TLP 376: Teach Your Family to Celebrate God!

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So drumroll, please for all of these reasons and more we are going to embark on a new journey over the next two months

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We are going to explain Welcome to truth love Parents where we use

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God's Word to become intentional premeditated parents. Here's your host a .m.

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Brewster Have you ever celebrated God? I mean really have you ever truly?

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celebrated God What would that even look like is it even accurate to say that our annual observances of Easter and Christmas are truly

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Celebrations of God. What does it biblically mean to celebrate something? And why would this topic be relevant to parenting?

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Well, I hope today to begin a journey with you to answer those questions And as we take each step down this road,

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I believe our families will benefit greatly not only from the destination But also from every inch we traverse

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It is my solid conviction that our topic today will play an integral and formative part in the discipling of our kids in fact

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What I'm going to unveil over the next few minutes is the very incarnation of what it looks like to be an intentional premeditated disciple making ambassador parent and I hope you're excited.

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I know I am as Always you can navigate to taking back the family comm to read the transcript of our show, but we won't have any episode notes for you today

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Now let's talk about what it means for your family to celebrate God Why your family should be doing it every day of the year and how you can help your home take the next steps in their

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Spiritual maturity by utilizing what we call the year -long celebration of God as an exciting discipleship resource

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Growing up. My family celebrated all the main holidays the way to expect any good Protestants to celebrate sure

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We didn't have a robust liturgical calendar in our church but we put up all the appropriate cultural emphasis on the days that mattered that meant that we decorated for Christmas and made the cookies and Listened to Andy Williams and the carpenters and exchanged gifts and even participated in our church's

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Christmas cantata Easter wasn't quite as involved, but we always went to church and enjoyed the special emphasis

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Of course, Thanksgiving was our jam. Our ancestors had participated in the very first American Thanksgiving So, you know, it's a matter of honor

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And that was pretty much it from the church side the 4th of July Memorial Day and Labor Day and Mothers and Fathers Day and Valentines were all given their appropriate secular nod and for every event

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I've mentioned there was always way too much food and Everyone I knew celebrated those days pretty much the same ways

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Let's be honest going to church during Christmas and Easter were always the quote -unquote low parts for children

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We did it and everyone there made it enjoyable for the kids But at least in my family, we'd much rather be eating cookies and looking for Easter eggs

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I keenly and Ashamedly remember cringing when any adult family members suggested we read a portion of the scripture or pray for an extended period of time on Christmas morning or Easter of course

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I didn't have to worry about that happening on the 4th of July or Labor Day and Then I went to college and most of the holidays ceased to mean much to me other than a potential day off work and classes

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Thanksgiving and Christmas were always amazing Of course Christmas always being my favorite growing up and now they were even more significant because they both marked the end of semester of Classes keep in mind that I've been homeschooled all growing up So that element was new to me

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But Easter slowly became less of a big deal all the eggs and candy and special meals were gone

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I was still at school and all we had was a special Sunday service or vespers or a play or a living gallery

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It was okay. Some of those things were really amazing and I always loved and appreciated what Jesus had done for me

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But as for really celebrating Easter personally well, and Then I got married and then my wife and I had kids

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And then we experienced a couple rounds of the major holidays and then my wife and I had this dramatic dawning an extremely uncomfortable realization that perhaps we didn't really observe those holidays to the glory of God like we may have thought and We wanted so much more for our kids when it came to how they viewed and participated in those celebrations.

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I Personally realized that the thing I loved most about Christmas was the snow and the lights and the tree and the cookies

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Family presents and vacation. I love the music too In fact, I still listen to Christmas music all year long to the my wife's chagrin

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But I was really convicted that my favorite parts of the holiday season were all legitimately beautiful blessings from God But when subtracted from the real purpose of Christmas, I was celebrating the season just like an unbeliever would

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God had become a necessary add -on. He was an awkwardly appreciated addition to the festivities

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And I was starting to realize that was a huge problem Now I can't go into all the details concerning how

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God was working in my life during that time. For the sake of this story I'm only really focusing on how I responded to holidays and how

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God opened my eyes to a need in my spirit But in order to be more transparent about how God was working in my life overall

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There were plenty of other areas in my life where God wasn't on the throne like he should be. In fact

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I'll be honest enough to say that my approach to the holidays was what it was because I was too often the God of my

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Little life and I simply approached the seasons the same way I did everything else How can I enjoy this for me?

