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ERIC WALLACE, President of the Institute for Uniting Church and Home who will discuss:
“Uniting Church and Home: A BLUEPRINT for REBUILDING CHURCH Community”
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Good afternoon, Cumberland County, Pennsylvania, Lake City, Florida, and the rest of humanity who are living on the planet Earth listening via live streaming. This is Chris Arntzen, your host of Iron Sharpens Iron Radio, wishing you a happy Tuesday on this May 2nd, 2017, and I look forward to interviewing today for the very first time, Eric Wallace, who is president of the Institute for Uniting Church and Home, and today we are going to be discussing his book, Uniting Church and Home, a Blueprint for Rebuilding Church Community, and it's my honor and privilege to welcome you to Iron Sharpens Iron for the very first time, Eric Wallace.
Thank you, Chris. It's a pleasure to be here and speak with you and to your listeners today. And in studio with me is my co-host, the Reverend Buzz Taylor. And hello once again. And Reverend Buzz Taylor and I met Eric Wallace just about a year ago at the Harvey Cedars Bible Conference Center when we were both attending the Alliance of Confessing Evangelicals Faithful Pastors Retreat, and during a dinner or lunch break, or perhaps a breakfast break, we were sitting at the same table providentially with Eric Wallace and got to know him, and not long after that got into discussions about having an interview, and I'm glad that this is finally, all by God's providence, all fallen into place.
Tell us something about, before we even get into the Institute for Uniting Church and Home, and before we get into your book, Uniting Church and Home, I would like to know about your own personal background as far as the religion of your youth, if any, and how providentially our Lord in His.
Sovereign grace drew you to Himself and saved you. Then being faithfully married was a huge blessing to me, a huge impact on my life, you know, the covenant, and my two oldest siblings went to Christian school, and so the truth that Jesus Christ in my walk, you know, used that, you know, the course of a few years to, and for what He was going to have me do in this ministry, which we'll get into later, but I, much later, just what it meant that His death was notification.
Notification, that positionally that I need to live a life of obedience to Him, and of course that obedience includes repentance from sin and, you know, the desire to grow Christ in me, and so I will say that might think that because of a perfect person, and we all know the flesh until that day, that glorious day that we actually see Jesus face to face, you know, coming to know what He's done for me has, which came, you know, probably 20 years after I would realize that I was a true believer in Jesus Christ, that came awfully late.
It came, and there were a lot of years in there growing, and a tremendous, just a lot of wasted, just a lot of wasted time, but I am excited of what He's done for me, and just struggling and seeking to live out of that richness every day, and a husband and a father in my home.
And the Rev. Buzz Taylor has something.
To say. You said this struggle went on for like 20-some years, is that correct? Yeah, I would say,.
You know, I'm in the Catholic theology that I'm a Baptist school, and so those years, the emphasis was on walking the honor of the church and my theology. What I was thinking.
Specifically, too, was that in a 20-year struggle, were there some years in there where you just.
Pretty much gave up and didn't struggle with it? No, no, I never gave up with us through, you know, having.
Learned back then. Well, I'm assuming, although you believe in covenant theology and are Presbyterian, you still believe that Presbyterian parents can have children that are lost. I mean, there is a possibility, is there not, that you were lost for a good number of those years?
Well,.
No, I'm a believer, and indeed, you know, they do need to come to that place. There is a piece of the foundation that I've had that we're going to... So tell us what eventually led you to form. What.
Is now known as the Institute for Uniting Church and Home, and obviously give us some background.
Of exactly what that is. Sure, well, we were working with the private school issue, struggling with having a private school of the church, as well as homeschooling back. This was back in the 80s, so there was the homeschooling movement was ramping up, and leading that ministry as a sipping ministry, and the challenge history, and I had to learn what it was that the parents missed with children, you know, what was a relationship, and that it very quickly, the ministry very quickly became much more focused on just helping moms to be moms and dads to be dads.
So that was kind of the focus initially for several years, but then it began to dawn on us that, well, wait a minute, and why is it that the church and the home seem to be, you know, at odds so often?
Why do so many families, so many people that go to church feel like that the church is working against them rather than actually working for them? And then, you know, on the other side of the coin, there's a lot of, you know, are wondering, what's wrong with the home?
Why aren't people at the church supporting the programs and getting the help that we're offering? We began to look at what we were doing in terms of ministry, youth began to see that those affinity programs really began to get in the way of the covenantal-type relationships that God has set forth in His Word as the means through which people's lives are actually transformed by the gospel of Jesus Christ.
So we made some changes in those ministries. For instance, one of my oversights was children's ministry. We had a girl's ministry, a boy's ministry, and so we basically put them together and called it ministry.
