Filled in the Spirit - Ephesians 5:18

Amen. Thank you for lifting your voices today. Think about what our

Lord Jesus is doing all over the world today. What an interesting thing is happening.

Christ is building His church. I know that we can look around and we can certainly be discouraged, and rightfully so.

We can be discouraged about some things happening in the world today. We can be discouraged about things that are happening even in our own country.

We can be discouraged about things that are happening perhaps in our families or maybe even in our community.

We live in a fallen world and there are things that certainly are, even rightfully, discouraging to the

Christian heart. Let me encourage you with this wonderful truth this morning and something that we've been learning here as a church.

Christ is building His church. But what that means, it means more than just some sort of physical structure.

It means more than some sort of club or community group. It means that Christ is building a holy people.

A people who love one another. A people who are committed to the things of Christ and to one another.

A people who love evangelism. A people who desire to do all that God has instructed us.

And so that's where we find ourselves this morning in Ephesians chapter 5. And what we've been talking about in Ephesians chapter 5, what we've been talking about last week and then this week is what it means to be filled with the

Spirit. I want to be a Spirit -filled church. Don't you? We ought to want that.

But what some people mean by that is a little different, I think, than what Paul means by that.

And so this morning we take up this subject again and we talk about being filled in the

Spirit. Filled in the Spirit. And I'll explain that more as we go on today. But hopefully you found

Ephesians 5. Would you stand with me in the honor of reading of God's Word? We find ourselves once again in verse 18.

We covered part of it last week. We'll cover more of it this week. Ephesians chapter 5, verse 18.

And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the

Spirit. Let's pray. Father, we pray that we would understand this text today.

We pray that the Holy Spirit would be here, Holy Spirit. We pray that you would be here with us and among us and in us and that you would use the

Word today to shape in us, to point our hearts and our minds even today to Christ, that we'd understand the truth that we're about to hear, that we'd be fed today by the

Word of God. Show us Christ. Lord, I know that there are

Christians here among us who need to grow today in being filled in the

Spirit. I know there are some here perhaps who have professed Christ, but they don't even have the

Holy Spirit within them. They're not actually believers and today they need to repent of their sins and put their faith in Christ.

Lord, I pray that you would just work, our great and holy triune God. Work today for your glory.

Work today in this community. We want to see the banner of Christ lifted higher and we believe that Christ is worthy of a healthy church here.

Let us be resolved to give our lives to such a noble endeavor.

We pray in Christ's name. Amen. You may be seated. This is, as I mentioned, the second week.

We look last week at more of the negative aspect of this verse.

We looked at last week the prohibition. That is, Paul says, do not, do not get drunk with wine.

So we talked about last week that the Christian should not be controlled by alcohol, but we noticed an application.

It's not just alcohol. The Christian is to not be controlled by anything except what?

Actually the question is, except who? The Holy Spirit. So the things we put into our bodies, the things that we allow our minds to dwell on, the things that keep us up late at night.

Are you one of those people like any kind of person like myself? At times you lay your head down on the pillow and you can't go to sleep.

Why? You're just thinking and thinking and thinking and thinking and thinking. And Paul says, no, no, don't be controlled.

Don't be controlled by these things. Be controlled rather by the Holy Spirit. That's the prohibition.

This week we come to the second point of this verse, and that is the precept. The precept.

And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery. But notice the second part, be filled with the

Spirit. So I say the precept because this is a command. The second half of this verse is also an imperative.

We're not merely told in this verse to not do something. Well Christians don't get drunk with wine.

That's true. But we're told also to do something. So let me remind you again, if you see

Christianity today as merely the things that you're not allowed to do, like if your summary of Christianity is the not do's, then you've misunderstood the essence of Christianity.

It's not just about the things that we don't do, but also the things that we're commanded to do. And that is in verse 18, we're not only commanded not to get drunk with wine, but also to what?

To be filled with the Spirit. This is a command. And so it is our endeavor now to consider this command.

And let me make this comment. What is your reaction to the commands of the

Lord? Okay, because the Christian's reaction to the commands of the

Lord is that we love to know what God has commanded us to do. I want to know what is it that God wants of my life.

The commandments of God are not seen as a groan to the believer. They're not seen as burdensome to the believer.

Rather, the genuine believer wants to know what it is that God has commanded them to do so that they can adjust their lives accordingly to His book.

