REDEEMING THE TIME (Ephesians 5:15-17)
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SUNDAY GATHERING 2/11/24
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Week 50 of our series, In Christ (a study through Ephesians)
Preaching: Nathan Hargrave
Text: Eph 5:15-17
Order of service
Welcome
Prayer for local church
Grace covenant
Call to worship
Psalms 119:1-8
LEADER
Blessed are those whose way is blameless,
PEOPLE
who walk in the law of the LORD!
LEADER
Blessed are those who keep his testimonies,
PEOPLE
who seek him with their whole heart,
LEADER
who also do no wrong,
PEOPLE
but walk in his ways!
LEADER
You have commanded your precepts
PEOPLE
to be kept diligently.
LEADER
Oh that my ways may be steadfast
PEOPLE
in keeping your statutes!
LEADER
Then I shall not be put to shame,
PEOPLE
having my eyes fixed on all your commandments.
LEADER
I will praise you with an upright heart,
PEOPLE
when I learn your righteous rules.
LEADER
I will keep your statutes;
PEOPLE
do not utterly forsake me!
Prayer of adoration
Song #1 All My Ways Are Known to You
Song #2 He is our God
Prayer of Confession & assurance
Song #3 How Great Is Our God
Song #4 How great thou art
Offering
Sermon
Ephesians 5:15-17
The lords supper
Koinania feast
Sermon discussion
Benediction
Ephesians 5:15-18
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- Can y 'all hear me? Good morning, good morning. All right, we're gonna start our service. We just wanna welcome you to 12 .5
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- and for the members at 12 .5, I just wanna say that you are loved. Thank you so much for being faithful to gathering together with the saints.
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- We're just simply being obedient to what the writer of Hebrews calls us to do, not to neglect the gathering together of the saints, but we do so to encourage one another as we see the day drawing near.
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- So we just wanna thank you for your service, bringing your gifts to the table as a covenant member to 12 .5
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- Church. If you are a guest or a regular attender, you are also loved and we thank you so much for being here.
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- We'd love for you to fill out one of our Connect cards just so we can pray for you. We'd love to get to know you more and more.
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- So if you would, find one of our Connect cards so we can reach out to you. And so my prayer this morning is that we would unify in spirit and in truth.
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- And so we're going to do this as we revere our holy triune God. And before we kick off our service, the first thing that we do is we wanna pray for a local church.
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- This is a way for us to unify with other evangelical churches proclaiming the right gospel of grace.
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- So this morning, I would like for us to pray for Grace Covenant. Let's pray. Heavenly Father, we just wanna thank you so much for allowing us to gather this morning.
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- God, to lift your name on high. You are the creator of the universe and oftentimes we just get to soak in your creation that testifies to your sovereignty and your holiness and your might.
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- God, I just wanna lift up another sister church, Grace Covenant. Lord, I just pray for the leadership over there that you would bless them.
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- That this morning, the truths of the gospel would be proclaimed. And God, I just pray that by your
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- Holy Spirit that you would bring great unity, that there would be much love in the midst of that body of believers.
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- Lord, we love you. Pray those same things for us this morning as well. Pray this in your name, Jesus. Amen. All right, if you would please stand for our call to worship this morning that comes from Psalm 119 with the opening eight verses.
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- And so this is a time for us to engage back and forth. We don't want this to be dead. We want this to be a time where we all get to engage and proclaim the word of God together.
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- So Psalm 119, we begin by reading, blessed are those whose ways is blameless.
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- Blessed are those who keep his testimonies. Seek him with their whole heart.
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- Who also do no wrong. You have commanded your precepts.
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- Diligently. Oh, that my ways may be steadfast. Keeping your statutes.
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- Then I shall not be put to shame. Eyes fixed on all your commandments.
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- I will praise you with an upright heart. When I learn from your righteous rules.
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- I will keep your statutes. Do not utterly forsake me. Amen. Let's continue with a prayer of adoration.
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- This is a time where I want us to try to remove all distractions, not so we look better towards one another, but that we can keep our gaze fixed on King Jesus.
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- Amen. Let's pray. Holy Father, we do pray for this time to look to you that distractions would flow away from our mind,
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- God, that we would be fixed on the gospel truth, that we are declared right in you, Jesus.
