The Grace of Gratitude (Colossians 3:15-17) | Worship Service

Thanksgiving and the Peace of Christ

The first eight verses, I will give thanks to Yahweh with all my heart. I will recount all your wondrous deeds. I will be glad and exult in you. I will sing praise to your name O Most High. When my enemies turn back, they stumble and perish before you.

For you have maintained my justice and my cause. You have sat on the throne judging righteously. You have rebuked the nations. You have made the wicked perish. You have blotted out their name forever and ever.

The enemy has come to an end in perpetual ruins and you have uprooted their cities. The very memory of them has perished. But Yahweh abides forever. He has established his throne for judgment and he will judge the world in righteousness.

He will render justice for the peoples with equity. This is the Word.

Of the Lord. Will you please stand and sing? Just have two announcements for you this.

Morning. The first is that we have a Thanksgiving dinner that is coming up here on Thanksgiving Day and if you want to participate with that and be a part of a few families who gather here for that meal, then there's a sign-up sheet on the table out in the foyer.

Make sure that you let somebody know that you are planning to come to that. And then second, Tuesday following this Tuesday is a movie night here where we're going to be showing the movie that was somewhat filmed here at Kootenai Community Church with our cessationist conference and that's going to be followed up with sort of a big announcement of a sequel to that.

So you'll want to show up on November the 28th, that's a Tuesday night for that movie and you'll notice a lot of familiar people that were here for the conference. If you were here for the conference, it doesn't mean you've seen the movie.

In fact, if you were here for the conference, you haven't seen the movie because nothing from the conference is actually in the movie. Entirely different. So show up for the conference part two. Turn with me now please to Colossians chapter 3.

Colossians chapter 3. Colossians 3 and we're going to read together the first 17 verses. Colossians 3. Therefore if you have been raised up with Christ, keep seeking the things above where Christ is seated at the right hand of God.

Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth. For you have died and your life is hidden with Christ in God. When Christ, who is our life, is revealed, then you also will be revealed with him in glory.

Therefore consider the members of your earthly body as dead to immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and greed, which amounts to idolatry. For it is because of these things that the wrath of God will come upon the sons of disobedience, and in them you also once walked when you were living in them.

But now you also put them all aside. Anger, wrath, malice, slander, and abusive speech from your mouth. Do not lie to one another since you laid aside the old self with its evil practices and have put on the new self who is being renewed to a true knowledge according to the image of the one who created him.

A renewal in which there is no distinction between Greek and Jew, circumcised and uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave, and free man. But Christ is all and in all. So as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, bearing with one another and forgiving each other.

Whoever has a complaint against anyone, just as the Lord forgave you, so also should you. Beyond all these things put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity. Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body, and be thankful.

Let the Word of Christ richly dwell within you with all wisdom, teaching, and admonishing one another with psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with thankfulness in your hearts to God. Whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through him to God the Father.

Will you stand with me as we pray? Let's bow our heads. Our Father, we have so much to be grateful for. We are commanded in this passage to give you our thanks, to sing with thankfulness in our hearts, to be thankful in the peace and in our worship, in the unity that we have in the body of Christ.

We are grateful for the many blessings you have lavished upon us. We are an undeserving, and in fact ill-deserving, people whom you have granted salvation and brought to a knowledge of the Savior that we may honor and glorify you.

And then you have given to us every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places. You have promised us a kingdom. You have promised us glorified bodies and new heavens and a new earth. And you have promised us an inheritance in and with the saints forevermore.

And these are just the spiritual blessings that we enjoy. You have also lavished upon us every undeserved physical blessing that we take for granted even now. The health that we enjoy, the physical blessings of homes, of this place to gather and to worship, the fellowship that we enjoy one with another, of the means to get to this place of worship, food in our stomachs and clothes on our backs, the copies of your Word in our own hands, in our own tongue.

We thank you for these. You are gracious and good to us beyond measure. And even while some of us here are in illness and some of us are in want, we thank you that we are never truly in need because you provide all of our needs.

And even the times of thin provision is not without your purpose and is always done with our good and your glory in mind. And so we thank you that we can trust you, our great and providing God. We thank you that we can love you and worship you, our King.

We pray that you would be honored and glorified through our worship and our giving of thanks here today in Christ's.

Name. Amen.

Oh, as the Lord he chastens his bliss-dressing, sing praises to his name. As the Lord he chastens his bliss-dressing, sing praises to his name. My shepherd I shall not want. In green pastures he makes me lie down.

