, call me or email me.

I'll have him on the radio show. All right? I know who he is, but I don't think he knows who I am. Number five.

For the church to grow, we're looking at what every pastor should know. For the church to grow, each worshiper should have an average of nine or more unchurched friends or family members.

Yeah, but hey, what if I turn them all off with the gospel? Usually, I don't turn them off with the gospel.

I turn them off with me. Number six. Churches that are effective in reaching their community train at least 10 % of their people in friendship evangelism each year.

All right. Did you know there's a teacher -student approach to evangelism, a salesperson -customer approach, and a friend -friend approach?

Number seven. Churches that train members to reach out to unchurched friends and relatives. See, about 12 % of these contacts come to Christ.

Where did it go? Average non -church family friends per member, 8%. Total number of people on prayer list, 96.

What does this have to do with anything? I don't know. Good numbers, though. Now, we have some ministry rules for visitors.

So if you want to really have your church grow, I guess, and you want to be hip. Who sang the song

It's Hip to be Square? Who did that? Was that Huey Lewis in the news? I don't think it was. Who was it?

It's Hip to be Square. I think Elvis Costello, though, was hip even though he came across as a square.

Don't call your visitors visitors. That makes them uncertain, curious, unfamiliar, anxious, uncomfortable.

They don't want to be known as a visitor. Guest is better.

The visitor is defined as a person who resides temporarily, one who goes or comes to inspect, one who makes a short stay at a place for a particular purpose.

Guest, though, defined as a person welcomed into one's house, a person to whom hospitality is extended, a person held in honor who is due special courtesies.

Okay, you know what? I actually like that. Let's call them guests instead of visitors. I like that. See, I can learn.

That's something that you need to know. The visitor label rules got to go. That's number eight.

On a side note, may I encourage you, if you're not a pastor, that when your pastor is busy talking to the visitors, i .e.

guests, on Sunday, if you have an emergency, of course you can talk to your pastor.

And you can wait for him or you can interrupt because it's so emergent. See? Or you can talk to a deacon or an elder.

But remember, probably the pastor is going to focus on the visitors, i .e.

the guests, because I have to change my whole mindset now. My whole paradigm's got to be shifted. And he wants to reach out to them.

I personally think to myself and often try to instruct the people at the church, the members, when visitors come, when guests come,

I like to talk to them and say hello. And my style of preaching is fairly direct.

So I want to be extra kind outside the pulpit. There's a way to talk in the pulpit as a herald, and there's a way to talk as a friend, as a fellow

Christian, brother, sister in Christ, or a visitor. So if you want to always glom on to the pastor after the service and talk to him, would you reconsider that as he is trying to minister to other folks?

And if you want to walk by and shake his hand or say something like that, that's certainly appropriate.

I'm not saying avoid him. But I can think throughout the years there are certain people that hovered around and always had to talk to me after the service who are members of the church.

And it wasn't about an emergency. They just felt obliged to talk to me. And several of them wanted to tell me things that I should do.

Have you called that particular school to see if they'll rent out their building? Or why haven't you done such and such or such and such?

Why didn't you organize that March Against Planned Parenthood? A variety of those things. So they're helpful in that way.

Actually, I usually just say to them, thanks for thinking about that. I'm glad you did. I've got these other things on my radar and have been visiting so -and -so in the hospital.

Just run with it. Go for it. Make it happen. I would much rather tell somebody, you gotta back off and slow down versus get a move on.

So we will start trying to call people at the church guests or welcome guests. Number nine, the 10 minutes immediately following the worship service are the most important minutes in your visitors, in your guests' visit.

Why are they saying visit there? Guest visits are guesting.

It doesn't make sense. But what doesn't even make sense even more, to quote John Gershner, that's the most important part besides preaching the word.

See how upside down this is? Paul writes in 2 Timothy 4, preach the word, doesn't he?

Do you think that's the most important part? Scripture reading, do you think that's the most important part? When you look at 2

Timothy chapter three, what does he say? He says, and how from childhood you have been acquainted with the sacred writings which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ.

All scriptures breathe out by God and is profitable. Chapter four, preach the word.

Now he's called the scriptures sacred writings, scripture, and now he says herald the word.

Why wouldn't he just say herald the sacred scriptures? Herald the sacred writings.

Herald scripture. Well he could, but I think there's a Christological focus there. Herald the word.

In the beginning was the word, and the word was with God, and the word was God. Herald that word

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