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When I enjoyed reveling and what God had done for me, I enjoyed it Otherwise, it was just what you do

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So my wife and I have been on this journey for over a decade now The first six or seven years were very, you know, pretty slow

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We made some changes to how our family observed the major holidays, but most of it was the same But then we moved to Victory Academy There I was living day in and day out with unbelieving terrorist zombie teenagers in my home

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And I saw the fact that we couldn't just ignore God and expect there to be any change in their lives They lived every minute of their lives trying to suck every pleasure out of the air for their own personal enjoyment

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They gave no thought to God He was a nuisance and an annoyance and I finally started to grasp my responsibility to make

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God real to them In addition to church on Sunday and Wednesdays We had morning devotions, evening chapels about three times a week, intensive chapels at other times

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Retreats with preaching and Bible study, weekly formal counseling and all the other informal counseling

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I found myself doing just trying to keep a family of 14 idolaters from killing each other and still it wasn't enough

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The boys still forgot about God. They still ignored him. They still fell victim to Satan, the world, and the flesh around every corner

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Then I slowly realized that since God was everywhere, we needed, as a family, to encounter him everywhere

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Who God is and what he had done slowly started to become the very blood coursing through my veins

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They started to be the very things that made the hands on the clock move for me I found myself pointing him out and talking of him all the time, eating, playing games, taking walks, in times of trouble, driving

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Everywhere. I needed to. That's what these boys needed. It's what I needed. It's what my kids needed

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It's what my wife and the RAs needed. And again, just to reiterate, it's what I needed

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How on earth did I live so much of my life ignorant and blind to what God was doing in my life?

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Well, victory forced me into a place where I had to keep my eyes fixed solely on God in order to survive and have any hope of it affecting the boys

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And I praise God for that experience because I learned something extremely important You don't only need to live that way when you're working in a home for at -risk teen boys

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We Christians have been commanded by God to live that way all of the time

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It's like a martial artist trying to convince a room full of women that they need to learn self -defense But those women politely decline until one day one of them is attacked and molested

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Well, then everything changes. That woman signs up for all the courses. She learns, she starts teaching She starts advocating for women to be trained in the martial arts for their own safety and the safety of their families

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She experienced it and she only too late realized how important and necessary it was for her safety

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And now she regrets not learning it sooner I don't want us and our families lying mangled on the spiritual

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Battlefield of the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the pride of life wishing we had taken this whole thing much more seriously

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In the same way how I found myself parenting at victory was not unique to victory It's how we're all called to parent during the holidays during the big game during school during dinner

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God has commanded us to pack his truth into every moment Now, what does this have to do with celebration?

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Well, I realize that our modern christian understanding of the celebration of God is sadly limp

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We compartmentalize our faith into something we do at certain times of the day or week or year

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And then we live the rest of our lives just like everyone else around us with very little thought or concern to God's expectations for us when we're not in church and our

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Bibles aren't open And I realized that that mentality was a key facet of satan and the world and the flesh's spiritual attacks on our families

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Keep them so distracted by quote -unquote life that they don't have time to really think about the giver of life

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Well, guess what? That needs to change In my house in your house that needs to change

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The year -long celebration of God is not a repackaging of our modern and historic holidays

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In fact, though it has a lot to do with holidays in general that won't be the only focus Many of the holidays will play an integral part because they fall on days that we should already be celebrating

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God Anyway, of course, we're going to use them in our worship, but we're also going to learn how to celebrate

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God on august 23rd That's right a day with no special significance besides the possibility that it's your birthday

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Or you like to observe the made -up celebration of ride the wind a day God wants us to celebrate him in every moment in every way.

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That's what disciples do Now according to Merriam -Webster to celebrate has a number of meanings for example

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To perform a sacrament or solemn ceremony publicly and with appropriate rights To honor an occasion such as a holiday, especially by solemn ceremonies or by refraining from ordinary business

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To mark something such as an anniversary by festivities or other deviation from routine To hold up or play up for public notice to observe a holiday

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Perform a religious ceremony or take part in a festival or simply to observe a notable occasion with festivities

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And let's be honest that might be fun for a while But we all know how important it is for the party to be over for a vacation to come to an end

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We may be thinking that it may be nice to suggest that we be involved in a never -ending celebration of God But wouldn't that be exhausting?

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Well, I believe we only respond that way because we don't truly understand how God wants to be celebrated Keep in mind that we will be praising and worshiping and celebrating him for all eternity

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We're not going to get bored and we only ever imagine that we will because we don't truly understand him the way we should

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Well, I say we not wait until eternity to start to learn how to appreciate it So yes, there are sacraments and ceremonies.

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He wants us to perform publicly with appropriate rights, but we won't do that all of the time Yes, he does want us honoring him at certain times by solemn ceremonies or refraining from ordinary business

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He does want us to have natural and rhythmic deviations from normal activity in order to mark a special occasion

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But he also wants us celebrating him in our prayer closets Every time we open his word and throughout the day not always in fanfare and sacraments and rites, but always in word and in deed

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Would you agree that when done in the right way for the right reasons the old testament sacrificial system was an observance?

