How To Share The Gospel With A Homosexual
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In this episode of Didaché, Justin Peters delves into the topic of sharing the gospel with homosexual individuals. The discussion focuses on approaching this subject with compassion, respect, and understanding while firmly standing by biblical truths. Listeners are provided practical advice and thoughtful strategies for initiating conversations about faith and sexuality. Peters emphasizes the importance of love and empathy in all interactions, aiming to bridge gaps and foster meaningful dialogue.
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- Okay, so here's my testimony As King David said in Psalms 51 5 behold
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- I was brought forth in iniquity and in sin my mother conceived me Committing every sin
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- Imaginable. I was a homosexual for most of my life. I was violent angry
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- Self -indulged and in latter years a drunk physically alive yet spiritually dead
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- Welcome to the program ladies and gentlemen, my name is Justin Peters I hope that this finds you and your family doing well today when
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- I thank you so much for joining me that was a lady named Frankie Frankie is a friend of Kathy in mine and Kathy has known
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- Frankie for much much longer than I have. I've known Frankie for the last eight or nine years or so something like about nine years,
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- I guess and Frankie was indeed saved out of homosexuality and I'm gonna play the full video of her testimony at the end here of this video because it is a it's a very powerful testimony and I believe it will encourage you greatly and Hopefully you can if you have friends or family members that you know are
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- Homosexuals you can share this with them and I hope it will be an encouragement to that person.
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- But Regardless of what you've been saved out of it's this is a very encouraging testimony
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- I think it will bless you. So I want you to see that so Anyway, this is June.
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- Of course. This is pride month and it's everywhere. We look we can't get around it, right? Everywhere you turn around you say pride this pride that and all that kind of stuff
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- Thankfully, it seems like companies aren't quite as gung -ho about it as they were in years past.
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- I hope that's the case anyway But I thought it would be a good opportunity to Share with you how to share the gospel with a homosexual.
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- I'm asked that pretty frequently What's the best way to share the gospel with a homosexual and my answer is quite simply this
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- You share the gospel with a homosexual the same way you share the gospel with anyone else
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- There should be no difference in how you share the gospel with a homosexual and how you share the gospel with anyone and I've shared the gospel with a number of homosexuals
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- Especially as much as I travel in and out of airports and going all around the United States and around the world
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- I have opportunities to talk to homosexuals, you know fairly frequently and and let's be honest
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- Most of the time you can tell right when you're talking to a homosexual Maybe not all the time
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- But most of the time you can tell and so if I have an opportunity to share the gospel with a homosexual then
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- I'm sure the gospel the same way with them that I do everyone else and I simply bring to bear upon their conscience the law of God and the typically the way
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- I'll do it is I'll strike up a conversation with the person and I'll say
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- You know one of these days we're all going to die right and of course everybody has to acknowledge that yes and I'll say when that time comes for you, do you know where you'll go and You get varying answers on that.
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- Most people will say well, I hope I go to heaven and I'll say well, can
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- I share with you what the Bible has to say about that and you'd be surprised More often than not people are actually quite open to it
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- It's not common that I get someone to just shut me down immediately it does happen occasionally but most of the time no most of the time people will actually listen and I'll ask them in kind of a
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- Ray Comfort style Do you consider yourself to be a good person because most people think they are good and that based upon their goodness?
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- they'll go to heaven and The person will say well, yes, almost everyone will say yes,
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- I'm a good person and I'll say well We like to think of ourselves as good because what we like to do is we like to compare ourselves to other people
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- But God does not evaluate our goodness by comparing us to other people.
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- He evaluates our goodness by comparing us to himself only God is truly good and he has a standard of goodness and that is the
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- Ten Commandments and I'll say one of the commandments is thou shalt not lie. Have you ever told a lie?
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- Well, of course Everybody has told lies every I've yet to have someone say no,
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- I've never told a lie. Everybody Knows that in the midst of that so I'll say okay, so you're a liar.
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- You only have to tell one lie to be a liar Okay Another one of the commandments is thou shalt not steal.
