Christianity is For Normal People

You know, when I first started fishing, I bought a pack of these Powerbait Chigger Craws in the green pumpkin color, and I didn't know what

I was doing and I used them a few times and I didn't catch anything, probably because I didn't know what

I was doing, I didn't know how to fish them. In any case, recently a buddy let me borrow one of these and it worked great.

I caught a bass and I found out how to actually use them and when to use them and stuff like that. So I looked for the package

I bought because I had a bunch left and I couldn't find it so I went out and bought a new one and then I found it like the next day.

So now I've got double Powerbait Chigger Craws, so that's a score. In any case,

I wanted to really quickly talk about something that I was talking to my brother about this and he gave me some really good insight into it, but actually

I started thinking about it because yesterday, I believe, Andrew Torba was live streaming an episode of the

King's Hall podcast. I don't think the episode was live, I think he was just playing it live just to test out the new

Gab Voice product. And brothers, I've heard of this King's Hall podcast before,

I have not listened to it until yesterday. You guys are doing a great job, I mean there were so many things that resonated with stuff

I've thought about in the past, but you guys put such a fine point on it, I wish I thought of some of the ways you were describing some of that stuff.

So that's really good, I'm going to have to listen to that podcast more often. I didn't hear the whole episode yesterday because I kind of came in in the middle, but they mentioned something that got me thinking about something that I talked to my brother about and it was this idea of egghead

Christianity. And egghead Christianity, you know, when

I first became a Christian, there was sort of an idea that I don't think was explicitly taught, but it was just assumed, it was just part of the narrative that I got from mostly the

Big Eva type people, the Tim Kellers, the Matt Chandlers, the Mark Driscoll, stuff like that.

And it's this idea that the Christian life for a man, you're studying, you don't even have an office, you don't have a man cave, you've got to study and you've got books, tons of books behind you and they're leather bound and you read multiple books at once and it takes, you don't just read it, you really dig in and you study it and you buy books and in fact you brag about how many books you buy and you haven't even read them all because you're just spending so much time camped out in this one book, you're reading

Turretin and you're just sucking the marrow out of Turretin and it's just amazing, you get your jollies from this and you sniff your book,

I don't know about the sniffing part, but yeah, it's a very weird culture. But at the time

I was a new Christian so I didn't know any better and I did have, I lived in New York City at the time so I had this long commute that normally

I would just play a stupid cell phone game or something or just do nothing and it was easy to redeem that time because it was just wasted time otherwise.

So what I would do is I'd read, I'd read a lot of books and I would read old books, I'd read new books, I'd read pop theology books,

I'd read systematic theology books and all kinds of stuff. I remember I even taught myself, you know, first and second year

Greek on the subway ride and stuff like that. And so I did that,

I kind of, I had a lot of books and I didn't have a study because I lived in New York and apartments in New York are tiny but, you know, basically

I had that going on, you know, and I would post pictures on Twitter or Facebook or whatever of my leather -bound book collection and stuff like that and that's what people did, it was just part of the culture and I just,

I learned a lot for sure, I enjoyed it and it was great and all of that and it was fine.

But then when I left New York and I had other things that I could do, I didn't have a long commute, I didn't do that quite as much, you know,

I didn't, I didn't study systematics and now when I became a pastor, of course, I did because that's actually part of the job of a pastor is to study.

But there's this impression that for regular Joe Christians, you know, Christians in the pews, that you basically have to treat your life as if you're a pastor even though you're not, like you spend your time studying and it's not enough to even read devotionally through the

Bible, like you have to really study the Scripture, if you're not studying the Scripture, then there's something wrong with you almost and I've come to realize that that's actually really not the

Christian life at all. And a lot of this stuff comes from guys like Piper, you know, they write these poems about Christ and it's almost presented as if like this is the pinnacle of the

Christian male life is to, is to spend your time thinking about Christ and writing poetry about Christ and if, you know, if you do take a walk in the woods, you better be thinking about Christ while you're doing it and stuff like that and it's just,

I just don't see that as the standard normal godly

Christian life for everybody. Now look, if you like reading theology books, you know, you get the new turrent in and you just can't wait to dig in, that's really you, you really get enjoyment out of it, then that's a gift from God and accept it and knock yourself out, right?

