August 30, 2016 Show with Marc Grimaldi on “Reformers in Need of Reforming: Time to Pull Some Weeds From Our Own Front Lawn!”

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Wishing you all a happy Tuesday on this 30th day of August 2016 and we are going to be joined

God willing momentarily by my former pastor Who is

Mark Romaldi of Grace Reformed Baptist Church of Merrick Long Island, New York.

That's Grace Reformed Baptist Church of Long Island is the official name and We have just been experiencing some phone problems here, but I think that I may have had them resolved within the next within the last

Couple of minutes, so hopefully we are going to be joined by Mark Romaldi Very soon.

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Outside of the USA and today our topic with Pastor Mark Romaldi Is going to be a very

I think important topic, especially For those who think that I have been preaching to the choir for most of my program

And perhaps many of my like -minded Christians who are theologically reformed and Calvinistic have been loving that But I think from time to time we've got to pull some weeds out from our own front lawn

And that's why we are discussing reformers in need of reforming That's my honor and privilege to welcome you back to iron sharpens iron my friend my former pastor

Mark Romaldi Thanks, Chris. It's always a pleasure to be on here. Thank you, brother And it is absolutely amazing

I've been doing this program for over a year now and that is the first time I gave out the wrong number for one of my guests,

I Don't know how I did that Maybe a premature Dementia, I'm not really sure what's happening

But I'm glad I finally figured out my own phone number in time to get you back on the program and We've also got some very good news for those of you who heard pastor

Mark on our last interview when we Discussed his book gossip the church killer

That was only in manuscript form at that time. But that book is now finally in print.

So before we go into our discussion on Reformers need reforming and even talking about your book that is now in print gossip the church killer let our listeners know who have

Not heard you on this program before or perhaps they don't know who you are at all and that they might not even know what?

A reformed Baptist is but tell us about grace reform Baptist Church of Long Island in Merrick, New York Yeah grace reform

Baptist Church as you said Chris and as the title says it's a reformed Baptist Church And now what that means is that we hold to the the principles of the the

Reformation certainly the five souls Of the Reformation as well as our we have a commitment to the 1689

London Baptist Confession of Faith And so we would hold to those doctrines that were dear to the heart of the reformers and to Baptists as well

Yeah, and I can remember years ago many years ago when Before family radio went down the toilet theologically

I had my friend and and an acquaintance of yours. Dr. James R. White. He was interviewed on Family radio and I can still remember

My friend who I'm not going to announce his name because of his blunder here But when he was interviewing

James, he said So you say you're a reformed Baptist. What are you now?

And in other words, he was using the term reformed Baptist as if like a reformed alcoholic or a form

Yeah, he used to be a Baptist and now he's but that's not what you're talking about. You're talking about those of us who are theologically in harmony with the

Protestant reformers Wouldn't you say that we and our forefathers before us who were

Baptist? Took the Reformation principles the five solos of the Reformation especially solo script

Torah to its logical conclusion and continued to reform and continued to do things only the way the scriptures prescribed them and Therefore they came to the conclusion that only believers were to be baptized

Yeah, amen. Yeah, we did follow in the footsteps of the reformers insofar as we believe them to be biblical and just like all of us

Right throughout all ages. None of us are perfect and we would we've examined their writings in light of these scriptures

And as you said solo script or being one of the main principles of the Reformation we hold to that as well and we would believe that the the error in In in the sight of most of or a good portion of the reformers would have to do with the issue of baptism.

Yeah, and the Let's talk a little bit before we go into our theme about reformers in need of reforming

The year your book is now in print gossip the church killer tell us about why you wrote that book and Explain a little bit more about it and those of you who missed pastor

Mark's interview on iron sharpens iron on that subject can go to our archive at any point after the show and and go into the search engine into the older programs or podcasts and type in a

Gossip and you will find this Subject that we addressed, but if you could tell our listeners more about it yeah,

Chris, I actually wrote the bulk of the manuscript that book probably about eight or nine years ago and it had to do with just reflecting upon just even our own local church here and Challenges that we faced and just the the danger of gossip

I've got to see why way of experience not only what the script is clearly teeth, but again by way of experience

Just how dangerous gossip is and how it how our words How important our words are how they affect?

The hearts and thoughts of others and how well how things can spread and just the great damage it causes

We tend to think in the church of some of the big sins right fornication or adultery

You know stealing or the drug addiction those kinds of things which are very very serious

We tend to focus on those things often And I think sometimes the idea of gossip, which is done with the words

It's just kind of gets brushed aside or ignored and and yet it's it's just so predominant

You know and I think if we're honest we could see it Interesting not not to be but to be too comical about it

But I was given out the book for the first time and I had the book in my hand I found myself gossiping on one occasion and I was like what am

I doing? You know, so it's so yeah Somebody told me about that mark I got back to you already

It is serious and it really does Tremendous damage it to the churches and I think we don't we tend to not see that aspect of some of the dangers of what destroys the church and We do have a very important announcement to make about this book anybody who purchases

Gossip the church killer by Pastor Mark Grimaldi will also get a free one -year subscription to the

National Enquirer. So But this is this is an excellent this is the type of book because of its brevity and I'm assuming

Coinciding with that that it's very reasonably priced. This is the kind of book That every church should have

Like at least a couple of dozen of them in their track racks because of that because of the prevalence of this sin

Yeah, I've given in fact, I've given out a free copy to all of our church members Because of it is it is that important and I made it like you said,

I intentionally Made it brief for short. It's maybe about I have in front of me

It's under 90 pages in that area and the reason is we tend to unfortunately and I don't mean this in a critical way

But we tend to be so busy today that we look at a book that has any kind of thickness and we shy away from It but this is something you can read, you know in a few sittings and I think it would benefit every church

And I'm hoping that there's hoping that pastors would consider thinking about using it for their flocks And if they do want to get it

It'd be better for them to get it for me because I can get a pretty good discount for them rather than paying the regular Yeah, and I strongly recommend that you do if you're a pastor or Deacon who may be in charge of refilling the track rack

In your church, I would suggest that you get a case of these or something because this

Sin is just so prevalent. I would be I don't think that I would be

Going over the top to say that it may be the most violated sin in the

Christian Church next to the violation of the first commandment, but the

The sin of gossip is just so prevalent because even the best of men Often I think find themselves drifting into that on occasion yeah, and when and again when you look in the scriptures and you see the

Just how important our words are how important and I'm not I'm not You know putting forth the idea of the word of faith person of words that we can create things and all that kind of nonsense

But just the way our words affect people they can be used for great good We can speak and edify and be a means of grace according to what

Paul says in Ephesians You know, we can or we can tear down, you know and do great damage And so God is ordained to use words to use our speech

You look all throughout scripture again Ephesians the whole idea of building up the body and how do you do that? It's without words

It's such a great emphasis on on how we speak and God uses that to to grow the body that's one of the most important ways of growth is by speaking the truth in love and so we want to take gossip and You know and and take it off and replace it with You know a positive form of speaking that which can cause growth as opposed to destruction in the church

Okay, great well as I said before folks we have already interviewed mark on this subject

So if you'd like to go to the archive after the show is over We advise that you don't do that right now so you can hear the live show but if you could go to the archive and look up gossip in the podcast or older program a search engine and You will find that interview and I hope that you are blessed by it and hope that your life is changed by it and more

Importantly and also Chris just for one and you're probably gonna say this as well Anybody who contacts you with the through your

I guess three email whoever that works if they give you their address I'll send them a free copy of the book as well.

Oh great. I appreciate that very much Well, the subject at hand is very controversial.

I think that It would be hard to find an honest

Person an honest Christian person who does not think that self -examination is important and even

Self -examination when it comes to a whole not only church, but theological movement

That that one needs to be involved in some self reflection On things that may be going on That are not pleasing to God things that we may overlook on a regular basis and you have done this in an article you wrote that took some guts because It's always like treading on thin ice it seems when you are criticizing a

Theological movement even if you belong to it yourself Yeah, and I think that since we who are theologically reformed

Rightfully Obey the the heeding of the

Apostle Paul to look out for false teachers. We're not supposed to be Lackadaisical and happy -go -lucky and and Just sing kumbaya with everyone who says that they love the

Lord we are to Examine what people teach especially if they are in leadership or if they are considered to be mentors

Of others people who are in the media and so on whose teachings are made public We are to be very critical and examine them just as Paul commended the

Bereans For doing that he didn't get upset even though he was an apostle He didn't get bent out of shape and get his feelings hurt.

And well, even if he did get his feelings hurt He didn't write about that. He he commended them for their examining every word that he said by the

Word of God and And So we are to do the same and you have done this in this article

What was the initial motivation for you to write this article reformers in need of a reformation?

