2 Samuel 11 The Quest for a Better King

You're listening to a podcast of Recast Church in Matawan, Michigan. This week, Pastor Don Filsak is preaching from his series,

The Warrior Poet King, Study of Second Samuel. Let's listen in. Good morning, and welcome to Recast Church.

I'm Don Filsak. I am the lead pastor here, and we are gathered together this morning in this place to hear from God and to hear from his word.

I love the opportunity that we have to gather together to hear from him. I'm here to listen to him, too.

Of course, I've been studying all week the things that we're going to be listening to, but how many of you know that the word of God does not pull punches?

Have you noticed that? It doesn't try to kid -glove us. It doesn't try to put us into a place where we just kind of feel like we're just cocooned and hugged and held all the time.

If you're reading this word, if you're reading the same Bible that I am, sometimes you walk away a little bit beat up and bruised from it, right?

Anybody know what I'm talking about on that? I mean, a lot of times ... Now, if you look at just the mugs, the verses that make it onto coffee mugs or the verses that make it onto motivational posters, now, those are the hugging kind of, you know, just warm, fuzzy kind of quotes, but the types of passages that I'm preaching on this morning don't often produce many of those poster -type quotes.

You guys know what I'm talking about. The word brings to us ... Of course, it brings encouragement. Praise God for that. It brings to us honesty.

It brings to us conviction, and most importantly, it brings to us what we need most fundamentally, the good news of Jesus Christ, and that is good news.

That is a joy -filled gladness that is brought to us through the Bible, but in the pages of Scripture this morning, we're going to come in contact with a passage that has been set up to intentionally shock us.

The flow of 1 Samuel into 2 Samuel, leading up to chapter 11, is designed to make chapter 11 shocking to our system.

What we're going to read here in just a moment is raw. It is astonishing. It is artistically crafted to make us real and feel disoriented a little bit.

What we're going to read, ironically, when I read it, I want you to pay attention to this. The text avoids emotional language intentionally.

It avoids emotions in order to let the shocking and stark actions of David stand out in contrast.

We're not left with the impressions of how people felt about what he did. We're left with what he did.

If you harbor any notion that the Old Testament is a book of heroes, so that we, you know, your idea of the

Old Testament is a bunch of heroes or role models for us to follow, then this sermon this morning is for you.

It really is for all of us in that it snaps us out of the common problem we all face in this world.

We are all looking for saviors. We are looking for a savior. Every human heart is designed to know that it's not filled, that it needs more than what it can obtain here, but we have a tendency to look at the world around us and look for earthly saviors.

For some of us, it's been hope for political solutions. The hope maybe for some of us is in wise investment, or the hope for family relationships, or the home in actual real world leaders, or the hope in entertainment to numb our minds.

How many of you know that there's all different kinds of false saviors in the world? We all at times are enticed to look to something in this created world to give us peace and comfort.

I would suggest to you in all honesty that David is as good a bet as any. When it comes to places to put your trust, this man was an amazing man.

I would classify him as a renaissance man of sorts, musically gifted, a published author and songwriter, a man of wise judgment, a man with noble calling, a man who was given the title by God Almighty, the

Almighty God said of David, this is a man after my own heart.

In other words, this is a man who loves me and wants to please me. This is a man who seeks after me.

This is a man who is connected to me, says the Almighty God. How many of you think those are some high commendation?

Those are some high words for King David. And then in the last two chapters, we saw him keeping covenants and faithfulness, honoring those who didn't deserve it.

We saw him conquering all of his enemies and it being said of David that wherever he went, the

Lord gave him victory. So when we come to this chapter, we feel like the text has climbed a mountain only to dump us off the other side, falling down the cliff.

If this is the way that a man after God's own heart behaves, then how many of you would say we're in trouble?

Do you know where the text is going? We haven't read it yet, but how many of you know where we're going? We're all in trouble if this is the way that a man after God's own heart behaves.

Can David do the things we're about to read and still be God's man?

Recast church, humanity needed a better king. David is about as good as it gets and he is not a good man.

I don't think you'll disagree with me at the end of this text. Instead, he has been called and brought into the faithful covenant of a sovereign and faithful God.

David is not the savior, but his failure in this text points us all to the desperate need for the one who would be born of his line, who will save his people from their sins.

So let's open our Bibles, if you're not already there, to 2 Samuel chapter 11. And again, 2

Samuel 11, if you've got a device, if you've got one of those scripture journals, turn over into this familiar passage to many of us, but we're going to read this sordid account of the tragic fall of the mighty

King David, 2 Samuel chapter 11. In the spring of the year, the time when kings go out to battle,

David sent Joab and his servants with him in all Israel and they ravaged the Ammonites and besieged

Rabbah. But David remained at Jerusalem. It happened late one afternoon when

David arose from his couch and was walking on the roof of the king's house that he saw from the roof a woman bathing and the woman was very beautiful.

