Time with him and to love him, you know? I can vividly remember, it's like etched in my mind, and I'm not going to identify the person by name, even though this person is actually now in eternity with Christ, this person has passed away, but this individual, who I love dearly, dear brother, but very lacking in tact when he found out that my mother was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, and I was at a prayer meeting, obviously asking for not only the Lord to make it clear that my mother was saved, which the Lord certainly answered that prayer, I had the privilege of having Peter Jeffrey, of all people, who is now also spending eternity with Christ, Peter Jeffrey spent at least a half hour at my mother's deathbed, and this is during one of his rare visits to the United States, so it was very providential for me to have that privilege, and Peter Jeffrey arose from her room, because he was alone with her at my request, I wanted him to be alone with her, and he came out of that room and said with his thick Welsh accent, I don't know what you're worried about, she's going to heaven, she's born again, she's a Christian, but this individual approached me after prayer meeting, after hearing me praying for a healing for my mother, and he said, just remember Chris, it's a sin for you to want your mother to live, if it's God's will for her to die, and I said to him, how do I know it's his will for her to die, unless she's already passed away, I mean that's kind of an unusual thing to say, because you have no idea if it's God's will for a person to die, unless that person does die, obviously after that has happened, you know for certain that that was God's will, because he has decreed a day and an hour for all of us to depart from this earth, but that kind of a thing, where somebody has such a desire to immediately thrust some kind of a theological, what's the word, placard at you, and in that case it was just misinformed and unusual and a bad placard, we have to really put a leash on our tongues sometimes and just be there to hug people and cry with them and pray with them, don't we?