June 16, 2015 ISI Radio Show with Don Holder of Hebron Colony Christian Drug & Alcohol Rehab
GUEST Don Holder, Director of Hebron Colony Ministries, a Christian DRUG & ALCOHOL Rehabilitation Ministry in Boone, NC, where the Lord saved my life from self-destruction.
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Arnzen.
Good afternoon Cumberland County, Pennsylvania, and the rest of humanity on the planet Earth.
Listening via live streaming, this is Chris Arnzen, your host of Iron Sharpens Iron,
wishing you all a happy Tuesday on the 16th day of June 2015, and I
have been waiting to do this interview for a long time and I'm so glad that the Lord has finally given me
the opportunity to conduct this interview.
I've been waiting to do this interview since I entered through the doors of a drug and alcohol
recovery ministry in Boone, North Carolina after suffering,
experiencing a horrible backslidden state of my own after
18 years of sobriety as a born -again believer in Jesus Christ, falling back into
the sin and enslavement of alcoholism.
Thank God I discovered Hebron Colony Ministries in Boone, North Carolina,
and today we are going to be discussing Hebron Colony and their sister
ministry in Santee, South Carolina, Grace Home, and it is my genuine honor
and privilege and delight to have for the very first time on Iron Sharpens Iron my dear old friend
Don Holder, Executive Director of Hebron Colony Ministries and Grace Home.
Thank you for being with us today, Don Holder.
Yes, and I am obviously thrilled that you're here.
First of all, tell our listeners something about what Hebron.
Colony and Grace Home
are.
Yeah, I
guess it
was a
very
wise move
to.
Separate the men's facility and the women's facility far, far apart, wasn't it?
You
know, five hours
is almost
far enough.
I want to
announce immediately in case during the.
Course of an interview I might forget to announce it later, the website for Hebron Colony Ministries is
HebronColony .org, that's H -E -B -R -O -N Colony .org,
and you'll also find out all the needed information about Grace Home, the sister
ministry in Santee, South Carolina, and I want to also announce my email
address for those of you listening who want to ask a question to our
guest today, Don Holder, the Executive Director of Hebron Colony and Grace Home.
My email address is ChrisArnzen at gmail .com, ChrisArnzen
at gmail .com, and this is a live broadcast, so
if you would like a question answered by our guest, please,
as soon as you can, send that email to us at ChrisArnzen at gmail .com, C -H -R -I
-S -A -R -N -Z -E -N.
Now, Hebron Colony is one of the oldest facilities of its kind still in
operation in the United States, isn't it?
Tell us something about the fascinating.
History behind this
organization.
In 1940s, he had
a real,
it
was
causing, as
God does
speak to
us, vacated
a
beautiful,
one
of the
most beautiful
places,
really nice spot that they used
to vacate near,
that's come here
too, and
he inquired
about it involving some other
Christians.
10 to 12 acres of land, it would have been
about a
three
-hour trip.
Today, it's quicker.
It wasn't quite as good at that time, and they made their way here and
brought five men with them, struggling with what they understood to be life,
and Hebron
Colony
ministry began
to show
them what he has designed.
That began the ministry of Hebron Colony for men, and then it was a little bit
further down in 1953, about
a mile and a half up, a small gravel road is
located, farm -style
home was built, erected by, you know, volunteer labor, and different people
have been involved,
and
in 1960,
full
-blown
ministry
began.
Amen, and to
show
you how
Romans 828 is.
Still a reality just as much today as it was when Paul penned it, that all things
work together for the good for those who love God and are called according to his purpose, this is actually a
part of the birthing of Hebron Colony was the fact that the founder, Reverend E .A. Dillard,
who was a Presbyterian pastor in Charlotte during what is known as
the modernist controversy, he wanted to remove his congregation out of
the liberal denomination that it was in, the denomination that became liberal, and when they
refused, he left Charlotte, as I understand, to found Hebron, so there you have
something horrible happening, and then turning into something beautiful and wonderful, and something that
is serving a great purpose, a vital.