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- You are the one that forgives our sin. God, your work is perfect. Jesus, you paid all of, you accomplished all that is necessary for redemption.
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- And so God, I pray that that would incite worship in our hearts this morning, that we would sing praise and we wouldn't matter what we look like doing it.
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- God, some of us make a joyful noise and it may be a little bit on the quieter side, but God, it's about singing praise directly to you.
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- And so God, I just pray that we would just exuberate high praise with all that we have. We love you,
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- Jesus. Pray this in your name. Amen. ♪ And in days of red, sure for your word is true ♪ ♪
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- That all life is dark outside my view ♪ ♪
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- Still all I'll wait, I know it's true ♪ Sing, oh, in peace.
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- ♪ To you,
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- I lay my truth,
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- I pretend it will be ♪
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- Sing. ♪ My hands and feet, sing, oh, in peace ♪ ♪
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- And all to you,
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- I lay my truth, I pretend it will be ♪ ♪ So I may see that you have made these ways for me ♪ ♪
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- Open up my eyes so I may see that you, my
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- God, will walk with me ♪ One more time. ♪ Open up my eyes so I may see that you have made these ways for me ♪ ♪
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- Open up my eyes so I may see that you, my
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- God, will walk with me ♪
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- Sing. ♪ Alleluia, then I know to you, sing, alleluia, then
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- I'll sing to you ♪ ♪ The silence, the blazing in the heavens, there is only one who hears us ♪ ♪
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- Up and tearing down, the silencing, his riots ♪ ♪
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- There is only one who hears us ♪ ♪ You alone are whole, matchless in Your glory, holy in Your glory ♪
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- Come to save us, come to save us
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- When we turned away His love He conquered us with kindness
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- There was only one, He is our God Is that this one,
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- He is our God? Oh, He is our God There's no hopeless in Your glory
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- No one is like You To the
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- King on the throne Who was and is to come And to the
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- Lamb who was slain Be glory Now to the
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- King on the throne Who was and is to come And to the
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- Lamb who was slain Be glory Now to the
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- King on the throne Who was and is to come And to the
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- Lamb who was slain Be glory Is it holy?
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- You alone are whole There's no hopeless in Your glory
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- No one is like You God, oftentimes we are broken people
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- We go through hurts and pains God, we sin, we sin daily God, we are broken people
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- Living in a broken and fallen world And yet there is hope Jesus, we look to You in Your finished work
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- God, we can face tomorrow Your mercies are new every day And we find forgiveness in You, Jesus We find forgiveness in the midst of the saints
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- So many times we lack discernment We get ourselves into trouble
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- And we need that loving rebuke From fellow brothers and sisters in Christ And that is a way that You bring unity
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- That You restore And God, we thank You We love
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- You And I just pray this morning That we would give it all to You And when we recognize that we are sinners
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- God, this is corporately None of us are better than one another Our only boast is in You, Christ And so Lord, I pray that You would forgive
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- That You would restore And You would allow us to just worship You In spirit and truth
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- We love You, Jesus We pray this in Your holy name Amen Sing this with me
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- The splendor of the King Holds Her majesty
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- Let all the earth rejoice All the earth rejoice
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- He wraps Himself in light
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- Time is dressed in light And trembles at His voice
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- And trembles at His voice And praise our
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- God Sing with me How great is our
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- God And all will see How great, how great is our
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- God Age to age to stay
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- Time to stay And days to come
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- And years to come And God will free them all
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- And all will see I never,
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- I never, I never, I never, I never, I never,
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- I never, I never, I never,
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- I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never,
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- I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never,
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- I never, I never,
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- I never, I never,
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- I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, I never, You're the name above all names,
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- You are worthy of all praise,
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- My heart will sing Your praise,
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- Inside now, everybody knows it's the music of my soul The music of my soul
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- My Savior God How great
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- Thou art How great
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- Thou art Inside now, everybody knows it's the music of my soul
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- My Savior God How great
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- Thou art How great
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- Thou art Then sings my soul
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- My Savior God How great
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- Thou art How great
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- Thou art Then sings my soul
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- My Savior God How great
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- Thou art How great
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- Thou art How great
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- Thou art
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- How great
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- Thou art
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- How great
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- Thou art