And David sent and inquired about the woman and one said, is this not Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah the

Hittite? So David sent messengers and took her and she came to him and he lay with her.

Now she had been purifying herself from her uncleanness, then she returned to her house and the woman conceived and she sent and told

David, I am pregnant. So David sent word to Joab, send me

Uriah the Hittite and Joab sent Uriah to David. When Uriah came to him, David asked how Joab was doing and how the people were doing and how the war was going.

Then David said to Uriah, go down to your house and wash your feet. And Uriah went out of the king's house and there followed him a present from the king.

But Uriah slept at the door of the king's house with all the servants of his lord and did not go down to his house.

When they told David, Uriah did not go down to his house, David said to Uriah, have you not come from a journey? Why did you not go down to your house?

Uriah said to David, the ark and Israel and Judah dwell in booths and my lord Joab and the servants of my lord are camping in the open field.

Shall I then go to my house to eat and to drink and to lie with my wife? As you live and as your soul lives,

I will not do this thing. Then David said to Uriah, remain here today also and tomorrow

I will send you back. So Uriah remained in Jerusalem that day and the next. And David invited him and he ate in his presence and drank so that he made him drunk.

And in the evening he went out to lie on his couch with the servants of his lord. But he did not go down to his house.

In the morning David wrote a letter to Joab and sent it by the hand of Uriah. And the letter he wrote set

Uriah in the forefront of the hardest fighting and the drawback from him that he may be struck down and die.

And as Joab was besieging the city, he assigned Uriah to the place where he knew there were valiant men and the men of the city came out and fought with Joab and some of the servants of David among the people fell.

Uriah the Hittite also died. Then Joab sent and told David all the news about the fighting and he instructed the messenger, when you have finished telling all the news about the fighting to the king, then if the king's anger arises and if he says to you, why did you go so near to the city to fight?

Did you not know that they would shoot from the wall? Who killed Abimelech the son of Jerebosheth? Did not a woman cast an upper millstone on him from the wall so that he died at Thebes?

Why did you go so near the wall? Then you shall say, your servant Uriah the Hittite is dead also.

So the messenger went and came and told David all that Joab had sent him to tell. The messenger said to David, the men gathered an advantage over us and came out against us in the field, but we drove them back to the entrance of the gate.

Then the archer shot at your servant from the wall. Some of the king's servants are dead and your servant

Uriah the Hittite is dead also. David said to the messenger, thus shall you say to Joab, do not let this matter displease you, for the sword devours now one and now another.

Strengthen your attack against the city and overthrow it and encourage him. When the wife of Uriah heard that Uriah her husband was dead, she lamented over her husband.

And when the morning was over, David sent and brought her to his house and she became his wife and bore him a son.

But the thing that David had done displeased the Lord. Let's pray.

Father, I pray that an appropriate unsettledness would hit our hearts, an appropriate weight would strike us in these moments where we are intended not to merely look outside of ourselves to the heart of another man, but we are meant to look into our own chest to look at what we're made of, to look what we are capable of.

Father, it's a heavy thing to think about the egregiousness of the sins of David.

It's another thing to think about him being declared a man after your own heart in light of these things.

So, Father, I pray that you would open our eyes to our own frailty, open our own eyes to our own desperate darkness that is within our own souls and within our own hearts, the very sins that we are capable of.

Father, I pray that you would meet us here in this place not merely for conviction, not merely for an assessment of the darkness of our own hearts, but then the glory of the salvation that has been given to us in your

Son. We are so unworthy of your grace.

We are so unworthy of your kindness. We are unworthy of the very next breath we will take here in this gathering, and yet your mercy continues day after day after day.

Let that settle on us, Father, your mercy, your grace, your compassion towards sinners like us.

Let it ignite our hearts with passion, with zeal, with gladness, not just another

Sunday, not just another bank of songs to sing before we listen to your word and go to lunch.

Meet us here in this place, Father. I recognize that there are some here right in the throes of darkness, caught by their sin and about to be hung by it.

Father, I pray that you would meet each one of us right where we're at, strengthen the arms that are weak, and bring grace to the heart that is in desperate need.

We ask this in Jesus' name. All right, yeah, you can go to be seated, and I do encourage you to keep your

Bibles open to 2 Samuel chapter 11. We're going to walk through that passage together, and like I say, every week if at any time during the message you need to get up and get more coffee or juice or donuts, take advantage of that.

You're not going to distract me if you need to get up or use the restroom out the double doors down the hallway on the left -hand side, but again, just in your device or in your

Bible, if you have a scripture journal or whatever, keep it open to 2 Samuel as we're going to walk through that.