Yeah, Chris, that's a good question. Yeah, it's sometimes build up I think over time through I guess a couple different things

But one is obviously we things we went through in our own Association that I was a part of with with our purchase some of the things that went on there with with the split

Also the just the different Facebook forums that are on Online that I've been a part of a lot of very good things said but just watching the types of articles that have been written

Some of the different kinds of debates that have been going on between different individuals who are well respected in the reform faith just following a lot of that and and Just being grieved over the extent that people have gone to To to do damage to the the practical element of our theology in in in in their emphasis of these

You know of the understanding theology in general how far how deep we can go to understand God? Just how people have gone with that and and I think we've lost sight in some ways of some of them with some of the

Very basic and important things of the Christian life You know with you and I both and I think we would also we we love

Reform theology and that's not just because it's attractive to us. It's probably not attractive at all to the natural man

It's not but when you get to understand the truth of reform theology when we see when we examine the scriptures that these things are indeed true and Correct when we have a proper understanding of our own sin nature and of just the glory of God and his grace and his power

And being we love these truths We're jealous for them We're jealous that you know for the the

Calvinistic doctrines of our faith and and all that's associated with with the the Reformation all those wonderful teachings and principles

They light up, you know, they light up our souls we are jealous to see God and Christ glorified and at the center of all theology and that driving the ship is a passion for Christ and Wouldn't we don't want to be man -centered.

We want to be Christ centered So those things are really really just awesome and and I would never trade that for the world

My problem is not what the theology and sometimes unfortunately people tend to look at the at the way that we live as Reformers and they judge the theology as being the problem

But the reality is that even reform people who reform truths are sinners. We still struggle the problem not with theology

I believe it's without failure to put into practice What we what we preach and teach and I think when we get down to the practical theology of reform teaching

You know, I think that there's a danger there. We we fall short and you know, everybody has if you look at any

Denomination that's within the realm of true Christianity Everybody has their weakness, you know We're all sinners and we have our weaknesses and I think those who love

Doctrine and theology and who consider careful exposition of the scriptures as to be something that's to be held in high regard

Are also prone to particular sin patterns, you know, the company those good qualities, you know We're prone to to to like the

Church of Ephesus in Revelation chapter 1 that letter written to that church We're prone to losing our first love we're prone to losing sight of some of the practical elements of living these things out and Getting so caught up in the scholarly elements of of theology and the depths of you know

Very that kind of thing and that's kind of what drove me in this direction well, the first thing the observation that you start off with and then

I'm kind of glad that I didn't give out your home address and Introducing you because you may have reformed

Baptist carrying torches circling your house For this one, but you start off with an overemphasis on preaching now that's gonna really startle some folks and Get some hair standing back on the standing up in the back of their necks

Yeah, you know and even in writing that it's funny Chris it's it's one of those things where you you almost shake a little bit or feel a little uneasy saying that because Preaching as and I say it in there is the most important means of grace, right?

It it's we can't You know say enough about the importance of preaching especially in a broader culture

That really has very little respect for preaching. So from this the standpoint of broader Christianity We need to emphasize preaching more but from within the standpoint of our own

In our own closed doors as it were our own reformed doors I think we we have to take a step back and say well, wait a second

Your preaching is is the means of grace such a tremendous greens of means of grace the most important means of grace, but it's not the only means of grace and Preaching alone doesn't determine the the success of a ministry

You could be a great preacher and gifted in so many ways and generally those in the reformed faith you know, we tend to look up to those those kinds of people but you can be gifted with preaching and yet really have a

Poor ministry because of a failure to live out You know the very basics of what what

Christ calls for and loving others and you know Just serving those kinds of things that would be in more in the practical realm, you know coming out of that preaching now

I have heard some pastors that have been friends of mine for quite a while in the past I have had conversations with those that have such perhaps an unbalanced view of preaching that they

Bristle at the idea of even counseling people privately I have actually had some friends of mine in the ministry

When I've asked about that, do you do marital counseling? Do you provide counseling for this or that word of God is my counselor to my my congregation?

Yeah, I I just preach and that's where they get the information that they need as I preach the whole

Council of God and That's where they get the information that they need to live a godly life and to Address every problem that they may face in life.

So therefore we really don't do a lot of Emphasis on that. How do you react to that?

And indeed by the way, have you heard that as well? Or is that something that I've heard those kinds of things? Absolutely.

In fact, I was listening to a sermon one time several years ago From a dear brother who

I love who was a gifted man of God and and I wouldn't highlight his entire ministry in this way

I think he's very blessed and a good man of God But he had said there was just this to me and an over -emphasis again on the on the issue of preaching

And he was preaching to people who were all reformed Baptists It wasn't like it was a broader sermon to to all of evangelicalism and one of the things he said just really troubled me

He talked about how? You know how important the sermon preparation is which it is and doctoral studies again

We're not we're not denying how important those things are But he came to the point where and maybe it was just an element of overexcitement

But he's like, you know when I'm in my study, you know, and you know in church moments members come calling, you know

There's a do -not -disturb sign on my door, you know that kind of thing and I just felt like man, that's that's just You know that I don't

I don't that doesn't reek of the love of Christ, you know again You don't we don't if you're getting constant calls and people are coming and nagging about every little thing

Yeah, you have to be you know, you have to have a balance there Be careful that you give proper time to study but man

Christ didn't just preach to the people he did that was great But he was among them. He loved them.

He served them, you know, what happened to the foot washing principle? I don't mean that in a literal sense like let's start washing people's feet, you know

Well, if we were in a culture, we're wearing sandals and walking to dirt and so on and it's fine But but yet the whole principle there of serving one another he was speaking to his apostles

These are the preachers who started the church And what they were to do to each other and others and and he talks about you know

A servant is not greater than his master and John 17 you go to the end of the book of John What was the emphasis that Jesus gave it wasn't just on preaching?

In fact preaching wasn't even really there as much it was more on the love that they needed to have for another in this You know, so again, there's an abuse of that love concept outside of reform to reform, you know, the reform realm

You know, all you need is love the typical Beatles type thing Throw out your doctrine and you know

Who cares and just welcome everybody even with this in into the into the into the the church membership

But I'm not talking about that again. I'm talking about within the confines of reform theology You know

We need to open that door of love up a bit wider and get away from this idea of like let's have just a preaching

Elder he just gets up there preaches prepare sermons He's behind the curtains and then you have all kinds of other elders and others who do all the ministry to the body

No, that's just not the way it is in Scripture. You don't see the Apostle Paul doing that You don't see the

Lord Jesus Christ doing that the disciples doing that they they knew the sheep, you know They they sought to get to know them.

They were among them. They loved them. They served them. They counseled with them That's the kind of thing that that troubles me

It's this idea of like the alien preacher and the interesting thing Chris is when you when you have that kind of a heart a shepherd's heart

You know when you Minister not only in the preaching aspect of the ministry and you get to know them it opens up the people's ears wider to hear

The preaching because they know this man loves them. They know him in some sense again that you're not best friends

You can't take everybody in the church, you know to the movies or out to dinner every day that way I'm not talking about that, but I'm saying that they know this person

They know he cares when you're distant it tends to shut the ears of people, you know People are saying oh what this guy's saying all these things.

He doesn't even know why he doesn't even care So so I'm just saying it's not that idea of the over emphasis on preaching

I don't believe that there should be a you know This idea of a of a preaching elder who only preaches when

I look at the example of Christ and his Apostles You know, I think all the shepherds are big in some way to get to know the flock

Amen and I get when you were when you were speaking about that a

Part of your objection to the over over emphasis of preaching I just flashed in my head an image of Nicodemus Creeping through the night holding a lantern and then reaching a door and holding up The light to the door and there'll be a sign on the door saying do not disturb

One of the examples I given in the real quick in the pic in the Theatrical that I wrote I said, you know,

I could picture and and another brother had had pointed this out years ago, too I could picture the you know, the the parable of the the

Good Samaritan You know when you have the man who was robbed by thieves, right? The people that passed this man over right with a

Levite in the priest they would have been representative of the preacher in the sense of that time right in in the in the Old Covenant and And I could just picture that that priest or that's that Levite, you know coming through, you know

The works of John Owen as they just walked by and ignored that guy didn't go and band You know bandage up his wounds and put them on the donkey and you know

But of course the Samaritan was the one who did it and I just think that that aspect of the ministry is

It's important as well, you know without diminishing the preaching and obviously you do not believe that pastors should make themselves susceptible to burnout by Having some kind of an open -door policy where at any time congregants could

Contact them to address their problems because obviously not only would that Burn out a pastor very quickly, but it would also rob him of Rob his family of time

That he is commanded by the scriptures to have with his wife and his children and so on Yeah, there has to be wisdom that absolutely

Chris and that's part of the balance there is you can't just right you can go to The other extreme and it becomes you know more of you know, more of a philanthropist type thing

And you know, you're doing all kinds of good for all people, which is wonderful But now you're neglecting you are neglecting the study of the word even you know the ethical exposition of the word and that the the importance of preaching and doing

Preparing properly and and also your family like you said, yeah, I mean that and that often happens

You know and with ministers the gospel in general, that's a big struggle You know to properly love and care for your family and they tend to see your family tend to see you know

The quick ways in which you're ready to run out the door for others But when they have needs, you know They kind of shut out and and I think that's enough that's a whole nother radio program right there

Yeah, well, we're gonna go to observation to it when we come back from the break that is connecting all the dots

Will the theological dots and that's obviously something else that people are going to be listening to that title of a subheading and say

Don't tell me he has problems with that now. I'm really getting mad here Because we are we are obviously to seek for theological purity, but I guess this

Also can affect even in an area of sin The way we view others and become overly

Judgmental and and even Deny fellowship to those for whom

Christ died that are truly born -again Brethren but who disagree with us in certain levels but we'll talk about that more when we get back from the break and As I said earlier if you'd like to join us, our email address is

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This is Chris arms And if you just tuned us in our guest for the full two hours today is pastor Mark Grimaldi He is one of two pastors at grace reform

Baptist Church of Long Island in Merrick, New York He labors alongside

Doug Totter another one of my former pastors there at grace, which was my last congregation before moving here to Carlisle, Pennsylvania and Tell all those dear brothers brothers and sisters that I miss them very much over there.

