Are Women As Courageous As Men?

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Welcome to Bible Bash, where we aim to equip the saints for the works of ministry by answering the questions you're not allowed to ask.

We're your hosts, Harrison Kerrig and Pastor Tim Mullett, and today we'll answer the age -old question, are women as courageous as men?

And this is one of those questions, Tim, that for whatever reason, I guess we just have a knack for doing this, but it feels like a very offensive question to ask.

Like if I were to just go out on the street and ask random men and random women, hey, are women just as courageous as men?

I would probably brace myself for dirty looks and sarcastic remarks that essentially boil down to, well, obviously.

Like why are you even asking that question? That's as obvious as two plus two equals four, which is,

I guess, apparently that's a racist thing to mention now, but we won't get into all that.

But it does feel like a very offensive question to even ask, and you're going to get a lot of pushback that essentially boils down to, obviously, they're just as courageous as men.

Honestly, they're probably more courageous than men in a lot of ways, and that seems to be sort of a lot of people that we've asked this question to, they had that kind of response.

Definitely. Well, actually, they're more courageous than men, actually.

So what's the deal with that, Tim? Why is this such an offensive question?

Because I'm laughing at it, that means that's why. You're laughing because you're laughing. That's why it's offensive.

And, you know, it's funny, too, because it's like, well, it's just a question.

You can just say, yes, they are. You can just say yes. So it's like even merely challenging the idea is offensive.

So why? Why is that? Yeah, there's a lot of things going on here.

I mean, one of the things that's going on is it's like the most obvious reality in all the universe.

Like you can empirically verify this reality. I guess one of the easiest, most empirically viable realities to actually prove that exists that men are like way more courageous than women.

I mean, it's not even close. I mean, it's like four or five, maybe ten times as courageous as women. It's like so imbalanced in terms of this is the strength of men.

Reality would attest to this in a variety of ways. There's any number of objective scientific tests or experiments you could do to prove this very point.

The same way that with strength, like physical strength, the fact that men in general are stronger than women is one of the most easily verifiable propositions that you can possibly imagine.

But then what's happening is, as I've tried to point this out, typically the way

I point it out online in particular, I do this online, but then I do this with people in real life.

And I know that this is one of those topics that will get people riled up. And nevertheless,

I persist. And I just boldly go where angels dare to tread on this one.

But I know that people are going to get mad at it. And I could care less that they get mad at it. Like I'm going to say it.

And I say it as much as I can. Not because I'm trying to get under their skin, but because I'm trying to help them to see something that is so obvious that they are actively suppressing as far as this goes.

But then typically the way I do it is I'll say something along the lines of strength is the domain of men and beauty is the domain of women.

And strength is the domain of men. That's true in terms of physical strength and mental strength.

What courage actually is, is courage is basically the strength, like mental strength needed to face difficulties or dangers with confidence and resolution.

And so that's what courage actually is. It's like mental strength. So men are physically stronger than women.

But then when you're talking about courage, you're talking about mental strength. And what typically happens is that, particularly in circles that are more patriarchal, like the ones

I'm normally in, like in egalitarian circles, it's like a circus, man. It's just like if I were to say that men are stronger than women and men are more courageous than women, they will absolutely lose their mind in a dumpster fire of offense.

They will literally light their hair on fire and scream as if I've uttered absolute blasphemy.

And most of it's like in more egalitarian circles, they'll disagree with both, right?

Because they can't handle generalities at all. They'll point out the one strong woman who is stronger than the one weak guy they know and think that they've proved something.

But then in more patriarchal kind of circles, what generally happens is they'll let the men is stronger than women go, but the courage one is the one that gets them really mad.

And they'll get really, really, really mad about this. And I think this is kind of like an aspect of internalized feminism that I'm like intentionally setting off just to prove a point, okay?

And so the courage thing is like a very hard sell for a lot of people. Like even people who are more like male and female roles are real, the courage part is really, really hard sell.

And the reason why, it's very obvious why this is a hard sell. It's a hard sell because, I mean, this is what we tell women.

We're brainwashed in our society to tell women, you're strong and courageous. Right, yeah.

Like that's what we say like over and over again. Slave queen. Slave queen, you're a strong, powerful African -American woman.

You know? Like you're strong and courageous. I'm boss, babe. All right, so but what happens in like more patriarchal kind of circles is that people have learned that, like okay, women are actually the weaker vessel, and they accept that, right?

So they don't fight at that point. But then this like courage part is like an aspect of internalized feminism essentially to where like that triggers them because, and they don't even know why like it triggers them.

They've adopted the assumptions essentially of feminism and egalitarianism at that point, and they haven't thought through what they're reacting to.

And so it feels like utter blasphemy like when you say that, but then like as I've said, I mean this is one of those obvious like empirically verifiable, easily verified realities in the world.

Every guy knows the truth of this. Like it's just like whether or not a guy is allowed to say it, like most standard red -blooded men know exactly the right answer to this question.

And it's just like painfully, overwhelmingly obvious, and it's an obvious reality that's like impressed upon them almost every day of dwelling with their wife.

