This is important for a lot of people to understand, because a lot of times, a lot of times Christians they get a woe is me mentality, and they think that God is out to get them, or God is out to hurt them, now there may be times when God is going to discipline you, now that's a different topic, I mean we deserve to be disciplined and God will do that, I mean I've been disciplined by the Lord myself on several occasions, and I'm thankful for that, but in the gospel is that place where Jesus, God in flesh, bore our sins in his body on that cross, 1 Peter 2 .24, and he did everything necessary, we can't, now this means then that the commitment that God has to you is sealed in the blood of Christ, now one of the things I love about reform theology is the issue of God's eternal decrees, God's eternal work, and in Ephesians, I'm going to explain this, why this is important with the gospel, and why it's important to you, in Ephesians 1 .4 it says, just as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we would be holy and blameless before him, in love he predestined us to adoption as sons through Jesus Christ to himself according to the kind intention of his will, now what I want you to think about, this is theology, I love theology, see it says just as he chose us in him, he is the father, he chose, that's important for us to understand, he chose us, now 2 Thessalonians 2 .13 it says God has chosen us from the beginning for salvation, in Acts 13 .48 it says as many as had been appointed to eternal life believed, now there's three things you should look at, the he, that's the father, chose us, that's the elect, in him, that's Jesus, and this deals with federal headship, trust me I'm going somewhere with this, I'm going to lay this down first, I want you to understand something now, in him is federal headship which is a teaching that the male represents the descendants, Jesus represented us, he represented his people, when was this representation decided before the foundation of the world, he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, if you're a Christian, when did God choose you for salvation, before the universe existed, and it was chosen, he chose you, not because of any good quality in you, because there's nothing good in you that would merit God's favor towards you, otherwise that wouldn't be grace, no he chose you, and what's weird, he chose you knowing everything about you, because he knows all things, all future events, everything, he knows everything about you, the wickedness of some of your thoughts, the evil intention of some of your motives, the hypocrisy that you struggle with, the sins that you've tried to forsake so many times and still have you, the rebellion, the anger, all of it, along with your humble supplication before God through Christ, you're seeking him and his will, all of this, your failures, your mistakes, your successes, all of it, he's known every bit of it since before the foundation of the world, and yet he chose you and he loved you, to me that's incredibly helpful, and I heard someone once say, I'm glad that God chose me from the foundation of the world, because if he'd look at me now, he wouldn't pick me, and what we're saying when we reference that is, we know that our hearts are not that good, we know that we make mistakes, we know we sin, even as Christians, we struggle with our sin, just like Paul did in Romans 7, 18 through 25, who will deliver me from this body of death, the struggle of sin, and yet he chose us in him, that's the gospel, in him is Jesus, and the only way we can be chosen is if Christ represented us, the father gave us to the son, and the son became flesh and redeemed us by his blood.