Does God Really Like Me?

Welcome to No Compromise Radio, a ministry coming to you from Bethlehem Bible Church in West Boylston. No Compromise Radio is a program dedicated to the ongoing proclamation of Jesus Christ, based on the theme in Galatians 2, verse 5, where the Apostle Paul said, �But we did not yield in subjection to them for even an hour, so that the truth of the gospel would remain with you.

In short, if you like smooth, watered-down words to make you simply feel good, this show isn�t for you. By purpose, we are first biblical, but we can also be controversial. Stay tuned for the next 25 minutes as we�re called by the Divine Trumpet to summon the troops for the honor and glory of her King.

Here�s our host, Pastor Mike Abendroth.

Welcome to No Compromise Radio, a ministry. My name is Mike Abendroth, and due to proper hygiene and obeying the letter of the law, we have Tuesday guy on the radio today, on this Tuesday, who knows when it�s going to be played?

Mid-November. April Fools. Pastor Steve is in his home. I�m here at the studio.

Yeah, you could have said, �Pastor Drew, I�m in my house.

Steve, we have these little snacks here at the church, you know, so there�s candy from the Iwana store. There are a bunch of these, like, small bags of chips and stuff like that. And once in a while, I�ll have, like, a half a bag of one of those 180-calorie chip deals.

And I�ve realized how many of those I�ve had because the last three weeks, during all the social distancing stuff, I come into the church because I want to exercise on my stationary bike. There�s no clean-up, there�s no janitorial service, so I see how many bags are in my trash can.

I�m kind of ashamed.

I bet you just can�t have one. It�s such a weird time right now because, I mean, it�s like having a hamburger. Mm-hmm. It�s so true. You know, when I was in the Army, in basic training, I�ve never really been a big candy guy.

I mean, do I like it? Sometimes, you know. You�re not allowed. They have vending machines all over the place. Not allowed to use any of the vending machines. Not allowed to eat candy. Who was in, I think he was in the CIA.

He never really told us, and he never had to participate in anything, and obviously, you know, he wants any, you know, pound bag. We were out marching one day, and they brought everybody in like a hundred.

Well, you know how I like old police stories, sheriff stories, and old Army stories, so I thank you for that. You�re welcome. All right. I have in front of me, Steve, something that you�ll kind of probably smile if I could see your facial smile.

You and I had some private email correspondence this morning about some theology that somebody that we know has, and I just opened up the Christianity Today 2020 April edition that we talked about last show, which was an hour ago, but will be played a week before we are airing this show, and there�s a book review at the end.

So ChristianityToday .com has book reviews, and I kind of like to look at some of those because probably 80 of the time, they�re bad books, but once in a while, there�s a good book that�s out, and I just want to see kind of an overview and what�s going on and how they would review a good book, right?

How do liberal evangelicals review conservative evangelical books? Well, there�s a book that�s called �Does God Really Like Me Discovering the God Who Wants to Be With Us, Jeff and Sid, S-Y-D, Holzclaw, IVP book.

And now it says, �God Really Likes You, He Really Likes You. That�s the title of the review in Christianity Today. Scripture has a resounding reply to our doubts about His longing to be with us. Most of us seem to believe that God tolerates us, but we have a hard time believing He truly is glad to be with us.

What�s your kind of knee-jerk gut reaction when you hear stuff like that?

It�s like nonsense. We want to think that God, the way we long for Him, we are needy. The whole idea of emotion, man�s center of love is not our love, the way he thinks is not the way we think, and when we try to make.

It�s unthinkable to me. Yeah. So Steve, I guess maybe it�s emphasis or it�s priority or something like that. I don�t have a problem with working through a doctrine like union with Christ, and you see the book of Ephesians, for instance, or other Pauline writings, in Him, in Christ, in Christ Jesus, talking about Christians and how they are united with Christ.

I don�t have any problem with that and then saying something to the effect that when God looks at you, Christian, He doesn�t see your imperfections or frailties or sins. Because of the doctrine of the union with Christ and because of Christ�s righteousness imputed to your account, when the Father sees you, Christian, He doesn�t see sin and failure, especially we�re thinking judicially, right, and illegally, He sees the Lord Jesus.

Now I don�t have any problem with that, I just don�t like to immediately jump to God can�t live without you.

Janet and I were in Israel with him a few times at the Sea of Galilee and he calmed it. When there�s a relationship, just think about that on the Sea of Galilee from that storm, I guess he really wants a relationship with us.

That�s the message, you know, it�s just that God likes me.

Steve, I think I�ve noticed in evangelicalism, maybe my old tendency might, you know, give people a lot of law and make sure, you know, they don�t get too big for their britches or anything like that.

On the gospel side of it, there are wonderful, glorious truths about the gospel and when Paul says, �Who loved me and the Lord Jesus in Galatians 2 ,20, He loved me and gave His life for me. And in Revelation 1, present tense even, He loves us.

I think maybe what�s happening in evangelicalism, that we just don�t describe why He loves us and for what reason and somehow the love He has for us, these kind of people seem to to put that love based on who we are versus who the triune God is.