Next time you You see some of them mark. Yes, sir, and We have been discussing and will continue to discuss reformers in need of reformation and We will also accept questions about Pastor Mark's new book that is in print on gossip the church killer and Any general question on reform theology or theology in general?

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Chris Arnzen at gmail .com before I move on to that second observation of connecting all the dots

I guess This question from Tyler in Mastic Beach, Long Island, New York can kind of dovetail with that Tyler asks, why is it that so many non

Calvinistic brothers in the Lord? Continue to reject the doctrines of grace.

I think that's obviously you could spend a year doing that every day that's same subject because But there's obviously different reasons that are specific to individuals but the doctrines of grace themselves don't they reveal that that we owe all of our enlightenment and all of our blessings to God even the discovery and our

Embrace of the doctrines of grace, isn't that even something that the Holy Spirit opens our eyes to?

Yeah, and I think Chris with that and again, I like you said this there are more than one There's probably more than you know several reasons to or several answers to this question that people can give and and certainly

God You know opens the eyes of some different ways and it doesn't mean that you know that they're not saved You know if there are many and so on But what

I would say to me one of the one of the big issues with it is Is I think that they that generally the issue of fairness in the mind of these individuals comes to mind that I know for me

When I first came to reform faith and came to embrace the doctrines of grace, you know in their fullness, especially dealing with election

You know, the big challenge was well, how can you know? How can God only you know, you go you simplify how can God only choose some and why is it that you know?

If somebody can't Come of their own free will to Christ doesn't it mean that that that's not fair and why give the gospel to them?

You know, is there really is the gospel even really freely given to these people or is it really just a hoax in a sense?

So when you when you start getting into some of that kind of logic, you can sympathize with what they're saying

But again, I think that when you study these things out from Scripture when you pray about these things and God opens up our understanding more about our own hearts and the nature of sin and And moves it out of just these simple kind of statements and into more of a broader understanding of what's what's going on here

What's at stake? You start to not only appreciate these doctrines but to actually love them because we know you know

You and I Christian who understand a little bit of the depths of our own sin in our own hearts We know that we would absolutely not even for a moment

Come to Christ and desire to go in his direction He didn't will us fully with his Holy Spirit, you know and generate us and so on So I don't think it's and I think most a lot of those people would say, you know

A lot of our minions would say that yeah, you know God, you know God gets all the glory In other words, they would see it as a straw man of saying that but we of course know from when you follow through with the logic

Of what they believe it really is in some way gives man some glory I mean, it's inevitable. They would not say that but I'm saying that you can't help but avoid that I think it comes down to that fairness issue

You know, it's a hard pill to swallow at first until you really wrestle through it and God gives you the grace

I remember praying as I went through this struggle years ago. I Lord, please if this is true, you know

And I was I was really struggling Lord if this is true make it my to make it comfort me You're true. There's supposed to be comforting, you know, this is not comforting me

Please, you know make it a pillow to my soul and and and in time he opened that up and and I was able to see

That it was true, but the goodness of that. Oh, yeah when I first came to Believe in the doctrines of grace, of course, you remember our dear brother who's now in glory

Nigel Stone. Yeah, I remember when our

Former pastor Mike Gaydosh was when I was a very new Christian and started to attend the

Bible study He was conducting He was bringing up these things about predestination and I was like getting panicky.

I was like what what do you believe and I really said to the elders when they were interviewing me for baptism.

I love you guys I really want this to be my church. I really feel like I am at home here

I really feel like I could trust you as shepherds and leaders I love the people but I don't know if I'm ever gonna become a

Calvinist This just is out Out of an outer space somewhere

I just I can't even imagine ever believing this Nigel Stone gave me a booklet George Whitfield's letter to John Wesley an election and George Whitfield had all the biblical answers to John Wesley's questions, which included my questions and even more that John Wesley had and And those biblical refutations just opened up my eyes the

Lord just used those Scripture verses to open my eyes to the truth, but initially

I hated it. I said this is true, but this is horrible Yeah, but then within probably within a month

I fell in love with those teaching But but wouldn't you say that before we move on to the observation you made as far as Tyler's question?

Wouldn't you say that there's another reason? Another Earthly reason why people reject these things is very often they are hearing about them from people who are misrepresenting them

They're not even yeah, they're not even reading those that champion these these teachings like the great reformers and people like the 19th century

Prince of Preachers Charles Spurgeon and many of the other biblically sound Orthodox heroes of the faith.

They're not reading the doctrines of grace from them They are reading about it from their enemies. Yeah, I think yeah, it's very clear that every time when

I've read You know that I can recall The arguments from from some of the Armenians who hold to the obviously positions against Calvinism You know, you read what they say and you're like this is not even close to what we really believe

This is they're presenting a hyper Calvinistic position and and even just you know to me

Even when you're trying to explain the doctrines of election to someone you can't just take the scriptures

And throw them like arrows and just you know Try to prove the point right up on that also explain the you know Right the the glory behind all that what's called the real condition of man

And you know, it's not if you just pull out the text and say look God chose that's it You know, it just doesn't it doesn't settle right and understandably so, you know but when you explain the reality of our condition the reality of our hardness and our heart and our lostness the fact that we would all become like Sodom and Gomorrah if it wasn't for The grace of God and you really chew on that and just show the love of God and his grace and all those things

It goes a long way So they present it in that way and again partly because sometimes you get the what they call right?

What is the stagecage Calvinists? You know throwing it like arrow, you know, they're like Poseidon in the water, you know throwing the

Harpoon or whatever the you know what people and it's just there's no, you know, you got to be gracious in general

Yeah, I Just for those of our listeners. We have no idea what that that little phrase was about cage stage

Calvinism is a joking way of labeling people that are new converts to Calvinism and Are so overly zealous with such little knowledge that they need to be put in a cage because they will just rip people's heads off verbally and you know just Get involved in self -righteous condemnation of others and and I but I can even remember seeing that happen in race reform

Baptist years ago with some certain members and so on where any mention of Making a decision for Christ or choosing

God anything like that, even though it's biblical language They would they would be furious and I was like, yeah, but he was quoting a scripture text.

What are you talking about? Not yet it's people again like and I think part of that comes from the influence of people like Harold camping where they distort the

Means that God uses to to bring about salvation They eliminate that because they overemphasize the doctrine right of election and they still be so when you say well

How do you give the gospel? Well, you know, but what can I do to be saved? Well, there's nothing you can do read your Bible pray, you know when the

Bible very clearly says repent, you know, believe, you know We ought to give the call and and so you do have people want the moment you at you

Command someone to do something in any sense. It becomes a works gospel to them And so they put a bad taste to to you know to the truth of election.

Yeah, I can remember Years ago I met a pastor who became

Presbyterian he was a Baptist. He was an Arminian Baptist who became Presbyterian and he was showing me his church building and above the

Baptismal tank that was in the church There was a

Scripture verse that Said Whosoever will

Let him come and He told me that he wanted to remove that from the wall and I said why and he said

Because it sounds Arminian to me Yeah, I know that's

Yes, we don't want to give the wrong impression and you and with the wrong impression you mean about what the

Word of God says I mean obviously people People Misinterpret that all's it means is anybody that wants to may come it doesn't mean that anybody is able to come

But anyway the the observation that you had was about Making sure that all the connecting all the dots the theological dots is a

Can be it can become a problem. Yeah. Yeah, I think Chris when you when you look throughout history

To some some of the greatest theologians, you know that we have would have great respect for You can see that because they they try to philosophize everything in Scripture even about things having to do with the character of God And I mean, you know the essence of God you wind up in some trouble with that You know, you had like Francis Tourette and for example was one of the most brilliant theologians

Right of the amongst the Puritans and and here's a guy who probably forgot more than I that I know, you know and and yet he didn't believe that that That she's that Mary had had any other children after Jesus because the womb was sanctified, you know

He just came up with this whole philosophy, but you know, and so again and I hadn't He's if you read anything this guy writes, it's just Stella.

Yeah, Francis Turreton was a great influence of Calvin wasn't God tremendous Yeah, yeah, yeah, and I and in every sense he would be to anyone, you know, who would read him

It's very well written, you know what and I think today I think this We tend to now again, let me let me let me preface what

I say with this doctrine is extremely important again I'm not talking about it within broader Evangelicalism amongst the whole of us

We need to emphasize more in a sense of the importance of doctrine because there's many people today who can give a hoot about doctrine

You know and they just throw it out the window and don't see that you can't live without doctrine In fact how you live is what you believe affects how you live.