I mean isn't, you know, I remember when a lot of my friends were getting married, one of the jokes that you kind of always said you were going to include in your vows, you know, was the girl would always joke something about like, you know, you need to promise to take care of me and provide for me and, you know, kill all the spiders for me.

And they're joking about that, right? But then the reason that's a funny joke is because it's rooted in a certain kind of truth, right?

So, like in my house, I actually am the one who kills all the spiders, you know, or traps things or whatever just because like I'm not going to just absolutely lose my mind when

I see it, right? Yeah, I mean, most women, you know, like you can test this, like empirically, you can empirically verify this and test it just by the presence of a mouse in the house or a roach or something like that or a bug.

Like one of the first houses that we lived in, me and my wife, there's these strange kind of cricket.

They're kind of like cave crickets or something along those lines. Do you say cave crickets? I think they're like cave crickets, man, but like they got in the house somehow.

And these things, they're ugly looking, they look like spiders, but like ugly spiders, like uglier than spiders, but then they like jump towards you.

So, I think they're like cave, they're called cave crickets, I think, and they jump towards you because they're trying to get to a dark place and they don't have very good eyesight.

And so they actually jump at you really quick, right? And so, I mean, my wife was freaked out.

Like, I mean, it was unsettling, you know, to see a thing barking at, this little cricket barking at you and then trying to attack you, you know.

But I mean, man, like the vast majority of women, like you just see how they react to bugs or mice or, you know, anything in general.

And it's very obvious that men have way more courage than women. Now, I will say the one thing that still gets me is like when you have those big cockroaches and then they start flying.

That's the one where it's like I have to, you know, I still have to deal with it because it's here, but like, man,

I don't want to deal with that, that's nasty. But at the end of the day, you know, like you still have to take care of even the ones that fly, unfortunately.

And then just ask yourself later why God ever made something as nasty and vile as a flying cockroach.

This is, I mean, so, you know, like anecdotally, I mean, you can point out things like this.

And then there's going to be some smart butt woman who comes along and basically, you know, grew up on a farm or something and said, you know,

I never personally. I learned to get used to mice and, you know, so therefore

I represent the whole entire female gender, right? Sure, yeah. And like those are just ridiculous women or whatever.

But I mean, like this is not, like these kind of things are not uncommon. I mean, when I was growing up, when

I was working at Chick -fil -A, like most of the men would just try to scare the women, like as a contest, you know.

Like, I mean, these are young people at that time, but I mean, like they would come up with like complicated rituals because they knew women scare so easily, right?

And so they would come up like at one time, like there's one girl who was like uniquely got scared all the time.

And so they came up with like creative ways to scare her. And so one time they climbed into one of the trash cans, right?

They took the trash bin out of it, climbed into that, and then they convinced her to throw some trash away in there.

And then someone reached their hand out and grabbed her hand from within the trash can.

I mean, you can imagine like just like utter terror screaming, you know, like standing behind the freezer, you know, like a door she comes in, you know, like it,

I mean, it was just a contest, but I mean, like men just, men intuitively know this. I mean, every time, like we live in Alabama and there's tornado season and, you know, it's not men getting on all the group me, talking about giving like minute by minute updates about the tornadoes and things like that.

I mean, the men could care less, right? And would just ignore all of it and, you know, wouldn't even care at all except for the fact that their wives are reminding them about all the bad weather that's happening and everything else.

I mean, I remember my being in Bible college and there was literally fires that were,

I was in LA and there was fires that were literally a few miles from my house. And, you know, when

I was going into my apartment, I could see the helicopter was dropping the water, you know, from the fire that was visible from my apartment.

And I was so tired because I was only getting a few hours of sleep that I was like, well, I need to go take a nap, you know.

I had my mom like calling me, you know, begging me like, please, you know, get out of there.

You're going to die. You're going to, it's like, mom, it's going the other way. You know, it's fine. I got to sleep, you know. But I mean, this is just like the general reality that like every man knows that women are more prone to fear.

Well, I mean, you know, isn't the point in all this, at least partly, that men are designed by God to be courageous and so much so that, you know, we're prone to, you know, being

Reckless. Being reckless, yeah. So like the saying, hold my beer, right, is not typically a saying associated with women, right?

The Florida man meme? Yeah, the Florida man meme. You know, it's essentially, those are essentially things that are, while not, you know, positive, typically, they're not normally positive statements or stories that are followed up by those phrases, they are typically associated with men.

And there must be a reason for that, right? Yeah, I mean, definitely. I mean, so like, you know, if you want to empirically verify this reality, just watch, just YouTube, go to YouTube and see the stupid kind of things that men do.

You know, like there's all the hold my beer memes, there's all the, you know, Florida man stuff. I mean, this is just one of the most easily verifiable realities.

Like it's so easy to verify, like in so many ways. I mean, there's so much empirical evidence.

I mean, you know, growing up we would do some, we used to make backyard wrestling videos.

And my mom would not go outside because she was like, she had learned like, you know, having four boys in her family, that she just would rather not see what happened, right?

