August 5, 2016 Show with Lynn K. Wilder on “Unveiling Grace: The Story of How We Found Our Way Out of the Mormon Church”

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Earth who are listening via live streaming This is Chris Arntz and your host of iron sharpens iron wishing you all a happy Friday on this fifth day of August 2016 and I'm so delighted to have for the very first time on my program.

Dr. Lynn K Wilder who is a former Mormon who converted by the grace and mercy of Jesus Christ to biblical

Christianity and we're going to be discussing her book today unveiling grace the story of how we found our way out of the

Mormon Church and There's a lot of interesting things about my guest background

Dr. Lynn K Wilder is a wife mother grandmother scholar and author with a doctorate in education

During more than a decade as a professor and researcher and 20 years as a public school teacher she has produced more than 50 scholarly publications written for books and mentored hundreds of students her experience passion and expertise lie in how to advance the academic and socio -emotional success of Marginalized students who struggle in school once tenured faculty at Mormon Church owned and operated

Brigham Young University Commonly known as BYU. Dr. Wilder resigned from BYU and then from the

LDS Church, which is the Latter -day Saints She resigned from the LDS Church in 2008 when she experienced a crisis of faith

She currently teaches at Florida Gulf Coast University Speaks writes and ploys time with seven much -loved vivacious grandchildren and our guest was raised as a

Protestant Christian and she and her husband Michael joined the

Church of Jesus Christ of Latter -day Saints and Accepted the gospel according to Mormon Church founder

Joseph Smith as a young married couple They were looking for a church home when the

Mormon missionaries knocked on their door in Indiana in 1977 and Mike and Lynn had no children at the time and immediately dove into a life of active participation with their new church family for 30 years

Michael and Lynn were Temple recommend holding active members of the Mormon Church and held numerous

Leadership positions eventually they had four children all of whom were faithful and active in the

LDS Church like their parents The three oldest children's sons served missions in Russia Denmark and Florida Respectively before their missions the sons had served at stake youth leaders

Seminary president and their third son Micah Worked in the temple their daughter held leadership positions as well.

They all bore testimony of Christ often in church and were sincere and Contented members of the

LDS Church the Wilders moved from Indiana to Utah in 1999 When Lynn finished her doctorate and was hired at BYU Mike established a business in Utah and the family continued to serve their church in the perfect Mormon life then in 2006

Everything changed and we're gonna be hearing that whole story in more detail And I thank you so much for joining us today for the very first time an iron sharpens iron.

Dr. Lynn Kay Wilder Thank you Chris, it's wonderful to be on You know the stories that God puts together.

No one could make up Not make this stuff up. So it's really kind of fun to get the opportunity to Tell what

God's capable of and this one's a wild one Well, you have a very appropriate last name now

Absolutely Well, I from what I was just reading off of your website you were raised in a

Protestant Christian home If you could let our listeners know What kind specifically of a

Protestant Christian home that was because obviously as you know Protestantism is a very wide spectrum of people some of whom even many

Christians would Not count among their brothers in Christ, so you have all different kinds of people calling themselves

Protestant But what was the situation where you were raised? My parents took us to church every week it was a

Most of the time when I was growing up, they were going to a Presbyterian Church sometimes to a to a

Methodist Church But I don't recall ever ever Opening the

Word of God outside of that church you would be really interested to know that the

Pew Institute says that more than 80 % of people who convert to Mormonism Come right out of biblical

Christianity just like I did People that when offered this

Mormon gospel by their friends or by Mormon missionaries accepted as a anti -christian option and that's exactly where my husband and I were he was raised

Baptist And I'd been raised Presbyterian, but we did not know

The word and I could not articulate for you the gospel of Jesus Christ it was more of a cultural thing probably something

I felt that we needed to do and So you were a young married couple

By the time you had this encounter with Mormon missionaries

What was it about what they said and about what you had learned at the time about?

the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter -day Saints that found You so spellbound if you will got you so and you and your husband

Michael got you so excited and enthusiastic That led you to eventually join this organization

Well, you know as a young married couple we wanted to find a church

We kind of wanted to have a family and have some kind of moral stability right in our family so Mike and I were kind of trying this church and trying that church and they seemed honestly a little bit stuffy and Not being saved at the time.

We just didn't connect very well But I started doing a correspondence course, you know back in those days

They would send me a packet and I would fill it out and send it back and this was a correspondence course where I was learning about the

Bible so I started with the Old Testament and I remember going through the

Old Testament and thinking oh My goodness when I get to Ezekiel 37

Jerusalem and you know, Israel have come back to her homeland. That's like a major Fulfilling of this prophecy at least that's what it looked like to me at the time and so I'm thinking

I'm really interested in this idea of last days You know this latter -day thing because I'm reading about some of this that looks to me like Some of this might be being fulfilled, right?

So when the Mormon missionaries come to the door their badges say the

Church of Jesus Christ of latter -day saints, which of course is the

King James version of last days and They told us they were the experts on latter days.

They knew all about them and that kind of was my hook They were experts on the end times the last days.