So it's important Paul's letters to Timothy You know, I mean you read them It's full of just the whole idea of Timothy, you know, embrace sound doctrine teach them the truth and so on However, my my issue is and again we this has to do with the balance

I just think we need to widen the teeth on our theological combs a little bit. I think sometimes we narrow Certain doctrines so far down to try to dissect everything

Especially when you're dealing with issues that have to do with the essence and nature of God And then we divide over these things and one of the things that that was said

Even during some of the challenges we had faced last year in our associational split It was like look, you know the reformers and reform

Baptist We're a great minority already amongst the influence within the

Christian realm We're gonna now split over some of these, you know These these issues that have to do with the essence of God that are you know that that um, none of us

You know of comprehend even a fracture of these things We're talking about God's being his eternal being in essence

And and sometimes people feel they have to dissect everything of it and and connect every dot and let me just give you one example

And this is enough that this doesn't have to do with the split from last year but just one example, you know If you look at the the hypostatic union the to the union of the two natures of Christ We know right that Jesus is fully

God and fully man when he became man, right? He didn't get rid of his divinity and throw it out the window and and and lose that and at the same time

He didn't he wasn't so the emphasis is not so much on him Just being fully God that he loses his humanity and it becomes feel more of like a phantom spirit that overcomes the flesh

Whatever he was fully God and fully man Now we don't understand that but we can look at both dots

We can look at both truths and we can make great claims about them and benefit from them and live off those truths when we look at Scripture, but when you try to connect those two dots and Logicize everything about how that happens.

You can wind up into some serious heresy And that's what happened with you know, what the deceit is and the airiness and so on throughout the ages

So in other words much learning can make you mad We don't want to not study theology and I'm not even saying don't study deep theology, you know

Don't get into any of these things at all But I think we need to like pull it back a little bit take a breather

Respect one another even when we have some differences about these things, you know And then love one another and also don't lose sight of the big picture that people are going to hell right now as we speak

You know, you know, let's in other words There's a place to say let me come out of that study a little bit and concentrate on other things

But you find people on the internet on you know on Facebook and also like I said with what happened last year and and admit they're writing papers and they're writing books and they're doing interviews and it's going back and forth and and Years go by and people are debating about these kinds of things about the essence of God and I'm saying wait a second

You know, what? What are we doing here? You know, how much time do you got? You know on hand to serve the

Lord, you know We have all eternity to learn more and more about some of these things about God and therefore, you know

You know closer to the fullness of who he is, you know, yeah study them, but let's pull back a little bit here

Let's you know spend some more time in some of these other more important basic areas of Christianity like loving your brother

You know like reaching out for the lost like evangelizing and so on Amen, we do have a listener from all the way in Kinross Scotland.

Oh Murray he says candidates for the ministry are Generally assessed on their ability to preach when they finish their studies

They are then called again based on their preaching Do you think it is unfair to assume that every minister or pastor?

will automatically also have the gifts of an elder and Could it be time to reassess the way we view the ministry and he has a follow -up question, too

But I'll let you address that first So, I guess is there such a thing as somebody who might be a pastor whose

Sole role is to preach and not necessarily govern or shepherd I think that's what he's saying, but I don't know.

Maybe you can get a different Yeah, I might when I look at and again I realize this this this differences of opinion on this especially between Presbyterians and Baptists and so on with how church government works and so and so I want to be careful with that But what

I would say is this, you know, what am I understanding of the scripture elders? You know shepherds presbyters all those are used interchangeably.

They're all the same thing now There are it does speak about those who rule, you know Who are those who teach, you know worthy of double honor and so on so there, you know

Those are all more gifted in it. Let's say in the air of teaching So we're not we're not saying that every leader in the church has to be

Equal in their giftedness of teaching or leadership and part of what makes an eldership a blessing

You hope is that there's a there's a sense of complementary, you know complementing one each other and supplementing one each other one person may lack a little bit in this area and the other one fills that Gap and teaching may be one of those areas where somebody may not be as you know up to the same level

Let's say it's somebody else so that that's understandable, but I do believe still that every every elder

Needs to be someone who is who is who is who is shepherds the people who is involved in some way in the lives of the

People I don't think I don't think my opinion is not just someone a teaching elder All he does is preach and teach and does not know the people.

I don't think that's scriptural I think that it let that person be in a seminary if they want to do that Let them teach in the seminary but not in the pastor

Not being in the you know in an eldership of the church. I don't see that as what the scriptures would teach So I'm not sure if that's exactly what he's what he's asking there

But I do think that I do think that every elder should have the ability to teach in some sense I think in Timothy it says that they're able to teach you know

Maybe that maybe they're not as clear and you know of an orator from the pulpit so to speak But they can counsel wisely you know they have the wisdom of the scriptures in them

So there should be some ability to teach in some sense there Yeah, man a man might have an ability a great ability to teach, but he may be a horrible preacher

He may he may he may preach with a very cold academic Approach that is not really preaching and you know he might be he might be more lecturing than But when he's sitting down to actually teach somebody he's very good.

He might even be a Seminary professor who is a horrible preacher Yeah, yeah, you might. Yeah, you'll have elders.

Let's say especially if you have a big elder board There may be some who don't do a lot of preaching But they're still involved with with maybe with the counseling ministry or with some form of instruction in other words

The the element of being able to break down scripture should be there in them in some sense I think they have to have some ability to teach

You know again, but the other extreme is to say that you know that there are some who all they do is teach

I don't see that when I look at you know the scriptures at all all right Murray's follow -up question is with regard to the

Imbalance regarding preaching isn't it interesting to note? That that of the church at Jerusalem We learn in Acts 2 that they continued steadfastly in the

Apostles doctrine prayer fellowship and the breaking of bread So I guess what he's saying that that preaching isn't in that list

Yeah, well what he's talking about there in Acts. I believe it's just yeah the way that they They continued on in their fellowship one or another right in other words

I guess he is he referring to the over emphasis on preaching yes That's what he said with regard to the imbalance regarding preaching.

That's ways. Yeah, yeah Good. Yeah, good. That's a great point. Yeah, and again like we said before we're not Diminishing the importance of preaching but to make it the only thing and to to completely eclipse

The other aspects of ministry is where the problem is and I think yeah, I think he's got a good point there

Well, I forgot to mention Tyler if you give me your mailing address You are getting a free copy of the gospel of God.

I'm sorry gossip the church killer and also Murray in Kinross, Scotland I usually don't mail things overseas to our listeners who are in Canada or overseas

And I know I did break that rule once before with Murray But I'm going to since this is especially a lightweight book, you know, it's not gonna cost that much postage

I will break the rule here and I will send Murray also a

Copy of the book gossip the church killer by Mark Romaldi. So if you both could give me your mailing addresses, that would be great

We have David in Ada, Ohio. I Have a passion for studying the word.

I use a Bible study program word search others are logos and Accordance just to name three of many.

I also know the pastor who does not want to use such programs He feels using handheld books are better for him

But he is also pressed for time a lot. How do you feel about the time saved and quality of study from such programs?

Again I think to each his own, you know, I wouldn't Condemn someone either way some people who are more from a maybe a traditional older, you know generation

You know Just love the book to smell the book hold in the book and being able to turn the pages and some people with with the

Electronical devices, you know and using those programs like accordance, you know They they you can just put the word and get to hit the

Greek at a post in an instant other people like own from you know from one book to the other book and So just it really comes down to I think just the how people are comfortable and what they like to do

Some people don't want to jump into the learning these programs. It looks scary for some of the older generation

You know how to use logos how do you get around? But I do think those electronic programs are really good, you know, very helpful and I would commend them for using them

I know there's people who preach You know from from tablets and things like that and there's other people who

I've done that but I'm more I'm more preaching from Printed out pages now I use my notes, you know

So it's just I think that's more of an issue of comfort and you know People can kind of recommend it to each other, but I wouldn't take a strong stance either way on that But but more power to he's using some good programs there.

That's great Yeah, God indeed has a sense of humor because I can remember making fun of my parents for their inability to operate a

VCR and things like that and now I am instructed on My computer

My using the computer and other my cell phone even by you know Children aren't teaching me how to use my cell phone yeah, and my computer and so on and and you know, because I Just like my father.

He he could not catch up with the The state -of -the -art technology back then

I am also at a loss there So God does have a sense of humor. He's like chastising me for me mocking my own father

But Thank you. Oh and David give me your full mailing address and you are also getting compliments of pastor

Mark Romaldi a copy of his book gossip the church killer and We do have another listener

Seth in Randleman, North Carolina how would you respond to a fellow pastor who says a

Balanced Calvinist. Oh who says he's a balanced Calvinist Stating he believes salvation is both of God and man

Basically, he says he's a synergist with the above stipulations confusing

I know Well, obviously that would be not be any kind of a

Calvinist if he said men participated in his salvation but there is a difference between that and saying that God receives all the glory, but man is also totally accountable.

