Episode 5 - Cussin' and Two Listener Questions

Opening Banter and Podcast Reintroduction

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Spiritual Check-In: Repentance, Prayer, and Anger

Speaking of which well last time On our podcast we were discussing language. What it has to do with. What we talked about honor we talked about integrity then we talked about the phrase. Oh my god. It's a good bad.

It's a neutral. Should a Christian say it if you say it what's the consequence, you know positive negative. So we're gonna be continuing that discussion today. But first let's bring some Spiritual questions up in here.

Warming it up. How could we have done better this week? Spiritually, what what's our where did we fail this week? Well, I know that I failed in the respect of attitude and trust. It's a nice convicting message from some guy up there preaching this morning at our Church of Lytton.

His name may rhyme with the oh, why? So anyway, but I know that specifically for me. I was getting to the end of my school week before our first first home game and I was just in a bad space questioning a lot of things and Just let it just led me to prayer to really focus on what I was.

What I was doing and was I doing it for the right reason and I realized I wasn't so. Got some conviction straightened my mind up straightened my heart right and moved on so. It stunk but it did it did it did in the end get better got me where I need to be so Repentance turning away.

Yeah, I'm doing something different and not doing the same direction. That's right.

Yeah, I didn't do the greatest being a state of prayer this week, you know you Wake up within two days. Okay, how much have I communicated God the past two days, you know, it's a a lot of times I do okay at that, but I was pretty poor and Praying this week and being in a state of prayer with God and it showed in the beginning of my week, but Yeah took care of that.

God woke me up for that halfway through and I took care of that last week. But yeah, I would say Not in a good state of prayer beginning of the week, you know. Whenever I start my day With God whether that's through Singing to him whether it's a prayer or that's the reading the rest of the day I'm gonna write from my mind when I don't start my day doing that.

It takes me a while to get going. So that's somewhere. I failed this week was starting my day with God and being in a state of prayer.

This week I messed up a lot with my anger. I just I've dealt with anger issues long time something to fight on all the time and I have these Processes or processing, you know where you go through to try and okay I know that the natural level of anger that I get when things upset me is irrational.

That's like I know at the very beginning as soon as I feel anger. I know that this is an irrational amount and Like so let's calm down. That's any time I get angry and so that that's a good start.

You can recognize that the beginning that one. It's always yeah, it's a general rule for me.

Yeah, it's just like I know that I do not feel anger in correct amount that's always more than it needs to be and so I Go through processes and do all that to try and say, okay, let's do it. And if any of that fails if I'm unable to do that, then I'm just I'm just I'm just mad for the rest of day and I let you know a bad five seconds or a bad five minutes dictate The whole day and so I'll say out and I saw that post.

I saw a post this is yours, by the way. You can have this back. I saw a post online. It's like did you have a bad day or did you have a bad five minutes that dictated the rest, right? Crap, I didn't have a bad day I just had I just had a poor reaction to a tiny thing and I failed my process and so I've been like twice this week.

Where I was just like I was just like I caught myself. I'm like am I pouting I Got I look at myself. I think am I pouting right now? How old am I? Like how I was like, I've been mad all day. I've been in a mood I was like, I was at work and all my staff were just like you okay, like you good.

It was like cuz I'm supposed to be telling people what to do. I'm just like I Said I'm just kind of mad right now. I need to fix myself. And so That's something I failed man is up. I have a tendency to whenever I Get upset.

I want to hold on to it or I want to hold on to a situation. Sometimes man, I just gotta give that stuff up that mess will eat you.

Yeah, sometimes I recognize when I'm making too big of a deal with something when someone asked me what's wrong. I'm like, all right. Yeah. Yeah, that was the thing like, you know, but what made you mad that you ruined your whole day.

What I just told you. I mean, I thought that was just the bill. I mean that that was it. That was the whole thing right there. That's what made you that upset.

No, honestly, that's how I talk to myself sometimes like seriously. Is that all it takes good? Come on. Come on. Yeah, I give myself the tough coach talk. Really it's gonna put you down 10 more yards 10 more yards.