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- Have you ever taken something that does not belong to you and Most people the great majority of people will admit to taking something at some point in their lives
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- That does not belong to them and I'll say in that case. You're a thief Another one of the commandments thou shalt not take the name of the
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- Lord thy God in vain have you ever used God's name in an irreverent way and Almost everybody will admit to that and I'll tell them that's the sin of blasphemy and then
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- I'll say Another one of the commandments is thou shalt not commit adultery Have you ever committed adultery now get varying answers on that some a lot of people will say no, especially if they're
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- Younger people who are not married, you know, they'll say no and I say well
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- Jesus raised the bar on adultery because Jesus said if you look at a woman with lust you've committed adultery already in your heart
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- Have you ever looked at another person with lust and if I know I'm talking to a homosexual say like a homosexual man
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- I don't ask him. Have you ever looked at a woman with lust? He's a homosexual, but anyway,
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- I just kind of leave that out of it. I say have you ever looked in another person? with lust in fact regardless of who
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- I'm talking to straight or gay or whatever if you ever looked at another person with lust and Everybody will have to admit.
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- Yes. I've looked at other people with lust, you know say that's adultery and so By your own admission.
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- You are a liar a thief a blasphemer and an adulterer at heart at least
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- So we have all broken God's laws and I'll tell them we've broken
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- God's laws thousands of times We have sinned against God in word Indeed and in thought even in our thought life
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- And then I'll say just like when we break laws on earth There's a penalty to be paid how much more so when we break the laws of God But because we have sinned against God who's eternal the punishment of that sin is also
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- Eternal and if we die in our sin We will very rightly and very justly go to a very real place that the
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- Bible calls hell Where the worm will not die the fire will not be quenched
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- There will be wailing weeping gnashing of teeth in the full Undiluted fury of God's wrath that burns against sin will be poured out for all of eternity and that horror that torture that it will never end and I'll say that's what our sins have deserved.
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- That's what our sins deserve That's what our sins have earned us the wages of sin is death and some people say well
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- And I've heard this a lot. Well, well God's a good God, you know, and I've yeah I've done some
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- I've done some bad things, but God's a good God and he'll understand, you know My good deeds kind of outweigh my bad deeds
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- I don't you know, I've done some bad things, but I'm still a good person and I'll say well No, you're not a good person because only one is good.
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- That's God and I'll say Let me use what you just said in a in a courtroom analogy here on earth and I'll say let's suppose
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- I were to go into a convenience store and Robbed the convenience store at gunpoint and shoot the clerk and kill him and the security cameras were rolling
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- They they caught me and the footage was there, but I fled the scene but eventually the law catches me and I'm arrested and I have my day in court and they play the tape and Everybody sees it and I'm convicted of murder and the judge says
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- Justin you've been found guilty of murder. I'm about to pass sentence on you
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- Do you have anything to say for yourself before I do? What if I were to say this? Well judge,
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- I think you're a good judge and Because you're good. You should understand that.
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- I've only killed one person on one day I've lived thousands of other days in my life, but I've owned and I've never killed anybody on any of those other days
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- I've just killed one person on one day So I think my good deeds outweigh my bad deeds and I think because you're a good judge you should let me go
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- What if the judge said? Oh, well Justin, um, that's interesting. I never really thought about it that way.
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- Yep I am a good judge and You're right. You've only killed one person on one day of your life.
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- You lived all these other days never killed anybody So yeah, I think I'll let you go your good deeds outweigh your bad deeds.
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- So you're free to go. We'll see you later Have a nice day, and I'll walk out the door and then I asked the person would that be a good judge?
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- And everybody says no No, and that's right That would be a terrible judge right because a good judge must punish
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- Crime God is the ultimate good judge and he must punish Sin if he did not punish sin
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- Then he would not be good And so when a lot of people say that they're counting on God being good and therefore he'll let them off the hook
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- Even though they've done a few things wrong That doesn't work in a courtroom here and it's certainly not going to work with God It is actually the goodness of God that will seal the sinner's fate
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- And I'll tell that person That's the bad news That's what your sins have earned you and no amount of good works can overcome the debt
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- That your sins have incurred against God are your works The Bible says
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- I'll tell them this the Bible says our works are as filthy rags and it's in Isaiah 64 Works are as filthy rags before God That's the bad news
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- But then I give them the good news And I say but the good news of the gospel is this is that God has made a way for you to escape his own wrath
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- God sent his son Jesus Christ to this earth in Jesus was
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- God in human flesh He was one person with two distinct natures
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- Truly God truly man and as the God -man Jesus lived a perfect life to the perfect Satisfaction of God and then
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- Jesus willingly laid down his life on the cross. His life was not taken He gave it and on the cross this perfect person
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- Offered his perfect life as a perfect sacrifice To perfectly satisfy the perfect wrath of God Died on the cross three days later was bodily raised from the dead proving himself to be who he said he was
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- God in human flesh and the only way to be saved to have the wrath of God removed is to repent of sin turn from sin and Place your trust in what
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- Christ accomplished on the cross There is no other way to be saved But if you will do that if you'll turn from sin and place your trust in Christ He will save you you will pass from death to life
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- God will give you a new heart with new desires and new affections and then one of these days when death does come
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- Jesus Christ himself will be our reward for all of eternity in heaven
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- That's the good news of the gospel So I share the gospel with a homosexual in exactly the same way that I share the gospel with anyone else
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- And if God saves that person guess what goes away the homosexuality goes away
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- Now the only time I will drill down on Homosexuality is if the homosexual that I'm talking to Professes to be a
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- Christian and a homosexual at the same time That's when
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- I drill down on homosexuality and that's when I'll help that person understand that that's not possible.
