Does the Bible instruct us to forgive and forget? | GotQuestions.org

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November 3, 2020

Does God expect us to forgive and forget? Learning how to forgive someone who hurt you is already hard, but how can we forget? Is there a key to forgiveness we need to understand? What does forgiveness in the Bible look like? What does the Bible say about forgiveness, and forgiving others? Can we forgive like Jesus? Should we forgive someone who is unrepentant? In this video, Pastor Nelson with Bible Munch answers the question, “Does the Bible instruct us to forgive and forget”. *** Source Article: https://www.gotquestions.org/forgive-forget.html *** Check out, Bible Munch! @BibleMunch https://www.youtube.com/BibleMunch *** Recent @BibleMunch Videos: Philippians 4:6 - Learn How to be Anxious for Nothing. https://youtu.be/jFDJatpmnds Psalm 1:1-6 - The Actual Prosperity Gospel https://youtu.be/5NSUio3INOI Proverbs 20:7 - Dear Dads, - BE THE GIFT https://youtu.be/lAkQRT3JM40 *** Recommended Resource: The Gift of Forgiveness By: Charles F. Stanley https://bit.ly/2FWVRvW *** Related Questions: What does the Bible say about unforgiveness? https://www.gotquestions.org/unforgiveness.html What does the Bible say about forgiving yourself? https://www.gotquestions.org/forgiving-yourself.html Is forgetting the past biblical? https://www.gotquestions.org/forgetting-the-past.html Intro/Outro Music: https://www.purple-planet.com Note: Some links are affiliate links which cost you nothing, but help us share the word of God.

00:00: Today's question is, does the Bible instruct us to forgive and forget? In this video
00:05: I'll answer that question from a biblical perspective. Then afterwards, as always, I'll share some helpful resources, so stick around until the end.
00:21: The phrase, forgive and forget, is not found in the Bible. However, there are numerous verses commanding us to forgive one another, for example,
00:30: Matthew 6, verse 14 and Ephesians 4, verse 32. A Christian who is not willing to forgive others will find his fellowship with God hindered and can reap bitterness and the loss of reward.
00:43: Forgiveness is a decision of the will. Since God commands us to forgive, we must make a conscious choice to obey
00:49: God and forgive. The offender may not desire forgiveness and may not ever change, but that doesn't negate
00:56: God's desire that we possess a forgiving spirit, Matthew 5, verse 44.
01:02: Ideally, the offender will seek reconciliation, but if not, the one wrong can still make a decision to forgive.
01:09: Of course, it is impossible to truly forget sins that have been committed against us. We cannot selectively delete events from our memory.
01:18: The Bible states that God does not remember our wickedness, Hebrews 8, verse 12, but God is still all -knowing.
01:25: God remembers that we have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, Romans 3, verse 23.
01:31: But, having been forgiven, we are positionally or judicially justified. Heaven is ours as if our sin had never occurred.
01:39: If we belong to Him through faith in Christ, God does not condemn us for our sins,
01:45: Romans 8, verse 1. In that sense, God forgives and forgets. If by forgive and forget one means
01:52: I choose to forgive the offender for the sake of Christ and move on with my life, then this is a wise and godly course of action.
02:01: As much as possible, we should forget what is behind and strike toward what is ahead. We should forgive each other just as in Christ God forgave,
02:10: Ephesians 4, verse 32. We must not allow a root of bitterness to spring up in our hearts.
02:15: However, if by forgive and forget one means I will act as if the sin had never occurred and live as if I don't remember it, then we can run into trouble.
02:25: For example, a rape victim can choose to forgive the rapist, but that does not mean she should act as if the sin had never happened.
02:33: To spend time alone with the rapist, especially if he is unrepentant, is not what Scripture teaches.
02:40: Forgiveness involves not holding a sin against a person any longer, but forgiveness is different from trust.
02:46: It is wise to take precautions, and sometimes the dynamics of a relationship will have to change.
02:52: The prudent see danger and take refuge, but the simple keep going and pay the penalty –
02:58: Proverbs 22, verse 3. Jesus told His followers to be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves –
03:06: Matthew 10, verse 16. In the context of keeping company with unrepentant sinners, we must be innocent and willing to forgive, yet at the same time shrewd, being cautious.
03:17: The ideal is for the offender to truly repent of the sin and for the offended to forgive and forget.
03:25: The Bible tells us true repentance will result in a change of actions and that love keeps no record of wrongs and covers a multitude of sins.
03:34: However, changing hearts is God's business, and until an offender has a true, supernatural heart change, it is only wise to limit the level of trust one places in that person.
03:46: Being cautious doesn't mean we haven't forgiven. It simply means we are not God and we cannot see that person's heart.
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