There are a few different ways we could organize the passage that's in front of us today. One way would be to look at the sin at the start and then the cover up and kind of see two big chunks of it.

Another way is to follow the text as it bounces back and forth geographically between Jerusalem and Rabbah.

Different scholars have organized it in different ways, have seen different outlines. There's also a unique way to do this, and that's where the pace picks up and slows down and picks up and slows down in the dialogue, and so some people have seen that.

I'm going to do it this way. I'm going to give us four points this morning and get those to you at the start.

It's going to be about David and his relationships with different individuals. In verses 2 through 5, we're going to see

David and his relationship to Bathsheba, or David and Bathsheba. Then in verses 6 through 13, we're going to be seeing

David and Uriah, 13 through 25, David and Joab, and then wrap it up in 26 and 27 with David and God.

How does David relate to these four persons? We will see that here in the text. Let's begin by jumping in the deep end and consider the way that David related to Bathsheba here in the text.

How many of you are familiar with this story? Just curious, go ahead and raise your hand. Keep it up for just a second. If you've heard this story before, you know it.

I think many of us have heard sermons on it. You've thought about it before, and it is kind of a stereotypical message, but it's one of the centerpieces of, obviously, the book of 2

Samuel. Verse 1 sets us up with the context, understanding what's going on around and swirling around these events.

It's likely that the opening phrase gives a timeframe of about a year since the end of chapter 10, where it says, in the springtime of the year when kings go out to war.

There's a little bit of a time designation in the Hebrew language there that gives an indication that it's about the same time as the last attack and the last battle that happened in the last chapter.

A year has transpired, and we're back at it again. Remember that David has unfinished business in the eminent capital of Rabbah.

He sent a delegation there to offer condolences to the new king over the death of his father, the father being

Nahash, the son being Hanun. Nahash has died. He sends a delegation to comfort Hanun in the death of his father, the king.

But Hanun, who is now the new king of Ammon, shamed David's delegation, shaved off half of their beards, and cut off the backside of their robes and sent them home in that condition to shame them.

The result is, of course, an ongoing war. We saw the first battle of the war last week that resulted in David conquering

Ammon's allies, Syria and Zobah. They came to defend Ammon, and David wiped them out, went home, took a year off, and now is sending his troops back.

A year has passed. David is now sending his military under the command of Joab to finish what the

Ammonite king started in shaming his sons. So all that's the context. But the Israelite military, it says in the text here in verse 1, ravaged the

Ammonites and now has set siege to their capital. They're going in to basically finish this entire affront to their name.

But David remained at Jerusalem. And there's been a lot mentioned about that in commentaries and in Bible studies and all of that.

David remained in Jerusalem. We know that Saul, I mean, to put this in perspective, you can go back to Saul who is not painted in a good light in scripture.

But we have King Saul, the predecessor to King David, who needed to be replaced with King David. We have him leading the

Israelites to war against the Ammonites, going out in armor, going out with a sword, going out in battle.

We see Saul lead the Israelites against the Philistines. We see Saul and his son Jonathan were so involved in wars and battles, actually physically present leading the troops, that they lost their lives in a battle on the slopes of Mount Gilboa.

It was common. I only point that out to just say that it was extremely commonplace in this time and this era for a king to go out militarily to lead.

Now, how many of you know, just from what you know about David in scripture, that David was a mighty military commander? And he was good with a sword.

He was good with a sling. Every indication is that he was a mighty man in battle and he is not going out to lead.

It was not common for a king to hang back from battles in this era.

I think it's fair to say that the text means for us to see David in a complacent state when we come to chapter 11.

He is likely allowed, I'm speculating a little bit here, but I believe he's likely allowed some of his nobility to cloud his judgment.

And so verse 2 has David, I think the language here is intentional. He's getting up late in the afternoon from his siesta to go up on the roof and check out his kingdom.

Now, how many of you know that his troops are out in battle against Rabbah and he's got to kind of get himself up off the couch to see what's going on?

Are you getting the picture here? And that's when it happens. That's when he spies her,

Bathsheba taking a bath. And the text lets us know unequivocally that she was beautiful.

It's interesting that the Hebrew language is more precise than English when it comes to some of these kinds of descriptors like beauty.

They have a word that accounts for internal beauty and a word that has more of an external beauty.

Any guess what word is used here in that context? It is the external beauty. Bathsheba was easy to look at is what the text is saying.

Now some have been critical and I want to nip this in the bud. I want to cut any lines of thought that you might have right now running in this direction.

Some have been critical of her bathing within eyesight of the king's palace. But I want to be clear that this text does not go down that rabbit hole at all.

There is no question that the text does not waver in blaming David for this entire scenario.

This is David. This is his problem. He is, in the text of scripture, the guilty party here.