He restores my soul and leads me on. For his name is great. Surely beside me, oh my, and I will dwell. Prepare a table. The end of time is at my door. I'll trust you, surely. And even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, your house...

Scripture, is it one from Ephesians supposed to be up there? Oh, sorry. There we go.

Ephesians 3 and the Love of Christ

Ephesians 3 verses 14 through 19. For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named, that he would give you, according to the riches of his glory, to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in the inner man, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith, and that you, being rooted, firmly rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge, that.

You may be filled up to all the fullness of God. In your copy of God's Word, will you.

Please turn to Colossians chapter 3. Colossians chapter 3. When you found your place, let's bow together and ask the Lord's blessing upon our time before we begin our study. Our Father, we pray that our hearts and minds would be open to your truth, that you would illuminate us with the glory of Christ, his mercy toward us, all the many ways in which we can and ought to be thankful.

We pray that you would speak to us in your Word, for it is in your Word that we have a sure and certain revelation of you, our great Father, of your Son, the Lord Jesus Christ, the eternal Word, and the eternal Spirit who ministers your Word to our hearts.

So we pray that you would use your Word to accomplish every good purpose in us, develop in us Christ-likeness, conform us to the image of Christ, and show us this morning how it is that we may walk in that image and in the truth of your Word, we pray in Christ's name.

Amen. When we almost universally recognize that gratitude and thankfulness are virtues, it's not something that comes to us naturally. In fact, it is something that we have to teach our children, thankfulness and gratitude.

Children do not come out of the womb thankful for, well, anything, really. They demand everything and are grateful for nothing, and then you have to spend your, basically, the next 18 to 25 years of your life teaching your children the habit of being thankful and the virtue of thankfulness.

And you have to remind them sometimes to give thanks for things which even ought to be obvious that they should be thankful for those things. And then we have to nurture and cultivate within them a heart and an attitude of gratitude and thankfulness.

It is something that has to be practiced and learned, not just by children, but also by adults. And even sometimes for those things which we take for granted, those things for which we ought to obviously have a profound and abiding gratitude, we can take those things for granted and even begin to forget to give thanks for the common things.

How many of you have thanked God for the air that you breathe? Even this morning. And yet there are a thousand other blessings that you and I have been lavished with this morning that we enjoy and we take for granted and we bask in them and we never even really think to give God thanks for those things.

We universally recognize how virtuous an attitude of thankfulness is, and we universally recognize just how distasteful ingratitude is when we see it. When we see somebody who is not thankful, instead who is bitter and responds with everything with an attitude of entitlement, like they deserve what is coming to them and what they're getting, and they're not grateful for it.

We look at that and we are just disgusting. So for instance, when you stop in the middle of a busy street to let somebody else turn in front of you, and they just pull in front of you without waving, without smiling, without nodding, without even acknowledging that you exist, and that you have inconvenienced 12 people behind you just so you could get a thanks out of this person, and they turn in front of you as if you owed that to them, that's kind of a little off-putting, isn't it?

It is. And we need to have a frank and honest national conversation about when it is appropriate to stop traffic in the middle of a busy street and let somebody pull in front of you just so you can get a smile from a random stranger.

We should have a national conversation about that. Spoiler alert, never is the answer to that. Never ever. But we can still have a national conversation about that before the public executions commence.

That's for another day, and that's not our subject today. Our subject today is gratitude and thankfulness, and our passage this morning is Colossians chapter 3, verses 15 through 17. Now in the nearly 30 years that I have been preaching here at Kootenai Community Church, I'm sure that at some point in the past 30 years I have preached a message on thankfulness and thanksgiving before Thanksgiving.

But we were just in this subject in Hebrews chapter 12. I can't remember when the last time is that we sort of deviated from the normal routine of going through a book to take a subject like thankfulness and thanksgiving right before Thanksgiving, but because I'm trying to avoid getting into Hebrews 13 before we take this long Christmas break, we decided to kind of jump around do some other things for at least two weeks before we jump into the Christmas series.

So that is going to make us land here in Colossians chapter 3, verses 15 through 17. Let's read these three verses together, and we will get through all three of these verses this morning. Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you are called in one body, and be thankful.

Let the word of Christ richly dwell within you, with all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another with psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with thankfulness in your hearts to God. Whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through him to God the Father.