We had Father and the Word of God, and then that, you know, morphed into, you know, looking at youth ministry and changes with youth ministry. So initially, a lot of the early years was just the rule rather than the...
But then, it began to be apparent to me, as I was getting opportunities to go out and speak, and my book, I don't believe that my book had been published, somewhat ancient, really began to discover was that even with trying to pull the family together in the ministry programs of the church, we still were not able to address the real need.
And brothers, let me say that the real need in the Church is a rediscovery of the gospel of Jesus Christ, not only for the justification of the unbeliever, but also as the means of sanctification in the life of the believer.
Amen. Preach it, preach it! Completely lost. Maybe I'll take that back. I shouldn't say completely, there are churches that I think are working it, but in my experience, my limited experience, when I have calls from people going all the way back to this time, what I discovered was that people just thought, well, you know, we're going to church, our kids are in children's ministry, the kids are in youth ministry, we're in a couple's ministry, you know, then everything's fine.
So we're good Christians, and basically we're going to be able, you know, to overcome the challenges in life. But what we've learned, of course, through various studies that Barna has done, whatnot, you know, over the last probably 20 years, especially, is that there's not been a whole lot of real heart transformation that's taking place.
That what's happened is that people have trusted in what they were doing, you know, going to church almost as if, you know, I'm just going to be at church and growth is going to come by osmosis because I'm listening to the sermon.
I believe that what's happened in the recent history of the church is that we've depended on programs to do what only the Holy Spirit does when we apply the gospel. Relationships are critical. It's been thrown by the waste in a lot of people.
Looking at the issues in their life in a way that they can see how the gospel addresses those. So even back then when I wrote a book, you know, being applied by faith, back then, you know, I was thinking, yes, we need to draw on relationships much more intentionally.
It's in them that God is...we need to...those need to come back to the surface, and we need to emphasize those. So that was good. But I think pretty soon after the book came out, you know, as I saw I'm beginning to reach similar conclusions about, you know, taking a new look at church ministry, what I began to see more and more was that here, even still, in this...even now, you know, there are pastors who in church are certainly being transformed more into the image of Christ.
A southern state, and he had been given my name from the piece, and he had said, you know, I've been struggling with our families. We've really wanted to see our families minister as units, and we've not been able to get them to minister, you know, to minister their neighbors, minister in the programs of the Church.
And I said, well, what have you done, you know, what have you done to try to equip them and to move them in that direction? And he had said, he said, well, we've done this program, we've done that program, great programs that churches offer, many of which you would recognize and your listeners would recognize, but there was no change.
And I had said to him, I said, brother, I said, consider the problem here is not that the people don't know what to do, but the problem is that they don't know how to want to do it. And so I encourage you to step back, you know, giving them the list, just to be short about it, but to step back and actually take a deeper focus on the Gospel, because it's when they see the beauty and full sufficiency of what Christ has done for them that their heart is going to change to want to do ministry.
And I think this is what's missed to help people grow in the home and in the church is we just tell them what to do, and we think, well, we're telling them what to do, they'll do it. So it's not just telling people what they have to do, but more importantly, the bigger picture of helping people's lives change is helping them understand all that Christ has done and being able to live out of that by faith.
But going way, way far, real fast, that is really the heart and soul of this ministry is not so much really talking to churches about how they can change programs. I would say it's much, much more just talking to churches about, let's just rediscover who we are in Christ together and begin to apply that by faith in our relationships.
Let's make a commitment, you know, to elders, you know, being shepherds, and to fathers being shepherds in their homes, in particular. Single mom, helping them to be able to enter into relationships where, you know, they really get to know the people that they're in that relationship with, where they know what they're struggling with, and can apply the gospel to deal with the issues that they're facing so that they're not in cycle of stepping out of that and moving forward in greater obedience to Jesus Christ.
So we have resources and seminars that we do at the Institute for Uniting Church and Home. We will talk to church-wide seminar where we'll just get the whole church together and say, let's just read, look at relationships and get practical equipping for relationships, but also just help you understand what, who we are in Christ.
Well, Reverend Buzz Taylor has a comment.
Well, do you equate this with in Acts 2, for example, where it says they were continually, you know, I mean, chapter 4, 2, I can't remember exactly the reference I don't have in front of me, but when it refers to koinonia, they were constantly giving themselves to the apostles, teaching to prayer and breaking bread and fellowship.
Is this, is this the koinonia that's mentioned in Acts? Is this what you're talking about, that kind of relationship where everybody is involved in one another's lives?
Yeah.
By the way, I want to read, I want to read a couple of commendations for this book that we are addressing, a book of the same title as your ministry, Uniting Church and Home, A Blueprint for Rebuilding Church Community is the subtitle.
