Yeah, that's a good question, because you're right, you know, Romans 8 .28, living act of truth, real truth, that God uses all things and works them together for good, but when people are really, really suffering, it's hard to see that, so they need to believe it, they need to understand it, but first, in order to really understand it, they need compassion, and they need to know that their hurt and their pain and their suffering is legitimate, that, you know, sometimes I feel like what we're trying to do when we fire Romans 8 .28 or something from the Book of Job at people, we're trying to get them not to complain or not to suffer, not to hurt anymore, because it makes us uncomfortable, and so we're trying to talk them out of it, and, you know, stiff upper lip, and come on, buck up, old chap, and get them to be stoic about their suffering, and I don't think that's biblical at all.