Now the context of this is very important in understanding what Paul is addressing, and particularly the application that he is enjoining for us to apply to our lives, but before we sort of dive into this, I want to make some connections in the context, and before we kind of jump to the context of this passage, the rest of the book, to see how the Apostle has sort of been building a case to this throughout, I want you to notice just four things about this passage in particular.

First, I want you to notice that the idea of thanks and thankfulness are mentioned in all three of those verses, in verse 15, in verse 16, and in verse 17. Be thankful, in verse 15, sing with thankfulness, verse 16, and give thanks, in verse 17.

Now that would serve as a very good outline for our sermon this morning, those three points. Be thankful, serve with thankfulness, and give thanksgiving, but that's not the outline that we're going to use this morning.

This idea of thankfulness is mentioned in every chapter of this book. This is a theme all the way through Colossians, which I think is remarkable, given the fact that this book is written from prison.

It's kind of like the book of Philippians, which is all about joy and rejoicing, and that was written in prison, and the book of Colossians was written from prison, and yet the Apostle Paul weaves this theme of thankfulness and thanksgiving throughout the whole book.

Look back in chapter 1, verse 3, we give thanks to God the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, praying always for you. Look at chapter 1, verse 11, he prays that they would be strengthened with all power according to his glorious might, for the attaining of all steadfastness and patience, joyously giving thanks to the Father who has qualified us to share in the inheritance of the saints in light.

Look at chapter 2, verses 6 and 7, therefore as you have received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him, having been firmly rooted and now being built up in him and established in your faith, just as you were instructed, look at that last phrase, overflowing with gratitude.

Look at chapter 4, verse 2, devote yourselves to prayer, keeping alert with an attitude of thanksgiving. That is a theme that is woven throughout the epistle, and here in chapter 3, we have this concentration of this idea of thanksgiving in these three verses.

It's mentioned three times, and interestingly, each time gratitude or thankfulness is mentioned, it is mentioned in a different part of speech. You'll notice in verse 15, it is an adjective. In verse 16, it is a noun, and in verse 17, it is a verb.

So we could talk about thankfulness being an adjective, a noun, or a verb, and that would make a good outline for our sermon this morning, but we're not going to use that. The word that is translated as thankfulness or thanks is the word karas.

It is translated as grace most often in Scripture. In fact, of the 155 times that that word appears in our New Testament, it is translated as grace, 121 of them, 80 of the time when you read that, you're just reading the word grace.

But a form of that word can also be translated as favor or graciousness or gift or blessing. It is translated as gratitude. Sometimes it is used to describe receiving grace or saying grace, in other words, thanking in grace.

We kind of have that same idea today when we speak of saying grace before a meal. Really, we're talking about saying thanksgiving. That's what grace is, because the word grace is translated as thankfulness or thanksgiving.

So when we say grace before a meal, we're simply thanking and acknowledging, in our words, the grace that has been given to us in the meal that we're about to enjoy. This word grace in Scripture is something that should characterize us, and we should be graceful or grateful for the amazing grace that has been poured out upon us.

In fact, it is that pouring out of grace that we give thanks for, and we give thanks to God. It is that which makes us thankful. Third observation, I want you to notice how Christ is central in each one of these verses.

He mentions in verse 15 the peace of Christ, in verse 16 the word of Christ, and in verse 17 the name of Christ. And thankfulness is connected to all of those. Thankfulness is connected to the peace that Christ gives us, the word of Christ which dwells in us, and the name of Christ in which we do everything.

And that would serve as a really good outline for our sermon this morning. We're not using that either. Instead, I want you to notice fourth that these three verses deal with three different aspects of our life together as believers.

In verse 15, thankfulness should characterize peace within the church, that is our relationships one with another. In verse 16, thankfulness should characterize worship in the church. We sing with thankfulness in our hearts.

And then in verse 17, thankfulness should characterize everything in the church and everything in our lives. And so that would make for a good sermon outline for our sermon today. So we're going to go ahead and use that one.

Thankfulness should characterize first peace in the church, verse 15, worship in the church, and then everything in our lives, which includes obviously the relationships within the church, verse 17. Let's look first at the peace in the church, verse 15.

I want to connect this to the context, the rest of the epistle. How did we get here to Colossians 3, verse 15? Well, you say, I know how we got here. You asked us to turn there. That's how we got there.

