How Can I Change? Put Off Sin and Put On Godliness

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In this episode of Bible Bashed, we'll be continuing our discussion, how can I change? And the specific principle of sanctification that we're going to be dealing with and interacting today is to put on, put off dynamic in scripture.

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So we're going to talk about putting off sin and putting on godliness. Now, for most people, when they think about sanctification in general, it's very natural and easy to think about the idea of putting off certain destructive behaviors.

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And so mostly what we do when we think about sanctification, if we're thinking about it in a biblical way, and if we, you know, this assumes that we have taken personal responsibility for whatever the vice is, for most of us, if we can get to that point where we take personal responsibility, mostly what we fixate on is what's described as sins of omission.

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So if you were to think about trying to be more holy or more Christ -like, mostly what would come to mind is certain vices that you may or may not participate in.

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Now, you know, the new Calvinist movement is significantly characterized by drunkenness as far as that's concerned.

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And so for many young Calvinists, it seems like to be drunk is to be, is to have a badge of honor. Now, like if you reject like the psychological victim labels and you know, don't view that person as suffering from alcoholism, but you view them as a drunk.

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At that point, you know, assuming that there is a person who is mastered by alcohol at that point, that would be good.

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But then like you think about pursuing sanctification, I need to quit being a drunk. Well, step one, you take in personal responsibility.

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That's wonderful. That's good. But you know, sanctification is more than just putting off bad behaviors. But then just think about like sanctification as most people think about it, mostly involves putting off bad behaviors.

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So stop drinking, you know, stop being a drunk, you know, stop being a drunk, you know, stop looking at porn.

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I need to stop looking at porn. I need to, you know, and those would be great. Like if you could take responsibility for those things and determine from those things, you know, but just think about the negatives.

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Stop looking at porn. Stop being a drunk. I need to, you know, stop eating so much, you know, quit being a glutton.

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If you're allowed to even go there in your mind, I need to stop being a glutton. I need to stop missing church so much, you know,

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I need to stop yelling at my wife and just stop yelling at my kids, you know, so, you know, as you're thinking about sanctification, mostly it's these sins of commission that you might need to stop doing.

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And so for most people, what I'm trying to say is sanctification involves this list of behaviors they need to stop participating in.

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But then, you know, if you move on from that, you maybe get a little bit more sophisticated and you realize there's actually sins of omission in the

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Bible too, not just sins of commission. It might be that you have a certain list of behaviors you need to put on.

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Like I need to learn to be more disciplined. I need to learn to be more self -controlled. I need to learn to be more respectful to my husband.

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I need to learn to be more loving to my wife and loving to my kids and loving to, you know, my church.

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I need to, you know, learn to be, like to give more in my church. I haven't been giving as faithfully or going to church as faithfully.

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And so, you know, if you are taking personal responsibility for things that you are thinking about specific changes that you need to make, most of them are behaviors that most people think.

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So we mostly lean on these behaviors. So like there are the bad behaviors we need to stop doing and the good things that we need to start doing.

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But mostly I would say it's probably the bad behaviors that we need to stop doing that we're fixated on. Now as you think about what the

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Bible says at this point, there's an interesting passage in Ephesians 4 .17

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that talks about some of these things and gives us a little bit more insight into how biblical change is supposed to actually work.

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Okay. So as I said in a previous episode about understanding who we are in Christ, you don't go to Ephesians 4 before you get to Ephesians 1 through 3.

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And so you don't get to the ethics before you understand who you actually are in Christ. But in Ephesians 4 .17,

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what you have is you have a little bit of overlap. So this is a passage which is connecting who we are in Christ with now how we're supposed to behave.

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So Ephesians 4 .17 says, Now this I say and testify in the Lord that you must no longer walk as the

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Gentiles do in the futility of their minds. Why? Because you're a new creature in Christ. You have a new identity now.

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It says, They are darkened in their understanding, alienated from the life of God because the ignorance is in them due to their hardness of heart.

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They become callous and have given themselves up to sensuality, greedy to practice every kind of impurity.

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But then he says, But this is not the way you learned in Christ. Okay. Assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him as the truth is in Jesus, what you were taught is to put off your old self, verse 22, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds and to put on your new self, created in the likeness of God, in true righteousness and holiness.

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And so the Bible talks about this put off, put on dynamic. And this is a very important dynamic as it relates to pursuing sanctification in general.

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And one of the things that this tells us is that with every area of sin in your life, there's a put off and there's a corresponding put on that you need to figure out how both of these things work and how they connect.

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Okay. So now notice some examples that are given at this point. So verse 25,

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Ephesians 4, 25. Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor for we are members of one another.

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So most people, they get fixated on the put off. I can't even stop lying. But the issue is, it's like, you're not just trying to stop lying.

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You need to be a truth teller. And you need to be a truth teller because of who you are in Christ. So, you know,

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Satan is the father of lies. You know, Jesus Christ describes himself as the way, the truth, and the life.

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So Jesus is the truth. Satan is the father of lies. And he speaks of his own character.

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And those who, you know, are children of Satan are going to be dominated by lies because they're going to be dominated by the desires of their father at that point.

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But notice, like, there's the connection. So you need to stop. You need to put away the falsehood and speak truth.

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Okay. So notice the Bible says, let the thief, verse 28, no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need.

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Further, notice what it says. So notice the put off, no longer steal, but rather go get a job, work with your hands so that you can be generous.

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29, let no corrupting talk come out of your mouth. So don't have corrupting talk. Always such as is good for building up as fits the occasion that it may give grace to those who hear.

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So notice, no corrupting talk, but only talk that's going to build up. Do not grieve the Holy Spirit whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.