So you and I are commanded then to be filled in this text with the Spirit. That is the

Holy Spirit, of course, the third person of the Trinity, God Himself. So what is it now that Paul means by this?

I'm going to mention first what it does not mean, and I think that will help us. I was helped by Martin Lloyd -Jones' sermon on this verse and diagnosing what this feeling is not.

So first of all, being filled with the Spirit is not the baptism of the

Holy Spirit, okay? And some, I should say, persuasions of Christianity might think that being filled with the

Spirit is you need to get baptized with the Spirit. That's not what Paul is talking about here because the

Spirit's baptism is a one -time event. It happens at conversion.

And in the baptism of the Spirit, we're resurrected. We are united to Christ that is spiritually resurrected, regenerated.

We're united to Christ. We're united to all that He has done for us. Water baptism, by the way, is intricately connected to this, not because water baptism brings about these things, but because water baptism is that outward and visible sign of these inward realities.

But baptism of the Spirit, baptism of the

Spirit is a one -time experience for every true

Christian. So listen very carefully here. When Paul says that Christians are to be filled with the

Spirit, he's not saying for us to go and be baptized again by the

Holy Spirit. You can't. If you're a Christian, you can't be baptized again by the

Holy Spirit. This has already happened to you. It's happened in your regeneration. By the way, we need to notice something about this command.

It's a passive command. And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the

Spirit. So you understand what I mean when I say passive. That is, we're not to fill ourselves.

The text says we're to be filled, okay? And though it is passive, it's actually also a command.

Whereas, for example, I want to show you another example. When it comes to the Spirit baptism or regeneration, being born again, you know that we're never commanded to be born again.

It's just a reality that has to happen to us. Let me show you real quick. Turn to John 3.

Flipping over here to my left, to the Gospel of John, John chapter 3. This is passive as well, but it's just an indicative.

It's not a command. So in John chapter 3, this is what

Jesus says. I'm going to read in verse 3. Jesus answered him, truly, truly,

I say to you, unless one is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.

Nicodemus said to him, how can a man be born when he is old? Can he enter a second time into his mother's womb and be born?

Jesus answered, truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God.

That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Do not marvel that I said to you, now here it is, you must be born again.

That's not a command. Jesus doesn't command, go be born again. He states it as a matter of fact.

You must be. It's in the indicative mood. You must be. It's a declarative statement of fact.

To put it more simply, they're not telling us in verse 7, Jesus is not telling us what we must do, but what we must be.

We must be born again, or we cannot see the kingdom of God.

The Bible does not command us to go be born again. Why? Because regeneration is entirely passive.

You can't do that. That's what God does to you. It's something that God does to us, not something that we conjure up with God and cooperate with God and work with God in order to bring about.

But now back to our text, this is not a declarative statement. This is an imperative.

It doesn't just say you must be filled with. It says, no, he commands us in verse 18, and do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the

Spirit. So it's a passive command. It is be filled, meaning we don't fill ourselves.

However, it's also an imperative. It's not an indicative. That is, it is a command. Baptism of the

Holy Spirit is not a command, but being filled with the Spirit is a command. So this is not talking about Spirit baptism.

Number two, it's not talking about the sealing of the Spirit. This will be easier to look at in our text. Go back to Ephesians chapter four, verse 30, just a few verses above where we're at.

Ephesians chapter four, verse 30 says this, and do not grieve the

Holy Spirit of God by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption.

Okay, so we are sealed with the Holy Spirit, not like you seal vegetables and put them in the fridge. Rather, we're sealed with the

Spirit like God stamps us with his ring and the hot wax and we're stamped with the

Holy Spirit himself. So the Holy Spirit of God is in us as a down payment, as it were, of eternal glory.

The Spirit holds us until the day of redemption, bearing witness to us that we are

God's children. So again, Spirit baptism, one -time experience.

The sealing of the Spirit, one -time experience. It happens at conversion. We certainly experience the effects of that more and more and more in our life, but it's only a one -time experience.

We're not commanded here to be sealed in the text, but to be filled. Okay, so baptism of the

Spirit, sealing of the Spirit, these are all prerequisites to what Paul's commanding in verse 18. That is, let me just say this.

If you haven't been born again, if you haven't come to Christ in faith, you're not going to live a life filled in by, with the

Holy Spirit. In fact, that's a problem for a lot of Christians today. They're like, why can't I, I try to read my

Bible, it doesn't work. I try to go to church, it doesn't work. Every now and then I feel guilty about evangelism, but it doesn't work.