Those are those are different things, aren't they? Yeah. Yeah Yeah, I was just thinking of Chris as you were saying and I was saying well, that's that's an omnipotent

That's not really a balanced Calvinist. What do you describe? But but what I would say? Yeah, I mean as a Again, the danger is to confuse

Calvinism with hyper Calvinism we when we think of Calvinism I Think and this also comes to connecting the field the whole issue of connecting the theological dots too far

And I think that's what happens with some people who are in the hyper Calvinistic camp who go so far as to become like fatalistic

You know and you know, why do anything because God is just gonna do everything you want to know and so on You know, the scriptures clearly teach both things.

They very clearly teach that God is all sovereign. He's in control He ordains all things whatsoever come to pass right?

Nothing happens outside of his will And yet at the same time man is accountable when we send we send of our own desire our own will our own

Things that we enjoy Both things are completely true and We we have to be careful not to let one overshadow the other what

I mean by that is we don't want to look at God's sovereignty and say okay Well, since God is completely sovereign and does whatever he wants and it doesn't matter what

I do I'm like a robot then who cares, you know, why even do anything? Let me just kind of you know, just go along with whatever he does through me.

That's that's a danger The other extreme is to see it, you know things so much so that that up in the place where where we think we have to You know, we're so responsible for everything that's so accountable that we we take, you know we take unnecessary risks or we we jump the gun or we do things in the arm of the flesh and don't rest in the

Sovereignty of God and we're not you know We're not having a sense of peace and comfort and knowing that he is in control of all things and we worry or become anxious

You know, we take things into our own hands. So both of those are extreme So there is a balanced position the sense of understanding that God is both sovereign and I am fully accountable

You know, both of those things go together, but I wouldn't say that man has any part in his salvation You know, we believe in monogysm, right?

It's of course is those who are of the reformed faith You know It is salvation is completely of God and even the good that we do

The good works that we do right or all are all ordained by God beforehand that we should do them. It says in Ephesians One thing that I like to say to you know to maybe clear it up a little bit to I say look anything good that We do anything that advances the kingdom in any sense is of God.

It's it's his glory. It's through the spirit It's nothing that we can take credit for anything bad that we do is of us.

It belongs to us. We've done We're we're responsible for yeah And as others have said before us the only thing that we contribute to our salvation is our sin which we lie at the feet of Jesus and beg him to forgive us for it and cleanse us from it and And I would ask this

Seth I would ask this pastor who says that both God and men

Are responsible for his salvation or for the salvation in general as I would say to him

So what percentage of the glory does God get for our salvation? I would just ask him that question

Yeah, well, he gets all of it. Well, what do you mean by that? You just said that it's both God and men, you know,

I mean these people are very rarely Consistent when they reject the doctrines of grace.

Yeah They were not we're not saying that right. We're not saying that we're not responsible to respond to the gospel

We're not saying that when we preach the gospel that people are not responsible to respond They're responsible to respond and they guilty if they reject the gospel

But what we are saying that is that if they do respond Right if they do that, that's nothing less than than a miraculous work of God right and changing the heart leading them to respond

Right, even our faith is a gift Yeah, exactly and even our longing to come to to Christ even our repentance, so it's all a gift if we are truly of the elect and if we are truly a

Regenerate this is all comes from from God and it's amazing how men even

In many respects very godly men who reject the doctrines of grace. It's amazing how angry people get

When you try to take away every ounce of credit from man and give all glory to God They just some people just hate it.

They just they just can't stand that and that's that's that is a mystery Why have why who's somebody who's born again would react that way that's what

I mean is a mystery It's not a mystery when men who are Unregenerate do that But we have to go to a break right now and we're gonna be back with Pastor Mark Romaldi after these messages

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Chris Arnzen at gmail .com, please. Please give us your first name city and state and country of residence and Murray again from Kinross Scotland offered this wonderful quote when it comes to The those who

Major on the minors regarding doctrine. He says I don't know if you think this is relevant but with regard to those who major on doctrine to the point of judgmentalism and The love we should show in return

William McDonald quotes this in his Bible commentary They drew a circle that shut me out heretic rebel a thing to flout

But love and I had the wit to win. We drew a circle that took them in Praise God, well, thank you.

I think that would sound much better brother Chris if you did that with a Scottish accent, though Yeah, but Murray Murray would very quickly recognize that it was

Flawed so I don't want to embarrass myself. Well, let me let me try They drew a circle that shut me out heretic rebel a thing to flout

But love and I had the wit to win. We drew a circle that took them in And And right now you could actually hear from all the way in Ken Ross Scotland somebody laughing named

Murray because he thinks that was a horrible impression of his his fellow neighbors there in Ken Ross, but Yeah, it is

This every jot and every tittle and having all the

I's dotted and T's crossed it It becomes especially sad when those who have so much in common

Have become bitter enemies at times and I Know, you know,

I know division that has occurred even amongst close formerly close brethren over the day on which the

Lord's Supper is celebrated, I mean It can be Absolutely reach a point of lunacy when when this occurs

How could you really believe in the importance of being an imitator of the

Bereans that the Apostle Paul commended if you immediately if you like very Immediately want everybody to fall into complete line with you and lockstep with you

Yeah, it's you know, if you if you take any two individuals in Any context within the church, you know, they let's say they identify with You know with with all the doctrines and the confession and everything else

You know you if you ask enough questions, you're going to find some kind of a difference somewhere

And that's why I say when you're dealing with Especially when you're dealing with issues that we don't even comprehend

And and we and you're trying to logicize those things about like God's essence

You know that there was a recent debate and again I'm not saying there's no healthy place to even wrestle through things to a degree

But I'm talking about how far we go and and where we create division How far we go with giving up our time to these kinds of things?

There's been a recent debate even over the issue of whether or not The Son of God was eternally submissive to the

Father for example And there's been a going back and forth and writings and and again I'm not saying there's no place for that But it's just the time that goes into an energy into these kinds of things and I'm saying

How long do we have to live here on this earth? You know that we're going to create now and it gets heated sometimes and it becomes an issue of division and and then they start

Bringing up the slippery slope idea that oh, well if you believe that it could lead to here Which is a poor means of you know of use of try to claim that it's a fallacy

It's just you know, we got to pull back and say hey, let's let's open up the comb, you know a little bit

Let's leave some room here for you know to to have fellowship so that we can reach the world even you know for the gospel and of course every non -calvinist

Hurls that remark at us about well, do you know what that will lead to? I mean and when you think about it in pure terms of human logic

If you believe that God receives a hundred percent of the glory for our salvation

According to the human logic and not taking into consideration the full counsel of God I could very easily understand why somebody say well, you're not even gonna evangelize anybody that yeah

Yeah, I mean if you look at any doctrine, right, that's true Even virtually every doctrine can be a slippery slope into some kind of heresy if you're not if you don't you know

Reign it in based upon what the scriptures teach and we believe that God is three in one Well, if you're not careful, you could become a tritheist and so and worship three gods or you could become one who believes in Modalism, you know

So those are all a slippery slope can happen in any sense and and I'm not saying don't ever use that You know as an argument, but but by and large we you know

We need to be careful with with with using that as a means of discrediting someone. Yeah, I think that Even our reform

Baptist brethren have a tendency to wait too long to baptize people

Because they want to make sure they really understand All of the teachings that that specific church wants the person to confess before they are baptized

And yet when we see in the scriptures when people were baptized they were instantaneously baptized

Yeah on the profession of their faith, you know I mean, we're gonna reach a point where we're like well now that brother bill has reached 75 years old

He's really proven himself to be a Christian. So therefore we are going to immerse him

Oh, wait, he can't be immersed because he's gonna catch pneumonia. Never mind. We can't do it He finally embraced

Understands the you know, the confession of faith and all of its facets, you know, I mean, it's like, you know

I how far you gonna squeeze someone through the ringer, you know, I mean, I think there's a place to say look, you know

Do they believe the gospel do they believe in the in the reality of the deity of Christ or the essentials do they believe and Understand those things.

Yes. Okay. Well, let's go with that You know that you can't force someone into the mold and have them You don't want them to make a profession and in about doctrines that they don't even under can't even understand yet They're still babes, right?

In fact that we are now we unconsciously drifted into the third observation too quick to condemn

We've already been bringing up some of that, but if you have anything to add Yeah, I would just say in a summary sense

I would just say that you know, and this again comes back to what we see, you know written out there

It's a lot easier for people to write and I think James White talked to white point this out And he was right on the money with this and our day and age, you know, you can respond to something immediately

You know whereas in the past you just didn't have this kind of ability to communicate through the Internet and all that and it's just things go back and forth and back and forth and and it's just people just want to pick apart anything and Everything about anyone, you know,

I'm not, you know, so this guy's got issues here and oh wait He said this, you know, and it's we become like a soundbite

Culture not only in in in the culture in general, but even within the within the faith, you know where we start to look at every little thing someone says and and now we got to address that and they're wrong about that and And again,

I think there's a healthy place to correct someone to correct each other, you know, that's okay to discuss things and say hey

Well, what does this mean here? But let's again loosen the reins a little bit here, especially when we're dealing with brethren, you know in the

Lord Let's not you don't have to have all the ducks lined up in a row before we can have you know Just work together and and you know provide ministry, you know together and get joint hands in some sense

Where is the line of unity? You know, you have like people who want to unite you right who don't care like the ecumenical right movement

They want to you know, we're right with Roman Catholics and you know, we know that's dangerous because the Gospels compromise But where we draw the line and where you don't unite, you know

Well, how much truth how much of every single iota of which you know What we believe to be true that everybody have to embrace before we can say hey, we can associate with you.