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- How great Thou art How great Thou art Light on the unfruitful works of darkness Do not allow them to remain ambiguous within the darkness
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- And for the purpose of that the elect That those that God has set
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- His love upon That they may, as Paul declared that early church hymn
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- Near the end of verse 16 When he said, Awake, O sleeper And arise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you
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- And now, since you've been raised from the dead Paul says in verse 15
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- Look carefully, then, how you walk Not as unwise, but as wise
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- Making the best use of the time, because the days are evil Therefore, do not be foolish
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- But understand what the will of the Lord is This is the reading of God's holy, perfect word
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- Let's stop for a moment again And let's pray that God would help us to be true to this word
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- And to understand it, and to not be just doers of it Or not just be hearers of it, but doers of that word also
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- Let's pray Dear Heavenly Father, God, I pray that You are honored in our worship today
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- God, we ask right now that you would help us We see your word, we love your word
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- We know that it's clear We know that it's true, we know that it's good And it's right, and we have such a propensity
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- Towards reading ourselves into it Or distorting it, or not understanding it the way we ought
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- Oh God, give us wisdom Help us to see the truth For those that are in this room this morning,
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- God That do not yet know you Maybe some of the children, or even somebody that has come in today
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- That does not know you at the moment I pray that your word would cut through And awaken them, that the light would be shed on them
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- That they would awake from that death And Christ would shine upon them
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- Lord, give us clarity, in Christ's name, amen Well, during the Great Depression There was an oil tycoon by the name of J.
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- Paul Getty And this man was one of the few Who was shrewd enough to come out of On the other side of this financial catastrophe
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- With even more wealth than he had when it started And you see,
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- Mr. Getty did so By conducting business through a simple formula This was his motto, essentially
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- For doing business He says, buy when everyone else is selling And hold on until everyone else is buying
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- You see, most people did not attest Or live by this conventional wisdom
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- That Mr. Getty himself did As a matter of fact, they usually did the opposite of that They were merely reactionary
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- To circumstances that were happening around them They would follow the masses
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- And they would buy when everyone else was buying And they would panic and sell When everyone else was selling
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- Unlike Mr. Getty, most people did not have A strategic game plan
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- You see, they simply lived in the moment Day after day, day by day, moment by moment
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- And responded, usually out of fear To the onslaught of those ever -changing times
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- They would respond to whatever they felt Or what seemed right in that moment
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- Something that they were able to get away with During prosperous, good times
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- Things seemed to work themselves out Yet during these tumultuous times of this
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- Great Depression This foolish approach cost them dearly And you may be wondering,
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- Pastor You just read God's Word And then you tell us a story of the Great Depression I did so for a purpose, for a reason
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- Because I share this with us Because I believe that many of us, if not all At different times and at different seasons of our lives
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- Live out the Christian life in this way We live it out more like the masses
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- And less like Mr. Getty And I believe that this is what
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- Paul is warning us against Here in this particular text today As he tells us not to walk as unwise
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- But as wise So there are five things that I want us to see in this text
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- That I want us to focus on today That I believe will help us to better understand What Paul is saying here
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- And the first one of these five is That God is calling me to be purposeful with my time
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- God is calling me to be purposeful with my time Look at verse 15 with me
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- He says, look carefully then how you walk
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- Not as unwise, but as wise You see, this phrase here, look carefully
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- Is a translation of a compound of two Greek words The first one, look, blepo in the
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- Greek It just means to see To look, to see And carefully in the
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- Greek, akrabas It means accuracy, you can hear the word We get our word accuracy from that Akrabas It just means to see, to look
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- With accuracy, with exactness With precision And with purpose
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- I remember as a young boy roaming through the woods With my papa, out at his farm
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- And feeling the exhilaration of total freedom Some of you young boys probably remember that Or men, as you remember that being a young boy
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- Total freedom, given absolutely no thought To where I'm stepping as I run and as I play
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- To then hear the voice of my papa and his wisdom Telling me to watch very carefully where I stepped in the woods
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- In my childish foolishness, I had no reference point for danger And no reference point for what could be lurking under the leaves
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- And out in the brush Not knowing that stepping in the wrong place Could result in stepping on a copperhead snake
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- But he knew And he told me to watch carefully To step exactly
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- To look where I'm going And be intentional with everything But you see
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- We are often like children Forgetting about the potential dangers Not knowing of the pitfalls
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- Of not being careful Of not being purposeful With our steps through this life
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- It is a fool who doesn't look And plan his steps with purpose And a goal And by the time you step on that copperhead
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- You're forced to react And by that time it's usually too late, isn't it?