I try to be filled with the Holy Spirit, it doesn't work. Well, maybe it doesn't work because your heart is still stoned and you must be born again.

Okay, this text is not Spirit baptism. It's not Spirit sealing. Thirdly, it's not being filled for an extraordinary task.

So here's what I mean by this. In the Bible, the Holy Spirit comes upon people sometimes in a special way for a specific extraordinary task.

Think of Samson for a moment. You remember what happens with Samson and even, even at his death, he prays for one more time to be, to have the

Spirit, Holy Spirit in him and it brings him much strength. Or think about in church history.

There were men and women in church history who were marched to the, to the stake and they were burned alive.

And what were they doing when they were going to the stake? They weren't kicking and screaming. They weren't crying. Some of them were preaching

Christ. Some of them were singing a hymn and imploring with those who were hearing them to turn to Christ and be saved.

How were they doing that? I believe it was a special grace, a special grace from the

Holy Spirit for those moments. But Paul's command here is not for the extraordinary moments of our lives.

Friends, what I'm saying is this is for the everyday average blue collar

Christian. All of us are to be, verse 18, and do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the

Spirit. So it's not spirit baptism. It's not spirit sealing. It's not some sort of extraordinary task.

And if it's not those things, then what is it? Well, that's what we're going to look at. Let me give you three points here, and I think this will help us wrap our mind around what

Paul is saying. So number one is this. First, being filled in the Spirit is a controlled condition.

Number one, it's a controlled condition. Paul says, do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the

Spirit. Now, I'm going to talk a little bit of grammar. I think it'll help us. It's interesting that some of your translations may say, by the

Spirit. Some of your translations may say, with the Spirit. But the Greek word is actually the word for in the

Spirit. So I like that language, actually, be filled in the

Spirit. So it's not so much, because I think sometimes we think about this. I'm an empty vessel.

I'm like a pitcher. I'm a little bit empty on the Holy Spirit today. I need the

Holy Spirit to come into me, like some have said, like a liquid or something. You're pouring out a liquid, but the

Spirit is not a liquid. That's not how we're to think about it. That's not what Paul is showing us here. Rather, he's showing us that instead of an experience that we have, friends, this is a condition that we are to be in.

It's a controlled condition. We have been transformed by grace.

If you're a believer, you've been united to Christ by grace through faith.

And now we live out our days on earth in the Spirit of God, gladly under His control, gladly under His leadership.

So many people talk about how they're a believer, but they don't live tangibly as though Christ is

King. But to be filled in the Spirit is to live under the glad submission of the

Spirit of God. This is a control condition. And that,

I believe, is the point of the illustration with drunkenness. Do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery.

Remember, we talked about last week that word. It's used in the prodigal son, reckless living.

To be drunk with wine is recklessness. The opposite of that is to be controlled by the

Spirit. So Paul is not saying, as some people would say, that you need to be drunk on the

Holy Spirit. And I've been in places before, and you have too, where people sort of try to exercise that, a drunkenness on the

Spirit. But that's not what Paul is saying. The whole point here is that the Christian should be controlled by the

Holy Spirit, not by foreign substances, not by carnality, not by idolatry.

Okay, let me just tell you this. Lack of control in your life is the opposite of this command.

Lack of control in worship is not Holy Spirit -oriented.

Those who try to make a mockery of the worship of God and cause confusion and chaos, there may be a

Spirit present in those places, but it's not the Holy Spirit, because the Holy Spirit brings about control.

How do I know this stuff about control, by the way? Let's look at another passage. Turn over to Galatians real quick.

Galatians chapter 5 here. Go back to your left one book. You're in Ephesians.

Go back to Galatians chapter 5. And here Paul talks about the fruit of the

Spirit. And here's the fruit of the Spirit, Galatians chapter 5. I'll start in verse 19 to give a contrast.

So Galatians chapter 5, verse 19. Now the works of the flesh are evident. Okay, so here's what it's like to be controlled by the flesh.

Sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these.

Listen to Paul very carefully. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.

So if you're here today, let me just give a gospel invitation to you. If you are here today and you say,

I know I'm a Christian, but I'm controlled by idolatry, or drunkenness, or envy, or sexual immorality, or strife.

And you want to say things like, well, that's just how I'm made. That's just my constitution. That's just my personality.