And a couple of commendations that this book has received I would like to read are from First George Grant, who has been a guest on Iron Trump's Iron Radio. And this is actually a great reminder for me to invite him back.
It's been quite a while since we've had Dr. George Grant on the program. But he says, this is an important book. It offers a cooperative, integrated and covenantal approach to life and ministry rarely seen in these fragmented individualistic and parochial times.
It's biblical foundations, reformed outlook and practical emphasis make it refreshingly substantive, substantive, sorry, while at the same time, startlingly relevant. The responsibilities of the home ought to be facilitated by the church, not co-opted.
Likewise, the centrality of the church ought to be embraced by the home, not resisted. This remarkable blueprint for symbiosis shows us how to strike that kind of essential balance. And also, someone that I have not yet interviewed, but I would love to have eventually on the program, Susan Hunt, who many of you may recognize from her books that she has written.
And she's also director of Women in the Church, PCA, Christian Education and Publications Committee in Atlanta, Georgia. She says, in a day of raging confusion about ministry models, Eric Wallace speaks with clarity about the necessity of uniting church and home.
This approach expresses the covenant concept of home and church working together to tradition the faith to the next generation. This timely book is indeed a blueprint for covenant community. Some very impressive commendations from some very impressive people.
And rather than interrupt you mid-sentence, I'm going to go to a break right now. And if anybody would like to join us on the air with a question of your own for Eric Wallace, our email address is chrisarnson at gmail .com, chrisarnson at gmail .com.
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We are discussing his book, Uniting Church and Home, a Blueprint for Building Church Community. If you'd like to join us on the air with a question of your own, our email address is ChrisArnzen at gmail .com.
ChrisArnzen at gmail .com. That's C-H-R-I-S-A-R-N-Z-E-N at gmail .com. And we do have a listener already all the way in Slovenia who has a comment slash question for you, Eric. Dear Brother Chris, thank you so much for this incredible topic.
Having grown up in and served in churches that were completely programmatic, this topic and title of the book is almost unfathomable for me. I was theologically trained that church is done programmatically.
The assumption is that you need ministry programs that focus on every conceivable demographic in the community. Recently, every conceivable hobby or social pastime has become the basis for some ministry outreach for the church.
How do we rid ourselves of this ministry treadmill and get back to organic relational one-anothering as described in the scriptures? Thanks for helping me develop a new and more scriptural paradigm along these lines.
Wow. Any more minutes? You know, we didn't get into the problem that we're in. There is not a... And I think that that's an important thing for your listeners who would look at their church situation and think, wow, you know, this Wallace guy is kind of pop, but I've never given voice to.
And these are things that, as it were, but I would tell you that the method for reversing that clock is very simply getting back to the rudimentary truths proclaiming those. And, you know, very often when I'm speaking to groups, I'll begin with Romans 1, 15 and 16, and I'll say, you know, I'll read Romans 1.
You know, Paul says, I'm not, you know, I am eager to come and preach the gospel to you who are in Rome. And I'll ask, I'll say, who are the people that Paul is writing to here in Rome and preaching the gospel to Christians?
Isn't the gospel what we put in a little piece of paper that we, you know, leave in seat back pockets on airplanes.
Or in bus terminals? Or on restaurant tables with very bad tips? Right, yes, yes. And so,.
And of course it is. Of course that is. I mean, that's an important part of the gospel, absolutely, that people know that Jesus died, you know, to pay the penalty for their sins. But that's where, and in most people's thinking, Chris and Buzz, this is tragic.
But in most people's thinking, that's where the gospel stops. Oh, the gospel got me in. Now it's a function of simply reading the Bible to find out what I'm supposed to be doing to live my life the way that God expects me to live my life.
And so they overcome, the gospel is just out the window. But then you look at verse 16, and you know, you find out why Paul is so eager to preach the gospel. He says in 16, I'm not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God unto salvation.
And of course, you know, the power there, the word for power in the Greek is dunamis, like dynamite. It's like this enormous power for our salvation. Our salvation is not just our justification, but it is also our sanctification.
And people, I'm telling you, their eyes open and their mouths drop. And so because they are not hearing that, you know, what they're hearing in the church, you know, is the gospel of justification, which is, you know, part of the gospel.
But there's also the gospel, that same gospel helps us in our sanctification. It proclaims that not just by faith do we become a believer, but by faith we grow as a believer. Not just by faith in Christ's work, in his life, death, and resurrection, you know, that not just that that saves us from the penalty of our sin and justifies us, but that also is the means by which we are sanctified.