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- You can't be a Homosexual Christian. There's no such thing as a gay Christian for one thing dear friends if you're a
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- Christian Your identity is not in sin. Your identity is in Christ It is as nonsensical to say
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- I'm a gay Christian as it is to say I'm a bank robbing Christian or I'm a you know, a child molesting
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- Christian. We don't do that with any other sin so it's nonsensical if you're in Christ your identity is in him not in your sin and Then I will bring to bear what the
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- Bible has to say about homosexuality And so if you would like some of these notes take notes here
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- Leviticus 1822 and you shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female.
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- It is an abomination Leviticus 2013 if there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman
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- Both of them have committed an abomination. They shall surely be put to death their blood guiltiness is upon them
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- Now we no longer live in the Old Testament days. We are no longer under the
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- Old Covenant. We're not under a an Old Covenant theocracy, so the Penalty of death doesn't know does not apply any longer
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- But you see the gravity of this sin. It was a very serious sin
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- Punishable by death in Old Testament Israel, but we can also go to the
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- New Testament Paul's letter to Timothy 1st Timothy chapter 1 8 through 10 But we know that the law is good if one uses it lawfully
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- Knowing this that law is not made for a righteous person But for those who are lawless and rebellious for the ungodly and sinners for the unholy and godless for those who kill their fathers or mothers for murderers for sexually immoral persons for Homosexuals for kidnappers for liars for perjurers and whatever else is contrary to sound teaching
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- Homosexuality is condemned in the New Testament Romans chapter 1 verses 25 through 27
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- For they exchanged the truth of God for a lie and worshiped and served the creature rather than the
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- Creator Who was blessed forever? Amen for this reason God gave them over to dishonorable passions for their females exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural and in the same way also the males
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- Abandoned the natural function of the female and burned in their desire toward one another males with males
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- Committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error
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- In difference there is no amount of hermeneutical gymnastics you can Do and no amount of hermeneutical hoops that you can jump through to get around the plain meaning of that text
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- Homosexuality is absolutely Condemned in the New Testament. I would also refer you to 1st
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- Corinthians chapter 6 verses 9 through 11 Paul writes or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God?
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- Do not be deceived Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor effeminate nor homosexuals
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- Nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor revilers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God Make no mistake about it dear friends.
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- If your life is marked by one or more of these sins Do not be deceived
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- You will not inherit the kingdom of God Homosexuality absolutely will
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- Send you to hell. It is not the only sin that will send you to hell
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- But it absolutely will send you to hell and if you die in that state in a state of unrepentance
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- Where your life is marked by one or more of these sins Then do not be deceived.
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- You will not inherit the kingdom of God you cannot be a homosexual and Expect to enter into the kingdom of God.
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- It's not going to happen. Do not be deceived now look at what
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- Paul says in verse 11 and Such were some of you
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- But you were washed you were sanctified you were justified in the name of the
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- Lord Jesus Christ and in the spirit of our God Paul is saying you were these things, but you're not anymore
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- You were a reviler, but you're not anymore. You were a drunkard, but you're not anymore.
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- You were a homosexual But you are not anymore You were washed you were sanctified you were justified in the name of the
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- Lord Jesus Christ and in the spirit of our God You see dear ones
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- God expends no more anthropomorphic effort if you will saving a homosexual
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- Than he does saving a liar or saving a drunkard or saving any one of us
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- God saves the homosexual the same way that he saves everyone else and I don't care what sin you have committed.