I'm bent towards these things, and I do these things, and these things control my life. But I know

I'm a Christian because there was a time in my life that I raised my hand, and I prayed a prayer, and I walked an aisle, and I signed a card, and they baptized me, and they put a name in my

Bible, and I know I'm a Christian. Paul says he knows you're not a

Christian. That's what Paul says. That's not what Quattro says. It's what

Paul says. Those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. Friend, if that is you, this is the gospel invitation.

If that is you, you need to repent, and you need to believe on Christ. You need to turn from your sin, and your idolatry, and your hypocrisy, and you need to cast yourself upon the mercies of Christ.

And like the song we sang this morning, he welcomes the weakest, the vilest, the poor.

Our sins there are many, but his mercy is more. Come to Christ. But now listen, this is what a spirit -controlled life looks like, verse 22.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and here's the last one, self -control.

Against such things, there is no law. Friends, what

I'm trying to say is that to be filled in the Spirit is to live a life that is controlled by the

Spirit. It's a controlled condition. S. M. Ball notes that believers now live in this constant awareness of this presence of God in their lives.

It's the Holy Spirit that brings about this awareness and brings about tangible fruit. Sinclair Ferguson says it this way, to be filled with the

Spirit refers predominantly to exhibiting the fruit of the Spirit in a life that is under the lordship of the

Spirit. Being filled in the Spirit is a controlled condition.

It's not foolishness. It is not disconnected from the brain. Ten years ago or so,

I was in a men's Bible study, and a man just asked, you know how you're ever in a

Bible study, sometimes a man just asks a question. Well, a man asked the group, have you ever felt

God? And then he proceeded to answer his own question. He said,

I have. I'm reading a direct quote because I wrote it down. Yeah, I did.

It was one of those experiences. He says, I have. My brain waves start going like,

I don't know, like I touch something electrical, and my spine gets tingly, and I smell roses.

I've always heard if you smell roses out of nowhere, that's

God. Friends, what I'm trying to say to you is there's a lot that we could work through with that illustration, but the point is that is not being filled in the

Spirit. That, rather, is an experience that seems to incorporate a line from the song in the garden,

I think, and a bad experience perhaps with an electrical outlet. That's not what

Paul is talking about here. We live, though, we live an experience -driven

Christianity. How are things going in Asbury, by the way? Oh, yeah, that's already over, right?

We're so caught up in some sort of experience for a week or two weeks. Oh, yes, and we're fighting as Christians.

That's really revival. No, it's not really revival, and we're arguing about it. Why? Because we're so wrapped up in an experience, and some people live their

Christian life from experience to experience to experience, and they don't know how to live just the ordinary, regular, normative

Christian life. And the ordinary, regular, normative Christian life is actually extraordinary because it is a life filled in the

Holy Spirit of God. Friends, we can't try to create something here.

Churches do this, don't they? Today, we're going to create an experience, you know? So the drums will come out of the stage, and they'll spin around while the drummer's continuing to play, and we'll all be amazed, and we'll say, woo, we had a good church today.

And then we'll wake up tomorrow, we won't read our Bibles, and we won't tell people about Jesus. We'll go on sinning, we'll love the idols of this world, and we won't be transformed.

That's not Christianity. Christianity is that we're to be in this constant condition of a life filled full in the

Spirit. We are His possession. We are to be under His control. We are to be under His divine influence.

It means that we're Bible people because the Spirit wrote the Bible. It's a controlled condition.

Secondly, it's a continual command. Now, notice something, again, about grammar.

I'm in Galatians, I've got to go back to Ephesians. Notice something here. When He says, be filled, be filled with the

Spirit, you may not notice that it sounds like it's past tense, but in reality, it's a present imperative.

Meaning, it's a constant thing that we're to do. It's a continual command.

The idea, friends, that Paul is saying is the Christian is to keep on being filled in the

Holy Spirit. Keep on submitting yourself to His divine influence. The Spirit of God, He doesn't numb us like drunkenness.

Drunkenness numbs us. Or other things that we get involved in, the idolatry of the world, it pulls us out of reality.

But that's not what the Spirit does, right? He empowers our minds. He inflames our hearts.

He enlivens our wills. He invigorates our affections. There is real no, friends,

I'm just gonna tell you, there is real no life apart from the Spirit of God. To be filled in the

Spirit is to actually live for God.