Is that what you were saying? Yes That's exactly what I'm saying. They say their church is the

Church of Jesus Christ of latter -day saints Latter -day

Dispensation say and that Joseph Smith actually ushered in the latter -day dispensation and That he restored

Christ's original Church Which of course they

Mormons say was lost Mormons believe that after the original 12

Apostles died That the church that Christ had set up through his

Apostles died with the Apostles that's an interesting very interesting point because It appears as though since you were a

Mormon There has been a radical shift in Propaganda in public relations if you will and perhaps we could delve more deeply into it later after we hear more of Your personal story.

I don't want to derail your personal story here, but it just jumped out at me what you said because My personal encounter even very recently

I would say about four or five months ago Here in the streets of Carlisle, Pennsylvania when

I when I saw Some Mormon missionaries young men walking down the street I could tell even from about 50 yards away that they were

Mormons because of the white shirts Black ties and black badges on their pockets of their shirts and I called out to them.

I said are you Mormons? And they stopped in their tracks and they said yes, we are So I said hold on and I went up to to have a conversation with them and They were giving me a entirely different pitch than I had received from a

Mormon in the 1980s They were saying to me you probably heard that we think we're the only true church.

That's not true. We're just Christians like you just another different kind of Christian and they were giving me a whole different kind of public relations speech than The evangelism

I had received in the 1980s when I had become a brand new Christian and invited

Mormons into my house to have a theological discussion, but so this seems to have been more of an old -school presentation that you received of being

Them being the one true church because of all other churches being false and as you were just saying

That the Church of Jesus Christ that he founded dying with the Apostles and in need of being restored on the earth

Well, Chris, if you look on their website, they're still going to be teaching the idea that they're the only true church

Okay, and it's in their scriptures so Although it's not something they would profess to the outside world

The last maybe 15 -20 years there's been a huge push in Mormonism to say we're

Christians, too literally when Mike and I encountered those missionaries in 1977 they did not want to be called

Christian really my first days of Mormonism We considered anyone outside of the

Mormon Church Gentile Mm -hmm, and then we considered ourselves as Mormons the only true

Christians In fact Mormons believe that they are gathering lost ten tribes of Israel So let me let me read you this passage from the

Book of Mormon. It says After the Bible had gone forth through the hands of the great and abominable

Church See that would be the Catholic And then the

Protestant churches, right? because they are They are the great and abominable

Church through the Mormon Church according to their scriptures That there are many plain and precious things taken away from the

Bible which is the book of the Lamb of God and because of these things which are taken out of the gospel of the

Lamb and Exceedingly great many do stumble Yay in so much that Satan has great power over them

That is currently in the book of Mormon and in first Nephi which

Tells the Mormon point of view toward the gospel Toward the

Bible, but also toward the church the Christian Church So although they don't say it publicly in this day and age they have this teaching in their scriptures

That they are the one true church right that the Christian Church is actually an abomination

And that the Bible is not reliable because many plain and precious things

Like I just read have been removed from it by the great and abominable

Church So was this a part of the actual attraction to you and your husband some people would be immediately offended by that kind of an exclusivistic stance by a

Person in a religion as many liberals are even with Christianity They find it reprehensible that you would say that Jesus Christ is the one way to salvation.

But but Was this something that attracted you and Michael the fact that this is the real deal?

This is the true Church Jesus founded and everybody else is wrong. Was that a part of the the allurement?

This particular scripture in the book of Mormon. The missionaries did not ever present to us

It was years later than founded one interesting thing about Mormonism and about the

Mormon missionaries is Mormons have what they call deep doctrines and they are certainly not going to present those deep doctrines to people who are looking at investigating

Mormonism the Bible for Mormons is a Kind of a hook to offer other people who believe in Jesus and have had some exposure to the

Bible But then Mormon missionaries immediately kind of used the Bible then to transition you to the book of Mormon saying that it is another testament of Jesus Christ, so Mormons actually have four standard works of scripture

One of them is the Bible but their own articles of faith say

We believe the Bible to be the Word of God as far as it's translated correctly so in other words that three books of Mormon scripture are

Perfect and the book of Mormon is supposed to be the most correct book on the face of the earth

The Bible they say has been mistranslated in several places and who knows where so you can't really trust it

Right, but it is something that they use in order to have people convert to Mormonism And like I said more than 80 % of people that join

Mormonism as converts to the Mormon Church Come out of biblical Christianity.

So people who know a little bit about Jesus have had a little bit of exposure You know to the

Bible, but certainly do not understand How to separate a false faith from one that's true.

Yeah, I can recall Years ago my friend Dr. James R. White of Alpha Omega Ministries who has written about Mormonism himself

He wrote a book called is the Mormon my brother and he wrote a book called letters to a

Mormon elder and did a lot of evangelism to Mormons in Not only in Arizona where he lives but in Salt Lake City, Utah and other places during very prominent events that Mormons were having and he still does reach out to Mormons, but not to the very frequent degree he used to but I can remember him telling me that he encountered a woman who was a

Mormon who was a Baptist prior to becoming a Mormon and When he was telling her some some of the things that Mormonism teaches

Such as that faithful Mormons will become gods of their own planet and so on She was totally shocked.