I mean, we'd jump off the house onto the trampoline and, you know, that kind of, I mean, it's just any number of crazy things that we could come up with to do, you know, throwing each other through tables, everything, you know, like all this crazy stuff, you know.

But I mean, like women don't do these kinds of things. Like women do not make videos of themselves, like jumping over cars.

Do you know what my wife did when she was, you know, a kid and through high school?

What's that? They would make up dances. About as courageous as you can.

Yeah, they would make up dances and then, you know, my wife, she told me, you know, when I was getting to know her, she told me about that and how much she loved making dances to the new popular songs or whatever.

And I was just like, what? I don't even understand. I shot my friends with BB guns.

That's what I mean. So men have been given like an overwhelming abundance of courage and, you know, like courage really, you know,

I think Aristotle talked about like virtues as the mean between two extremes and whether or not this is true. I mean,

I think this is a good way of understanding what courage is, but courage is like the average or whatever the mean is, the average between like cowardice on the one hand and foolhardiness on the other hand, right?

And so men have obviously been given a lot of something that women haven't got, you know, and it's that kind of thing that like, you know, growing up I didn't even, like, you know, part of it's like related to testosterone, right?

So men have like 10 times the testosterone than women. But I mean, young men think that like they're idiots, man.

Like, you know, I was an idiot. Like I couldn't conceive of like losing a fight to a bear growing up, you know?

Wow. I mean, that's stupid. You couldn't even conceive of it? No, man, because I just.

Like there's not even, you know, a slight chance you might lose? No, man, no, no. David could win.

I could win, you know? And so David took out the black. Look, it's right there in the

Bible. I don't know what else to tell you. No, but I mean, it's just like men are just like, the glory of young men is their strength, right?

And so like men, they're given a lot of testosterone. And, you know,

I think, you know, one of the things that's happened is like testosterone levels right now are kind of at an all -time low in men.

Maybe they're like half of what they should be or something like that, which means that like a lot of men are a lot more wimpy than they used to be.

But I mean like men are just like, men are made to like, you know, face danger.

And I mean like a man like without the mitigating like balance of a woman really is going to be prone towards recklessness, okay?

Right. Like in almost every conceivable way imaginable. So you have like the weaker vessel who is physically weaker and like doesn't have near the testosterone as a man, right?

Like she's living in a world that like looks very different from the kind of world that a man like is looking at, right?

Yeah. And so I mean I go out in public. I'm not afraid of getting kidnapped. I'm not afraid of getting raped, you know.

I'm not afraid of like a van pulling up and hauling me off. And, you know, I don't have to like think about how am

I going to walk from the grocery store to my vehicle and I need to have my mace ready.

And I hear like the ladies in our church like strategizing about how they leave grocery stores and things like that.

And it's just like these discussions are incomprehensible to me. Like I've never once like been afraid like to go hardly anywhere, right?

Like particularly by myself, you know, as far as those things are concerned. But I think men like on their own they're just like we're prone to being reckless, right?

So I'm like men on their own are going to take a nap when there's a fire a few miles away that is national news.

At least the ones that can't conceive of losing a fight to a bear, right? Yeah. Yeah, so I mean they're going to do stupid things like that, right?

Like they're going to shoot each other with BB guns. Like they're going to. I mean my kids like, you know, my boys they are, they come up with all sorts of creative ways to do the most dangerous thing imaginable.

And then I look at my daughter and she's like, you know, when she really gets some courage going, you know, it's just a very different experience to watch, you know, than my boys.

I mean mostly she's just like nervous, like, you know, they're just like fearless and she's like, you know, cautious.

Like much more cautious than them in almost every conceivable way. But I mean I think like God's made like imbalances to where like a man on his own is probably just going to get himself blown up, right?

Uh -huh. And then you put a woman in the mix of that equation and she's going to calm him down a little bit, right?

But she's not going to be able to calm him down totally, right? He's going to blow himself up.

You know it's true, man. You know it's true. Like he's a guy on his own that's just like kind of.

I mean I have shot Tannerite before, so. So I mean, but it's just, so what

I'm trying to say is like this is one of the, like anecdotally every guy knows the answer to this question.

Like it's just so obvious. Like it's just, like this is just one of those things you have to pretend because you're being

PC that you don't know. Like you don't know that your wife is just way more prone to anxiety, way more prone.

I mean the vast majority, vast majority of like women today,

I mean not the vast majority, but I'm just saying like the vast majority of people on psychotropic drugs like as adults are women, okay?

So like it's just very imbalanced. Like women are way more prone to anxiety and depression than men.

Like these things are just, like you can verify this in any way you want to verify it, right? But then when you actually think about like the idea of courage, it's like mental strength necessary to face danger or difficulties with self -confidence and resolution.

Like all you have to do like to verify this is just round up, like get everyone at your church, think of the most dangerous situation imaginable and then see who will do it.

You know what I mean? Like just get a very dangerous situation and you're going to find that the men will do it and the women won't, you know?

Right, right. And so like it's just so easy to verify like this kind of thing. Just think of a difficult situation and you know, like you could just compare stories, you know, and most men are going to have like, you know, throughout the course of their life much better stories related to this topic than ladies will.