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- It's the same way in the Christian life It is true that God directs our steps
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- But notice that man is to plan his way We are to be watchful, be careful
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- Be exact with our steps When we're not being purposeful in our walk
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- You see, we leave ourselves vulnerable, don't we? We leave ourselves susceptible to what
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- James said In James chapter 1, remember? He says, but each person is tempted
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- When he is drawn away by his own desires We're drawn away by our own desires
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- When you and I are in a neutral state Simply, let's say, watching TV Or just mindlessly scrolling through social media
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- Not being purposeful with our time Not being purposeful with our life And the moments that God is giving us
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- And then that commercial pops up out of nowhere You're drawn away by your own desires Or that thing comes across your feed
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- That you didn't expect And you're drawn away by your own desires That moment that you are lured away, drawn away
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- Because we're not being purposeful with our time We're not looking carefully
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- We're not looking exactly where we are to step You see, the unwise are left to be reactive
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- They're left to have to respond When that thing comes at them But the wise, they are proactive
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- And purposeful with their time Let me ask you this
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- If you were to take a screenshot of your average day Would it be focused on kingdom purpose?
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- Would it be intentional to guard yourself From being drawn away by your own desires and enticed?
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- Are you watching where you step? This leads us to the second thing
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- I think we see in this text And these two are correlated together Very closely together
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- And that is that God is calling me To be persistent with my time God is calling me to be persistent with my time
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- There in verse 15 again He tells us, hey look carefully See exactly, focus in And look where you're stepping
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- Look carefully then how you walk We've seen this analogy of walking a few times
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- Over the past couple of chapters through this study And we've seen this refers to Essentially to a lifestyle, doesn't it?
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- Where are you going? What direction is your life headed? Your day to day direction of travel
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- Is what Paul is getting at When he uses this word walk You see many people have purposeful plans
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- I'm sure there were many during the Great Depression That had planned on investing
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- Just like Mr. Getty had planned on investing But did not have the persistent habits
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- Necessary to weather the storm They did not have the persistence Because they were not walking
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- In that direction Many people started out the new year This year with great purpose
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- Yet lacked the persistence And now their gym membership is worthless Right?
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- Some of us may feel that a little harder than others And it's because the daily habits of our lives
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- Are not congruent with a lifestyle Of healthy living or wise investment It's not persistent
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- Proverbs 15 .21 says Folly is a joy to him who lacks sense But a man of understanding
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- Walks straight ahead We must have purpose in our walk
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- But a wise man also has the persistence in his walk He is continually walking straight ahead
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- Now praise the Lord that the walk Is not contingent on our own persistence
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- Don't hear me wrong I'm not in here telling you to pull yourself up by your bootstraps And do better so that God might love you more
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- By no means This walk is not contingent on you and I On our own persistence
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- Or even our own purposefulness For Christ is the wise man pictured in Proverbs And you are the fool, right?
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- It is Christ Because Christ has redeemed us And set us on this narrow path
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- He is working persistence in us The Holy Spirit is working that out in us
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- Prompting us to persist But you see there's a difference
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- Between that and I think what Paul is talking about here What we're talking about is this call
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- This call that Paul puts on all Christians To walk through diligence, faith, and day -to -day consistency
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- You see your salvation did not depend on you You didn't take the first step and then God took the rest
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- God took all the steps He sought you He purchased you
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- He redeemed you You were neutral in the whole of it But now there's this thing called sanctification
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- He's made you a new creation And now he's set us on a trajectory And on a life
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- And on a walk that narrow way That we are to actively participate in Because we've been given a new life
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- We've come from death to life, right? A dead person can't do anything, right? But now we're alive
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- We can And we can walk with persistence We can have purpose We can have persistence in our walk
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- Are you even walking the Christian life? That's the question I had to ask myself this week As I delve into this text
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- Are we truly committed to his word? Are you persistent in prayer?