Her actions, of course, I want to just clarify for you, her actions and behavior are not above scrutiny.

But in this context where she is about to be raped, it is not the best place to address modesty and propriety.

We should save those discussions for the much more tame pastoral epistles where Paul encourages internal adornment of good works for women versus dressing in a way that gets external attention.

Save it for 1 Timothy. Don't bring it into your thoughts about 2

Samuel. This text is not at all about modesty. Do you hear me? This is not a text about modesty.

David sent servants to inquire as to her identity, the identity of the pretty lady on the roof. And she is introduced to us as Bathsheba.

And she has introduced all the words here matter, all the words with intention. She is introduced by her name,

Bathsheba. She is a human being who bears a name. And she also has a father. Who knew?

She's introduced as the daughter of Eliam. Why? Because the text wants to make sure that we put her in the context of a family.

She has people. She's the daughter of Eliam. She is the wife of Uriah the

Hittite. A name that's going to come up later in literally at the very end of 2 Samuel, David's 30 most powerful military commanders are going to be named, and he's one of them.

He's in the top 30 of all of David's soldiers. That's this guy. And Bathsheba is his wife.

Go ahead and raise your hand if you agree with me that this is where the story should end. Raise your hand.

Is this where the story should end? Please, oh please, raise your hands, church. We want the story to end here, do we not?

Don't we wish that this is where it stopped? Don't we wish that this is where David said, wife, daughter, done.

Go back and take a nap. Take a cold shower. Do something different. We want the story to end here.

May God grant all of us, church, I pray for you, may God grant all of us to have more times where this is where the story ends on our temptations, amen?

May this be where it stops. I want to make a big point of this, because I believe that this very verse here where we're talking about her being a daughter, and naming her father, and naming her husband,

I believe that this is a 1 Corinthians 10 .13 kind of passage. I want you to write that down.

I want you to jot that reference down, and I really want to challenge you to memorize it. I want you to memorize 1

Corinthians 10 .13. It states this, no temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man.

What's he saying there? What's Paul writing to the Corinthians there? He's saying that you've never been tempted by anything that others haven't.

Any temptation that's ever struck you, others have felt it too. You're not the first one to experience any novel temptation.

Others feel it, but God is faithful. I like how the attention turns directly from the sin to God, the

God who holds us, the God who we trust. God is faithful. He will not let you be tempted beyond your ability.

In other words, you've never faced a temptation that you couldn't have said no to. You have always had no as an option by the power of God, by the faithfulness of God.

With the temptation, God, he will also provide the way of escape that you may be able to endure it.

Always provide an exit ramp. Always provide a way out. Church, God will always give you an opportunity to get out of your sin.

God here, I believe in the text, is faithfully providing David what he needs to be jogged awake from this very temptation.

She is a man's daughter. She is one of his most mighty military officers' wives. David is being offered a very stark reminder of where this road goes if it goes any further.

There's a name for it. It is adultery at best. And God is giving him a chance to say no.

He's giving him a chance to say no. And yet, we move on to the text.

And David acts with the staccato, I call it staccato verbs of sin, quick, short, he sends, he takes, he lays with.

Pretty, pretty succinct. Takes, sends for, takes and lays with.

Verse four, hits our ears with pace, with intention. The text speeds up and slows down for emphasis and here the author is artistically conveying the frenzy that sin often represents in our lives.

Quick, heated, impulsive, not thought through, just done. How many of you can relate? Staccato verbs of sin.

He did this, he then did this, he then did this. And let me be clear, church. This is, what we're encountering here in the text is an unquestionable abuse of power.

We talk about the sin of adultery with David and how many of you ever heard of David's adultery? Raise your hand if you've heard of David's adultery.

How many of you have heard of David's rape? It's not a word we use very often for it, but it's what's happening.

It is not just merely, it is not just merely the sin of adultery.

Nothing in the text rules out rape as the category of this event. He sends for a married woman and nothing in this text implies that she wanted anything to do with him or anything to do with this.

This is a horrendous account of King David and it seems to come at us out of the blue in the text with intention.

Well ask yourself honestly in your own heart, why are we surprised when people fall and fail? Why is it always that the person who killed the serial killer's next door neighbor goes, well no, he was actually a pretty good guy?

Every interview always looks like that, doesn't it? It's always like, no, no, I don't know, he just seemed to love his wife and kids and was normal.

Why are we surprised when people fail? I think it's because our hearts long to believe that there is true honor, there is true nobility, there is true beauty.

If we're not careful, we will place our hope for those things in the wrong place. Many of us have a place you could place all of your trust and all of your eggs in a place like a pastor or a father or a mother or a grandparent or an athlete or even a biblical character.

But David's fall is recorded for us to make sure we understand that he, David, is not the beauty.