Well, I mean, you know, I think you see this even in, you know, the shooting that happened recently, right?

So, you know, this girl pretending to be a guy comes in and shoots a bunch of women and children in a school and who goes to stop her, right?

It's a bunch of men, a bunch of armed police officers who are men run in there, you know, like run towards it.

But see, that's a real, like that's real danger, right? Right, right. So, you think of something that's like requires like real danger, like real, like objective real, right?

So, like we've watered down this concept of courage so much to where like, you know, basically it can apply to anyone.

But like when you think about like real situations like the one that you're describing that actually require like a person.

They mean like, hey, I very well may die. Right. Who's going to do that on balance of probability?

Not the women, right? Right, right. So, like now, because you live in a society that's so hostile to generalities, you know, people are going to point out the one situation where, you know, the lady pulls out her gun and shoots the shooter or something.

And it's just like, yeah, that can happen. But on balance of probability, you take 100 women, how are they going to perform in the same thing, right?

Right. And you take 100 men, how are they going to perform? And overwhelmingly, it's going to be the men doing the dangerous thing.

And I mean, that's just borne out in the kind of jobs that men do, you know, like women aren't the ones who are climbing up like very tall, you know.

They're not the ones running power lines and doing the dangerous, like working on an oil rig. They're not doing that because they're not made to.

Yeah, I mean, I wish I had pulled up the stat so I knew it off the top of my head and wasn't just making something up.

But I remember seeing at one point, you know, amongst the debate about women not being paid as much as men, one of the statistics that people brought up is, you know, the famous stat about like women making like 73 % or 76 % of what a man makes.

But then at the same time, it was like, you know, roughly 70 % or 80 % of men made up all, you know, on job site deaths.

Right. Like overwhelmingly, men are performing the more dangerous jobs.

And you see that in how many men versus women are dying on, you know, various jobs or careers that they might have.

Yeah. So, I mean, they're doing the more dangerous jobs. I mean, so think about this.

That's right. That's how it should be. Yeah, that's how it should be. I mean, so you think about it like together, like men are made for strength, both mentally made for strength and physically made for strength.

And like typically the kind of jobs that like, I mean, there's all sorts of jobs that have to be done. And a lot of them require strength and a lot of them require courage.

And men are the ones who are doing that, despite the fact that like, you know, you have the egalitarians trying to make everything equal.

It's just, it's not going to be like men and women are not equal in these, in these ways at all. And there's just a, like, it's just a massive, massive imbalance.

So it's not even close. Now, I think if things are starting to like get closer in our society, as it relates to courage, that's a sign of judgment on the society.

But, you know, overwhelmingly, like just these are, men and women are not the same.

And this is one of those areas where they're not. Yeah. So we talked a lot about like sort of anecdotal examples, which are helpful to help us understand who is more courageous, men or women, or is it equal?

Do we see this reflected in the Bible as well? Do we see like various passages of scripture that tell us that men are more courageous than women?

Or is this just sort of something that is like, well, you know, maybe right now in, you know, in the time period that we're in, it's been men, but it could be women in the future at some point.

And that's okay. You know, is there something in the Bible that's telling us, hey, this is a characteristic that has been, you know, much more given to men than to women?

I mean, it's, it shows up over and over and over again in ways that people may not expect, you know.

So, but, but I think in general, most people haven't read the

Bible and put any thought into answering this question with the Bible. And so then they may like think in their reading, like they may, they may not be able to think of any passages, but this shows up in a wide variety of ways.

And you're not, it's not just as simple as just look up courage. And every time courage shows up, see where it's labeled.

Does that make sense? Yeah. So now you can do that. And like, when you do that, one of the things you'll realize is that they just look up the word courage, you know, see that most of the time it's like in the context of battle where men are being told, like, be strong and courageous as they're going into the promised land and everything else.

Right. So, you know, like Deuteronomy 36, 31, six, be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them for it is the

Lord, your God who goes with you, he will not lead you or forsake you. So then

Moses summoned Joshua and said to them inside of always, there'll be strong and courageous for you. She'll go with this people into the land.

The Lord has sworn. So typically like this is like, you look up strong and courageous and you'll see that this is kind of a motivator to men in general, but then, you know,

I'll just give you without just belaboring the point I wanted to give you just a airtight passage that makes this point just very obviously.

So Isaiah 19, 16 says this.

Okay. And this is from God. Like this is a judgment from God. Okay. Okay. So it says in that day, the Egyptians will be like women.

Okay. I haven't read it yet.

All right. What does it mean to be like women, Harrison? What do you think it means to be like women? What does it mean?

Weak. No, no, no, like none of the none of all right.

So in that day, the Egyptians will be like women and tremble with fear before the hand that the

Lord of hosts shakes over them. God knows.

Yeah. God knows. Right. So as a sign of judgment on a society, the men will tremble with fear like a woman, like women do.

Right. So, I mean, women are women, right? Like women are women. I can women are not made to face danger and difficulty and they're not,

I mean, they're not, they're not made to like, they're not like made by God to like you take the most difficult, you know, dangerous situation imaginable.