You know, it's right Yeah, well because we're sin Sinful people we're never going to get these completely balanced

Correctly because if we did we'd be perfect and that would mean we're already in heaven. We've already died.

We're in glory But it is not easy like for instance and I think

I could speak publicly about this without any fear of of you know doing wrong here, but somebody that we

All or shouldn't say all that many of us if not most of us who are reformed admire is

John Piper and I believe that John Piper has aired in the being too loose area where you know, he is

Had Rick Warren speak at his conference and he has brought his conference to Rick Warren's church and Rick Warren yeah is in a dangerous level of of I think heretical understanding.

I mean if not actual heresy the Condoning of it.

I mean he actually calls Pope Francis his

Pope. Yeah, I mean that that makes no sense at all Yeah, no,

I agree with you 100 % it would there was a in fact I put an article up on Facebook There was it contained two parts to it and it was there were two questions that were asked to John Piper when he was in in Italy and the second question had to do with his association with with Rick Warren and so on and and When I put that up some a dear brother put some comments on and from some about Rick Warren just exposing

The extent of of Rick Warren's, you know laps into some real dangerous teachings and so on So there's no question that the line is drawn to the

Gospels compromise But the first part of that article that that I was really trying to get out in that In that putting it up on Facebook What that I found interesting and again, this was just recently was was was

Piper was talking about the role of Pentecostalism in the world today and and this this is very relevant for all of what we're getting into here with with the issues of Reformers need of Reformation.

He says here just just let me read this little this little section real quick He says here first of all, he gives his definition of Pentecostalism He says people who are believing in the power of the

Holy Spirit believing that the Holy Spirit does miracles today Believing that the gifts of the Holy Spirit described in 1st

Corinthians 12 are still active today So and then he goes on to caution about you know, the whole idea of the prosperity gospel

So he's separating when he talks about Pentecostal and he set the Pentecostal is me separating away from those

Who would believe in the prosperity thing, you know the word of faith and all that But this is what struck me the most about this article

He says here that that kind of people are the cutting edge of the growth of Christianity around the world in in the title of the argument of the article

He's basically she's showing that that by and large the people who are reaching out with the gospel most are

Pentecostals, you know and and you know He obviously Piper has has a bit a little bit of Pentecostalism in in his own, you know repertoire his own

Package there himself, but uh, but I just found that interesting because I'm saying that what I'm saying with all along I'm saying we as reformers, you know

We what we have the greatest doctrine in the entire world that exalts the glory of God in Jesus Christ Well, why aren't we the ones who are reaching the most, you know, why aren't we out there, you know?

and I think part of the problem is we're so caught up on on just the

Minutiae of Debating every little thing and focusing on all kinds of things that really in the long run don't really matter

We need a little more get the gospel out, you know, you know, there's the extreme again Well, who cares about doctrine just preach the gospel away.

That's wrong. But we need to say hey, we care about the gospel, you know Let's go back a little bit from from getting back and forth on all these little minutiae of doctrine, you know

So I found that article very interesting when I read that I was I was it's exactly what I've been saying God is using more

Arminians and Pentecostals to reach the world than reformers because reformers are too busy debating about whether or not

God has emotions and I mean, come on, you know, and This is like I said, it's an issue that we're never gonna strike the right balance some some of us

God will use to Come closer to a right balance, but unfortunately, I guess well since we all have

Sinful proclivities towards the left or the right. It's one of those things that That unfortunately, well, and I'm not trying to be fatalistic here.

I'm asking we shouldn't I mean we should strive to To correct these things.

That's why we're doing a program like this. Yeah, but I'm just saying that Obviously It's going to be difficult to be perfect in our striking the right balance and I think like you said, yeah we

Nobody in right in any sense is going to be perfect and even as we try to To go back to come come the other way we can easily fall off the other side of the slope, right?

That's our tendency But I think like you said, I mean it's the clarion call is here You know, the the alarm clock is going off if nothing else to wake us up and say look guys

Let's reevaluate what we're doing with our time Let's reevaluate how many hours we're going to spend in Forums on Facebook going back and forth about every little detail of doctrine even baptism and all these things, you know

Yes, we could do these things to some extent But how much time are we given in over to these things?

Are we dividing over these things? Are we you know, are we losing that unity with other good brethren over, you know?

My new should details about the essence of God and things like that, you know that things that are beyond our understanding

I think that's what it is more of just like a wake -up call to say hey Let's let's pull back something here.

Let's let's work in the right direction a little more, you know, and we have a

Yes, just a word of encouragement here from an old friend of both of ours Kurt bracket

Oh Kurt, a Newman Georgia says just an agreement with brother Murray from Scotland and pastor mark first Timothy 3 2 is stating qualifications about an overseer and deacon above reproach the husband of one wife temperate self -controlled respectable hospitable able to teach

I would say teaching could be in the pulpit and also classroom or Bible studies

God's Word does not say how good compared to others I'm not really sure what that last part means

Maybe you do but he says love the broadcast and my brothers in the Lord's voices All the way brothers

Curt and Ginny from Newman, Georgia Now I guess what he is he saying about talent of preaching here, do you think yeah

I think he's saying that kind of reiterating what we were saying before that the the idea is that the ability to teach needs to Be there, but it doesn't necessarily mean that somebody can be you know has to be the you know

Preaching from behind the pulpit they could be able to teach in a more private setting or a Bible study In other words, they can teach the

Word of God, but it doesn't mean that their oration skills are going to be have to be Identical to all preachers, you know and preachers and so on which we were saying before so I agree with that and Certainly love brother

Curt and Ginny Yes, and give us your Your new address down there in Newman, Georgia, and we'll make sure you get a copy of Pastor Mark's book

We have Now this is something I don't know if you already know Pastor Mac Tomlinson of Providence Baptist Church in Denton, Texas, but if you don't you should get to know him

He's a Reformed Baptist pastor And he is right on the same page with you and criticizing

Reformed folks for being unwilling to learn from non Reformers, in fact, he wrote a very large

Biography Pastor Mac Tomlinson a very large biography recently of Leonard Ravenhill and Leonard Ravenhill is one of his heroes of the faith and Leonard Ravenhill was not a

Calvinist. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah You know a W Tozer, right? Right people like that or just tremendous or even some you you have people we read

Who were we would what we would say a four -point Calvinist, right? They may have a universal view of the Atonement.

I see Ryle Yeah, absolutely and some of the some some among the Reformers appearance even you have some use of language in there at least that makes you think that way

Not all I mean not by and large but but a couple you have in there and I can Richard I would say yeah Yeah, Richard Baxter.

I mean in fact bringing up Richard Baxter, you know I know he has some there are other doctrinal issues with Richard Baxter, but I see that amongst

Some reformers today. They they write off Richard Baxter altogether because he does have some doctrinal issues there

But boy, he wrote some things there in the reform pastor that I think we need to look at as pastors

And I know that people say oh well He was a single man and that's true and it was a different type of a lifestyle and you maybe can't do all that But boy, there are some real good principles there about that that would align, you know

Line up right with what we're saying here And I almost see some people just write him off altogether as like he has no

Nothing really to say a benefit because he has some other issues of doctrine that that are in question And I think we tend to do that, you know, we throw them out the baby out with the bathwater

Well, I I haven't heard a lot of criticism for Baxter over his Arminian leanings

Which not Arminian ism not Arminian ism other issues that that I don't remember the ball

But I know there were some some more serious issues that are that are there yeah, one of the things that would always puzzled me actually about how reform people

Seem to be so willing to forgive Baxter for his non reform views because he's dead and lived a long time ago

Whereas today for some reason when somebody's alive People are much more

Unforgiving it seems and unwilling to publicly identify with any of their writings like, you know,

I mean Like for instance, why is it that? You know we can have

Calvin is such an enormous hero that we uphold and Yet, there are some things he believed that are believed by Brethren in Christ today

And I'm not even talking about infant baptism because most reformed Baptists do not Divide over that other than church membership but there are other things that Calvin believed that if If a fellow brother in Christ were to hold on to them today, they'd be vilified

Do you see something in there that? death seems to cover a multitude of sins

Sometimes, you know, there are people though who will go back and Just you know who feel the need and I'm again

I'm not I don't want to throw it out the window and say there's never a place for that I don't want to be careful But but just feel the need to like write about the default of these men

You know, the reality is anyone and everyone who is who is written who is you know, who is red?

It's gonna have faults and and part of the reason for that is that God is reminding us that yeah

These men are still men, you know that that he did they're not to get the glory, you know If they did everything right we would worship these men and we still have trouble, you know with worshiping them

So I think you know when you look at all these either these people were passed on or even some of the prominent people like You know the

Sproul's and the Piper's and the washes and the golfers and people like that today, you know, these men

You know, they're not perfect. They everybody has their issues You know We tend to have to like nitpick and I don't know if I don't want to say it's a pride issue because I'm sure people

Are sincere as well and they're doing that but it's like again the time what what how much time do we have to do this?

