Right. So, and this was new for me, I mentioned on my podcast, I initially heard this from a podcast called Stop and Think About It, and I was just listening to you guys, Steve, he's like, we've talked before this podcast, that I heard the podcast, and so I kind of know him a little bit, and I was like, man, I'm listening to this, this is the first time I've heard this concept, because I was under the impression as well, I know we talked about a little bit before we started, that, you know, hey, we're called to forgive, you know, we're just called to forgive, and, you know, and, you know, even then, I still had a misunderstanding or, you know, even if we're talking now, like, thinking about reconciliation, like, hey, well, I'm forgiving you, I'm letting it go, you know, saying no need to hold it over you, you know, just let it be, and so I listened to the podcast, and I heard it, and it was, it was, it kind of threw me off, and I'm like, well, let me check this out, so I really do appreciate the fact that the listeners was, like, really gracious towards me as I worked through this, like, you know, I try to keep that honest with prescribed truth, it's like, I don't claim to know everything, you know, I'm working through truth, you know, I come from falsehoods, and by God's grace, I'm headed to truth, I mean, I've heard it to the truth of the gospel, and everything after that, you know, is continuing to grow, and so, and that's what I love about the ministry, the ministry that I have, it's like, I'm growing, and people see that, you know, so I don't mind being corrected with anything, don't mind when people disagree, or, you know, chopping it up with me about things, because, you know, I'm open to correction, but the process of this was, was, this, I think this was the most challenging topic that I've done on the, on prescribed truth, that had me really just go to my, even had to go to my elders, like, hey, what do you say about this, you know?