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- Are you fellowshipping with the saints? Are you an active participant within the life of his bride, the church?
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- All of these common means of grace that God says Hey, I've already given you all the tools so that you can do this
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- You're just not using the tools Are we doing this? Because if your purposeful game, plan in life
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- If you have intention Doesn't include this persistence Within those things of that common means of grace that God has placed in our lives
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- Then your purposeful plan isn't even the walk that Paul is referring to You might not even be on the path
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- Because when he sets us on the path We do have a desire and opportunity to do those things
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- But if it is If you are being purposeful with your time
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- And persistent with your time Through those things The reading of scripture, the prayer, the gathering of the saints
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- All of those Then you are primed for the third thing that we see here And that is
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- God is calling me to be Or not to be, to purchase the time
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- God is calling me to purchase the time Look at verse 16 with me
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- It says, making the best use of the time You see, the word that Paul uses here
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- That we have translated making Is the same word that he uses over in Galatians chapter 3
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- Over in Galatians 3 .13 he says For Christ redeemed us
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- There is that word From the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us What did Christ do?
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- Christ redeemed us This word means ransom It means purchased
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- This is what Christ has done for us, right? Saint, is that what Christ has done for us?
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- Amen, that's right He has purchased us We were slaves to sin And he came and bought us by blood ransom
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- Purchasing us for the Father That's what that passage in Galatians is referring to And Paul uses this same word here in our text
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- He's telling us to, like a good merchant Like a good investor To make a purchase
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- A purchase of what? The best use of the time Purchasing The best use of the time
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- There are two words for time in the Greek And we translate them different ways One is speaking of opportunity
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- Such as in Galatians 6 Where he says So then, as we have And here's that word Opportunity is how we have it translated
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- But it's the same Greek word The other speaks of time as a moment Like we would understand the word time
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- Like back in verse 8 of chapter 5 of Ephesians Where he says For at one time you were darkness
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- In this case, here in verse 16 in our text It's the former You see,
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- Paul is speaking of purchasing opportunity He told us not to walk as unwise
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- But as wise Now be wise by looking for opportunity to purchase
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- Being active in this This is precisely how Mr. Getty thrived during the
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- Great Depression, isn't it? He had a plan He was purposeful He was persistent in his plan
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- And he looked for opportunities to purchase He was wise enough to be looking for those
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- If we are being purposeful with our time And persistent with our time It will show by the fact that we will be purchasing opportunities
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- The groundwork is laid The plan is clear And the fruit of that will show
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- In what we invest in It will show
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- In the investment of your life What opportunities are you purchasing?
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- Are they reactionary, temporal purchases? Or is this a long -term investment?
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- Or is this a selfish, fearful investment? Panicking in the moment due to circumstances in your life
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- Now, of course, I'm not talking about money here Everyone says, oh, well, the pastor's talking about money all of a sudden
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- He's wanting us to just invest all our money here and not buy things I'm not even talking about that I'm talking about what are you investing in your time, your energy, your actions
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- What are those investing in? What opportunities? Are you merely waiting for your neighbor to ask you about Jesus?
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- Are you passively just sitting there going Well, hopefully they'll see that I go to church on Sunday morning
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- And they'll ask me about it That'll give me opportunity Are you biding your time wondering if your co -worker will want to come to church with you?
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- That's easy, isn't it? Or are you actively seeking to purchase opportunities
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- To tell them of this glorious Savior that has redeemed you The one that has purchased you
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- I'm gonna get a little personal here, guys With all of you I might step on some toes But these are things that resonated with me
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- As I was thinking through this idea of purchasing time Purchasing opportunity First, I want to speak to the husbands
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- The husbands in the room Are you passively allowing your wife to take the lead in your home? I'm just too tired
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- Long day at work I really just want to watch the news
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- Or watch the game and shut down While she carries a burden she was never designed to carry
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- Are you leaving that on her shoulders? Are you leading spiritually?