You're the worst. Yeah. Yeah, I mean that's where I failed this week let's talk about some language dude, okay. Last week we mentioned. Oh my god, and we were on the precipice. We were just on great discussion and I was doing something called Advocating For the devil.

Oh my gosh. I was dead playing devil's advocate. I was being real annoying about it. I just want to continue to do that. All right. All right. So this is a hunter V Andrew V. Pastor Josiah. Why are we fighting?

Why are we being? Yeah, it's a clickbait hunter the Andrew. Yeah, we're clickbaiting it language, okay. Let's talk about words the power of words the importance of words. What are we what should we and what should we not say and why like why is it important like grand scheme of things.

So I would like to let one of you open the four of us. Oh. We're gonna. Okay, so let's let's just start off recap on oh my god. Okay, oh my god.

I would say that's probably not the best phrase for a Christian to be using. You know speaking of the Lord's name in vain. It's kind of like when I used to get frustrated and I would say God bless. I think I mentioned this last week.

I wasn't really asking God to bless something. I'm saying that in vain and really I'm just saying that so I don't say something else. So really that would be an example. All right, you're not actually asking God to bless something, right?

And I think that is the idea behind. When Jesus is preaching on letting your SDS and know me know before that He says don't take an oath by heaven or earth or on your head or whatever. Just let your SDS and know me know in other words Don't make fake oaths.

You're not gonna be keep and have to use them. You should be so honest that if you tell someone yes, it's gonna happen. You say no.

So like when you say hey, can we you want to go to lunch? You're like probably Right. That's not a yes or no. That's a it's a more it's a skies.

No, but yeah, right probably is okay if you actually probably but if you really mean no and you just don't want to say it. You're being non-confrontational. Yeah, you shouldn't be right. You should just say no.

It's not like one Baptist saying I'll pray about it and then I never pray about it. Only say that if you were in fact actually gonna go pray about it. Otherwise, just say yes.

I mean I beat that by saying let's pray about it now. Yeah, I'm 100 that person. I'll pray about it. I'll really mean it in that moment. Oh, yeah.

We've been praying for this person am I we I am. So, oh my god. Probably not a phrase we want to make a habit. Unless of course you're using it in the exact phrase like if you're actually calling upon God.

As far as words in general David said let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart Be acceptable in your sight. Oh god my rock and my redeemer Jesus said out of The abundance of the heart or the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks.

So in other words When we say something it slips out. Normally, it's not really that it slipped out. Really we have been meditating on it before and It may not be true. That doesn't mean we didn't mean something by it, even if it wasn't true.

Finally We are supposed to have total control Over our words and over our bodies. So whatever we say it needs to be intentional. And I see that you open my Bible to James 3. I'm assuming you want me to read some James 3.

I open that up to refresh me because I knew I would want to be talking about James. 3 I would say this.

You know When we talk about cussing or cursing in this and this may surprise a few people but if you're looking for a Bible verse that says thou shalt not say and then with the 2021 American modern curse words, you're not going to find any verse like that.

Correct. So it's not words in and of themselves that are wrong to say. What the Bible does say is do not let a unwholesome Filthy language come out of your mouth and it doesn't have a word as to what that is.

There is a verse in Ephesians 4 that says Put away lying to speak the truth and love instead of tearing each other down. Use your words to build each other up according to the need of each one. So in other words the words of encouragement Andrew may need for me and may not be the same the Dalton needs from me.

Okay, so there is a certain way that I would speak to One of my fighters of sojourn. That I may not use for my three-year-old Ava. Right, right or for my brother hunter but none of that should be filthy or unwholesome or Reviling tearing down.

It should all be with the intention of building up. So here's here's my advocation argument.

Um. Just go ahead and say it it's the devil's argument, okay. It might not be depends on how you feel about what I say. Okay, so we have a moral versus ethical dilemma in my opinion right now again morals are.

What is ethics is what should be correct, right and a lot of the time morals are going to be defined by Culture so what's good in America might not be good somewhere else and vice versa for example in Scotland.

Every all the guys, you know, not really but there was a time where a lot of men were killed in America. Men wearing skirts. It sends a whole different message, but I see what I'm saying. Yeah. And I think the same thing is going to go for language in Ireland Scotland England even.