Women aren't made to face them in the same way that men are. Whereas like you can think of like any kind of terrifying, like world ending kind of, you know,

D -Day, you want men storming the beaches of Normandy. You don't want women storming the beaches of Normandy.

Like any, any kind of like anything that requires significant courage.

You want like, you're going to want men to do it in general. And God knows that God knows how he made women.

Right. And he didn't make them to be, you know, Mulan or, you know, brave or whatever.

He like, he didn't lead a battle angel. Like he didn't make, he didn't make them to be courageous.

He knows it. Right. Yeah. And you see that in other places too. Like I was going to bring up, you know, first Corinthians with Paul in chapter 16 where he tells the men to, you know, be a, what is it?

Let's see. Act like men, be strong. Yeah. Beyond, beyond the alert, stand firm in the faith, act like men be strong.

Right. And so he's essentially, you know, he's essentially describing a bunch of sort of like these defensive kind of characteristics.

Right. Like, like defend, essentially he's saying like defend what is valuable in a certain way.

And what, how do you do that? Well, you have to be on the alert. You have to stand firm in the faith. You have to act like a man. You have to be strong.

And so, and then he, you know, later on in this passage, he also meant mentions doing, doing everything out of love.

Right. Which I think is an important thing for us to remember in general. But, you know, it seems like Paul understands this too.

Like act like men, you know, I think if I were to just go out in public and say to someone, you know,

Hey, act like a man, they would probably respond or if a woman was near, they'd probably say, well, what, well, what is that supposed to mean?

Because they, because they know what I'm saying. Everyone knows. Yeah. Everyone knows what it means to be a man and what it means to like, and people throughout church history knew what it meant to be a man.

I mean, I, there's like that famous example of Latimer, Latimer with a Ridley or whatever, where he encourages him to play the man as they go and face their martyrdom or whatever.

And I mean, everyone knows what that means. Like what you mean is someone who has courage, right.

Who is not going to fold in the midst of danger in a way that everyone has much greater expectations for how men are going to handle difficult situations than women.

And it's just like not comparable. Right. So like you expect a man to go running into that burning building.

You don't expect a woman to go into that, running into that burning building. You expect a man to stop that bank robber.

You don't expect a woman to do that. And it's not, you know, it's not all about just physical strength differences, right.

Right. There's more to it than that. You expect a man to, you know. No, Paul, Paul obviously thinks there's, there's more than just that to it because part of the reason that part of the justification he gives for why men should be pastors and not women is because women are more, he says they're more easily deceived because, you know, and how does, how does he say that?

Well, he says that, you know, it was Eve who was deceived and not Adam. Now Adam had his problems too.

Right. But, but he wasn't deceived, you know, and, and Eve was.

And so obvious. So the Bible is obviously painting a picture that women and men are different and it's more than just a simple physical difference.

Right. Right. So, okay. So we see how the Bible, you know, we see God, God is saying they'll be like women and we all, we all know what he's saying.

Right. Paul, Paul is saying, act like men. And we all know what he's saying there. Right. Right.

So we see in the Bible, this is confirmed. Now, okay. We, you know, we've made a lot of jokes about this and whatever.

And, and, you know, I think we've kind of driven the point home that men are, are at least supposed to be more courageous,

I guess. I think, I think you could probably, I meant to say this a little bit earlier, but I think you can probably make an argument right now that, and you, you kind of, you definitely alluded to this, but I think with where we're at as a society right now, you know, it's not,

I think we're getting dangerously close to it not actually being true that the current men of this generation are not significantly more brave, significantly more, you know, than, than women.

Right. So I think it is absolutely possible to have something be true.

Generally, men are more courageous than women generally, but I think way more, way more, way more, but then, but then in one specific instance, you know, one specific culture of history, it might not necessarily be true that they're way more courageous.

It may be starting to, you know, get closer to even out or, you know, they're only twice as courageous. Right. But then, but then, you know, that's, that should be viewed as a sign of judgment.

Right. Right. Definitely. I mean, that's essentially what the passage you were, you were reading was about.

It was about the people being punished by God and, and, you know, they were going to, they're going to act like women before God's judgment.

And so, so I think that, you know, that's something important to keep in mind because, you know, as I think about the people in our society, especially the men,

I think we are, I think we are kind of creeping up dangerously close on being able to say that men are not, men are no longer in our society significantly more courageous.

I mean, we had people, I remember someone, this was a while back now, but I think about it every once in a while.

Someone who disagreed with, with the podcast, with something we had said along the way, you know, they were, they were essentially mocking us for saying that, you know, without, without men being courageous, if men aren't courageous, then you're not going to have anyone storm the beaches of Normandy.

Right. Right. And they're kind of mocking that and like, oh, well, who, you know, hey, wake up it's, it's, you know, 2021 or 2022 or whatever, you know, we don't need anyone to go storm the beaches of Normandy.

And it's like, you know, I don't, I don't, I just don't know what kind of world that person is living in. Yeah. I mean, just tell that to Ukraine, you know, exactly.

They didn't think Russia was going to invade either. Right. And now they're, now they're arming their own citizens to fight against Russia.