He is not the honorable. He is not the measure of nobility. There is only one person under heaven who is true, who is honorable, who is noble and genuinely full of beauty, and his name is

Jesus Christ. Fix your eyes on him. The only hope, the only place that beauty can truly be found.

Well notice the devastating end of verse four. This breaks my heart. Then she returned to her house.

She returned to her house. She's cast off like a used garment. Now she gets to go home and consider the rest of her life having been defiled by her king.

Have you thought about her in this story? Have you considered this poor woman?

What defilement, what misery, what darkness? What kind of thoughts would you be thinking?

What kind of things would be running through your head? What will Uriah think? What if he finds out?

He can't find out. He can't know. I will die with this and I will not let a soul know.

Can you imagine the pain? Can you imagine the heartache as she goes home to her own house and to her own bed?

The author seems to silence, by the way, I just evoked emotion in you, and the text is silent about any of that, isn't it?

Did the text tell you how she felt? No? Nope, because that's not the point. The author seems to silence all emotions in this text to put a more sharp spotlight on David's actions, what he does.

We, of course, are much more concerned with the feelings. We are moved and thoughtful in the realm of emotions because that's where the drama lies.

Let's be honest. In the feelings is often for us where we think the guilt lies. This is where the justification of our own hearts lie, does it not?

But I felt so hurt. I felt so lonely. I felt so... How many justifications for sin begin with the words,

I felt? Do they not all? I felt so hurt, and you can imagine why

I responded the way that I did. I was feeling all of these deep feelings, so I had to act on them to be true to myself.

Is that not the battle cry of our culture? The feelings. Justification of sin almost always includes emotions.

Bathsheba wanted David, didn't she? Well, the text doesn't say. The text is silent to her feelings in this.

Joab headed out for Uriah and was glad to see him gone. Nope, doesn't say so in the text.

The text doesn't give us any of the way that people are feeling about these events. Just the raw data of sin in all of its ugly darkness.

There laid bare for us the actions, the behaviors. We are forced to take in the behavior without the benefit of seeing how people felt because, hear me carefully, church, sin is of its own nature devastating, regardless of how people feel about it.

Regardless of how people feel about it, it is devastating. Sin is not merely defined like our culture defines it as hurting someone's feelings.

Is that not the primary way that we conceive of sin in our culture today? Well, if it doesn't hurt anybody, it's okay.

It's fine as long as everybody's in agreement. We invented the idea that this is a better scenario if she consented and was into David.

You get what I'm saying? How many of you just can picture that? It's better if she was okay with it and kind of wanted him.

You get what I'm saying? Is that not what our culture tells us? Just two consenting adults, right, doing what comes natural to them.

Oh, she was good with it. Oh, she was kind of glad to get with the king. Oh, okay, okay, I get it.

No, no, no, church. Sin is actions and thoughts that are in opposition to God's good plan and God's good design.

Full stop. That is sin. Well, in Devastation, Bathsheba's only granted two words in the entire text of this account.

They're in verse 5, and yes, in English, there are three words. In Hebrew, just two words. What are they?

I'm pregnant. It's the only thing she says. I'm pregnant.

David has abused his power. He has raped a married woman. And she is now pregnant.

This is a fact from these five verses, and it is with intention that she is identified as the woman in verse 5.

The author is not playing around with words. He's intentional. The woman. She has not been treated as Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam, the wife of Uriah.

She has been treated as an object for the gratification of the lust of the king of Israel.

How does David relate to Bathsheba? He treats her as an object.

Full stop. On verses 6 through 13, we see David relating to Uriah, her husband.

He immediately sets in motion a big cover -up. If he can get Uriah to sleep with his wife, obviously, I don't even hardly need to state it, then just maybe the whole problem will go away.

So David demonstrates that he has no intention to an ongoing relationship with Bathsheba. How could he?

She's married. But even just in the attempted cover -up, it displays his treatment of her as an object.

He has no intention of any type of ongoing relationship with this woman. There is no doubt that he has just merely used her, even in the method and the way that he seeks to cover it up.

Well, we're going to just let her get with her husband. Everything's going to go okay. They're going to stay married. Nobody's going to spill the beans.

It's all going to be good. Can you see the horrendous logic that sin has caused in David's mind?

Uriah, of course, is out with the military. He's one of David's most powerful men. He's out at the siege of Rabbah, and he's sent for, and he comes back to Jerusalem at his king's bidding.

David pretends to be interested in an eyewitness account of the battle, asking Uriah questions in verse 7, just kind of heaping on for us, as we know what's really going on, just how grotesque all of this attempted cover -up really is.

We know it's all an act. We know what has just happened. We know why he summoned Uriah. But then he proceeds to pretend to ask questions of Uriah for an eyewitness account of the battlefield.