But I mean in terms of Paul's argument, how did he get to this point of talking about thankfulness in the book of Colossians? Back in chapter 1, he describes the redemption that has been accomplished by an incomparable Savior.

Verse 15, Christ is the image of the invisible God. He is the firstborn over all creation. By Him all things were made, things in heaven, things on earth, things visible, invisible, thrones, dominions, principalities, powers.

All things were created by Him and for Him. Without Him, nothing has been made. Nothing was made that has been made. He is the comprehensive Creator of all things. And this Creator, who has comprehensively created all things, is Himself the image of the invisible God.

And He, verse 13 of that chapter 1, He has rescued us from the domain of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of His beloved Son in whom we have redemption. That is, in Christ we have redemption, forgiveness, the forgiveness of our sins.

And further, He has then reconciled us to Himself, look down at verse 20, and through Him to reconcile all things to Himself, having made peace. Interesting, just take notice of that. Peace through the blood of His cross.

Through Him, I say, whether things on earth or things in heaven. And although you were formerly alienated and hostile in mind, that's the opposite of peace, alienation and hostility, that describes what you formerly were.

Now Paul is saying you have been reconciled by this incomparable Creator. You have been reconciled to Him through His work on the cross by His blood, verse 22. Yet now He has reconciled you with His fleshly body through death in order to present you before Him holy and blameless and beyond reproach.

So that's the redemption, the salvation, the forgiveness, that complete reconciliation that has now taken place. Because of what Christ has done, you and I are made at peace with God. We are no longer at war with Him.

Instead, we have bowed the knee and yielded ourselves to Him. We have come to Him and been reconciled to Him. And by the way, God is the initiator in all of that. Hostile sinners do not seek reconciliation with God.

Instead, we are enemies of God, pursuing our own course, doing our own thing, and we are hostile against Him in mind and in heart and in deed and in word. But God takes the initiative and chooses us in Christ before the foundation of the world, and then does what He does to reconcile us to Himself through the death of Christ, draws us to the Son, grants us repentance and faith, and causes us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, reconciling us into this one body which is the Church of Christ.

But then Paul's concern in chapter 2 is that in light of that magnificent reconciliation that we have been given, that you and I might become captive to man-made philosophies and persuasive arguments and lofty-sounding rhetoric that would take us captive to worldly thinking and false doctrine.

So he says in chapter 2, verse 18, let no one keep defrauding you of your prize by delighting his self-abasement and the worship of angels, taking a stand on visions he has seen, inflated without cause by his fleshly mind, and not holding fast to the head from whom the entire body, being supplied and held together by the joints and ligaments, grows with a growth which is from God.

These are all distractions, the Apostle Paul says. These false teachers that come along with their lofty-sounding rhetoric and their false doctrines, and they want to take you captive and bring you in after their own little cults, their own little ideas, their own little man-made philosophies.

So the Apostle says in chapter 3, verse 20, if you have died with Christ, the elementary principles of the world, why, as if you were living in the world, do you submit yourself to decrees such as, do not handle and do not taste and do not touch, which all refer to things destined to perish with use, in accordance with the commandments and teachings of men.

These are matters which have, to be sure, the appearance of wisdom in self-made religion and self-abasement and severe treatment of the body, but this is the key to the next phrase, but they are of no value against fleshly indulgence.

So see, the question is, as the Apostle begins to now transition to the application of this magnificent redemption, the question now becomes, what then do I do with sin? I've been reconciled to God and yet I still find myself sinning.

I still find myself going to war with my flesh and these lusts of my flesh, etc. How do I handle those? Well, you shouldn't be kept, made captive by these fancy teachers who come along and say, look, the key to fighting your flesh is to live by these man-made standards, these man-made restrictions, these man-made philosophies.

And if you can just self-abase your body and you can just deny those things and make yourself suffer, then you would end up mortifying the deeds of the flesh. No, that is not how mortification works, the Apostle Paul says.

Those things are of no value against the indulgences of the flesh. So what then is my battle plan against sin? Chapter 3, verse 1. Therefore, if you have been raised up with Christ, keep seeking the things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.

Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on the earth. For you have died and your life is hidden with Christ and God. When Christ, who is your life, is revealed, then you also will be revealed with Him in glory.

Notice the similar focus there to what we have in the book of Hebrews. Fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross and despised the shame and sat down at the right hand of God.