Right. So, so like, I think it's incredibly naive to think, Hey, we've reached a point in society where we don't, we don't have to have this, you know, quote unquote, like archaic view of men and women.

You know, we don't need men to be so courageous that they've got to storm the beaches of Normandy.

Those problems are behind us. It's like, dude, wait, wake up. Wake up. Yeah. I mean, just think about the fact that we just got locked in our homes like for, you know, a year, right.

Because people, people weren't willing to face a 0 .001 % chance of death.

So like, that's what happens when, you know, courage is at an all time low is that you basically have a government lock you in your home, right.

Throw you in jail for trying to worship, throw you in jail for trying to go to work. Right. Right. Take all your job, crash the economy.

Right. Yeah. Beyond recognition. And, and so why is that courage so important?

Well, it's because when you have just a few, a few people who are courageous enough to stand against something like that, that's enough to, you know, sort of tip the scales and convince a lot more people to follow.

Particularly men. Yeah. I mean, if you see one man who like obviously has some courage, you're going to want to follow him. Right. You know?

Yeah. And like, because it's a shame, like men are designed to be shamed by that to where it's like, they see like bravery, they're attracted to that.

They want to follow that. Right. And yeah. And like, you know, that's contagious. That's contagious.

But then if everyone's afraid, then everyone's going to keep their mouth shut. Right. You know, and you saw that, you see this kind of thing like in the

NHL pretty recently. So the NHL they, they have been pushing this sort of like,

I forget exactly what they call it, but it's basically like what they essentially like a pride night, you know, where,

Hey, we're, you know, for this game, all the teams are going to be wearing their rainbow colored jerseys.

And, you know, we're going to play this game in honor of all of our, you know, like homosexual friends.

And like, you guys are welcome here at these games or whatever. And, and one player, one single player out of the entire league decided not to participate.

He still played in the game, but he didn't, he didn't wear the, the, you know, warm up rainbow color

Jersey. He didn't wear the patch or whatever. And after the game, he came, you know, they interviewed him and asked him about it.

And he, you know, he essentially just said like, Hey, it goes against my beliefs as a Christian. You know,

I'm not gonna, I'm not, I so I didn't want to participate in the, in the pride night or whatever.

And then he puts out a statement that says a similar thing. And all of a sudden, you know, several teams, several teams stopped doing the pride night.

Right. So one person, one player who essentially has, you know, very little to no leverage in that kind of situation.

I mean, you know, like professional sports is very competitive. Right. And so they can get a replacement for most people that play those sports.

But still, even, even in spite of that, you know, one person was all it took to eventually convince entire programs to not even participate in more.

So a lot of, yeah, a lot of people, the reaction they may have to this kind of conversation, particularly with me laughing out of control at, you know, the absurdity of women being as courageous as men for as long as what

I did, you know, in the course of this episode, they'll ask, you know, what's the point.

Is it just like for men just to sit there and say, Hey, we're better than women or whatever. Like, why are we having this conversation?

Like, what is, what is the point? What the point is that God's made men to be courageous. God's made men to be courageous.

He's given them, you know, 10 times the testosterone of women. And then what happens when like a society is utterly uncourageous, like when, when, when a society where like courageous becomes more rare, right.

And standards of men like courage is, are lowered is like, I mean, you basically like you're living in that kind of society right now where you have a crisis of courage in our society in general, where men still are doing the most dangerous things.

There's still a lot more courageous than women, but it's just, there's not nearly enough of that.

Then what happens is your society, they can't face danger anymore. They can't. I mean, the government just basically is just doing whatever they want.

You know, writing bills saying that they're going to have free access to our phones, you know, things like this, like, and we're not doing anything about it.

They're going to disarm all of us, right. Their, their intent upon disarming all of us. I mean, they basically crashed our economy.

And so you, you, they locked us in our homes like forcing us to be medically experimented upon.

Like, so you have all these kinds of things, like these are just tangible, like not just war analogies of why men need to have courage, but then like in a practical level, like women know that they're much more fearful than men.

Women know that they're much more prone to anxiety and worry than men. And like when men are strong and stable, everyone's strong and stable.

So God's designed men to be kind of a stabilizing, like, back, like, like we call the, you know, the mom, the backbone of the family.

But I mean, it should be the dad who's the backbone of the family. And you can go through very, very difficult times as a family if the man is strong and courageous.

And I mean, everyone knows this. I mean, you just watch old movies, you know, and the theme of every old movie where there's some difficult situation is, you know, the man standing there next to the woman and saying to the woman, you know, don't worry, baby, everything's going to be all right.

Right. Well, that's, I mean, that's what a man should be doing. He should be lending his excess courage to his wife to help his wife face difficulty and face danger.

And he should be bearing these burdens and he should be bearing the burdens of like what it's like to live life in a midst of a fallen world.

Right. To where there's dangers and there's difficulty. And when like things get really hard, you know, like when the man is stable and calm and trusting the

Lord and, you know, it's not just like bravado. It's like, God, God will take care of us.

We'll be all right. Then like ladies, as they're submitting to their husband and following their husband, they're taking like that thing that they need.