David first attempts a gentle nudge for Uriah to go home, clean up, and spend the night there with his wife. He even sent along with Uriah a present, a gift.

I wonder if there's a little bit of guilt going on in David. We see King David grasping for control while his world is spinning out of control due to the wickedness he has allowed to control him.

He gave in to his lust in a moment of laziness and boredom, and the consequence of sin is now running the show.

I think all of us have been there at some point in our lives where we've felt like things were kind of careening out of control because we told a lie, because we have something that we've done wrong that has to be multiplied, sin upon sin, to try to cover it up.

And I want to point out a reality that is worth just a moment of our time here this morning. And that is just simply to state the obvious, what

I hope is obvious to you anyways, we cannot control the consequences of our sin. We don't get to choose the consequences.

Sin grows as we see it in this text. Sin is notorious for leading us down the road of unintended consequences.

I didn't mean for that to happen. On its surface, it promises peace, pleasure, relaxation, and even an easy cover -up.

Oh, it'll be easy to just push that aside. But David is here trying to manage what will not be managed, what will not be contained.

Well, Uriah proves to be a more noble man than David, at least on this front. He sleeps in the servants' quarters by the door of the palace and refuses to go down to his house in comfort.

The dialogue slows to emphasize the honor of Uriah in contrast to the severe and grotesque dishonor that David is weaving together here.

Verses 10 and 11 are long verses of dialogue, and Uriah says that his military buddies are out sleeping in tents during a siege.

He cannot enjoy a meal at home and time with his wife while even the Ark of the Covenant is out exposed in a tent.

He says, by your life, David, I will not do this thing and go to my house. Now David had to pull himself up off the couch to go catch a glimpse of Uriah's beautiful wife bathing, while Uriah refuses everyday comforts and solidarity with his fellow soldiers.

Are you seeing a contrast here? So Uriah remained a couple of days more at the king's command, and David gets

Uriah smashed, says it in the text. And even drunken Uriah, hear me carefully church, even drunken

Uriah proves to be more noble than sober David in this account. And by the way,

David sins in getting Uriah drunk too. It's a sin. But sandwiched between adultery and murder,

I can understand why this sin often gets overlooked. But it is sad to see how many sins

David is compounding for the sake of a few minutes of pleasure. The conclusion of David and Uriah is that Uriah is too noble for David's cover -up.

But no worries. No worries on David's part. David is creative. As a man who has grown used to power, he knows there is always another way to get what you want.

Enter the third movement of the text, David and his relationship to Joab. He'll have

Joab jump in and help. David wrote to his commander, who is obviously also his confidant.

He's oblivious to the events, but he's being brought in. And by Uriah's own hand, he sends instructions to Joab to make sure

Uriah dies and that it looks like an accident. As Dale Davis observes in his commentary on this passage,

I want to remind you of the good, because right now some of you maybe haven't been here to hear the entire buildup of this story, how great

David is. How amazing is David, the youth with the sling in his hand and the fallen giant, the one who was used by God in mighty and powerful ways.

The same man, says Dale Davis, that put Mephibosheth at his table puts Uriah in his grave.

That's the same man. That's the same heart. That's the same human being, the same person that put

Mephibosheth at his table puts Uriah in his grave. So let me pause here and ask an honest, honest question.

I think the text wants everyone to pause right now from whatever you're thinking about. It might be lunch, it might be how your week is coming up and the busyness or whatever, but I want you to pause for just a moment and listen.

How broken and divided is your heart? How broken and divided is the human heart in general?

We are capable of acts of great sacrifice and great heroism and also of great depths of darkness.

A man sleeps with another man's wife and a man can also jump on a hand grenade to save his whole platoon and it can be the same man.

It could be the same man. We are a mixed bag of internal warring, are we not?

Anybody besides me want to raise your hand and just say, I agree with that. A mixed bag of internal warring.

Should we be surprised that David could do these things? Now the sins of David that he commits here seem very egregious.

They seem very heinous in our eyes and yet the designation that God gives him as a man after his own heart is truthful.

How can that be? There's a certain world view that won't allow for that.

There's a certain way of viewing the world that says that I am earning my way to salvation so if I think of my salvation resting on my shoulders then

I can't have a David that's both a man after God's own heart and able to do these things because I don't believe in grace.

But if grace is true and we are saved by the act of God and his will and his desire to call us up out of our sin and our brokenness to redeem us, now we're talking.

God is recording this for a stark and honest consideration of our condition, church. This is a good man who loves

God doing wicked and horrible and egregious things. Joab obeys the command of King David and he assigned

Uriah a place of battle against the most valiant men of Ammon and in the fray Uriah is felled by an arrow and he died.

Uriah is dead. We know that Uriah was murdered.