Here's where real contentment is found. Being fulfilled in God.

God is enough. He is enough. He is enough. He is enough.

I don't gotta have Brother Jacob's truck. I don't gotta have Brother Gunner's camper, right?

I don't have to have the vacation. You know what I'm saying? I have enough in God. Like, I'm not saying those things are wrong, you understand?

What I'm saying is we live life trying to keep up with the Joneses. We live life saying, like, I wanna go where they're going.

I wanna do what they're doing. Like, no, no, no. God is enough. God is enough. That's who we were made for.

And this is the life that we live in the Spirit. Real contentment.

Friends, to be filled in the Spirit will result in people saying things to us like this.

You're out of your mind. To give your life to the church, to give your life to proselytizing the gospel, to give your life to always be talking about Jesus and always be so connected with your church family, you're out of your mind.

Because the reality of the Holy Spirit in a people and with us and for us and in us is not just making us nice, moral people.

Listen, please, very carefully to this. Perryville is not going to have an issue with nice, moral people.

That's what you wanna be. Just a nice, moral person. You pick up the trash you see on the street.

You involve yourself in the activities of the community.

You're nice to everybody. You're holding open doors. Not that any of those things are wrong, okay?

But what I'm saying is that's not being filled in the Spirit. No one in Perryville is gonna have a problem if you live that way.

But they will have a problem. They will take issue when the

Holy Spirit actually takes control of your life and influences and fills your life.

Why? Because that will result in a life that's not just moral and clean and picking up trash and down at the ball fields or whatever.

That will result in a life that loves the Bible and loves the church and loves

Christ and loves holiness and hates sin. That kind of life is a problem and an indictment upon a culture that embraces nominal

Christianity. Friends, this is no like a man. Be filled in the

Spirit. And the point here is, Christian, you're continually commanded to live that kind of life.

So don't look at here and be like, you know what? On this day, 13 years ago,

I was filled in the Spirit. Check, got that done, boom. I'm off to something else. No, friends, this is a continual command.

Be filled in the Spirit. You're to be continually filled in the

Spirit. It's simply not an option. Okay, thirdly, it's a controlled condition, a continual command.

Next, it is corporate communion. Corporate communion.

Here's what you cannot forget in verse 18. What is the subject?

This is fun, right, Grammar? What is the subject of verse 18? The subject is not there.

What? No, it's implied, right? And do not get drunk with wine. Who's he talking to?

You. So the subject, just like we understand in English, the subject is an implied you.

And you don't get drunk with wine. Okay, but in Greek, we can understand it.

In English, we don't understand it. Though here's a great idea. Someone should translate the

Bible in Perry County vernacular, because if you did that, you would know the difference between you and y 'all, right?

You is what? Usually singular, right? Braden, you go start the car, all right?

Y 'all is plural. Y 'all need to clean up your room. Okay, if you don't take this as irreverent, but if Paul was writing in the

Perry County vernacular, he would just say something like this. Y 'all don't get drunk with wine.

Why would he say y 'all? Because the idea here is plural. Please don't miss this.

It is a command, but it is a plural command. Yes, yes, yes. Individual Christians are to be filled in the spirit, but the command is corporate.

It's plural. It's for the local church. In fact, look at verse 19. That's what rolls right into it.

Addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the

Lord with your heart. Oh, by the way, can I show you something? I'm too excited to keep it to myself, but a few weeks, we'll get to verse 19.

Okay, in verse 19, it says your, look at verse 19 at the end, making melody to the

Lord with your heart. Your there is plural. Okay, y 'all's heart.

Heart is what? Plural or singular? It's singular. There's not an S on it. You would expect it to say your hearts.

In other words, make melody to the Lord with your hearts, meaning each individual should make melody to the

Lord with their individual hearts. It doesn't say that. It says your plural heart singular.

What's he saying? Friends, he's saying the local church has a heartbeat, right? The local church has a united heart.

And so back to verse 18, it's not just individually that we're supposed to be filled with the spirit, but together in one heart, we're to be a church that is filled with the spirit of God.

The local church friends is not a joyless place. And I've seen something happen over the last couple of months here.

I've seen something happen. And it's actually very beautiful. You guys talk a lot to each other, right?

Standing around, I'm looking, I'm watching you. No, see before church, we can't get church started on time because you're just talking.

And then after church, try to get out of here and you're just still talking. Why is that?

