Some people don't even live in the same state, so maybe they just get to know someone through, I mean, you have social media, that's a way you could kind of get to know someone, sometimes from a distance, long distance, it can be a lot harder, and we were long distance, Caleb lived in Oklahoma and I was in New York, so God worked out all those details, and when it's the one, God will work out everything, you don't have to worry about it, but anyway, so he would talk to her parents, if they're in agreement, and a lot of times they will then talk to her, and she'll be like, oh, that's that guy that's been, you know, we've been doing a lot of stuff together, and yeah, he is a good guy, and I have noticed, you know, he loves the Lord and whatever, blah, blah, blah, then if she is in agreement, see, this is that screening time, and that really can protect the girl's heart, because if she's not interested, this is where, you know, you just say, dad, I really don't feel peace about that, you know, and then the dad just tells the boy, and that's the end of that, you know, and that alleviates a lot of the heartache, and the drama, and the just broken hearts, and things like that, and so anyway, or maybe the girl is all googly -eyed over the boy, and the parents see red flags, this is the perfect opportunity for the parents to say, hey, you know, we better take this slow, we better pray hard about this, we just don't really feel peace about this young man, and not that the parents would put their foot down, and never let her see him again type of thing, but if they had red flags, you know, when you go through the courtship, and you have your parents involved, it really helps for our heart, young ladies, our heart can be so deceitful, and we can be so blinded by, you know, his good looks, or his charming personality, that we might not see that red flag, and so we're able to be protected that way too, and then if our parents agree with everything, and we're all in agreement, then we pursue with maybe going on some dates, or doing things more in a closer setting, maybe not in a full group, but maybe he comes to visit, or the parents, you know, you all go out on a date together, and a lot, and people have different, you know, Caleb and I had times where he would take me to a restaurant, or we would do something special together, and our parents weren't always right there in the room, or right there at our table, you know, breathing down our backs, you know, we had time to talk, just the two of us, and things like that, but it really helps when you have your parents involved, or chaperones nearby, accountability there, you know, for purity during that time, especially as you get closer to marriage, those temptations will grow stronger, so anyway, and hopefully that helped you out there.