Faith in all that he's accomplished fully and sufficiently for us and gives us as a part of our sanctification. And there's a doctrine that is very seldom taught, and it is the doctrine of definitive sanctification.
There's the doctrine of justification, and you know, normally we have that, and we draw this big heavy line that separates the doctrine of justification from the doctrine of progressive sanctification.
And we forget that there is a connection between justification and sanctification, and that is, you know, definitive sanctification. And this is where the real freedom and joy that we should have in our Christian life is located.
It's here. It's in what we have already been fully and sufficiently given in Christ.
Now, when you say definitive sanctification, are you saying that this is in opposition to cheap grace and easy believism, the repentant-less idea of salvation that is very popular and has.
Been for a number of decades, tragically? Well, I think of what Christ has fully and sufficiently done for us, you know, Paul says in 2 Corinthians 5 .14 that he's compelled by the love of Christ. For him, in his ministry as a reconciler, as an ambassador for Christ, you know, his motivation is the love of Christ for him.
And so I think a proper understanding of all that Jesus has done for us, truly, when we understand that, motivates us, it pushes us, it compels us to want to obey what God says that we are to do, and of course a huge part of that is, you know, confession and repentance.
I mean, we are to live lives, you know, each day, Lord willing, we're seeing sin, and we're confessing that to God, and we're, you know, repenting of it. But we're doing that out of a heart of joy, because we see, you know, all that cry of fear, because, oh no, you know, I've sinned again, and God's not going to be happy with me, God's not going to bless me today.
And this is the way, you know, many Christians live. They live in that performance orientation because they don't proclaim. Yes, and that's why if you believe in.
The doctrines of grace, I know that the doctrines of grace, the doctrines of sovereign grace, the doctrines of Reformed theology, Calvinism, however you want to label them, I know that the Reformed faith and biblical Christianity reaches out much farther than just the acronym TULIP.
I understand that. But I think it's very important that when you hold to the doctrines of grace that you hold to all of those five points, because of the fact that if you leave, for instance, the perseverance and preservation of the saints out of that, you can have disastrous results.
I was just at the Philadelphia Conference on Reformed theology and heard a powerful message by Dr. Rick Phillips over at Second Presbyterian Church in Greenville, South Carolina, and he was telling a, or briefly just mentioning an account, a very tragic account of a professedly Reformed pastor, quite well-known pastor who had fallen into adulterous sin and was forced to leave the church.
And he had a warped, distorted understanding of Reformed theology that was in fact heretical. It was part of the hyper-grace movement in which he was basically attempting to seduce a woman in the church with the promise that, hey, Jesus Christ's sacrifice on Calvary paid for all sin.
We are to live free in our grace that we have been given. That kind of nonsense, that kind of wickedness, where he was taking the truth of God out of context and turning it into.
Licentiousness. Right. More for how to design ministry, the more we've drifted from a proclamation of the truth. And, you know, people fall into these traps where they do believe, you know, that, you know, in a sense, you know, it's all about me, it's not about God's glory, it's not about, you know, Jesus Christ being seen more clearly in and through me, it's about me getting what I want.
So, you know, to come back, circle back to the question, you know, from our brother or sister in Slovenia, you know, the key is to get back to preaching the gospel for the Christian. And this is what, this is, when you look at 1 Corinthians chapter 1 and chapter 2, you know, Paul, he's going to address a lot of sin in the Corinthian church, but where does he begin?
He doesn't begin with saying, thou shalt not, and, you know, do's and don'ts. He begins, you know, with the gospel. And in chapter 2, verses 1 to 5, he talks about how that he comes to them, you know, not with all the rhetorical zeal or the...he doesn't come to them like the people that would be teaching false teaching.
He comes to them plainly with this gospel, so that their faith, the faith of the people, will rest in Christ rather than him. And so I think that that's an aspect of what we have to try to get back to in terms of this proclamation, that this gospel message really is, it's simple.
It's simple to understand. Granted, it's hard to apply at times, because of our hearts, but the gospel is sufficient. That the gospel is fully sufficient, that we are, you know, a priesthood of believers, that we can sufficiently apply the gospel in our homes and in our churches, and we need to teach.
This. Now our listener in Slovenia says something in his comment slash question that I don't want to be taken out of context. I'm not sure whether he would agree with what I'm about to say or not. I'm not sure if you would.
But although I believe it is very tragic and disturbing when churches who are buying into the seeker-sensitive movement, when they adopt all these kinds of ministries related to, as our listener says, every conceivable hobby or social pastime that replace in their life, their church life, the worship and teaching, the worship of God in an honorable, God-centered, Christ-glorifying way, and the teaching of the whole counsel of God, when those things replace those very vital elements of worship, that is disturbing.