It's because the spirit is working in this place. We're not a joyless place.

We're to be a family. We're not the frozen chosen. Local church together seeks to be filled in the

Holy Spirit. And we desire to be a spirit filled church. Christ is

King. We are a spirit filled church. We seek to have together our minds and wills and desires under the complete control of God.

This is what it means to be a Bible loving Baptist church. Baptist churches get knocked on by other churches that say, well, you guys don't care anything about the

Holy Spirit. Baloney. Yes, we do. We love the spirit of God. We want more of the

Holy Spirit. We want to live more and more. We want every rebel aspect of our life.

Every thought that is going out of control. Every rebel lust that's remaining in our heart.

We want all of it to be submitted to the Holy Spirit. And we need the spirit to make us more and more and more like Christ.

We love the Holy Spirit at this place. We need him. We need him.

We just don't think that the Holy Spirit results in foolishness. We believe it results in a life that is under control.

We find our satisfaction here in what the spirit of God is doing.

Having united us to Christ. Having united us to one another. Sanctifying us.

We don't need to find our satisfaction in music style or programs or from the text, we could say drunkenness.

We don't need those things. Why? Because we have the Holy Spirit. So now the question comes, how do we obey this command?

If this is what it means, if it's a controlled condition, a continual command and a corporate communion, how do we submit our lives to Ephesians 5 .18?

How do we do what this says? Let me just give you a few notes. One obvious answer is this.

If you are violating Ephesians 4 .30, then you can't be obeying

Ephesians 5 .18. What does Ephesians 4 .30 say? Turn there in your Bibles just a few verses up.

Ephesians 4 .30, Paul says, do not grieve the

Holy Spirit. Okay, if your life is grieving the

Holy Spirit, if your life is grievous to the

Holy Spirit, then you are not being filled in the

Holy Spirit. It's so tangible application. I'll put it down on the bottom shelf. Hear me, if your life, if there is sin in your life, it will keep you from being filled in the

Spirit. You can't on one hand grieve the Holy Spirit and on the other hand be filled in the

Holy Spirit. So first application is this. You want to obey Ephesians 5 .18?

Yes, if you're a Christian. So first you have to put to death, you must seek to put to death the things that are earthly within you.

Is something else today seeking to control your life? Is it the cell phone? Is it something that seems like not that big a deal, the cell phone or television or the internet or social media?

Whatever it is, you must kill it by the Spirit of God. You must take it to the

Lord. You ought to take it to trusted brothers and sisters in the Lord who love you and they want, hey, help me with this, help me, keep me accountable to this.

Humble yourselves before God. Furthermore, if it's blatant sin, you're looking at pornography, if you're putting substances in your body that you shouldn't be, if you've got a filthy mouth, whatever it is that you may be doing, that's grieving the

Holy Spirit, friend, you must repent. Why would you hold on to something that is grieving

God? Well, hear me, I know because I'm a sinner too and I need forgiveness and I need sanctification.

So I know already that you're tempted to believe you'll be made fun of. You're tempted to believe that others will not understand.

You're tempted to believe that others will ridicule you. You're tempted to believe that you'll be left out.

If you, in fact, let that thing go, whatever it is that's coming to your mind right now, if you let that thing go, if you kill it, if you run from it, you're tempted to believe that you'll miss out on something good.

How can I let this go? I can't let it go. If I let it go, I might lose this friend. If I let it go,

I'll lose this experience. If I let it go, I might lose my livelihood. It might cost me my job. I can't let this go.

I'm going to miss out on something good. But you must reject all of that. You must see that God is calling you today to be filled in the

Holy Spirit and that if you're grieving the Holy Spirit, you're disobeying him and God is not calling you to miss out on anything good.

He's calling you to find full goodness and rest and satisfaction in him.

So repent, let go of that thing that you're holding on to, that's grieving the

Holy Spirit. Repent and by grace, adjust your life.

Secondly, I'll mention this, cultivate the means of grace. We're talking about right now, how does one be filled with the

Holy Spirit? So it's passive, like I can't fill myself with it, but with him, I should say, but I can do things in my life that put myself in his way.

Does that make sense? So that's what I mean here by cultivating the means of grace. Prioritize the worship of God with God's people.

You're here today, so praise God, right? Prioritize opportunities to study the

Bible with other believers. Prioritize listening to the preaching of the word in church.