Does that seem to make sense? That�s right.

That�s right. It�s defining your life for Kim, same thing. You would defend your wife, you know, it�s that kind of thing for you to do and it�s how much you value the responsibility of His life for us.

Well, see, you�ve hit the nail on the proverbial head because it�s Rome. I would love, I would die for Kim because I love her and she�s lovable and she has attributes that I find, you know, wonderful.

And I think of Romans 5, 8, you know, God demonstrates His own love towards us that while we are yet sinners, Christ died for us. So, the love part had to be on the triune God side as the Father loved and sent, the Son loved and went, and the Holy Spirit helped propel Jesus into gospel ministry and then would come alongside to empower Him for those miracles and then applies that work of Christ to our life now.

So, I think the focus has to be on the love of God�s side versus, well, there�s something in us that�s lovable. I think, Steve, you know, if I said to a Christian, God loves you and has a wonderful plan for your life, that�s true.

But I would want to explain it. I�d only throw it out there to be inflammatory, to get people�s attention, and then I�d have to reel it in. It is a good intro, right?

It is. Because everybody in the congregation would be going, like, what happened to Mike while we were off for a couple months, right?

That�s right. And I want to tell Christians, especially weak and struggling Christians who suffer with, you know, sin, and not suffer with sin, but commit sins, you know, we come to the Lord�s table. That�s a good reminder.

Dear Christian, God does love you. And dear Christian, God�s not mad at you. He�s not angry with you. I know you�ve fallen short this week, but here�s what the Lord Jesus has done. Then the focus gets right back onto what Jesus has done, not just, you know, Jesus, you know, for the joy set before Him, runs the race in Hebrews 12, and the real joy is not obeying the Father and pleasing the Father, but the real joy is your joy.

Yikes. I know. Isaiah 57 has a great verse. This is almost like one of these ordination verses. If someone said, well, is there an Old Testament verse that speaks of the triune nature of God? And I�d say Isaiah 48, 16.

Well, what about a verse in Isaiah that speaks of God�s transcendence that Pastor Steve was talking about earlier? That is, He�s different and above us. He�s alien to us, He�s separate. And then His eminence, not His soon-returned eminence, but His eminence, that is, He�s close to us, God with us, Emmanuel.

And there�s a verse in Isaiah that shows both of those. And, of course, this is the God we worship. It says in Isaiah 57, verse 15,. �For thus says the one who is high and lifted up, who inhabits eternity, whose name is Holy, I dwell in the high and holy place.

And therefore, congregation, listeners out there in radio land, that�s talking about which one? Transcendence or eminence? Well, the answer is transcendence, holy, high, eternity, lifted up. And then the verse goes on to say,.

�And also with Him who is of a contrite and lowly spirit, to revive the spirit of the lowly and to revive the heart of the contrite. So, there�s the eminence, there�s the closeness. And I think by nature, Steve, tell me what you think of this.

I think I read this by Ritterbus. �By nature, God is transcendent. By will, He is eminent. Well, I think that�s exactly right. Descend to us. God descends to us. Yeah, that�s good. Talking to Pastor Steve today, Tuesday Guy on No Compromise Radio.

You can pull up all the old episodes, I think 2 ,800 of them, nocompromiseradio .com. Don�t forget, we have a YouTube channel. Steve�s done a couple of the recent ones, No Compromise Radio YouTube channel.

Just type in �No Compromise Radio� at YouTube and you�ll find those. In this book review we�re talking about today, �Does God Really Like Me? Discovering the God Who Wants to Be With Us, Jeff and Sid Holzklaw.

Steve, you don�t have the article in front of you, but it says in the review here, �Does God Really Like Me? Would Help My Dental Hygienist Understand the Main Theme of Scripture. Okay, so you�re ready?

Here�s the main theme of Scripture. Oh. I mean, I�m not the best writer, but I know not to say that unless it�s categorically absolutely true. You want to say �a theme of Scripture. Here�s the definite article, main theme of Scripture, drumroll, that God, more than just liking us, longs to dwell with us.

Evangelical songs and books and worship services, right? Lost without your love and, you know, kind of thing. I need anything. He didn�t need anything. I think in our effort, broadly evangelical, we�ve reduced him into something that he�s not.

That�s so true. This is for you, Steve. There you go.

You know, it�s funny that bread could have the best of bread. Now, who would ever name their band bread?

Well, you know what? What did it mean, slang, in the 70s? Oh, I don�t know. Money?

That�s exactly right. Money, money, money, baby. Oh, I didn�t know that. Who would ever name their church Bethlehem? House of Cash. Well, that�s not true lately. We�ve been going to people�s homes. My two daughters are in town and Haley, you know, lives here with us.

So I have three daughters in town and my wife. And so we�ll go visit somebody from the church, kind of an older folks, one of the older folks, and we�ll bring him some soup or something and we�ll keep our distance and all that.