But on the other hand, I don't find anything wrong with members of the body of Christ using the gifts that God has given them to create some kind of a ministry outreach. Like, for instance, if a man is a carpenter and he wants to teach carpentry lessons and the lost come to his classes and then they'll hear the gospel as well, I think that's great.
I agree. Things like even the performing arts, where I disdain things that are being added into the worship of God that are not commanded in scripture, things like dancing and all kinds of things that people want to incorporate into the worship service to make them more entertaining.
On the other hand, I don't think there's anything wrong with a church who has gifted people teaching all kinds of musical and dramatic arts and things like that, or having some kind of a ministry outreach connected to the church that involves those things, as long as they're not replacing the preaching and teaching and appropriate worship,.
The biblical worship of God. Right. What we're doing is we're leaving a vacuum for people to try to find, even in their service, even in their well-intentioned service, trying to find in that service something that they have already received through Christ.
For instance, someone that thinks that, you know, well, you know, I'm kind of, I'm not very active, and they begin to feel down on them, and they begin to think, you know, well, you know, God's just not happy with me because I'm not, you know, doing things that other people are doing.
But, you know, to remember to come back and think, you know, if you're in Christ, if you're united in Christ, which if you're a true believer, you are united in Him, Colossians says you are hidden in Christ, then, you know, what part of what you've received from Him is His righteousness.
That, you know, 2 Corinthians 5 says, you know, that He made Him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God. So looking at the righteousness as what they already have, it's fully and sufficiently in Christ.
So they don't do the service out of a guilt that, oh, I better do it because, you know, people are going to look at me and they're going to think that, you know, there's something...or doing it as a way of trying to gain something from God, you know, to gain effectively righteousness, to merit His approval in their life.
And so that's, I think, the problem, you know, with the Church today is that there are a lot of people that are thinking that their position in Christ is not already settled, but that their position is something that they're, you know, seeking to improve, you know, through their performance, which normally happens in.
Their own strength, which is impossible. By the way, Joe in Slovenia, thank you for giving us an American address where your daughter lives because we are going to be mailing to you and her address, at her address, a free copy of Uniting Church in a Home, a Blueprint for Rebuilding Church Community, compliments of our guest, Eric Wallace, and also compliments of Cumberland Valley Bible Book Service, who are actually going to be shipping that out to you at no charge to you or to Iron Sherpins Iron Radio.
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We have RJ in White Plains, New York, who asks, I know that the host of this program, Chris Arnzen, is a Reformed Baptist. I was wondering if this book is equally applicable to Reformed Baptists or Baptists in general, since you were emphasizing covenant theology earlier.
And obviously Reformed Baptists, many Reformed Baptists claim, adhere to covenant theology and obviously have somewhat of a different interpretation of it than a Presbyterian would, but if you could reply to our listeners'.
Question. To you and your situation, and in fact, when I, 20 years ago, Susan Hunt endorsed my book, had said, you know, the language and the term, it's plain language. And so I think that there will be an easy, it'll be easy for you all to dive into that and to get some.
Yeah, I believe Susan.
Hunt is a Reformed Baptist, isn't she? Well, actually I'm thinking of Martha Peace, I'm sorry. Yeah, yeah. Okay, and we are going to a break right now. If you'd like to join us on the air with a question of your own, our email address is chrisarnzen at gmail .com, chrisarnzen at gmail .com.
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We have Bebe in Cumberland County who has a question for you Eric. Bebe, she is asking, do you agree that many churches are exaggerating the focus on family in the life and worship of.
The church to the point of idolatry? I would not just level, absolutely. Okay, so you don't want.
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You have the state of the church today, you have we need each other, you have a renewed vision for the church and its ministry, and you have stages in rebuilding. If you could start with some more, you've already said some things about your displeasure with a lot of what is going on in the church today, but if you could be a little bit more specific with some other areas in regard to the state of the church today.
Perhaps you could start with your theme of a house of living stones and explain.
That. Right, well, we believers working out of this world, you know, that got to teach and train, you know, their children in the holy year over the last few orators. But even in that equip, they talk a lot about...
Now, how is this being in your mind, how is this to be done.
In the church outside of the preaching from the pulpit? I mean, is there, do you believe to be private counseling and private instruction that elders are to be giving to fathers in the church,.
Or how are you envisioning this to occur? Well, equipping them takes on men and really gets in deep and encourages and equips them to lead in the home. But I think that something I alluded to in answering the previous question was just the personal relationship.
That, you know, that elders, you know, Hebrews 13, 17 says, you know, that we're, you know, elders are accountable to God for the sheep under their care, and it's very difficult to be accountable for people that you don't know.