There are certain curse words that they use over there like it's nothing. I mean, they wouldn't have even known that it was a curse word at all. Right over here. That word is on you don't say it, you know, you see what I'm saying?

Yeah. So I think language plays a part in that this like what is morally? Okay. So we're really asking Should the Christian language be formed around ethics around morals? So around don't let any unwholesome speak well is oh my god unwholesome speak.

Here is the colloquial term. Oh my god, or should that be more of an ethical thing where we say it might not morally be. Wrong, but ethically we don't find it appealing. Can you say what you said define the two terms of ethics and more so morals?

Morality is about what is so they say for example in America. It is morally okay to abort your child because those are the laws they say the choice of the woman and all that is morally. Okay. Ethically, it is horribly not.

Okay, because of what should be what our our ethics come from the Bible. So that's why I'm confident saying ethically abortion is wrong. So more in America is totally right. Ethics would be worldview.

That's what we're yeah, I'm gonna equate that to two other terms as well. Yeah it's about your ethics is about what the world should be in your view and we as Us we get our view on ethics from the Bible, right?

Morals are what is. Culturally culturally. Okay. So what is right morally? It doesn't always line up with what is right ethically so you can be a moral person without being an ethical person, right? So from this point forward whenever we say we were talking about the argument of morality versus ethics.

We're looking at culture versus worldview. Okay, just want to clear that up. So that way all of us all of us are on the same page when we're talking about it so I guess the big question here is Should that phrase?

Oh my god, we looked at are we obeying it morally? Are we obeying it ethically? What's our look at and if it's ethically why exactly would it be at that would be ethically wrong. I.

Would say first off your point about Different dress code and stuff like that. I think the Bible Paul would agree with that. He says don't do anything that don't dress unseemly doesn't nature itself teach you this and that so there is a sense for example, I Don't think a missionary.

You should go to certain Middle Eastern countries and present the gospel clean-shaven. If he's a man, right because he will not fit in he will not Reach as many people probably right you understand what I mean?

In other words in some Countries, you know for a man to be clean-shaven is well, he's a boy. Right. So in other words, right so I did not fall. Yeah. Yeah. In other words, there's a sense in that and what you were saying about culturally acceptable and I understand all that.

I Think the answer to the oh my god question would be right and I think hunters porn is perfect. Whether or not it's morally. Okay, if our ethical stances do not take the name of Lord in vain. Then that would supersede the morality of whatever the culture is.

But I would also say When it comes to other curse words. Yes, it is a bit arbitrary. For a Christian to say well these exact words would be curse words right by God's standard but these one that is a bit arbitrary.

So I do think it is. The Bible is silent on exactly what those words are, but it says whatever is unwholesome filthy or unseemly. That's what it says whatever put somebody down so for example. Let's just get what we know to be objective and then that gets us a framework.

So what do we know to be objective? All right. The Bible says don't tear down but only build up Ephesians 4. Okay. Well that eliminates several phrases in my mind right now. Okay. The Bible says not to use God's name in vain.

Okay. Well that eliminates several more phrases right there. The Bible says to have total control of your mind and body, okay that removes any it just slipped out or I didn't mean it. Okay, one degree so far.

Yeah. Okay. So we so once we start getting these objective standards out of the way, there's only. That eliminates the majority of scenarios that we have probably just thought of or described. Not only leaves a few left that we can have any discussion about at all.

Am I making sense in other words? Yeah, once we get those objective ones out of the way we get a subject right, right and even there my next point would be Come out from among them and be separate says the Lord touch not the unclean thing.

In other words there needs to be some difference in language and of course that goes far beyond simple cursors. There needs to be some difference in language. Someone should be able to watch the way you live and listen to the way you talk and before you have even said Romans chapter 10 says this they already know they already know they know what you believe, right?

But yeah, I think we On the other side of it do a disservice if we make some type of word list. And so these are what God says are acceptable and these are what God says. Right, right. I remember being told one time that I was cursing because I use the word cop.

Cop like police officer CEO. Yeah. Yeah, because it was a disrespectful to police officers. You're calling my cop. Yeah interesting. Well, that's a good. No, no, and it was just in ignorance because you know as far as I know that.