But that's not me. That's not me and that's not a lot of people. And I think you can even hear this kind of come through sometimes in podcast interviews and listen, if you've invited me on your podcast and you've asked me this question,

I'm not mad at you, okay, so don't hear me saying I'm mad at you, I'm not. But it's just a lot is assumed sometimes where it's like, all right, well let me ask you a question, what are you reading right now,

AD? And it's like, I'm not really reading much to be honest with you, I'm taking care of my kids,

I'm playing with them, I'm going fishing, I'm doing stuff, but here's what I do do when I need to reference something, right, like something will come up in a conversation or maybe

I see something on Twitter and I'm like, I wonder what Rush Dooney said about this verse, and so I'll go to my books and I'll pull it up,

I'll reference it and I'll read what he said about it, I'll read the surrounding context and that'll be, that's what

I do. Am I really reading Rush Dooney at the time? No, I'm not really reading Rush Dooney at the time, but I am, you know, and I'll read books.

I mean, I'm not saying I don't read, I'll read books when something interests me, but I don't do the thing where it's like, all right, well now

I've got to study. You know, it's not, that's not really for everyday, regular Christians, and so if that's not you,

I want to encourage you that that's probably fine. By the way, the scripture, if you do read the scripture, which of course

I have, and one of the first things I did when I converted is I read all the way through the Bible beginning to end very quickly, and if you haven't done that,

I recommend doing it. There you go. But if you do read the Bible, you'll notice that the primary way that God expects his people to receive his word is through hearing it preached.

It's not spending your devotional time, you know, you get your little coffee and then you open up your

Bible and of course you take a picture of it and put it on Twitter and that's your devotional time.

Like there's really nothing like that in the Bible, but it's assumed like that is the spiritual, if you're not doing that,

I mean, you're not even a basic Christian. It's like, well, in the Bible though, the primary way, if you like doing that,

I'm not saying don't do that. In fact, I think it's a good idea, but if you don't have time for it, right, if you don't have time to get your little coffee and to get your quiet time in, right, like especially for a young parent, like quiet time can be difficult to come by.

If you're not doing that, take heart. Take heart because the Christian life is about more than your quiet time, right?

The primary way that the God, that the Gospels, I'm sorry, the letters of Paul about how the church is organized, you hear the word preached.

And if you're, so if you're not doing that, if you're not going to church, hearing the word preached, there is a problem there, right?

But it's pastors that are supposed to study to show themselves approved. If you want to study too, that's fine, but if you spend your time, maybe you're starting a construction business and you're in the field because you're just starting out.

So you're out there, you're building stuff. And then when you get home, you've got to spend some more time actually after your kids go to bed, you know, you have to spend more time actually working on the business, right?

Like you're not always in the business, you have to work on your business as well. And you're buying, you're selling, you're making deals, you're stuff like that.

You're hiring. If you're spending a lot of time doing that, because you've got a vision to start a construction business for the glory of God, and obviously for the benefit of your family as well, you want your kids to join you in it.

You want to build a foundation for your family so that they're set in the future. Like those are godly things, right?

Yes, you need to teach your kids about Christ, so you need to know enough about them to teach their kids about Christ. And probably that knowledge is going to have to progress as they get older, because when they're six years old, it's easy to explain things.

When they're 12, 15, 18, probably going to need to know a little bit more. But that's okay, you've got time to grow into that, right?

You know, if you're not taking your family to church, that's a problem, because the Bible is specifically explicit about that.

But what I mean is like, if you don't have your study, you know, you don't have, you're not have your leather -bound books, and you're not bragging online about how many books you purchased, and how many books are in the queue to read, and you can't wait to get to the new

Zwingli. The new Zwingli. That doesn't make any sense. You know what I mean. Or maybe you don't even know who

Zwingli is, right? You don't know who Zwingli is. Dude, that's okay. Because the thing is, when you see the marks of a true

Christian, of course you're growing in knowledge, right? But most of those marks are character traits, things that you're doing.

You're growing in holiness and obedience to God. Like if you don't know the Bible enough to know what obedience to God looks like, then you have some work to do.

There's just no question about that, right? But if you're not getting your quiet time in every day, and you're not doing, you're not writing poetry to God, because you don't like to write poetry, right?

Instead, what you like to do is you like to work on old cars and stuff like that. And, you know, maybe you're kind of working on a side project where, you know, you build an old car and then you sell it, you turn a small profit, and then you get some more parts to make a new, you know, to work on a new old car, and stuff like that.

And you're just kind of, that's what you like to do. That's fine, guys. That's fine. I say this all the time, you know, when

I'm out fishing, of course, sometimes I'll talk to God and I'll pray to the Lord. And other times

I won't. That's okay. If you don't have a study project going on right now, there's nothing wrong with that.