So there has to be a way, given the challenges, and I'm an elder too in my church, and it is hard. The time, the easy way around that, you begin with a commitment to it, and it's amazing how, when you establish a commitment to something, you find ways to see it through.
And today we do have many modes of technology that can help us connect people when physically that's impossible. So the two main things, and I think a third, you know, that we begin to see, you know, the head of household, whether that's a father, whether that's a single mother, that we begin to see them as, you know, kind of the middle managers of the church.
That they're the ones that we direct most of our equipping to so that they can be, you know, adequately teaching and applying this in the lives of those.
Ronald in Eastern Suffolk County, Long Island, New York, wants to know if you are in any way affiliated with the Family Integrated Church movement. He says, I know some wonderful people, and I've heard some wonderful things connected with it, but I've also heard the polar opposite of that, and I've heard that some of the individuals and groups involved in the Family Integrated Ministries have become, sadly and quite tragically, cultic.
Yes.
Right, I happen to know Jeff Pollard, personally, of Chapel Library, and he's an outstanding brother in Christ, and he has even admitted to me in conversation that there are some extremists in the movement that he's uncomfortable with, but he loves the purpose of the reason, the purpose of its founding and its genesis, and the main themes that run through it, he seems to be in favor of.
Could you give us some kind of a summary of that movement?
Well, covering quite the gamut, but there are churches that say militant in Christ, treatment of the doctrines to be the strength and the motivation, and that makes all the difference in the world, you know, to a father, to see that his role there is really one, you know, his righteousness, and which is in itself, I think, and one that will help him grow freedom.
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Welcome back. This is Chris Arnzen, and this is the last half hour of the program with Eric Wallace, president of the Institute for Uniting Church and Home. We are discussing his book, Uniting Church and Home, a Blueprint for Rebuilding Church Community.
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And we have Christian in Cumberland County, Pennsylvania, who wants to know, do not the single men and women in the church need to be instructed about these things, too, so that they are already prepared when they.
Enter into the bonds of marriage? I would agree, C, that if we're faithful at equipping this where they were taught these fundamental principles. But I believe that when you look at the church ministry today, like singles, for instance, that singles don't want to be left kind of in their corner.
That singles want to be a part of relationships. And so they just need to be reached out to care for them, that to act out of wedlock. You know, the people that support her, these kids, and they was married and receive that kind of, I think that necessity, not just the importance, you know, relationships are not nice to have.
And the more that we teach that, not only by what we say, but what we do in terms of our own actions as leaders, I think the more that other people are going to jump in and see, not only that it works, but it's something that they really wish, and I think that it takes, you know, teaching.
It takes intentionality on the part of the leaders, you know, to... Well, since this is, this book is subtitled, A Blueprint.
For Rebuilding Church Community, let's go through some of the nuts and bolts of this one by one on your section on stages of rebuilding. Let's start with rebuilding on Christ and his gospel. Give us some details on how this is done.
Sure. Well, as I have been saying, I've been teaching my people. Another pastor, you know, right here, reminded of it Sunday morning. Now I know that you've... Keeping those two.
Things together is vital. I know that you've probably already addressed some of these things throughout the program, but perhaps you can give more detail on the next section of rebuilding,.
Rebuilding the household of God. Well, I think that that gets back, again, in the important... Just came, the model that he gave us was one of a shepherd. It was intensely relational, and that ability in that.
And so when we're talking about rebuilding, you know, the household of God, first of all, it's actually seeing that we are God's family. That, you know, Ephesians 2, let's go back there, you know, part of the riches that we've been given is that we've been adopted into his family, and that, you know, the implication there is that we are to live like a family.
That we are, you know, to love one another. But that doesn't happen just spontaneously. It goes back to the leaders, you know, holding that vision out to people and equipping them specifically. Well, how do you have relationships with one another?
How do you build trust? How do you ask questions? How, you know, does who we are in Christ apply? Equipping element. It's men stepping forward that are going to move forward in terms of working individually with people, as, you know, I have seen, you know, in churches that begin to focus on that, there is fruit that comes from it.
There is deep fruit. It's not the kind of thing that you, it's turnkey, but it's not the kind of thing that, it takes patience, it takes intentionality, rather than, I guess what I'm trying to say, it's more art than science.
Now, what do you mean by implementing a household approach?
Well, what I mean there very simply is just that, you know, we need to get back to relationships and seeing that God does work through them, and that they're, you know, husbands and, you know, works through shepherds and deacons along, you know, people committing, you know, to each other rather than just going to church and thinking, you know, I'm here simply to get what I can get rather than to give what I have.
And, you know, that just, you know, the key to that is intentionality rather than, you know, this is, you know, where we're going to be Sunday at seven o 'clock, and.
