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- Welcome back to Coffee with a Calvinist.
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- My name is Keith Foskey and I am a Calvinist.
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- Today we are going to be looking at 1st Corinthians chapter 7.
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- 1st Corinthians chapter 7 is Paul's writing to the Corinthian church on the subject of marriage and divorce.
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- This is a very controversial subject within the church, one that again is not universally agreed upon even among those who would consider themselves to be Reformed or Calvinists.
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- Within evangelicalism there are basically three views on marriage and divorce.
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- There's the first view that is called the permanence view.
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- Permanence view says that there is never ever any reason for a divorce.
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- They would not accept any exception clauses to divorce.
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- Divorces are ever biblical.
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- No divorces are ever right.
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- No divorces are ever biblically warranted.
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- And so that's the permanence view.
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- Now I'm not trying to do justice to any of these views.
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- I don't have time.
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- I'm just simply explaining that the permanence view is just that.
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- It's a view that marriage is a permanent covenant that cannot be broken.
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- The second view is the view called semi semi permanence.
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- It would allow for divorce but not for remarriage.
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- So if a person was abandoned or a person committed adultery, they would allow for abuse or not abuse, excuse me, or if abuse was involved.
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- So abandonment, adultery, abuse, any one of those things could allow a person to rightfully seek a divorce.
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- But then that person would be bound to not ever remarry.
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- That's the semi permanence view.
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- And then of course there is allowance view.
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- And this view says yes there are some things that would make divorce allowed such as adultery.
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- That would be based on Jesus's words in Matthew 19.
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- I know that's debatable.
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- I'm just saying that's where that position would take.
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- And then of course in 1st Corinthians 7, the issue of abandonment where Paul talks about the the unbelieving spouse who departs.
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- The the person who has departed is no longer bound to that relationship.
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- And so the the the third view, the allowance view, would say well if they're no longer bound then that person would be allowed then to remarry.
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- And so would not be the first covenants broken.
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- They would be allowed to go and get a another marriage covenant.
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- And so that's the three views.
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- I'm not necessarily advocating one of those views today.
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- That's not my point for this lesson.
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- But I do encourage you as you're reading through 1st Corinthians 7 see where you think the Apostle Paul is falling on this particular issue.
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- One of the things that I wanted to mention also when you're studying is verse 1 is often very confusing.
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- That's a verse I want to look at.
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- He says now concerning the matters about which you wrote which tells us that Paul is addressing a direct question that they had written to him.
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- It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.
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- This is a confusing passage for many people because they say wait a minute marriage is good and therefore sexual intimacy in a marriage is good.
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- Why would Paul be saying it's good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman? Well I understand this to be very contextual in that Paul is speaking to a group of people many of which who have been married multiple times.
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- Some of them had been slaves.
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- Some of them had been sold in slavery and in their slaves conditions had been married and remarried and so Paul is giving a general situation to the general statement to them it'd be better if you can just simply not continue to engage in these relationships but could stay as I am.
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- He's going to mention that Paul obviously at this point is is not in a marriage relationship so he's saying it's better if you can just stay like me but he goes on to say that those are that that's not the norm and that most people are not going to do that.
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- Most people want to be married.
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- Most people are not gifted and I do believe celibacy and the ability to be single is a gift.
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- Singleness is a gift and most people aren't able to to exercise that gift and so Paul gives 1st Corinthians 7 as sort of an example of how marriage and divorce and those things are supposed to be handled.
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- One other thing I want to mention here very important when it to the issue of biblical inerrancy.
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- This is one of the passages 1st Corinthians 7 particularly verses 10 and 12 are one of the passages where people like to argue against the inerrancy of Scripture.