Like, so they're going to be like a break on the man's courage to make him less reckless, but he's going to be a break on their fear to make them more courageous than what they otherwise would be.

I mean, you know, I was talking about my one of my talking to one of my aunts who was, you know, basically just describing how, you know, her husband who died from cancer, like shepherded her in the midst of that process and gave her confidence in moving forward.

And then even after his death. Right. But then the whole time, because he was confident in the

Lord and trustworthy in the Lord, he lent that courage he had to face that difficulty to her.

Right. Right. Even, and that even extended beyond his life even. Right. To where she faced that difficult time better than she would have on her own.

Right. And had a plan going forward after, but that's what, that's what you need in like when men like are emasculated and have no courage and are looking to the wives to bear the weight of, you know, all the difficulty, like essentially like the women are like repelled by that.

They don't want to, um, they don't want to be married to a man like that. I mean, there's an example I heard recently that from a book

I read, um, from, uh, it was, it was about Richard Warmbrand's life where he was, you know, tortured for Christ.

I think it's what the book is called, but there is some, you know, scenario where, um, no one was speaking up like in the midst of like, um, some big problem.

I can't quite remember what the issue was, but you know, the wife looks at her husband and says, are you going to say anything? And he says, you know, if I say something, you know that you're going to lose a husband, right.

And, you know, her response to that was, well, I'd rather, I'd rather, um, lose a husband than be married to a coward.

Right. And I mean, he didn't actually get taken away at that moment. It actually went well, but he did shortly after that, you know?

And so like women don't want to be married to a coward man. And so, you know, practically this has a lot of practical benefit to it.

Like men are designed to face danger and when they're designed to, you know, be strong and to be courageous, as the

Bible says over and over and over again, be strong and be courageous, they're designed for that. And when they, when their strength fails, like society falls, you know, they're ready, ready to be conquered.

Yeah. Yeah. And, and, you know, I think in all of this, it's important to point out that I think,

I think a lot of people when they hear you say men are more courageous than women, what they actually hear is men are courageous and women are not courageous in any way whatsoever.

Right. Right. And you know, I don't, that's not, that's not really what we're saying, you know, women can be courageous.

We're just saying that this is not like a, this is not like a mutually exclusive thing. This is a, you know, greater than, less than statement.

Yeah. So we made a, you know, we made a little bit of a small episode on this, you know, should we encourage women to be strong and courageous?

And like, I talked through some of these things, you know, as it relates to that, but then, you know, it's helpful to think in terms of just like a weightlifting analogy.

So, and I can explain that real quick, just for the sake of posterity, so that people could understand, you know, what's being communicated here was not because they absolutely hear, like when you say like, you know, strength is a domain of men.

Women aren't made for courage in the same way that men are made for courage and men have way more courage than women. Like what they hear is like that women should have like negative courage or something like that, or no courage or, but then that's not really what's happening.

And so like, you know, like growing up, like when I was in high school, I was lifting like 285 pounds, like on bench press.

That's what I was benching. And like the girls in my weightlifting class, they were benching, like some of them were benching the bar, 45 pounds.

And like the really, like the ones that really worked out for a couple of years, they would bench like the bar with like a 10 and a five on each side, you know?

So I basically 75 pounds, but you're smelling like you're smiling. That's cute.

So every guy, like every guy has that reaction to that kind of thing to where like you see a girl bench pressing the bar and you think,

Whoa, like what's going on here? That's got to suck for that to be hard.

That's got to suck. You know, and then if you like, like you really, you thought like, I remember there was one girl who, who was able to like max, like two 25s on each side.

So that's 95 pounds. And it's like, Whoa, that's really strong for her, for a girl. Right.

That's not strong for a guy. That's like really weak for a guy. That's like you're warming up still.

That's like, you've never lifted before or, you know, like, that's nothing. That's nothing. Right. So, but then like you compare that, like, so you, you take something like, you know, like you take something like, you know, standard average, like, you know, high school kids that are stronger than not, you know, something like 200 or something like that compared to 45, that's like five times stronger than that woman.

Right. And like, so to, so should women be strong? I mean, yes.

For a woman. Right. Yeah. In the same way that you say, like, should like you're training your kids to be strong.

Yeah. I mean, like if, you know, if one of my kids could lift the fort, like the bar, like they're young, he'd be like,

Oh man, that's really strong for a little kid. Right. Right. But that's not strong for an adult. Right. So like to suit, should women be strong?

Yes. Should they should be strong for a woman, but like to a man, that's going to look like weakness.

Right. Which is why like men are told to give honor to the weaker vessel. Right. Like, so to like, that may be strong for a woman.

That's not strong for a man. Like that's like lynching, benching 45 pounds is not strong for any man. You know, benching 70 is not objectively a human adult strong.

Right. Right. But it may be strong for a woman. So like the proverbs 31 woman, she clothes herself in strength, but that doesn't mean that she, she hope.

Right. Right. Yeah. That means that maybe she's benching that 70 pounds or something like that, which is she was benching at all.