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- I Don't care if you are a homosexual if you will repent of sin and place your trust in Christ You can move from 1st
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- Corinthians chapter 6 verse 9 to 1st Corinthians chapter 6 verse 11 and you can join the ranks of the such were some of you
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- But you're not anymore if you will repent of sins and trust Christ The Bible promises that the old things will pass away
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- Behold all things will be made new God will give you a new heart with new affections new desires
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- You will begin to love what God loves and hate what God hates You'll have a desire for the truth.
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- You'll have a desire to grow in the grace and knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ You will have a love for the brethren.
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- You will have a love for your fellow brothers and sisters in Christ You'll have a love for the church.
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- You'll have a love for his word and These are all fruits in keeping with repentance
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- When God grants repentance, it is always followed always followed by real tangible fruit.
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- And so That's how you share the gospel with a homosexual same way you do with anyone else the only time you need to drill down on homosexuality is if the person claims to be a
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- Christian and is also a Homosexual that's when you drill down on it
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- That's when you show them texts like Romans chapter 1 and 1st Corinthians chapter 6, but tell that person
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- Hey You're a homosexual You will not inherit the kingdom of God as you are right now
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- But if you will repent of that sin and trust Christ You can join the ranks of the such were some of you
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- Praise be his name and dear ones. That is exactly what God did for Frankie Frankie before her conversion was in 1st
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- Corinthians 6 verse 9 But God saved her and she moved from verse 9
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- To verse 11 and she joined the ranks of the such were some of you
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- So I want you to watch her testimony. Now. This was recorded in 2017 if memory serves correctly and Kathy and I were there at the service
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- I am the one recording this on my iPhone and back then it was a I don't know much earlier iPhone than what we have now and But anyway, you'll be able to see and hear clearly what she is saying
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- I really think this will bless you and encourage you and Frankie remains a good friend of ours and she's
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- Continues to grow like a weed. She loves the Lord and she's soaking up truth like a sponge and Anyway, it's it's been a joy to see what the
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- Lord has done in her life so Here's Frankie As King David said in Psalms 51 5 behold
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- I was brought forth in iniquity and in sin my mother conceived me Committing every sin
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- Imaginable. I was a homosexual for most of my life. I was violent angry
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- Self -indulged and in latter years a drunk physically alive yet spiritually dead a certain event in in November of 2016 had me face had me feeling angry unforgiving and I Isolated myself for several days and nights remembering the street evangelist
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- Ray comfort from two Bible believing women Tried to disciple me in 2008.
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- I Looked him up on YouTube and watched several of his videos. I had heard the gospel in the past but never grasped it
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- Ray's bold approach in telling people that they will go to hell for breaking God's law But that Christ died on the cross and on the third day rose again to pay the penalty for guilty sinners
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- And if they repent and put their trust and faith in him that they would be saved. I finally understood
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- That I had sinned against the Holy God that my sin Was an offense to him just as in John 9 where Christ gave sight physically to the blind man
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- He gave me sight spiritually and guided me to the knowledge of truth as it says in Romans 10 17
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- So faith comes by hearing and hearing by the Word of Christ My prayers went from asking
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- God to forgive and save me to asking him to help me forgive the person who offended me
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- His days weeks and months have gone by I find myself continuing in repentance and Forgiving easier and praying more for the lost and at times sharing the gospel passing out traps the evidence
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- That God who is rich mercy Called me up my name
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- By his grace Will not allow anyone to snatch me out of his hand
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- He says in John 10 27 through 28 My sheep hear my voice and I know them and they follow me and I give eternal life to them and they will never perish
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- And no one will snatch them out of my hand Just as he called
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- Lazarus In John 11 for physical death to physical life, he's called me from spiritual death to spiritual life
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- God gets the glory for his saving grace. I Understand and I know that salvation is a work of Jesus Christ, and I thank
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- God for saving me I want to show my love and obedience and following Christ by being baptized and commit my life
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- To be a servant of God obey his commands and holy reverence to the Lord Well Frankie and I've already heard it but it's your testimony that Jesus Christ is
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- Lord of all Yeah Is it your testimony that he is your Lord and personal Savior? And it is your desire and commitment today before these many witnesses to follow him faithfully the rest of the days of your life
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- Yeah, but based on your testimony before these many witnesses I'm going to baptize you my sister in the name of the
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- Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit Like this Amen and amen
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- Thank you very much for watching dear ones until our next time together May the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ the love of God and the fellowship of his