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A celebration of glorious realities past present and future. Of course the bible makes that perfectly clear

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It was a solemn celebration of god's salvation. That was a regular part of every jewish believer's life

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We'll now consider romans 12 1 I urge you brethren by the mercies of god to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice acceptable to god

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Which is your spiritual service of worship? Now we just spent 15 episodes diving into the reality of our minute by minute spiritual war may

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I suggest that the victory we all desire is intrinsically tied to our ability to appropriately acknowledge and honor and Mark and celebrate god in those moments when our spiritual enemies are tempting us to do things our own way

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Yeah, I think that's pretty fair As we're going to see moving forward to celebrate god is to do many things some solemn some exciting

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Some seemingly mundane and some gorgeously transcendent We're also going to see that this celebration must encompass all we do not simply be relegated to december 25th and april 22nd

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Philippians 4 4 raises the bar pretty high when it commands us to rejoice in the lord always again.

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I will say rejoice That word translated rejoice is used in many passages of scripture to help us better understand the many things god wants us celebrating

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Let me give you just some examples We rejoice in the lord in his incarnation his power his presence with the father his presence with us his ultimate triumph

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Hearing the gospel our salvation receiving the lord our enrollment in heaven our liberty in christ our hope our prospect of reward

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The obedience and godly conduct of fellow believers the proclamation of christ the gospel harvest suffering with christ

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Suffering in the cause of the gospel and persecutions trials and afflictions the manifestation of grace

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Meeting with fellow believers receiving tokens of love and fellowship We're supposed to rejoice in the rejoicing of others learning of the well -being of others and many many more and I will include passages

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That reference every single one of those things. I just said that god wants us rejoicing him And if we took the time to consciously rejoice in just those moments, it would change how we move through this life

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So let's now take a moment to answer how we can help our families take the next steps in their spiritual maturity by Utilizing this thing that we're calling the year -long celebration of god and then we'll end with an amazing announcement

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The year -long celebration of god or just the celebration of god is simply a tool whereby you can intentionally and premeditatedly

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Use the everyday occurrences and rhythms of this life to point your children to the reality And presence and person of god as you evangelize them and subsequently disciple them as ambassadors of god

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Now i'm not claiming that it's all you need In fact, the celebration of god is not so much the content of the discipleship as it is just the plan for discipleship

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It's a necessary facet of discipleship like so many other resources we provide you

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For example, if you and your family follow the lessons learned in the communication house, you will address many issues in your home

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But there are still many other biblical truths You need to use in your parenting if you want to grow your parenting bible and truly unpack the counsel of god stored in the scriptures for us

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The celebration of god is the exact same thing Lord willing you will find that it touches on many if not

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Most of the moments of your day providing structure and guidance for unique ways to bring god's will for your family to the forefront of your plans and experiences

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We want it to address the ebbs and the flows the highs and the lows the holidays and the school days and the work days

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So drum roll, please for all of these reasons and more we are going to embark on a new journey

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Over the next two months we're going to explain the celebration of god in great detail

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So we all understand it better we're going to give a much more in -depth answer for what it means to celebrate god the

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Types of celebrations the fact that god commands us to celebrate him and various facets of the celebration of god resource and so on We also hope to answer the questions and concerns that will likely arise as we unpack this for you

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So think of this as a new tlp series However, all the while we're publishing those episodes here on tlp.

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We'll also be packaging the information up and starting another podcast That's right.

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Truth. Love parent will be starting the celebration of god podcast that we hope lord willing will eventually branch off on its own

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In regard to starting a whole nother podcast team tlp and I plan to handle the material this way for a couple of reasons

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Number one the celebration of god is a massive topic that needs more than a regular length series

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There's enough biblical content to keep this resource going for years and years We're describing this resource as a dynamic discipleship plan that Utilizes the bible our holiday calendars and even the most average moments of the most normal days to equip christians and their families to know

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Believe and celebrate god all year long and since we're celebrating an infinite god

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We don't want to limit the discussion any more than we have to And number two we don't want the celebration of god overshadowing the other vital truths god has for our life and parenting in his word

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Yes, the celebration of god will be a living and powerful tool as we seek to disciple our families But it's just one tool.

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There are still many more discussions to be had about god and his expectations for our homes So in order to allow the celebration of god to flourish and not overshadow the other discussions

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We need to have about how to be a truth Love parent we're going to introduce the podcast here and then roll it out to the world and I could not be more excited

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I'm, like a kid in a candy shop considering the usefulness of this resource The topics we'll be able to discuss the guests will feature the glory

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We pray this resource heaps on our lord and the good. We hope it'll do your family I'm sure you can agree with me that god is worthy of our prayer adoration worship and celebration

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I'm sure you can see how each of us needs to continue growing in our awareness of god and devotion to his will for our lives

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And I hope you're excited or at least interested right along with me to learn more about how the year -long celebration of god really works

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I think it's going to be awesome So please share this episode on your favorite social media outlets So other parents can discover this amazing new endeavor from truth love parent

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Because if we want our children to grow up into christ, we must parent in truth and love And when we really understand that truth and love we're going to want to celebrate it

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To that end join us next time as we premiere the inaugural episode of the celebration of god podcast truth love

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Parents is part of the evermind ministries family and is dedicated to helping you become an intentional