Check on this the etymology that is the New York cops used to wear the copper badges. So you remember bugs money the coppers? Oh, yeah I'm pretty confident. That's what it is. So anyway, it's not derogatory in any way to call themselves.

They had a whole show about it. It's really cool.

Moral Language, Ethics, and the Lord's Name in Vain

Sure. So in order to pick your argument apart, go ahead. I'm sorry. This is the role that I'm. I you are. Yeah, so in order to pick the argument apart, I wanted to ask. No. Hawaiian rolls of the best.

He said this role. I saw a role not that Lambert's no Hawaiian warmed up with butter and honey. What if there was vomit if you disagree? Well, why is wrong? That's you?

There I met you at a high speed and they hit the person behind you and you can't help it. Like Pelted with a you like. Oh, I love Hawaiian rolls. I like those things play but nothing's funnier than watching the person makes you get.

So you need them training? Oh, yeah. Oh, we need a train or shit. We're just playing.

So in order to pick your argument apart, you know in order to pick your argument apart, here's this. What do you guys? What would you say it means? To take the Lord's name in vain says do not take the Lord's name in vain.

You just sit to me last time. I'm listening to you first. No, I mean you dished me and I'll all right.

We'll say a possibility there. All right vanity all this vanity. Meaning. So if you're going around and just saying GD sure GD this GD that yeah. Yeah. Yeah, it has no meaning it. Literally, you're not giving glory to God's into the name.

It look very much. Does it lessen the name? It is nothing or God bless if you're not actually saying God bless this or What's the oh my god saying that. That it's vanity. There's no reason for you to say you could say oh my corn.

And it would mean absolutely nothing. Here's another question before we continue with that one. Do you think that God is his name or his title? Like would you say God is? His name or do you say that he is God that is his title.

Well, I would say If it if it is his name if we're if we're gonna go with the name. Then that would be the vein that would that thing like it's a name of our God. But if it's a name of our God, then I'm that I can get behind the argument a little more.

Well, but if this is like a title he is God he or he is our God. I'd say well if I were to say, oh my president would I be insulting or lessening president Joe Biden? You know, you know I'm saying just like oh my god if that's a title well, okay, so my before.

Before you do your point. If that's the case. Then you're less than me. You're not showing respect to that title like we talked about last week if you're not going to show respect the title. It's also vain to say that title.

So if you if you don't show respect, all right, let's use the president. If you say You use that terminology issues, okay, you belittled the idea of the president. It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter what the presidency is.

It's vain now. It's a Presidency if you look at that and you're like, oh the president doesn't you know, the president doesn't mean anything to me. I see why you say that. I would disagree though. Just saying oh my president I don't think it you know, cuz that's an argument that was used when I was younger.

When I said, oh my god, and my parents would say what if I said, oh my hunter. Okay, like I never I never understood so I was wondering if that is. So I'm wondering You know, what is our opinion on the word God?

Is it a title or is it his name?

Well, his name doesn't matter. His name is Yahweh. We say God that represents Not Allah or Ra or Thor that represents our God. So right it's the same thing in other words, in other words, his name is Yahweh.

Yes, but when we say God we are referring to Yahweh. We're not referring to anyone else. Yeah. Yeah, so and I would say that. The difference in those two examples is one is far more Holy and reverent than the other.

So it should be held in the higher standard. So the whole oh my hunter thing. Yeah, of course you the care doesn't matter the point in the other one is Are you? God is never more than repentant call away.

So when you say oh my god, you stop is that really a time that you need to be calling out to God. And of course the answer is no. So when it says you're not taking they made Lord man, of course his literal name is Yahweh.

Right, but when we say God that's who we're representing so my argument would not be That it's blasphemy or something something like that. Sorry. I got my argument would be. That's probably not something we should do as nothing of course I myself have done it many times my argument would be that.

How could that not be?

You may be calling on him. You're not actually communicating with him. So is there a version. Is there a possibility? Is there a way to separate the reference to the God named Yahweh. Versus a reference to a colloquial phrase that everybody says like what.