Like you don't have to go searching, oh, I got to study about, I got to study about the intricacies of this Trinitarian controversy.

Like if that excites you and you want to do that, go for it. But if you have no reason to do that, you don't have to do it.

It's just that simple. I remember I did a study, I've done one study project, like a real intense one is what

I mean. I've done small ones, of course. I've done one study project on an issue of theology when

I wasn't a pastor, right? Just for my own purposes. And it had to do with prayer. Because I remember as a young Christian feeling like there was something wrong with me because most of my prayers,

I was asking God for something. I was very needy, right? I felt needy. Like I needed help with something.

I was worried about something. Something was coming up that I needed help with. And I kept hearing Big Eva type pastors tell me that that was wrong.

They'd be like, if you only pray when you're in trouble, then you're in trouble. And they made it seem like you should feel bad if most of your prayers aren't magnifying his glory and they're not prayers of praise or thanksgiving.

If most of your prayers are asking God for something, there's something wrong with you. And so I was wondering, where do they get this?

I find myself often praying when I need help. And I didn't feel bad about that.

But then I was kind of being made to feel bad. I was like, where are they getting this? So I studied prayer. I looked up exhaustively every instance of prayer in the entire

Bible. And I would read the instance of prayer and then I would read the surrounding context. It took me a while to do this.

And I would classify each prayer into like four or five categories. You know, either asking for something, thanksgiving, praise, glorifying

God, whatever it is, right? And I forget the exact categories I use, but I use like five categories.

And what I found after an exhaustive study of this was that like 80 % of prayers are asking

God for something. So I remember thinking, you know, these Big Eva guys, at the time, I didn't know they were

Big Eva. They were just the teachers, you know? You know, I'm not going to listen to them so much on that.

I'm not going to feel bad for asking God for help when I need help. If I'm in trouble, I'm just going to ask

God for help. And that's just as simple as that. And if most of my prayers end up being that, I'm okay with that because that's what we see presented in the scripture.

No apologies. And that was an issue that I was not a pastor at the time. I had no project I was working on.

Like I wasn't writing a book or something or just something I was interested in. And it came up in regular life and it's been so helpful to me.

And if you've never done that, then that's fine. But if something comes up and you do decide to do it, that's fine too.

I don't know. I just want to encourage you because I feel like there's probably a lot of regular guys out there that aren't theological eggheads that when they see the

Thomas Aquinas wars that are going on on Twitter, like, what the heck is going on here? Like, I don't even understand any of this stuff.

That's fine, guys. That's fine. You don't have to understand it and it's totally fine. Obviously, over time, we're growing in the knowledge of God.

We get that, right? We get that. And that's going to happen if you go to Sunday worship service, right? That's going to happen. But you don't need to be out there, you know, learning

Greek if that's not something that excites you. If that's not something that interests you, that's okay.

You can just enjoy your life, raise your family in the fear and admonition of the Lord, take care of them, provide for them, work on your legacy, all that kind of stuff.

That's totally fine. You don't, the Christian life is not the life of a pastor. That's not for everybody.

God gifts certain people. My brother is one of these people that's gifted like that. He just loves reading systematic theologies.

He gets a lot of pleasure out of it and that's good because he's a pastor and it's required for his job, right?

But my job is not, I'm not a pastor, right? That's not required for my job. There's certain topics about theology that interest me and so I read about them.

Not all the time, but I do. You know what interests me right now? Fishing interests me right now, so I'm doing that.

I'm writing a children's book right now, so I'm doing that. Lots of topics interest me and that's okay.

In any case, I just want to encourage you guys, Christianity is for normal people and if you're living a normal life and you're obeying

Christ, then good. That's good. That's fine. You don't have to, you don't have to brag about how many systematics you've read this month.

In fact, I would think it's preferable not to. In any case, two more quick things.

The last video about Torba, somebody reached out to me and he seemed like a good guy. He was very concerned with me for supporting

Torba and he was confused. He thought that maybe what I was doing was like an enemy is an enemy is my friend kind of thing.

So like the ADL hates Torba and I hate the ADL, so therefore I support Torba and I wasn't really supporting him.

It was just like an enemy is my enemy is my friend. I want to clear that up right now. That's not what's going on. So I figured maybe other people thought

I was doing that as well. I'm not. No, I support Torba. I think he's a brother. I think he's a solid brother. I think he's a force for the kingdom of God and I support him and I hope to talk to him more in the coming years and stuff like that and hopefully that'll be a good partnership and I consider him a friend.

So there you go. There you go. I want to make sure that that is totally clear. In any case,