And then we�ll sing a song. We call it COVID caroling, right? We�ll sing Immortal Invisible or some song Amazing Grace and just pray and then leave. And then inevitably, Steve, I just say to them, and the main reason we�re here is to collect the offering check.

Well, hey, I used to do that when I was a kid, right? In the Mormon church, we�d go around and collect. Oh, I didn�t know that. Oh, yeah, from the top. But then as a priest, we go knock on, because every not eat breakfast, not eat lunch, save the money and give it to the church.

And so the deacons go around and collect it. And so we go knock on people�s doors, out the windows. I don�t think they�re fasting here, boss.

Hey, Steve, you know what I think I�m going to do? I�m going to combine things. Because, you know, I have pragmatic tendencies if I�m not careful. You know, they�re doing a bunch of tests to figure out why some of my blood counts are off.

And so I have a colonoscopy that they weren�t going to schedule but decided, I guess, now because of, I don�t know, better hygiene, they can. So in a week and a half, I have a colonoscopy. And the day before, I can�t eat.

So maybe that would be my fast Sunday. Oh, there you go. And then I could give the money to my daughters to go buy the best of bread. Those days, it was kind of like bread, the Carpenters. Who would be another band that would fit into that mold, Ilk?

You mean just schmaltzy love songs? Yeah. Air Supply. I mean, there just aren�t too many that come to mind. I mean, you know, on his radio the other day. Temptations. Yeah. And there was a group called Blue Magic.

And man, oh man, I loved all that music. And then Disco came along and blew it all up. Did you ever like ELO? Oh, I loved ELO. Are you kidding? The moment, in fact, if no moments of my life, that�s listening to the song.

And from then on, whenever I heard it, I�m like, �Oh, I love it.

Did the Mormon Church know about that? You know what? They never asked. Come on. Hey, how about this whole Mormon deal of baptizing, you know, proxy baptism? Would that be proper social distancing? We can start baptizing people on the live stream.

They don�t even have to be there. But similar to the Mormon doctrine of proxy baptism, I could just keep baptizing you. So instead of being baptized 25 times, Steve, I could be baptizing you like 50 times.

I would be. So you can�t be here because... Just like the Mormons? Yeah. Well, you know, like this week I called somebody and said, you know, �Would you do special music? We�ll have a special song on Sunday.

And instead of me just reading scripture and preaching, you know, on live stream, you can sing a song. Well, you know, I forgot that you need to have, you know, the special discounted $2 ,400 CCLI license or whoever they are for live streaming.

Well, now I think it�s free.

Isn�t that right now? Well, Charlie just told me they just sent out a deal saying, �Hey, this is a good time to do the whole live streaming thing. So I guess maybe for Easter Sunday, I�ll have that.

But we can have them sing a Getty song. The Gettys aren�t my favorite in terms of songwriters. But at least they�re, you know, kind enough to say, �You don�t have to give us any money if you want to live stream one of our songs.

Well, there is.

Find one on YouTube and just play it. Play it yourself.

Up from the grave, heroes.

And sing it at the, you know, top of my lungs. You know what I put on Speak of Singing? I dug up. I didn�t know that. What was your part? I was Nanky Poo. I was the wandering minstrel strolling about.

I was Nanky Poo.

What was the soundtrack? Was it something similar to B .R .E .A .D.?

No, it was nothing like B .R .E .A .D. Thank you very much. And you know what? You were dogging the Carpenters earlier. The first album I ever bought was We�ve Only Just Begun, or Close to You, by the Carpenters.

Oh, okay. Well, you know what? $3 .88 at Thrifty Drugstore.

I think I bought my first LP for $2 .99. Nebraska. Yeah, in Nebraska. I�m trying to think of what it was. It was the Chipmunks. No, but I can�t believe my mom let me buy ACDC records and stuff like that and cranking them in the basement.

Yeah, yeah. That is so wrong. So today on No Compromise Radio, we want you to know, Christian, that God, in fact, does love you, right? If He loved you when you were an enemy, He�s not going to love you now as a child.

Of course, He�s going to love you. But this whole sappy, sentimental, emotional, and sometimes, Ann Voskamp, erotic language and longing and communion and dwelling and much more sensual language than that, that�s not the best way to frame it.

So if you just use biblical language to frame it and transcendent and eminent stuff, I think you�re going to be fine. Don�t you, Steve?

Focus on this longing, loving garbage.

Yes. Jesus said in John 17, which you have preached before, so that the world may know that you sent me, Jesus prayed to the Father, and love them even as you love me. And so when you think about the doctrine of union with Christ, and now we�re in Christ, the Father loves us like He loves the Son, and that is with an everlasting love, to quote Jeremiah.

So my name is Mike Ebendroth. Have Steve Cooley on the line, along with bread. And the carpenters. And John Denver. My dad had eight tracks of all those. You just have to listen to them over and over.

And he had to listen to all the bad songs to get to the good song again. I had a bunch of eight tracks. That was so bad. Captain and Tennille, I think, was in the car for a while.

My favorite eight-trong did, and then it�s. Thanks for being on, Steve. Talk to you soon.

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