So in other words when I say, oh my god. Does that. Is there a way to separate like can somebody rightly claim? I am NOT referencing.

God himself. I'm just saying this phrase that makes it separate. Sure. Could you. Yeah, they honestly do like is it? Is that possible? I mean Technically, yeah. Sure. Is it possible should a Christian do it?

No, okay. Yeah, I mean, of course it's possible. It's also possible To have secondary meanings for words all the time. But you know that your listeners will be thinking the primary meaning every time you say it.

Yeah, you can you can use the same argument for any cuss word. Yeah. You can you can say that all day long but. Is that what the intent of the heart was? Right? That's the intent of the heart wasn't okay.

Sure, but who's gonna judge that right? You can't judge that. That's the first question that I asked that Andrew said. What does it mean to take the Lord's name in vain?

Did you have a different answer than him? No, I think that's right. I think it is Using it in a way of Which God does not want to use. You're not calling out to him. You're not reading his word. You're not actually speaking to him.

You're not talking about him. You are so you're not even talking about him you are literally using. Okay a guy Used to before he was saved because church used to say all the time Christ on the cross. Can you hurry up?

No, okay now that reaction right there. Why is that different? It's Christ not God. So that shouldn't be different. It's the same thing. He's not actually Having any meaningful discussion about Jesus on the cross.

We are not actually having you know meaningful discussion about my god.

So there's no I will throw another disclaimer that I am playing a role that I will share my true opinion, of course. Okay, but I'm gonna say this. I'm gonna say this I just feel like the need because I don't actually believe what I'm saying point taken.

Um, it's right there. I do think It's different to say the same God versus God who the argument my character's argument is. Is a title more than a name. I've been saying Christ is a title not a name. Right crisis Christ, but yeah, you don't nobody else ever has ever been referred to as Christ that I know.

Well, that's a message. That's this unless you read that one Twitter post by that guy. Okay. Yeah. There was a there was a post I don't know I don't know the guy's name, but he said that Jesus was a Christ Buddha was a Christ just starts naming all these random people.

It's like we're all there. Everyone is universal isn't basically Saying Christ Jesus on the cross you are being very that's two names or two names. And a name if you want to say that that's two names and referencing his crucifixion.

Which is going to be different than saying? Oh my god. To the average person because oh my god is a very popular low-key phrase. That can be used in many different ways. You can lowercase that G you can you know, anybody who doesn't believe in a God at all can be saying it versus Christ Jesus on a cross is basically saying Exactly you're right, you know exactly your reference.

So in other words, you can have a little bit of anonymity or a little bit of Versus. I am definitely talking about it and I definitely don't care that happened.

Do I know what you're saying? Yes. Okay. Yeah. Yeah, you know my characters thing. Yeah. Yeah.

I'm saying the way he looks at me when I say this. I'm like. It's my clickbait character, it's the hunter versus.

Right, I mean, let me know what your next yoga class is because that was a stretch. If you're going to do that. If you're going to do all that that's fine, but your question was should a Christian Say that knows your original question and you have not provided your character.

I'm not about anything at all convincing to say the answer. Yes. Yeah. Like you're one of your defense arguments was even non-christian say that or non. Or atheists say that that was one of your roles point right.

So one of your defense arguments was well atheists say it.

Cool great point. And see into to that to the whole. See, I can't even say I can't say that. It hurts me too much that whole you said. They may not know they they know exactly what the referencing. Okay, it doesn't matter to them.

It's vanity it's foolishness. Who cares right? It's nothing it may have not even happened. It doesn't matter or it's vanity taking the Lord's name in vain or the title or whatever Representation you want to use it doesn't mean anything.

Do you put it at the same level as oh my god. Yes It's it gets as we saw. This is not a comment.

All of us not being guilty. This is a question of whether we should or not. Yes, Jesus is God.

So you're literally saying the exact same thing, right? And yeah, I just want to say that one more time. We're not saying that we're sinless in it. We've all made we've all done this before this week.

Yeah, right. It's lived out. Yeah, right. Yeah, exactly. So this is. Yeah, this is the standard we need to live to and we don't always reach those same as well except for hunters character. Yeah, I don't care my character doesn't care your character doesn't care Hector.