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- Are you teaching your children the word? Are you bathing your wife in the word? Or are you just letting her have her own quiet time
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- And go on with your day? Or are you actively looking for opportunities to purchase?
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- Carrying that spiritual and physical burden of God -given leadership in your home
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- Are you being active? Are you being intentional and purposeful With persistence
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- To purchase that opportunity? Mothers?
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- You're not getting off the hook, right? Mothers, are you passively going through the motions?
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- Are you derogating your duty of raising up your children In the fear and knowledge of the Lord And caring for your home?
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- Are you seeking opportunities to work outside of the home So others can raise your children While your home is in total disorder?
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- Or are you actively seeking to purchase opportunities
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- To bless your children through self -sacrifice? To bless your husband by turning his house
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- Into a haven of order and cleanliness? To bless your neighbors and your friends
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- With investing into a home of hospitality So that they can see the beauty of the gospel
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- Through your day -to -day actions Of being intentional And seeking to purchase every opportunity
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- That comes along to grab hold of and by Young men, are you passively doing as little as possible?
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- Not pursuing education or opportunity to their fullest? And they say, well
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- I take a class here and there Or I've got my job here and it's not really going anywhere
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- Are your evenings consumed with video games and pornography? The statistics are staggering guys
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- Wasting every single moment that you could be purchasing
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- And investing in for that future kingdom purpose Or are you actively purchasing that opportunity
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- To better serve King Jesus? Are you looking for great opportunity to do so? Are you seeking out after other godly older men to disciple you?
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- Are you desiring to be a man that can provide for a woman And her children without having to pick up the slack?
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- It's so easy for you young men today To where you just simply go about going
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- Well, we can live on a two -income household She shouldn't have to Your responsibility
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- Figure out how to make it happen Purchase the opportunity
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- Because that's what's gone on You may say, well you're just adding legalism here pastor No, I'm just looking at principles from God himself, right?
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- And saying, this is kingdom purpose This is what God has called us to do and to be
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- Young women Are you passively spending your days in futility?
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- Knowing that someone else will pick up the mess in the house Someone else will cook the meals
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- Someone else will do the dishes Remaining a child
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- Or are you seeking to take the place of a man? I gotta focus on my career, pastor
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- I have to be a professional I mean, after all, the reality is that all those other men out there
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- They're not capable of providing for me They're lazy They're too busy playing video games and barely scraping by I must be a breadwinner
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- Or are you trusting God? Actively seeking to purchase the opportunities for that Titus 2 relationship
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- An older woman pouring into your life Hopefully your mother, right? Teaching you to honor your husband and to care for your home
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- Are you growing in a love for homemaking and motherhood? As God has designed you
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- Are you spending time in the word so that you may teach it to your children? I can't tell you how important it is going to be
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- For you to be able to teach your children the word If you can teach your children how to cook And how to clean the house
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- And how to do math And how to read And how to everything else But you don't teach them diligently the word of God You are derogating your duty
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- You must be able to raise them up in the word Are you preparing for that?
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- And you must be purchasing the opportunities to prepare yourself for that now Or are you just wasting investment time?
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- Or kingdom purpose? All of these things are vital for us to be actively pursuing
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- Making the best use of the time that we have And why is that? Why must we be so diligent in pursuing, purchasing opportunities?
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- Well look at the fourth point that we have here That I think we see in the text Is because God is calling me to perceive the times
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- Look at verse 16 again Making the best use of the time
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- Because Why is it so easy to default to passivity?
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- Because the days are evil Because the days are evil
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- Turn with me just the next chapter over in Ephesians chapter 6 I want us to look at verses 12 through 14 real quick In Ephesians chapter 6
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- In verse 12 Paul says For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood
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- But against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers Of this present darkness
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- Okay? This is a spiritual battle, right? That's what Paul's saying We're not battling each other
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- We're not battling the liberals We're not battling the other nations We're battling spiritual battles
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- That's what the church is for, right? And because it's cosmic powers
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- That are over, that are reigning over this present age That we are currently in He goes on, he says
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- Against the spiritual forces of evil In the heavenly places Verse 13 Therefore, take up the whole armor of God That you may be able to withstand
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- In the evil day This evil day The days are evil, right?