Purpose,
in this very
day and age,
still
today, and
when I was there as a.
Student at Hebron, if I'm not mistaken, I believe the curriculum that you
were using was still the curriculum that Reverend Dillard had created.
Is it.
Still today?
You know, it's had some addition to it that, you know,
expansionary
is founded
upon.
That's really
a
denomination.
That's okay.
Now, do you
accept
any
governmental financial aid?
Because one of the.
Things that I found to be one of the attractive elements of Hebron Colony is
that you were strictly a biblical and unashamedly Christian and unwaveringly
Christian organization, and many times when when the government gets their hands into things, they have
to bend things a little bit, or a lot, usually a lot, and it winds
up turning from a Christian organization to a very secularized one.
How does Hebron Colony remain in existence?
Well, we don't need any funding from any federal
agency.
Things
will be
added
in to you.
Matthew 6, 33, it's talked about.
Certainly we believe that for this ministry, the things that, as
you well
know, Chris,
as
you've already mentioned,
desires and wills, and any kind of assistance,
any kind of
funding from,
you know,
those kinds
of evangelicals.
It's
certain
that
God should get
past
about
1 .2 million, and like I said, we
see in that,
and
I
mentioned
Churchill
will get, I
guess, 14 in a
small town, and
then we
have
a...
Yeah,
let me
repeat
your
website
again,.
Hebroncolony .org.
This is a really worthy charity for you as an individual who
are listening, or for your church to financially support.
One of the reasons I specifically chose Hebron was not only its Christ
-centeredness, but the fact that I was, when I entered into the program
of Hebron Colony, I was financially destitute.
Alcohol had really destroyed a lot of my
life, including my work ethic, and so on, and
thankfully Hebron Colony was free to enter into the program, other than, at the
time, it was a $300 refundable deposit for pharmaceutical and medical
needs, should they arise.
Has anything changed in that regard?
Oh, that's $300, and any unused portion of that
we offer back to the...
And I
want you to send my personal regards to.
Pastor Larry Young at Brookside Presbyterian Church there in Boone, who was a God -sent
to me also.
It was great to form a friendship with him, and I really valued his visits to me while I
was there in Hebron, and I was the one of about three Yankees
up there, surrounded by rednecks and all kinds of folks.
There were two other Yankees down there, but I don't even
know if I would consider them being a New Yorker, native New Yorker.
I don't know if I could consider Ohio boys real Yankees.
They're closer than South Carolina boys.
And there were all different kinds of accents that I had to get used to, and almost needed a
translation dictionary from rebel to Yankee.
But I developed some wonderful friendships, still remain
in touch with a couple of the guys from down there, and I hope to
rediscover some of them through this radio program, because I unfortunately have lost some of their contact
information, and I would love to start dialoguing with them again.
And I don't know how accurate you can be as far as statistics,
but do you have any in regard to a quote -unquote success rate in regard to
people who have remained sober and off drugs after leaving
Hebron and Grayson?
Before we go
to a break, let me
repeat the email address to send in.
Questions, chrisarnson at gmail .com.
We do have an anonymous question that asks that,
I know that you are a Christian and Bible -based facility, but can those who are
either non -believers, atheists, or members of other religions be
students at Hebron Colony?
And I can personally attest to the fact when I was there that there were a number of men there that were not
genuine repentant believers, so how would you answer that question, Don?
Oh, without question,
it
would
be the 10th
week
event,
which we had for
Jesus Christ
that you
made
while
you were here,
and date
that, and
it is
Jesus
Christ,
but what
men answered by that
way, but they left
here.
We have to break right there, we'll be right.
Back after these messages.
If you have a question for Don Holder, our email address is chrisarnson at gmail
.com.
That's chrisarnson at gmail .com.