I mean, but I mean, but you get what I'm saying. She's kept herself in reasonable shape to the point where she's not just, you know, unable to do her job because she constantly has a backache and whatever has to be bedridden.

And she's reasonably strong for a woman, which means like somewhere, but she's benched in somewhere between 45 to 60, you know, kind of thing.

Right. You know, you're obeying Proverbs 31, if you can bench between 45 and 60 pounds, but yeah,

I mean, so give her, you know, like that, that, the metaphor, that's the metaphor. But then when you take it, you, you compare it over to courage, right.

To courage, like, you know, a guy may have 250 pound courage, like yours, you know, like, that may be a guy with too much courage.

Right. You know, there may be a guy with like 200 pounds, like average normal amount of courage, 200 pound courage compared to, like a woman with her 50, 60 pounds of courage, that's going to look like not courage.

Right. Like it's not going to look like, that doesn't mean she shouldn't have any courage. It just means that she's not made like naturally to have the 200 pound courage in the same way as a man.

Right. And so then that means that you make allowances for her, right? Like you don't expect her to do 200 like tasks that require 200 pound courage.

Right. Right. You expect her to do tasks that require 60 pound courage, you know, or 50, like you really stretch her 70 pound courage.

Right. But like you're going to be pushing her to the breaking point, you know, if you're putting her in like 200 pound courage situations.

And so that's what, so what people need to hear is not women need to have no courage. It's just, they're not made to, you know, be

Florida man. They're not made to be a hold my beer. They're not made to storm the beaches of Normandy.

They're not like, they're not made to do that. They're not made to stop. So if you want to make all your police force into, you know, people who at most are going to have 70 pound courage, then you're going to get like the results of that.

Right. Right. Okay. So if you're going to put all your 70 pound courage in those difficult jobs, you may find that they die at a rate five times as fast as the man, you know, like, so that's the point.

Okay. All right. Well, I think that's a good place for us to wrap up the conversation on this.

And, you know, you know, at the end of the day, I think the point is just to say, I challenge people who, who really still after, after listening to everything that we had to say, just go through and read the, read the

Bible, especially the old Testament and notice how many times their statements, like what you read earlier,

Tim, what, what was that passive Isaiah 16? Is that what it was? That was

Isaiah 19, 16, 19, 16. Okay. And, and, you know, all through the, you know,

Deuteronomy, Joshua and Samuel, you'll see courage, courage, courage, courage.

I just challenge you guys to read, read through the old Testament and see how many times stuff like this comes up specifically towards men and understand that it's not just some light, you know?

Oh, well, that's just how they were back then. That's just some antiquated antiquated worldview that, you know, we've evolved past and, you know, we're much more advanced as, as a society.

We're not as backwards as they were. That's not like they're just acknowledging a literal, like physical difference between men and women that God purposefully designed and acknowledges time and time again throughout the

Bible. And not only acknowledges, but just treats as like a, as like a obvious truth that we should already know so much so that he's just making the statement, you know, act like men or, you know, they will be like women and saying those things, knowing that we're going to know exactly what's being communicated there by God.

So, so I challenge you guys, if you disagree with this to just go through and read all of those things and, you know, just see if the old

Testament changes your mind in terms of how we should view how we should view courage and men and women.

And hopefully this will be a challenge to, especially for the guys out there, you know, like we were talking about earlier,

Tim, we were saying essentially it seems like there's an overall lack of courage and men relative to what it probably should be.

And I think, I think that's true as you observe society and it's, it objectively makes society worse overall.

I mean, that's right. And if you have a lot of men who think that like it's supposed to be the same, then, you know, they're missing this fundamental part of what masculinity actually is.

Masculinity is you facing the danger, not sending your wife to face it. Right. You know, so if you want like, like, if you want like men to thrive in a society, give them difficult things to do.

Right. Yeah. And, and I mean, you just see this time and time again throughout history. I mean, our country wouldn't even exist if it weren't for courageous men who were willing to rebel, you know, against the tyrannical ruler halfway, you know, halfway across the world, just about.

And so, so I think you can just look at history. You can look at the Bible and see how much courageous men benefit society and how much cowardly men do not benefit society and actually weaken society.

And that should be a challenge for us to remind us to say, Hey, we, we as men need to be courageous and it should be a challenge for women, especially wives, you know, to, to encourage their husbands and in their courage.

Right. And so, so take not try to stamp it out, not try to stamp it out, not try to impede it, not try to outdo it, but to encourage it.

And so, you know, so that's the, that's the challenge to take away from this kind of conversation. And hopefully it ends up being something encouraging for you guys and, and, you know, possibly even, you know, revealing sin in your life, revealing some sort of cowardice that you might be harboring and trying to justify in a certain way.

And, and just go look at, look at the Bible, look at what Jesus did, look at what the apostles did, look at what the prophets did.

They were all courageous. They all said the things that no one wanted to say. And, and it was honoring to God to do those things.

And so, so again, we hope this is encouraging. We love to get to do this every week and talk about these things and have these hard conversations and say the things out loud that no one else wants to say, but, but we're all thinking, you know, ask the questions that you're not allowed to ask so that we can be equipped for the works of ministry.

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