This is what we're going to do for an hour. And what do you mean by from separation to integration?
Well, I think that when you look at traditional church, you know, the way things are done now is that, you know, people are separated in different groups and different classes. Again, that's not inherently wrong, but...
You mean like you have children's church, you have youth groups,.
You have the 50 and over singles club, and that kind of thing? Is that what you're referring to?
Well, again, those are not wrong things. They have an end in themselves and not a means. You know, that might be one way of looking at it. When they're not a means toward building relationships where, you know, people are able to apply what they're learning, you know, then they are kind of, they become a cul-de-sac rather, and people stay there, and you don't see, you know, older people in the faith, you know, reaching out and seeking to establish relationships with those that are younger that need, you know, the practical life wisdom, you know, in order to grow healthy.
Yeah, I can tell you that as a young Christian in my 20s, as a new Christian, I mean, there are Christians that are a lot younger than in their 20s, but I happen to be a newborn babe in Christ in my mid -20s, and some of my most cherished memories are the fellowship I had with senior citizen Christians who were very intimately involved in my life and very close to me for decades.
I'm speaking specifically right now of a couple from England, Nigel and Barbara Stone, who were members of my congregation where I was a member. Nigel went home to be with the Lord a few years ago, and Barbara is still with us living in Tennessee, but I do sometimes cringe when I hear about churches that intentionally every fellowship gathering that they have is separated and segregated by their age group and all that kind of thing.
Right.
Yes, in Foundation, for 10 years before he came down and was installed as pastor of our church, but he would say over and over again, he'd say, you know, I'd have people coming into my office with all these issues, and his question was always, well, does anyone in the church know about your situation, and does anyone know that you're struggling with this?
And he would say, inevitably, 99 of the time they would say no. And that is, you know, that has to be corrected, and that begins with us as leaders, you know, connecting with people for ourselves, too.
I mean, that we know that we need help, that we need the encouragement and prayers of others as much as they need it. We have to have a change of heart, and I think Timothy Whitmer in his book, The Shepherd Leader at Church, I think The Shepherd.
Leader at Home, he's got excellent on that. Yeah, I had a pastor's luncheon a couple years ago where I believe it was PNR Publishing gave me a copy of that book for every pastor that attended.
Well, he is really bringing back his leader. Is he a tuba player with the Westminster Brass?
I apologize, brother, I didn't hear what you said. Is he a tuba player with the Westminster Brass, Timothy Whitmer? I don't know. I think he may be. I think he may be. I think he was just at the Philadelphia Conference on Reform Theology, and he said, I've still got to do that interview with you, and I'm almost positive it was him.
He was, like, rushing out the door when he, carrying his tuba. But what do you mean by a household of overcomers?
You know, we don't, we are just a lone wolf, Christia, that we need each other, and Hebrews, referencing back to that, how important it is that we encourage one another not to sin. We become, under the subject, the hardness of heart.
And so, you know, if we're going to survive, and I think that you look at where we are right now in the world, and it would seem that it's going probably to be harder, not easier. You know, we do need to support one another in that, not just from a practical perspective, but most importantly, from a spiritual perspective.
We were not meant to face the world alone. We were meant to face it in Christ and with each other,.
United in Christ. And so I'm assuming you're really talking about the vital need for genuine friendships to be forged amongst brothers and sisters in Christ. Oh, absolutely, yes. And excuse me, I'm sorry.
I was going to say that, don't you think that the church, the members of the church, the body of Christ, have to be less concerned with their own pleasures, and even some of the things that are responsibilities that are at home, and so on.
And I'm not saying that they should have no concern over those things. But the fact that, you know, the typical life of a church is that people are gathering and seeing each other. If these people are really committed, active members, they're seeing each other three times a week, once on a prayer meeting and twice a service, and if they are the ordinary evangelical, just once a week on a Sunday.
And then, basically, it's a dash to the parking lot, because you want to make sure you get to the bakery before it closes, as you're fighting traffic, and people want to get home to watch the football game and all that.
And these people in the church are no more than the acquaintance at work that you pass in the hallway and say, hey, how are you? And you don't really care how they are, and they don't care how you are, but you say that because it's a tradition.
Hey, how are you? And that the people in the church who are already supposed to be the mature, seasoned believers have to be more aggressive and zealous in reaching out to people, especially those that they either don't know very well, and maybe visitors, or people who they've noticed coming for even years, or perhaps they're members, but they've never reached out to that person.
And I understand it is quite true that some people, many people, have to stop whining and complaining and do the reaching out themselves instead of waiting around to have somebody reach out to them. But at the same time, the more seasoned and mature Christian, the onus is really on them to break the ice, to aggressively try to form friendships with people, because without friendships in Christ, it is very easy for people to backslide into sin, to just get weary of the game of church.