Don't go away, we'll be right back with Don Holder, Executive Director of Hebron Colony Ministries
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Chris Zarnes, and if you just tuned in to Iron Sharpens Iron, our guest today is Don Holder, Executive Director of
Hebron Colony Ministries in Boone, North Carolina, and Grace Home in Santee, South Carolina,
which are Christian drug and alcohol recovery ministries, the first for men
and the latter for women, and our email address is ChrisArnzen at gmail .com.
If you have a question for our guest, ChrisArnzen at gmail .com.
We have a question from Tom in West Islip, New York, and
he says,.
Before I ask my question, I would like to extend a huge thank to you for being the hands and feet of Christ in
this world.
Over the last year, I have come to greatly appreciate and understand the challenges
that organizations such as Hebron are up against.
I've seen the dedication and love of those serving in hope of saving persons at risk, who
are in many cases one step away from death.
I am humbled beyond words, for if it weren't for Christ's saving grace through organizations such as yours,
my daughter would likely not be here today.
So again, thank you and God bless.
As for my question, as alluded to in my preamble, my daughter is currently a student at
Teen Challenge.
She has been there for about eight months and has about eight to ten months to go before graduating, God willing.
Her addiction before entering was severe.
She was literally minutes from death.
My wife and I have been praying unceasingly for her recovery, in addition to attending Families Anonymous to
better understand how to live with an addict.
Although we attempt to keep in the day and leave the tomorrows to our Lord,
we can't help but think about when she will one day rejoin the mainstream world.
It is a reality we need to prepare for, but don't necessarily look forward to at this time.
Given the anxiousness surrounding such, what would you recommend to the families and to the recovering addicts to
assist them in the challenges that lie ahead post -graduation?
Are there any best practices or activities that you may be able to recommend?
That is a really excellent group of questions there, Don,.
If you
could.
Yeah,
and
what
began to see
a born -again
believer, a
new
dedicated life, is plug in
their
respect
for one another.
And being
arrested
and also
that he got down
with the Christian
life is not a life
that you
need to encourage
your
daughter
to
do,
given.
I've
heard
of
it,
but I
don't
know
a lot
about
it.
Well, there's, you
know,
they have a
website that gives material and it's
really
a
website.
Information,
the
name, the
number,
they have the
meeting two nights a week, one night a week, it varies.
But, you know, we've recommended Celebrate Recovery.
If you do not have that real foundational,
they can at least
kind of journey, that there's one way
to...
Of
course,
I'm sure you would agree that.
The developing of friendships with godly Christian people who are
committed to local church membership is a very important factor, because
continuing the the life as you left,
the life that you left before you went into rehab, and catching up with your old buddies immediately,
or, you know, even fairly soon after leaving the recovery, could be
devastating and could be suicidal,.
Couldn't it?
Yeah, no,
that God
will
send
our bodies as a living sacrifice to God, that do not
become knowing of your mind,
and I think it's
your vision.
You began to think of...
By the way, Tom,
our listener
in West Islip,
New York,
says Vinnie in.
Massapequa says hello.
Yeah, very good, yes.
And we...
That's Massapequa, Long Island, New York.
And we're going to go to a break, our final break right now, and before we go to the break, I want to read the question
from another listener.
That's actually a two -part question, and you could answer, Don, when we return after the break.
And these are two excellent questions.
Bill from Levittown, New York, asks, I just wanted to know what are the differences between a state
drug rehab and Christian -based rehab, and do you use the
Bible or a 12 -step program?
And we'll have you answer that, or those questions, when we return.
This is our final break, so if you have a question, we're running out of time, so please
email it right away to chrisarnson at gmail .com.
That's chrisarnson at gmail .com.
We'll be right back with Don Holder, Executive Director of Hebron Colony Ministries and Grace Home
Christian Drug and Alcohol Recovery Ministries.