Let's focus on you know, the main thing here Let's let's let's concentrate on unifying and getting the gospel out and not creating it

Additional division when we know that none of us meet the standard 100 % Again is there a place to debate over different issues?

Definitely I don't want to say there's no place to mention or to to talk point out different faults and things like that fine

But just the extent of how far we go with that. I think we need to put in check We but you know something that just occurred to me what our discussion so far has proved irrefutably

It is that you have overcome OCD And By the way, mr.

Mark has written a book on that so I'm not bringing out something from his closet or something that but it but I said that as a joke, but it's also true because Reform theology would seem to be an enormous magnet to people with OCD Yeah, yeah.

No, he's certainly in any we know CD can take in any direction, you know of just getting too far

And I still struggle in general, but uh, yeah, but I guess it's just been like I said it's just more of an understanding of you know of As you grow, you know more of an understanding of our own hearts of the gospel of Christ and even learning to benefit

From others as that brother said that the last brother there who wrote the book You know that you learned, you know, it did there's something about and I've seen this in myself too often to not rebuke it

You know when you when you go to a commentary or you see a book and you see that who it's written by and When you realize that that person is

Arminian, you know Immediately, there's like something inside of you as a you know, when you're reformed that almost doesn't trust the guy, you know

And I think there's a problem with that, you know I meet these guys have a lot to offer in in various areas, you know

No, maybe we're not going to go to them, you know concerning the issues of election But man, I've seen some of the as I say in the article some of the most godly people that I've ever seen

Or learned from in my life or you read about what people who never who died as Arminian, you know, and yes

But it's not the Calvinist now You know, we need to we need to be able to open up that a little bit more and say hey, you know

You know, let let me wear the type of glasses that leads me to search for wisdom in all of God's people

Again, we're not talking about word of faith proponents or people who are who compromise the gospel will have real severe

Doctrinal issues. They don't believe in the Trinity those kinds of things So I'm not talking about that but people within the realm of evangelicalism who who do believe the gospel

But yet have different kinds of beliefs whether it's Arminianism or even some charismatic influence in there, whatever it might be

These guys, you know They have things to offer us and we would do good and well to humble ourselves in the reformed faith to sit

In some ways at the feet of these people to learn some things from them If not doctrinally, at least in some of the practical theology that they have

I've seen some of the Arminians who honor the Lord's Day in ways that Make reform people, you know look like, you know clowns, you know, it's it's a shame just an image

Ran through my head when you were talking about all these Arminians who since they I've passed them to glory

They're all Calvinist now Just pictured this image of John Calvin standing up there in glory and and this this former

Arminian running towards him and saying Brother Calvin, I've got to apologize to you because wait in line pal.

And then you see this line of hundreds of thousands of millions of people but Well, you know

Chris to the typical, you know the joke you've heard a million times over I'm sure where you have that, you know The the

Calvinist guy or the person dies so -and -so dies and they go to heaven and st. Peter's at the gate And he's walking him through the the different large rooms and of glory and as he as they as they're talking and communicating he tells the guy

Hey, be quiet and the guy goes why he goes. Yeah in that room is all the Calvinist. They think they're the only ones here

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They are possible in addition to Lindbrook Baptist Church on Long Island But Going back to our discussion on the reformers in need of reforming we have observation number five a weak emphasis on evangelism now, this is interesting because Obviously one of the largest criticisms we get from non

Calvinists is That they will say we don't even believe in evangelism, which is a lie

And of course you may have reformed people Who are either?

Theologically hyper Calvinist to embrace that they would be a tiny tiny minority or you have those who?

Sinfully neglect that area of the Christian life And of course

You can have lazy Armenians Don't evangelize either or people who are more concerned

Over the feelings of men and they're never dying souls or even an

Arminian can be more concerned Over making friends than seeing people delivered from sin and damnation but having said that are you acquiescing and actually agreeing with our

Theological opponents that Calvinists are weak on the emphasis of evangelism. No, what

I would say is that historically Calvinists have been some of the most evangelistic people in the entire world

I mean they've been on much if you look historically at the Puritans the reformers following in generations following that Beyond the shadow of any doubt missionaries who were sent were thoroughly

Calvinistic many of some of the most, you know World known missionaries William Carey, you know, I'm Judson and so on and so historically

Those who have properly, you know gone with their doctrine have done very well in that what

I mean though is today And that this could also be is also partly in an American issue as well

As you said, they're all lazy Armenians and so on but I think today again I think we're just it tends to be

An over emphasis on other aspects of the ministry to the point where I think that we just don't we don't have the time to Do it or we you know, we we just we neglect to do it

There's an art. You've heard of the Babylon be Chris. I'm sure on yes on Facebook. What what a It's a satire

Off they write satire articles and so on and they're very very witty and Some of them just I just read the titles of those and I'm laughing hysterically

I've met many of them But there's one that they wrote and what makes this in case you're not familiar with the

Babylon be those who are listening What makes this? These these writers so brilliant and and comical one senses that The truths that are implicated by these by what they write even though they're writing satire

The truths that they implicate by them are really profound and just so well -written and one of the things though They wrote at one point and again

I don't know the theological background of the writers of the Babylon be but what they said local Calvinist elaborate theology of evangelism entirely theoretical

And when you read the little the little inside article there It's it says a local Calvinist Brian Harrison holds to an intricate well -developed theology of evangelism that exists entirely in the theoretical realm

Then he puts a quote God is holy sovereign He's quoting that as if this is what the guy saying

God is holy sovereign in salvation But he uses the means of the gospel proclamation to accomplish that end

We can't just sit around on the couch and hope people get saved Explain Brian thoughtfully as he took a seat on his sofa for his daily for our

Xbox session God brings his elect in in through the sacrificial efforts of people like you and me

People totally misunderstand Calvinism as if the Salvation of Sinners happens in a vacuum with no

God -ordained means used in bringing them to Christ said the reformed man Whose source is confirmed has not witnessed to a single person in the past five years

It really it's funny and it's comical but the reality that I realize that this is in some ways

It is some more topic here. We're talking about being busy with video games and things like that But I think that the truth is that it's again

It's not the theology it brings a bad name to the to the theology it gives people who speak against the theology a

You know a ground to stand on in their own mind to to to try to tear down our theology and say that's what it creates

But it's not the theology. It's it's us and in general, you know, we're we're just So we can explain we can write books on evangelism and get into proper

Exegesis of text and say so many wonderful things But when it comes down to the practical aspect of this and I'm not saying all the old

Calvinist There are many Calvinists who are out there pounding the pavement Let me just say that many some of which you've interviewed people like Tony Maiano Chris and people like that and there are many beyond that as well

So let me be careful with that, but I'm just saying in general if you look at the atmosphere in general We're just so caught up on these other things and writing

You know books about every about minutiae and debating and emphasizing these other areas that I think that you know getting into the depths of theology that we're losing sight of that just the simplicity of reaching people for Christ Just loving sinners, you know,

I remember one time a dear brother came to my house many years ago And he it's you know, he had

I was pretty excited about about Election like you said Chris we're talking about that stagecase perhaps in some sense and and I remember saying yeah, you know

It's just such an exciting thing that God gets all the glory and that's what matters most And it's and it's more important even than the souls that are you know, whether they're condemned or not

And of course, that's true and that you know in a real sense But he looked at me and this brother said of a well -seasoned man.

He said yeah, brother, you know, yeah, you're right But he said don't ever lose, you know, don't ever lose sight of the need to love sinners to love

Souls, don't let that become something that's completely eclipsed to the point that you don't see the value of these precious souls and that really spoke to me and I think sometimes we were almost afraid of becoming

Arminian if we if we're Motivated in any sense by just a love for people as well, you know

It's a love for the glory of God. It's first and foremost, but also a love for people a love for the lost

You know a concern that people are dying in their sins I know my appeal there on that last observation is just to say hey, you know, let's do the work of an evangelist, too

You know, there's an eternity to learn more about the deep things of God make room for the spreading of the gospel Don't don't outgrow that And bring all of our doctrine into that, you know get the gospel out there.

Let's preach. Let's evangelize. Let's do that work amen and Since you brought up Tony Miano, let me just quickly plug since his book only came into print within the last few days

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So keep listening for updates we always love having Tony on the program and We do have another listener in Indianapolis, Indiana Aaron Who says what practical advice would pastor

Grimaldi offer to combat strong reformed folks in? Need of reformation.

I belonged to a Facebook group of gals Who held a near witch hunt of any dissenters?

I merely bowed out but wish I could have made a difference by encouraging mercy

Yeah, yeah, that's a good question I've seen those kinds of things as well just to say that to this woman

Aaron I've witnessed that those kinds of things In fact, there were probably times that I've been part of that in my pet

You know in my past experience as well when you get passionate about things I would just say that you know sometimes it up in a in a setting where there's many people writing it's hard to to try to get any kind of a point

Across because then you'll you'll become the next target But if there's any way to say something, I would really encourage people to rethink

You know their own, you know their own salvation that the reality of their own hearts their own sin their own

Shortcomings just the fact that we all fall short, you know all of us In none of us has the perfect doctrine.