Yeah Hector. Can we call you Hector? Oh, yeah, that's perfect. All right care from this point forward. Oh. You just teach Spanish for a while. Anyway, so I'm Hector. Hector Hector. Don't say the actor.

Oh, that's perfect. I've been rector Thor. Continued he said anyway, um. Taking his name in vain. Could it also mean this and this is something that I've thought about a lot is Do not take the Lord's name in vain do not as Hector you as hunter yes, okay.

Do not take up the Lord's name in vain. So in other words do not take the Lord's name in vain and the way That I've learned understand is a little version of that is do not take up the Lord's name in vain.

In other words if I do not believe in God or if my actions declare that I do not believe in God. Do not claim that I do. So in other words if I were to say I wear a cross around my neck I've got a Bible boot.

I've got a Bible verse Tattooed on me yet I am not a Christian and I know it or I do not adhere to what God says and I know it. Like I might fool myself into thinking that I'm a Christian and there are hundreds and thousands of people and As I speak right now everybody listening knows somebody by name who fits this description.

Think I'm a Christian. Yet, I'm definitely not. I don't act like it or anything like that got the Bible verse. I got the cross on me. And I'm dragging the name of God and the reputation of Christians his followers through the mud.

So would you consider that taking God's name in vain I Take his name claim him for myself and yet it's worthless. Well, yeah.

Well, if it's not knowingly that's one thing but if it's knowingly it's even worse, but yeah, of course, that would be.

I just wanted to throw that one out there. Yeah, that's cuz I just cuz I like. Well, thank you Hector. Yeah. No, I'd agree. I think that it's it if you're if you're knowingly doing it. Then that's a whole nother story.

Like that's our that's it. That's the next level of I don't care. That's evil strategy. Oh, yeah. Hey guys, so my deep school you are. Strategizing to drag Christians name to the mud with your own life.

That sounds like a Bible thing. Did you just use scripture to back up your point? Yes. Oh, you shouldn't. Okay, I'm gonna break character for a minute to say my my.

Welcome shoulder.

Christian Distinctiveness, Self-Control, and Profitability

Back of the knee got it. I'm ready. I got this. Well Hector, here's some things that I would say to against your point. Everything is permissible, but not everything is profitable. Sometimes wisdom and discernment need to outweigh your eagerness to speak.

Or your lack of thought and what you're doing. There are reasons that I do not cuss. Let no one wholesome speak come from your mouth. Jay of the entirety of chap James chapter 3.

I think we're gonna need to read that at some point for sure.

Okay, and you know, you can take that into account, but that's gonna be my secondary reason. My number one reason is to follow this command. Let your light shine before men. Right to be a difference the and that's literally that is my.

That is what I think about every time I want to cuss and done don't um is The easiest way to separate yourself from other people's language and the way you speak and that's why I love that's why you opened up the Conversation with my main point is people know that you are different before they ever Hear you talk about anything spiritual.

Yep. You know, I've had jobs where you know, it might take a couple weeks, but they'll come up and say do you not cuss? Yeah. Yeah, do you not cuss. Don't cuss. I would say really I'll give you a hundred dollars to say yeah.

Yeah. Yeah. I want you to do it. Yeah, really? Yeah, I don't think I don't think they're legitimately worse than awkward. I think they were gonna say it. Yeah. But you know I'm saying like they they desperately want you to and they you know, they fabricated did you just cuss yeah.

Really? I thought I heard it. No. No, and I I don't have to defend myself because everybody else in the room knows. Yeah, he didn't cuss. He know we know he didn't cuss because that's something that I take very seriously and if I fail everywhere else Then that's one thing that I can still do that is very obviously letting my light shine like I'm not gonna live like that I'm different than that and it's amazing how much it's such a small like It's a small change that makes a huge impact on people.

Yeah, and that's what I do. I talk about this with my friends all the time. I'd say do you know how much funnier I would feel if I cussed. Like sometimes in my joke, it'd be so much funnier to me sometimes just to throw in something like that but it's so easy not to and To make that difference and it's not even a sacrifice.