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It says, let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor be put away from you along with all malice. But then the put on is be kind, tenderhearted, forgiving one another as God in Christ forgave you.

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So notice, like, there's a vice list that's followed by a virtue list. So at every single point, you're going to have a put off and a put on dynamic.

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Now, why that's important is because, like, if you're an individual who loves the truth, so let's talk about lying. So there's a lot of people who get fixated on lying.

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Like, I don't need to lie anymore. I didn't quit lying. Man, I just hate the fact that I just lie, I lie, I lie. Like, how do you learn how to change?

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Well, it's not just by trying to stop lying so much. The way you learn how to change is by cultivating a heart that loves the truth and resonates with the truth and wants to spread and communicate the truth.

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The more that you actually love the truth, the more that you're going to hate the lie, the more that you're characterized by truth telling, you're not going to struggle with lying anymore.

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The same thing is true, like, by, like, stealing. So the Bible says, let the thief no longer steal.

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So you need to reject the psychological label at that point that describes you as a kleptomaniac. You're not suffering from kleptomania.

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Like, you don't have to, like, fear for the rest of your life every time you walk into a shopping mall that you're just going to, you know, grab things and put in your pocket because that's who you are.

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That's your identity. That's who you are at the core. No, let the thief no longer steal. But what do you do? Like, so you're not just fixating on stop stealing.

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What you do, you work with your hands so you may have something to share with anyone in need. What you do is you learn to be generous.

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So the thing is, like, if you cultivate a generous, like, heart, so, like, and that's, like, if you fixate on the put on at that point, you're cultivating a generous heart.

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What's going to happen is you need to first go get a job because you're not going to have, like, if you're stealing, you know, thing is, if you spend your time doing something profitable with working, you're going to have money.

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And if you learn to give that money away, what you're doing is you're cultivating a generous heart. And the more that you learn to love to give, like the thought of stealing, you'd never want to steal from anyone again because you've cultivated generosity in your heart.

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What you've learned is it's more blessed to give than it is to receive. And once you learn that lesson by cultivating a generous heart, by looking for opportunities to be generous and to part with your money and to bless other people, one of the things you're going to find is you'll never struggle with stealing again.

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So the issue is you're not just fixating on the things you need to stop doing. You're trying to interact with the corresponding put on at that point.

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The same thing, like let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be thrown away from you along with all malice.

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Like, you know, if you're a person who has a temper problem, you don't have some intermittent explosive disorder.

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You're not suffering from bipolar. You know, what you have is you have a temper problem. And if you take responsibility for it, you say,

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I have a temper problem. I need to quit getting mad all the time. All right, good. Step one, you took personal responsibility. You say you need to quit getting mad all the time.

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That's wonderful. But you know what you really need to do? You don't need to fixate on trying to stop getting mad all the time.

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What you need to fixate on is being kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving one another as God and Christ has forgiven you.

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The issue is if you can, like angry people, they're not kind. And if you can learn to be kind to people who are despitefully using you, like if your enemy hungers, feed him, if he thirsts, give him drink.

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And so doing, you'll reap colds of fire upon your head. Like if you learn like to kill people with kindness, if you learn to show people unmerited favor and compassion, like if you learn how to love people and actually be kind to them when they're despitefully using you and mistreating you, not,

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I mean, I can reject the lies of the world that basically says that like, if you're emotionally abused, you have some moral responsibility to flee.

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Like, no, like here's the thing. Like if someone is being like hateful to you and rude to you, the Bible tells you to wait a moment of kindness to learn to be kind to them, be tenderhearted, forgiving one another.

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The thing is, if you can learn to be kind, if you can be learned to be kind to difficult people, if you learn to be kind to people who are sinning against you, you're not going to struggle with anger and bitterness and wrath and clamor and slander.

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Like the issue is like, you need to focus on the put on, be kind to one another, tenderhearted to one another as God and Christ forgive you.

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And the key to all of this is, it's just, it's not just like do the opposite behavior. You have to understand how the behavior that you need to put on connects with how

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Jesus actually was. So, you know, like you're thinking through all this vice list that we're talking through.

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Like we're to put off the old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires.

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Like think about how Jesus connects to all of it. So you need to quit lying and you need to speak the truth. Why? Because Jesus was the way, the truth, the life, and he's come to fundamentally transform us to be out of the kingdom of darkness and lies into the kingdom of light.

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So you're thinking about the example of Christ and what he's done for you on the cross. That's motivating you to put on new character traits and new desires and new habits and new emotions even.

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So like you're asking, how does Christ connect to all of it? So no longer am I going to be a liar like my father the devil was,

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I'm going to be characterized by the truth like my father God is and his son

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Christ is, okay? So you're not going to let any corrupting talk come out of your mouth. The only such is good for edification and building up.

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Like you're no longer going to steal from other people. Like Jesus didn't come to steal.

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Jesus came to give his life as a ransom for many. If Jesus can come and like do for me what

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I didn't deserve, then you know what? When people are mistreating me, when people are abusing me,

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I can learn to love them. I can be kind to them. I can respond in kindness to them, not just anger because I didn't get what

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I wanted when I wanted it. And the same thing is true as it relates to just any of these things that we're talking about.

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Like there's a put off and a put on dynamic. And so instead of just fixing all the bad behavior, you need to stop doing.

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You need to ask like, what is the corresponding good behavior that I need to put on at this point?

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And like, how does Jesus relate to that? And like, how does my identity in Christ filter into that kind of thing?

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And for many people, like sadly, like they just focus on the negatives, just stop doing this, stop doing that, enjoying little to no success.

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But if they think about how the put off relates to put on and how that relates to Jesus, they'd have a lot more success.

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Now, go boldly and obey the truth in the midst of a biblically illiterate world who will be perpetually offended by your every move.