Prioritize the Lord's Supper. We're doing something new here. We're gonna take the Lord's Supper once a month and eight times a year, four times a year will be on Sunday morning, like we've already done.

Eight times a year, it's gonna be on Sunday night. Prioritize those nights to be here, to partake of the

Lord's Supper. Why? Not because the Lord's Supper is magic, but the Holy Spirit uses the

Lord's Supper to strengthen our faith in Christ and our unity with one another.

Prioritize prayer meetings. Prioritize private prayer and Bible reading and family worship.

Prioritize evangelism. Remember this command. Paul says, be filled with the spirit.

You cannot fill yourself understood. It's the Holy Spirit who must fill you. However, we see the avenues that the

Holy Spirit works through. The local church and Bible reading and prayer. And so we ought to prioritize these things in our lives in such a way as to expect the spirit of God to work through these things.

So, so mortify sin, participate in the means of grace, as it were, these things that I've mentioned.

What I'm saying is you can't just walk around and blame God for not living your life more under the control of the

Holy Spirit if you're not seeking to cultivate the means that He set before us to be filled in Him.

Boy, I just wish that the Holy Spirit had more control in my life, says the man as he leaves and never comes to church and never reads his

Bible and never prays and doesn't care about evangelism. Oh yeah, man, I really want to be more of a Christian, but if God wanted me to be more serious,

I guess He would do something to me. No, friend, that's on you.

And so here's the question today. I can't answer this for you.

Am I living a life in obedience to Ephesians 5, 18?

And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, that is recklessness, but be filled with the

Spirit. Brother, sister, man, sir, ma 'am, young boy, young girl, am

I living a life that is filled in the

Spirit? Is my life, am I not just going around telling people I'm a Christian, I'm a

Christian? No, no, is my life under the control of the Spirit of God, under the submission to His Word?

You understand that, and I'm gonna make this clearer the next time I preach on this, it'll be in a couple of weeks, but you understand that you don't separate the

Holy Spirit from the Bible, not because the Bible is the Holy Spirit. The Bible is not the Holy Spirit. The Bible is the

Spirit's book, though. The Bible is the words of the Holy Spirit. I just wish

I knew what the Holy Spirit thought about this, the book. So is my life not just out there telling people

I'm a Christian, but am I under the control of God? Are you converted?

That might be the place to start. Do you love Christ? Examine yourself today and consider this, and if you're not a

Christian, what do you do? You repent. You repent.

Friend, that word means that you need to come to the end of yourself, and you need to turn away from your sin, and you need to turn away from yourself, you need to turn away from the nonsense that's out there today, like love yourself first, and then you can love everybody else.

No, no, you turn away from all those things, and you turn your eyes and your heart and your mind to Christ.

There's life in Him. If you repent and believe the gospel.

Maybe you're a true believer today, and you answered, you know what, Quattro, you say, am

I living a life filled in the Spirit? And honestly, I'm not where I want to be.

What do I do? Here's what you do. Today, right now, not tomorrow, not later, not in another season of your life.

Today, under the sound of the preaching of the Word of God, you seek by the Spirit to put to death whatever it is in you distracting you from this command.

Whatever it is, I don't care. If it's distracting you from this command, it is sin, and it must be put to death.

Do it. Don't wait. Don't stand before God one day and say,

He never told me how it is that I could be filled in the

Spirit. No, you must kill your sin by grace, by the

Spirit. Let it go. And may we be a local church known in this community for being filled in the

Spirit. Father, we thank You for Your Word.

We thank You for this time that we've had together today. Father, help us to be a church filled in the

Spirit. I pray today for unbelievers. Lord, some who may have been here several times, they come in, they come out, they hear, they go out, they eat, they go throughout their week.

Nothing's changed. I pray today You would awaken them by Your Spirit and they'd repent and believe the gospel.

I pray for Christians in this room that You would help us all. There's not a Christian in this room that doesn't, myself included, that doesn't need to be exhorted and encouraged with Ephesians 5 .18.

We need this more. I need my life more and more and more every day under the control of the

Holy Spirit. And I pray that the saints in this room will confess the same thing and that we'll desire it and we'll seek it and we'll seek to be a church known by the

Spirit's work. Father, would You exalt Your Son today?

And may we respond by trusting what Christ has done and then seeking to obey what

He has called us to obey. We pray it all in Jesus' name. Amen. Would you stand as we say?