Therefore, consider Him, focus your mind, and consider Him, give thought to Him who endured such hostility against Himself at the hands of sinners. It's focusing your eyes on the Lord Jesus and setting your mind on things above that is one of the keys to mortifying our sinful desires.

Then, verse 5. Therefore, since you have died with Christ, consider the members of your earthly body as dead to immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and greed, which amounts to idolatry. It is because of these things that the wrath of God will come upon the sons of disobedience, and in them you also once walked when you were living in them.

The time has passed, the apostle Paul says, for you to have endured all of those things and done all of those things, but that was what you once were. You are no longer that. Instead, you have died to those things, so consider your earthly members as being dead.

Verse 8, but now you also put them all aside. So there is a mindset. There's a mindset in verses 1 through 7. The mindset is fixing our eyes on Jesus and considering heavenly things, and then we reckon the members of our flesh as being dead to sin.

That's the mindset. Then, verse 8, but now you also put them all aside. We are to put off, to stop doing, to lay aside the deeds of darkness and stop participating in them. Anger, wrath, malice, slander, and abusive speech from your mouth.

Do not lie to one another since you have laid aside the old self with its evil practices and put on the new self who's being renewed to a true knowledge according to the image of the one who created him.

You are being renewed. You have been made new. You have been reconciled to God, brought into the body of Christ, and this renewal that has taken place for you individually has placed you together corporately into the body of Christ, a renewal, verse 11, in which there is no distinction between Greek and Jew, circumcised and uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave, and free man, but Christ is all and in all.

So there is a renewal that has taken place in your life because you have died to sin, you have been reconciled to God, placed into the body of Christ. That is a renewal that makes no distinction between circumcision and uncircumcision, slave or free, barbarian or Scythian, Jew or Gentile, Jew or Greek.

All of those distinctions mean nothing inside of the body of Christ because now you have been reconciled together. So then that raises the very next question was, how then do all of these people who were formerly at war with one another live together in peace and harmony?

Verse 12, so as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, bearing with one another, forgiving each other. Whoever has a complaint against anyone, just as the Lord forgave you, so also should you.

Beyond all these things, put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity. Notice the reference to putting off and putting on, you were to put off certain things and you were to put on other things. You lay aside the deeds of darkness and you put on the deeds of light.

Gentleness, humility, kindness, and patience, this is how we treat one another. So Paul in verses 12 through 14 is obviously dealing now with relationships within the body of Christ. How do we live with one another?

How do we relate to one another? How do we deal with hostility and conflict between one another? You see, there are all kinds of these warring factions that have been brought together in the church of Jesus Christ.

Scythians and barbarians at war with one another, warring tribes, men and women hostile toward one another, brought together, Jew and Gentile, circumcised and uncircumcised, slave men and freed, masters and slaves, all brought together into this one body.

So what then is to characterize this one body? What does Paul say? Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts. What is it that keeps people who have been brought together by the reconciling work of God, who once were warring against one another, what is it that keeps them from going to war with each other now that they're in the body of Christ?

The fact that we have been reconciled and now we are to let the peace of God rule among us. Now the Apostle Paul is not talking about having peace with God. He described that back in chapter 1. Remember we read that?

God has reconciled us and made peace. No longer are we at war with God. He's describing now peace between brothers in the church. He's not talking here about a tranquility or an inner sense of peace. I just have to throw this in since I've written a little bit on this.

The Apostle Paul here is not giving counsel for how to make decisions and suggesting that we make decisions by consulting some inward sense of tranquility or peace. That if offered two opposing options, that we take the one that brings us the most peace or tranquility.

He's not talking about decision-making, not talking about looking inward to your own feelings about some voice of God or some direction in the divine for making decisions in the day-to-day. That's not in the context.

Nowhere in the context. It's not what Paul means. And if you had gone back to Paul's time and said, here Paul is what I think you're talking about, he would have said, you have completely missed the point.

That is not what I'm discussing at all. I'm discussing peace, which is to work as the arbitrator in the body of Christ between these once warring factions. That's what peace is. It is the cessation of hostility between once alienated or once hostile factions within the church.

And now because we have been reconciled to God, we are now reconciled with God. F .F. Bruce says this, the common life of fellow members of the body of Christ is in view. When differences threaten to spring up among them, the peace of Christ must be accepted as arbitrator.

If the members are subject to Christ, the peace which he imparts must regulate their relations with one another. It is not to strife, but to peace that God called them in the unity of the body of Christ.