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- And having done all to stand firm Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth
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- This gives us a picture of what we're dealing with here That we must be purposeful
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- We must be persistent We must purchase the time Because we must perceive the times that we are in We must know, we must be aware
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- Of the circumstances in which we are in In this day This day is evil because we are in this present darkness
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- Over in 2 Corinthians 4 Paul called Satan the god of this world, didn't he?
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- He said he is the god of this world The one that has blinded the minds of the unbelievers This is a present darkness
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- We are in a dark time In a dark age in the moment But turn with me to 2
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- Thessalonians chapter 2 I want you to see a couple of verses here In 2 Thessalonians 2 verse 7
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- Paul had been speaking of the man of lawlessness And that he is to be revealed The son of destruction
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- Who is he speaking of, right? Satan He's speaking of the evil one The god of this age
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- And there in 2 Thessalonians chapter 2 verse 7 He says For the mystery of lawlessness is already at work
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- This means he's actively right now at work, doesn't it? This isn't something in the past This is right now
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- Only he who now restrains it Will do so until he is out of the way Meaning God is restraining him
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- But he is still active Right? There was a darkness that we can't comprehend today
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- Before Christ came There was only one people One nation that had the light of the truth
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- And the law of God And all of the nations were in total darkness Well now we're still in a dark age
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- But they are not blinded completely and thoroughly God has restraint on the evil one
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- Who is still the god of this age Look at verse 8 though And then the lawless one will be revealed
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- Whom the Lord Jesus will kill with the breath of his mouth And bring to nothing by the appearance of his coming
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- What does that mean? It means that the evil one The god of this age
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- Is going to remain at work In this world Until Christ returns again
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- Right? Satan is still active We are still in a present age of darkness
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- Over in Ephesians 1 Paul said not only in this age But also in the one to come
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- I love that Paul is always reminding us of this current age And I think he does so Because he wants us to be awake and alert
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- I think he wants us to be purposeful and persistent Actively purchasing opportunities Redeeming the time
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- Bringing everything into submission to King Jesus I mean after all
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- That's who we are Aren't we representatives of that kingdom? And how are we to do this?
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- If we perceive that the times are evil In this evil age How are we to do this?
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- This is our fifth and last point It's that God is calling me to ponder on his wisdom with my time
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- You see all of these principles that we've laid out here These aren't our principles
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- These aren't things that we've just come up with These are truths from God's word These are his word
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- In verse 17 we see a definition of what is meant In the second half of verse 15
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- Because remember he said not as unwise but as wise And now in verse 17 he says Therefore because the days are evil
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- Do not be foolish Do not be unwise
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- Right? The psalmist says the fool says in his heart there is no God You see we know that everyone knows that there's a
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- God Why would the psalmist say that? Everyone knows through creation Everyone is without excuse that there is a creator
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- God Why would the psalmist say that? I think it's because the fool
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- Knowing there's a God Lives as if he doesn't exist The fool says in his heart there is no
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- God I'm going to live my life as if that God does not exist I'm going to live as though I'm God So when
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- Paul says do not be foolish I think what he's saying is Don't live your life in such a way
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- That you give no or little thought of God As if he doesn't exist
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- You see if God does exist Then you must honor him
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- You must obey every word If he doesn't exist Live however you want You be
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- God in your own life That's the fool That's why
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- Paul gives us this contrast Of that type of living Look at 17 again Therefore do not be foolish
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- Do not live as though there is no God But Understand what the will of the
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- Lord is This is walking in wisdom
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- This is the only wisdom You and I have done We are as I said the quintessential fool of Proverbs You know that right?
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- You and I Are the Israelites quaking in their boots
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- While King David roams out to take care of Goliath Jesus is that David right?
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- We're not David We're the fools We're the ones that don't trust We're the ones that don't believe
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- We're the ones that don't see it We're the ones shaking in our boots Because we are the fool
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- But he is the only wisdom there is And we are to look to his wisdom
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- To seek to live according to that wisdom He gets to set the rules He gets to set the standard
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- The psalmist in Psalm 119 verse 97 He says oh how I love your law
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- It is my meditation all the day Why?