Look with me at verse 17 to see how bad it gets. Some of the servants of David fell there too that day.

David has used his military men as pawns of his cover up. This is an intense text for the depth of the darkness that we find here.

Again the dialogue slows in order to emphasize this interplay between David and Joab. Joab sends a messenger back to David and covers for himself.

Now Joab is worried about what's David going to say about his military strategy, getting a bunch of guys killed.

So he makes sure that David doesn't question his military strategy. What has he done, what he has done, he has done to make sure that David's rules and David's instructions were followed.

Uriah is dead. So the messenger makes it clear that they got too close to the walls and the archers took out some of David's men including

Uriah. He has to make sure that the messenger includes that tidbit. And so David sends back to Joab a chilling and empty encouragement to Joab.

What the ESV has is do not let this matter displease you, Joab. But it's a little bit stronger than that in the

Hebrew. The Hebrew language basically literally translated says do not let this be evil in your eyes,

Joab. Don't let this be evil in your eyes. Don't stress about it. Don't worry about it. Don't ascribe evil to it.

Just, it's a thing. It's a thing that happened. David says the sword devours now one and now another,

Joab. You're a man of military just like me. Sometimes on some bad days some military guys die.

Joab knows that it's true. He's a military man. He knows that some days you have losses.

He's experienced that as a military guy just like David. But that is not what just happened. Joab knows it.

He knows that they just intentionally assured that a man would die in battle which is murder. They have strategically taken the life of a loyal and mighty officer of David's military.

Well David's moments of selfish pleasure have launched spiraling consequences. Bathsheba is pregnant. Uriah is dead.

Joab is now complicit. Other men of David's army are dead and David has performed the perfect cover up.

The issue is now resolved. Everybody's gonna assume that this is Uriah's child conceived before he left for the war.

We're good. Except that's not where the text ends. In verses 26 and 27, we see the relationship between David and God here to wrap up.

This text is all about David. I think you see it. I mean you see that David is the actor in this.

David is doing. David is relating to different people. His actions are attempting to control things.

But God has been silent in the text but he has not been absent from the text.

And in verse 26, Bathsheba has not even afforded her name. No, she is the wife of Uriah.

And when she heard that her husband was dead, she lamented over the death of her husband. Now what you need to understand to help clarify, well here's the emotion in the text, right?

Here's what ties us very clearly to Bathsheba not wanting anything to do with any of this.

She lamented and was sad over her husband but what you need to understand is that there was a formal prescription of seven days of formal lament for a wife after the death of her husband during this

Old Testament era, well documented. Every wife was supposed to put on black sackcloth.

She was supposed to mourn for a given number of days. Even if she didn't feel it in her heart, she's gonna mourn?

We cannot see anything, in other words, of Bathsheba's heart in any of this. Of course much of the emotion of the text is merely speculation and our hearts go out to her.

Maybe she hated her husband. Maybe she was looking forward to some high living in the palace with the king. We just don't know. Maybe she didn't really want to be married to a soldier who has gone for long periods of time.

We just don't know. The text just doesn't tell us and we need to be careful drawing conclusions from the text that the text doesn't reveal.

But what we do know is this. She is brought to David and becomes his wife.

And what we also know is more fundamental than that. The thing that David did was evil in Yahweh's eyes.

In verse 25 I made a point of saying David told Joab don't let this be evil in your eyes but David is worried about the wrong eyes.

Do you see it? He's worried about Joab, the only other person that's in on it.

Don't hold this against me. Don't see this as evil. Don't see this as wicked. It's just kind of like a thing that happens in battle and I just needed to get rid of the guy.

You don't even need to know why. I don't really want to get into the details but we needed your eye out of the way. Thanks for being a part of it.

Move along, be encouraged, take the city. He's worried about the wrong eyes.

He has forgotten about the God who sees. The God who knows.

David thinks he has performed an amazing cover up but there is one who can never be snowed, church. You know him. He can never be snowed.

The one that matters most will never be fooled by our greatest attention to cover things up.

Never. He'll never be fooled. This is a devastating passage of David's sudden and epic plunge into sin.

Is it David's first sin? No. Is it a particular egregious sin? Yes. The text takes us over the cliff with him and if we feel gross by the end of chapter 11, it's because we should.

So how we apply this text is up to the spirit and where we're at in our lives. I prayed all week that God would just, would nail us all down on this text.

Where are we at? I hope that there's very few of you who say, wow, this is a timely message. I guess I'll cancel those plans to have an affair this week.

We don't know whether we're supposed to laugh about that or not. I kind of meant it to be mildly funny because I really hope it's not the case or I guess

I better not cover that sin up with murder this week. I mean, I don't think that that's going to be the natural application for any of us.