It becomes looked upon as just an act where you're putting on your Sunday best, and then you're just going home and living any way you want to. And it's a sad and tragic thing. I mean, I even know in my own life, I sadly, after being sober for 18 years and free from alcohol, and I'm not, this is no reprimand to my brothers who have a liberty to moderately and responsibly drink alcohol, I'm talking about a very serious and dangerous level of alcohol addiction that I re-entered after 18 years of sobriety.
And a lot of that had to do with my own slipping away from the fellowship and the friendship of the body of Christ. And I just think that it is a vital thing, as you've been saying throughout this part.
Relationships are very important, because once you become more and more anonymous and hiding in the shadows, it's much more easy to begin to be lured back into the sins of the past.
Oh, absolutely. And we do need each other in order to make those steps. And I think that, you know, for God's glory, and that is just committed to the way. And that is something that is not individually done.
That's something that is done in community.
You know, I know some elderly people, elderly ladies, in fact, I think are the primary, the movers and shakers of what I'm about to say. They live in a nursing home, live in a nursing home. And every month, there's about three or four of these elderly folks, I think three are women and one is a man.
And every month, they each pick a person from the church, and they invite that person to lunch at the nursing home, because it's just like a nice little cafe there. It's not anything that would remind you necessarily of being in a nursing home, other than the fact that most of the people eating there are elderly.
And they pay for that person's lunch. And they just think that that is such an important thing to do, to get to know people in the church. And to me, it's kind of remarkable that it's these people who are residents in a nursing home that are doing this.
It's not the church doing it, or the people who are younger, married folks with kids at home and stuff. It's really these elderly folks that are doing it. And it's pretty impressive. It's something that I think should be imitated by people in and out of a nursing home.
Yes. And we need those relationships to help us live that primary relationship with our creator.
And redeemer. Well, I'd like you to basically summarize what you most want etched in the hearts.
And minds of our listeners today before we run out of time. Well, I think that number one, you know, is that the transforming for in our lives to overcome with each other, you know, is found, you know, once again, and that we need to become much more aware of who we are in Christ.
And when we're reading the scriptures, to be clear, to not just see what the imperatives are, but to always see that the indicatives of who we are in Christ are always presented right there next to the imperatives.
So that real transformation takes place, so that real ministry out of love takes place. So that would be my first point. My second point is, you know, that we would commit to relationships with each other.
You know, if you step out that you can connect with and begin to pray for and meet with and get into their life and help them to see, you know, their struggles in light of, you know, what Christ has accomplished and how his full accomplishment is what they need in the situation.
And then the relationship, forgetting to know each other on a level where we can understand what's going on enough in each other's lives to be able to apply, you know, that truth of what Christ has done for us in those.
Areas. Now, if you wouldn't mind, there are people that listen to this program that I have discovered who aren't even believers. If you could give us a summary of what the gospel is.
Yes. Well, I would say to those that are listening that have not made it, that what Christ offers is merely a payment for your sin. You probably have heard that over again. But what Christ really, in addition to payment and the penalty of our sin, is that he offers us true life.
He offers us the opportunity to live life as we were created by him to live. And what does that mean? That means living in relationship with him, a relationship where he says, I'm going to provide what you need for your life.
And he holds that out to us. And we receive that daily look to him. And so my encouragement to the unbeliever, to the person who does not know Christ, is just that Christ offers a penalty of sin. Christ offers a new life.
And it is a life that is worth living. It is a life of freedom. And it gave me an opportunity to say, even to the non-believer, but also to the believer, that we have a resource called Who Are You? A Discovery of Who We Are in Christ.
And it's a very simple booklet with 12 identity statements from Scripture, as well as some applications. Very simple resource. Send everybody a link to download that if they wanted it. And all they need to do is email me at eric at unitingchurchandhome .com, or more simply, eric at uchlink .org.
Eric, E-R-I-C at uchlink .org. And I'd be happy to send you the link for that.
That's U-C-H-link, and I have .com for your website. I don't know if it's both, .org and .org.
Uh, com, com.
Okay, it's U-C-H, for Uniting Church and Home, U-C-H-link, L-I-N-K, .com or .org. And also, obviously, I want all of those listeners, all of our listeners to know that the perfect and righteous One who suffered and died and received the wrath of His Father on our behalf and rose again and ascended to be seated at the right hand of the Father where He is ruling and reigning now.
He is the only way, the truth, and the life. And no one comes to the Father but through Him. And I want all of you to always remember for the rest of your lives that Jesus Christ is a far greater Savior than you are a sinner.