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- Because he longs to ponder on the wisdom of the Lord With his time all his day
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- To think on the things of the Lord To look into the things of the Lord To seek after that glorious wisdom of the
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- Almighty Do you want to know what the will of the Lord is?
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- How to wisely purchase opportunity How to walk in the way Then use the time you have to ponder on his wisdom
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- And how do we see God? No one's seen
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- God have they? Have you ever wondered why people can open up a
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- Bible The same Bible you have Read the same words you do And get nothing
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- Not track with it Not understand it Have nothing No bearing in their life
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- You ever wonder that? Because they haven't seen Jesus You can look at the law of God all you want
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- And it's only going to condemn And you're going to hate it Oh but when you see the law of God through the cross
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- Oh now you can declare like a psalmist Oh I loved your law
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- I meditate on it day and night I long to live in it
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- It's so good It's so just It's so perfect It's so right in every way
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- But you must It must be seen through Christ This is what
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- Paul is aiming at in our lives We must ponder on his wisdom Through that imputed righteousness of Christ You see you and I cannot and will not walk in perfect wisdom
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- Can we? Anybody in here had even a single afternoon
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- Where they go I think I walked in the law of God perfectly I think I fulfilled it
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- An hour A second I don't think I've done it for a second
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- Right? Even my most righteous prayer And bible reading was tainted in so much sin
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- It would condemn the whole of the human race Oh but Jesus Ah Jesus did
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- He walked in that wisdom perfectly And he did for you And he did for me
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- If we are in Christ If we are the elect of the holy almighty God Then he did so to purchase us and redeem us
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- And now we long to honor him with our lives That's what Paul's getting at Paul is not teaching self -righteousness
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- Paul's not teaching a works -based righteousness Paul's not teaching you to pull yourself up by your bootstraps
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- And do the right thing That's not what Paul's teaching us Paul's saying in light of the beauty of the gospel
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- The one that redeemed you Seek to honor him with your life Because I know
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- What you know Is that condemnation has never changed you
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- Condemnation has never changed me Giving me more rules and laws doesn't motivate me
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- It bears on my soul when I shut down But when you are met with the glorious grace
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- Of the good and merciful savior That did it for you That motivates you
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- That makes you want to be purposeful with your time, doesn't it? Makes you want to be persistent in your time
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- Makes you want to look for opportunities to purchase It makes you want to perceive the times
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- And never forget that we are in evil times and an evil day And I must walk in the way of wisdom
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- And in order to do that I must ponder on the wisdom of God Continually day after day
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- As I pursue to be like my savior Amen One of the ways that we do so here is remembering his great sacrifice
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- Of purchasing us by his blood Through the Lord's Supper I want to invite you if you are in Christ today
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- And you are in good standing with an evangelical church Then you are welcome to this table
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- And for all of you that are members here I would ask that you would spend a moment
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- As we prepare to lay any unrepentant sins at the cross
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- Again, it's not a time for penance It's not the time that you get right with God But it is an opportunity for you to remember your
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- Gracious savior And what he's done And it is a time for worship
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- The way it works here is we have tables on both sides Pastor Jeremiah will be over here,
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- I'll be over here If you need prayer, please come talk to us You are not distracting us But you can come and take of the wine and the bread
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- And then go back to your seats through the center And then you can pray as a group, individually
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- You can partake of those elements there where you are seated or stand And then we will come back together to sing in a moment
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- I would ask that maybe the back pews If you might want to come down this direction
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- Because we're a little lopsided I don't want that line being super long and this one being super short But let's pray that God will be honored in our time at the table
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- Oh dear heavenly father, we thank you for the great sacrifice of your son We pray that this would not become cold in our hearts
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- That you would continually draw us and mold us towards our calling
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- Of being one with the triune God Through the righteousness of Christ We pray that you are honored in our worship through the table
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- Lord Jesus, I know that you're with us You've been with us this whole time But you express your presence with us in a unique way
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- When we come to this table And we're so grateful and we long to be in your presence Lord, I pray that you would use this to sanctify us
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- To conform us to the image of our savior Use this to incite worship in our hearts,
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- God And if we have any unconfessed sin in our lives That we've not been able to lay down at the foot of the cross
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- Lord, I pray that we could do so even now Before we come and partake So that we can partake in joy