I hope not, but my hunch is that all of us have a point in our life of sin and that we're there that God may want to work on something in us through this passage.

There might be something that his spirit would just put a finger on and say, that is the thing.

That is the thing that's going to take you down. That is the thing that is going to crush you. So let me say that there's three suggestions here for application.

While allowing room for the Holy Spirit to work in your life to draw an application that I'm not saying, ask him to speak to you this morning.

The first thing that I want to point out to you is look for God's way out. Look for God's way out.

I believe that God is faithful to provide a way out of sin for his children. Watch for it, church. The exit ramp sometimes comes up really fast, but it is always there.

I've observed this in my own life. And if you have an attitude that believes that God will provide a way out, you will be more primed to recognize it when it arrives.

If you believe and trust 1 Corinthians 10, 13, that he will provide a way out so that you can stand up under any temptation, all the common temptations that will strike you in a given day, in a given week.

Take the exit ramp that God provides when you are tempted. He will faithfully provide a way out so that you can stand up under all temptation.

He provided it for David. David chose not to take it. Observe where that goes.

Not a place you want to be. The second application has come to an honest and deep humility.

This text is not meant to make us look at David and go, wow, that's a bad guy. The sins of David can seem to be so heavy that we could be tempted to give ourselves credit for never sleeping with somebody else's wife and using murder to cover it up.

But the point of the passage is not how bad the specifics of David's sins are here, but the point is his position of deep blessing.

It is his position as a man after God's own heart that has me tripped up this week.

If David is capable of this, then what are we capable of, church? I'm not stronger than David.

I'm not better than David. I'm not more moral than David. Are you? Answer that in your heart.

Are you? Would it be written of you, man after God's own heart?

Would it be written of you, woman after God's own heart? How many giants have you killed?

How many psalms have you written? How much of this book has your name attached to it?

In humility, church, thank God for rescuing you. He only works with sinners.

It's the only people he has to work with. It's his only option. And so ask him for strength to stand up under the day of temptation.

My hope for victory is in his spirit and his strength, or I will fail.

Lastly, consider what this text means. For our need and his great gift of a better king.

David is not our hope, and if he was before, he's not after. As a matter of fact, no other human can be our hope.

This text exists to shatter any notion that any other person can be your hope.

Jesus came to be the perfect sinless sacrifice to die for our disgusting sin. So that he can give us clean garments in exchange for those garments stained with sin.

So if you've asked Jesus Christ to rescue you from your sin, then let me encourage you to come to the tables to remember what he did in order to rescue us.

Take the cracker to remember his body broken for us, and take the juice to remember his blood that dripped down the cross from his pierced hands and feet for us, because he loves us.

Not because we're worthy, not because we deserved it, but because of his great desire to show his grace to us.

How can he love sinners like us, church? I'm not sure I will ever fully understand why he would give up so much for someone like me.

But he loved us enough to rescue us from the consequences of our sin against him. Let's pray.

Father, I recognize that this sermon hits us all in different ways, but probably all of us are probably trending towards the downer side of things.

Trending towards the negative, trending towards the discouragement and the recognition of what our hearts are capable of.

And maybe even some of us are left with a level of fear in our lives. If David could do these things later in his life, maybe we could too.

And so, Father, we throw ourselves over on your mercy. I pray that you would allow us to take this on, to be a people who are more prone to, not prone to wander, but prone to stick close to you, to keep short accounts of our sins.

To not allow even the littlest of sins to go unconfessed in. I pray that, Father, by your power and by your strength, you would bring those things to mind to keep us in tight relationship with you.

Our only hope is in you to do that. I can't even remember every sin I've committed in the last 24 hours to confess them to you, so it can't be on my confession or I'm in trouble.

It's not in my memory. It's not in my mouth to say enough to earn your salvation.

It is by your grace and your grace alone. So I pray that you would help each one here to lean heavy into you.

Keep our eyes open for those exit ramps that you provide. To enter into relationships with others with humility, recognizing that we're all made out of the same stuff.

To thank you daily, moment by moment, for the better King that you sent to rescue us from our sins.

I pray that you would protect anyone here. We say it jokingly, but, Father, I don't know where people are at.

I ask that you would be with anyone here who is about to throw their marriage away, about to throw their life away for some other woman, some other man.

The specifics of this are clearly about sexual sin, but we know that there's so many different places for us to slip up.

The table seems to be sloped in many directions. Father, I pray that you would hold us in your love, hold us in your care, and hold us in our desire.

You promise, you promise, Father, blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be satisfied.

Father, I pray that you would create within us all a hunger and a thirst for righteousness.

Let that be the baseline of us. Let that be that we would be men after your own heart, women after your own heart.

Father, that could be said true of us, that at the core of our beings, we long to be with you. We long to please you.