None of us has it has the perfect Sanctification we're all in this process together and and that we need to be loving and gracious I would encourage the people to listen to to read books by people like Paul trip

You know try to get a sense of the the the the glory of grace Just the importance of recognizing the balance that we need to have right upon Yes, we need to you know to focus on the issue of the law.

We want to be sanctified We want to hold doctrine pure But at the same time that we know we we don't want to forget

The all -important of grace that that we are continually surrounded by a sphere of grace

And we all need that and with the moment we step out of that and put on our own self righteous You know garbs and throw barbs at each other, you know

In essence, we're saying that that we're justified by our own righteousness, you know, we're we're forgetting where we stand

Yeah So I think people need to see that in some of these groups like hey, you know Take a step back and look where you came from and look where you are, you know by God's grace

And let's speak with a more of a gracious tone And in our dressing one another. Yeah, and in fact, it is amazing that that of all of all people that Calvinists and theologically reformed

Christians would ever demonstrate pride arrogance and haughtiness and Thinking about themselves more highly than they ought when the very doctrines we believe

Are meant to exalt God? to his right place of honor above all things infinitely higher than all things and to just humble us to dust

To recognize that we owe him for every blessing that we have and it seems that that because we're sinners we can immediately bypass that in our practical living and Begin to think that we are a part of an exclusive Club We actually even if we don't believe this on paper

But we actually reject Unconditional election and somehow develop a notion unconsciously that we were elected because we're smarter

Yeah, and other people or something. I mean, it's just let's not forget folks. It is

Unconditional election for a reason that there was nothing Lovely in us that caused

God to love us and I think that the most Contemporary expression of the

Loveless graceless Calvinists are the God hates fags folks the guys at Westboro Baptist Church They are hate to say it

Calvinists They even say and on their website that they adhere to the 1689

London Baptist Confession of Faith and they even although it's not a part of the rhetoric you hear in the media one of their banners is

God hates Arminians and That God hates all kinds of people. God hates the

United States military God hates I mean almost everything that you could think of and this to me is

Calvinism apart from Regeneration because I don't think that I don't think these people are regenerate

No, I agree Chris that they're way off the deep end and sadly they they become a an identification mark for for a

Calvinist Or even for Christians by some look at what you guys do and so on But I think I think that the problem is

Christian and and this is something that you know We all have to look at this as a tendency for all of us and I can speak for myself

You know the greater we prize doctrine the greater we prize these wonderful truths, which we should

We also have us in nature still and the tendency is To to become proud, you know the more we study and that doesn't mean don't study but it does mean to be aware that as we grow and as we learn that pride is very much at the door with us at all times and We lose sight of that and and I think when you look at the

Apostle Paul Right here was the man who we get most about theology from you know The Calvinism comes from Paul in a lot of ways, you know, not denying that the the rest of Scripture but all you know in his exposition really opens that up for us and Ephesians and Romans and so on and And yet when you see that, of course the visions that he received he was in the third heavens and he had such great privileges

And the Lord gave him, you know a pretty weighty bond You know a messenger of Satan came in and afflicted

Paul in some severe way in some way that it was enough that it was throbbing and continual and he couldn't get away from it and Paul prayed to have it removed three times and the

Lord said my grace is sufficient You know and and basically that my you know my strength is made perfect and in weakness and on and that it was used to humble

Paul because of his experiences and and and that's our tendency with the more we learn the more we grow in understanding of the truths of God the more prone we are to pride and We need to be aware of that and the

Lord in his grace will afflict us I know my own walk I can say there's been many times that the Lord has humbled me has put me down on my my

Reminded me that a guess what, you know, you can't even keep your mind together the whole OCD thing You don't even have to think correctly apart from my grace

So, you know keep it on, you know Remember where you came from look look at other people with that that the kind of grace that I'm showing you

And again, not that I perfected it, but that's kept me at a place where it's you know You learn humility in some ways and so The point when you know when you when you when you're no longer humble is when you think that you're humble, you know

So, yes, I think Chris rate what you're saying what that woman is saying, you know,

I think it's right on the mark We need to be on guard that as we study things deeper and should grow in the grace and knowledge of Christ To be aware that our friend our sinful friend pride is is always right there with us

And we need to be on God and watch out for that. Amen and The fact that there are brothers in Christ brothers and sisters in Christ Who they may be in error on some theological issues and even perhaps some serious ones

But I think that we need the humility to learn from their lives

Because they may put us to shame in certain things that they do that We are totally neglecting like I've said this before on this program

And I do not mean to broad brush because there are exceptions. So please if you're reformed and you have a ministry like this

Do not be upset with me or not. In fact, I know of a a Reformed church in the heart of New York City that has a lot of Outreach to the community

Who are you know amongst those that would be considered by many Christians the untouchables they have outreaches where many homosexuals and other people come for The food that they have available and so on but of course they are not like the liberals that just give out food

They've evangelized these people But but it seems that the majority of people that I have met or heard about that do that kind of a ministry where they roll up their sleeves and get down to the

The the darkest parts of the urban areas or anywhere else geographically where Prostitutes drug addicts homosexuals and all that type that all that ilk of humanity gravitate

Where they are going out there with the tracks and evangelizing that they seem to be for the most part Pentecostal.

Yeah, and There there is exception like the manner reformed church that I just mentioned in New York City and there are others

I'm sure there are sure there are many others that I don't know about but when it comes to The first thing that pops in your head

When you hear about a ministry like that sadly sadly for us who are reformed it's not typically oh there they must be

Calvinists Yeah, and that was the point I was making with the Piper article before you know, that's that's a reality

You know, there are people out there who don't have Share that the wonderful, you know

Treasure of doctrine that we have in the extent of our understanding of the doctrines of grace and election

You know who who even believe in certain things regarding the miraculous gifts that we would not hold to and And yet, you know who are taking risks

That people in our camp should be taking, you know, well, you know, it's it's it's every

I mean It's not sad that they're doing that but it's sad that we're not Recognizing that when you when you think of what we have and what we hold to And like you said there are definitely

Calvinists and reformed churches who are very faithful in these ways that have to be clear Very faithful. So it's not a broad brush, right?

But in in the general atmosphere of You know those amongst the reformed faith you you just especially in America, let's let's even put the bars there

I don't want to speak about those in China. So those people are out there, but but in general, it's it's just um

It's not a lot of emphasis on on that kind of living on the practical aspect of living out our theology

And in fact, I want to give their website the manner church info That's a church in New York City that's theologically reformed and yet has a lot of activity going on for those in the cities like the prostitutes and the drug addicts and the

Transvestites and the homosexuals and they feed these people on a regular on a daily basis

I believe and they also feed them with the Word of God. So Manor church info.

I also want to very quickly Since we had a listener in India Indianapolis, Indiana I wanted to just quickly plug the conference that my dear friend pastor

Josh Fryman of Community Baptist Church of Riverhead is speaking at he is going to be at the Pittsburgh Baptist Church in Pittsburgh, Indiana and that's coming up very soon

September 9th and 10th and He is going to be one of a number of speakers including.

Dr. Russell Fuller who is the main plenary speaker? He is a professor of Old Testament in Hebrew at Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville, Kentucky But that conference as I said is at Pittsburgh Baptist Church in Pittsburgh, Indiana Their website is

Pittsburgh Baptist comm PIT TS Boro Baptist comm if you could pastor mark at about a minute and a half

Summarize what you most want etched in the hearts and minds of our listeners today. Yeah, I appreciate it Chris.

Appreciate you having me on and Again my final encouragement would be that you know to say this that you know, there are some amongst reformed brethren who are out there who are

Evangelizing who are involved in the ways that we spoke about here So it's not a broad brush at the same time what we went over is not an exhaustive list of challenges

I'm sure there's other people saying hey, why don't you bring this up? And I'm sure they're all but let me just encourage, you know, those who are listening

To make the main thing the main thing, you know Let's pray that there will be a greater unity amongst reformers even beyond that even beyond reformers just in a sense of Recognizing those who are also our brethren who were not reformed

Let's be the example and let's concentrate on you know I'm being passionate for Christ for his church for getting the gospel out and for seeing sinners saved

You know, let's let's get more of a of a united effort in that direction Does not get rid of our theology by any stretch or studying our theology

But let's let's get some more attention in the realm of practical theology. Let's live these things out together amen, and I'm not saying it exactly verbatim the way our friend.

Dr. James R white once said it but He was addressing if you really loved your wife

You would not draw a blank when someone asks you what color are her eyes and what color are her hair?

And what's her favorite food? What's her favorite hobbies? You wouldn't be clueless because if you love your wife

You would want to know everything about them and that goes with theology if you love God You're really gonna want to know as much about God as you can possibly

Retain in your mind but grace reform Baptist Church The website is grace reformed

Baptist Church comm that should be easy for you to remember grace reformed Baptistchurch .com

and you can contact them if you want any other information about Pastor Mark's books Thank you so much

Pastor Mark for joining us And I want everybody to always remember for the rest of your lives that Jesus Christ is a far greater