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This is Chris Arnzen, and this is our final quarter hour of Iron Sharpens Iron today, and our guest
is Don Holder, Executive Director of Hebron Colony Ministries in Boone, North Carolina, and
Grace Home in Santee, South Carolina, which are a Christian drug and alcohol recovery ministries, the
first for men and the second for women.
And Don, if you could answer the two -part question of our listener, Bill, in Levittown, New York.
Yeah, I think, Chris, you might want to remind me exactly.
I didn't quite.
Totally get the first part.
He asked, what was the difference between a state rehab facility and a
Christian rehab facility?
The second question was, do you.
Use a 12 -step program, or are you Bible -based?
Well, the
state rehab, I
don't
know, in my
opinion, would be,
in the basic sense of what 12
-step is, that there is
nothing
wrong
with narcotics, admitting that
we're, you know, turning our lives over to God's care.
Those are things they encourage us to do,
but the unfortunate thing, in a second, is that they
identify now, because they encourage, and we are,
okay?
That is the foundational thing.
To identify, I guess,
nothing but the mind,
and
certainly
we, and
the Bible, identify a
Bible center that
the Bible talks
about, this Messiah that God sent
to become the Savior and the Lord, which
gives a scripture that comes to my
mind that is foundational teaching here,
and it's found in, and just
to recite a couple of the verses of it, the
word says,
this divine
power and
godliness, that by
the divine nature, talking
about a godly nature, having escaped the corruption that is in
us, and then he goes on to say, is that the foundation of it,
but add to your
spiritual knowledge and to knowledge temperance, or patience, and
to, you know, self -control, then to godliness, and he says, if these things
abound in you, you will never be, some
beautiful scriptures
that
I've just read,
you shall never fall, any greater
than the power that God,
to bring into, in
order to give them the
bondages, the difference
is that we believe that addiction
begins
with,
and so,
yeah,
the thing
that I
can't help but mention here, because of.
The modern day 12 -step movement, directing people to embrace any god that they
believe in or choose to, or any higher power, that the irrationality of those
that are not based on Jesus Christ, you have step two of the 12 steps, we came to
believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity,
and then the step three is, we made a decision to turn our will and lives over to the care of God
as we understood him.
If you're insane, you're not going to be making, having a right understanding about who God is
and making a decision to follow the right God, if you're insane, as the step clearly identifies,
so.
Well, you
know,
I think,
Chris,
that God
is
only a cannot.
We have our final listener question that we have time for, because we only have less than five minutes left,
we have.
Rick in Somerton, South Carolina asks, what is your greatest
satisfaction and biggest challenge since coming to Hebron?
Well,
servicing
death into
the things
that I've ever
done
in
my life,
that I
have,
and by all the things I
look at my
life like you should too, and
one thing against
you,
one of the most necessary, and
one of
the things
that
I appreciated about Hebron was the difference,.
One of the main differences between the typical 12 -step recovery
groups and Hebron being Bible -based is that I think Hebron is best described really
as a men's discipleship ministry and Grace Home being a women's
discipleship ministry, because the issues of addiction are rarely brought up.
It's really the challenges of unbelievers to repent and believe upon
Christ and for believers who are backslidden to return to their first love.
Isn't that basically the core of what you're doing?
Yeah, no question.
Chris, I would like to say just in the few minutes that we have.
We actually have less than a minute now.
Okay, I was delivered personally by the glorious resurrection power, but I
do know that that is the most necessary thing that can happen in life, is to be
walking in a free life with
Jeeper Man and the whole man.
And I really am honored and I'm so overcome with
more of a feeling of blessing than you could know, brother, that you're on my show, on my program today.
I'm losing words here, I'm mumbling, but I want to thank you so much for being on.
I look forward to having you return to the program, and I want all of our listeners to always remember for the rest of your
lives that Jesus Christ is a far, far greater Savior than you are a sinner.
God bless, we'll see you tomorrow, and don't forget HebronColony .org, HebronColony .org.
Thank you.