Notice in verse 15, he says, let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. He's talking about body relationships. You were called in one body of believers to Christ, reconciled to him.

Therefore, peace is to be the arbitration between you. Peace is to be the goal. And by the way, this is the answer to ethnic hostility in our own day. This is it. You just read it. If men have been reconciled to God, then they have been reconciled to one another.

And we call it racism. It's not racism. There's only one race, the human race. It's ethnic hostility. We're all just varying shades of brown. All of us are. And so if my brother, my black brother, who's a darker shade of brown than I, has been reconciled to God, and me, the lighter brother, who's more like a latte, I've been reconciled to God through the death of Christ, and we can stand next to each other.

All racial and ethnic, and I use racial in the term that our world uses it, all ethnic hostility ceases. This is the answer to socioeconomic divisions amongst people, the rich going to war against the poor, the poor going to war against the rich, everybody complaining about one another, upper class, middle class, lower class, super low class, etc.

This is the answer to it. Men who have been reconciled to God are reconciled to one another. The world can do nothing to end any of that hostility. Anti-bullying campaigns in the public school, not going to do it.

Commercials are not going to do it. You know what does it? The gospel does it. When two people who once were at war with one another have been reconciled to each other, and they both come to the Lord's table to drink from the same cup and to eat the same loaf, they recognize they've been saved by the same thing.

All the hostility must cease. And a pox upon the house of anybody who gins up those hostilities just to keep ethnic strife at a fever pitch for some political or financial purpose. This is the answer to all of that hostility.

And we are to do this and be thankful. Why? Because you've been chosen of God, verse 12. You've been made holy in Him. You once were alienated from His life, and now you have life in Him. You've been included in God's redeemed, brought into the body of Christ.

You have been forgiven for your sins. You're no longer at war with Christ. You have died in Christ. You have been buried in Christ. You have been raised with Christ. You've been seated in the heavenlies in Him.

And you await now, verses 1 through 4 of chapter 3, you await now the glory that is to come that has been promised to you. And so, as you gather together into the body of Christ, what is to be the ruler, the arbitrator between all of these once warring factions?

Peace. The peace that Christ gives to His people is to be the thing that is pursued in unity and in love. And we are to be thankful, verse 15 says. We are to be thankful. That's the response of gratitude for such blessings.

It's amazing how much, by the way, gratitude will do to alleviate your hostility towards somebody else. It's amazing how far gratitude will go to alleviate and to dissipate your hostility towards somebody else.

It is impossible to be at war with somebody for whom you are profoundly thankful. It's impossible. You cannot have a profound sense of gratitude for somebody and to somebody and be at war with them at the same time.

You can't do it. Gratitude is the grace that is expressed by one who receives something that they do not feel entitled to. Hostility is the opposite. It is the attitude or the response of one who does not receive what they feel they are entitled to.

When you get something that you say, man, I don't deserve that, you are grateful for that. But when you don't get something that you think you deserve, you're hostile. Two different responses, two different attitudes of heart, they spawn two different things and ways that we respond to those things.

Thankfulness is the mark of the redeemed, and ingratitude is the mark of the enemy of God. Paul says this in Romans 1, verse 21, his condemnation of all of humanity. He says, for even though they knew God, they did not honor Him as God nor give thanks, but they became futile in their speculations, and their foolish heart was darkened.

The unbeliever knows that God exists. He knows he should be thankful, and he refuses to give the blessed and triune God his thanksgiving, and so his heart becomes darkened, and he becomes vain and foolish in his imaginations and in his thinking.

The peace of Christ is to rule in the church body where people are thankful. And when we are grateful for our salvation and for the salvation of others, and for the benefits and blessings that others bring us, the hostility ceases.

So thankfulness is connected to the peace that is to rule within the body of Christ. Second, thankfulness should characterize worship in the church. Verse 16, this describes corporate worship. Let the word of Christ richly dwell within you with all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another with psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with thankfulness in your hearts to the Lord.

We're to sing with thankfulness. Now, the question kind of comes up at the beginning of verse 16 when Paul says, let the word of Christ dwell richly. The word means lavishly and extravagantly within you.

Does he mean, is he talking about corporately or individually? In other words, is the Apostle Paul saying, let you as a body of believers, let the word of Christ dwell lavishly and abundantly and extravagantly among you, indicating that what should rule and what should be abundant inside of the church and its gatherings is the word of God and the centrality of that?