She had not known any of that and So I'm assuming that a lot of people when they become

Mormons they may think that they're just joining some kind of another

Christian denomination, but then when they Actually, you know learn more after becoming

Mormons when they learn more in depth about the teachings They they may be discovering things for the first time.

Like I just mentioned years later. Am I right on that? Years later when you're already so ingrained in the culture

Mormonism actually calls it milk before meat We were taught not to offer

Some of those strange deep doctrines to people outside of the church unless we detected they were ready to accept them so You will sometimes even have

Mormons just plain lie about whether they believe certain things and sometimes

Mormons don't know even Things are in their scriptures. I was LDS for nearly 30 years

Until I taught diversity actually multiculturalism at Brigham Young University and My students start telling me about this thing.

They called the curse of Cain skin was a curse and I thought that was the stupidest thing

I'd ever heard, but I eventually realized that Those ideas came right out of Mormon scripture

Right out of the Book of Mormon and the middle of great price and yet I had taught

Mormon seminary and never seen that Wow, but this is how you know kind of controlled that system was when

I taught Mormon seminary I had a manual my students had a manual and we

I had to keep to the manual and Often the scriptures that we looked at especially if we were looking at Bible scriptures

Were imprinted right into the manual so we didn't actually open our scriptures and read it in context

But of course, I totally trusted the church you know, I trusted the

Mormon Church that what they were putting together was sound doctrine and But now

I know it often wasn't it was a matter of Cherry -picking things out of the

Bible that looked like they supported Mormon doctrine but Mormon doctrine in many ways is very very counterintuitive and contrary to what

Christ himself teaches in the Bible Yeah, I mean the the religions are nearly polar opposite With a

Mormon religion and biblical Christianity the only thing that I can think of after learning a lot more about Mormonism myself after doing reading and Knowing my friend.

Dr. James are white and our mutual friend Latency Scott who I've interviewed on this program

The the only thing that we seem to have in common is some of the basic tenets of Biblical morality

Perhaps most or all of them, but it really is the the more the more you get to know about the

Church of Jesus Christ of Latter -day Saints the more it seems to resemble Greek mythology or You know the the pagan religions of the of the

Norse gods and so on. It just seems to be really Nothing in common because because of the fact would you say

That one of the things that confuses people is that Mormons very often use the same vocabulary, but they have a different dictionary

Absolutely Absolutely, there are not two religious words between Mormonism and biblical

Christianity That mean the same thing so you can pick any word

Angel even even angels are different angel salvation grace

You know Jesus God the Father all of those things are very different in Mormonism, but and biblical

Christianity but because Mormons are using Christian like language

Christians are so confused and or they assume That these folks must be

Christians. They say I'm saved by grace Jesus died for me on the cross

But even those two If you dig down don't mean the same right so first of all

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Before we even get more in -depth about the teaching of Mormonism and how it contrasts with Biblical Christianity, I wanted to hear more about your personal journey in and out of this cult you

One of the things that is clear about Mormonism is as opposed to Christianity where salvation is

All of grace it is all of Christ. It is a rescue of a merciful

God to helpless wicked sinners who do not deserve any

Measure of grace or kindness from God or Christ and it seems the polar opposite is true in Mormonism about basically at all it being a religion of merit and a religion of pulling yourself up by your own bootstraps and that kind of thing and then eventually if you're diligent enough becoming a

God yourself one day Was there anything about these? Elements of that religion

That were frightening to you or was it something that also was appealing to you? Or did you just not know about it until later?

I knew very little about all of that until later the manual that Mormon missionaries uses called preach my gospel and they have very kind of Prescripted places that they go with Investigators when they're in your home and Literally preach my gospel tries to get someone baptized after three visits or after you've been through Three little teachings by the

Mormon missionaries You know basically nothing about Mormonism at that point.

You do know Before you can join Mormonism that you have to accept

Joseph Smith as a prophet of God And the one who restored the one true church before you can be baptized in the

Mormonism That's kind of a major thing, but of course

They built up Joseph Smith so big to me and and they always go through this argument

God spoke to man through prophets in the Old Testament. Don't you think he loves us as much as he loved them?

I didn't know that the Bible says the prophets were until John the

Baptist You know now the gospel was preached I just didn't know the

Bible and really the only antidote to all of these false teachings is to know your word and so There was a point and it was the word that brought me out of Mormonism What took me in the wonderful people the culture they loved on us they became family for us

But that's a bit of a dangerous thing Chris because as soon as the

Mormon Church replaces your family It really does begin to replace your biological family and I had

Christian Biological family and all of a sudden everybody I saw everybody

I hung out with I had callings in the Mormon Church Became Mormon and everyone my kids hung out with were

Mormon Literally when I left the Mormon Church after 30 years,

I didn't know anyone outside of the Mormon Church I didn't know how people dressed outside of Mormon bubble

Except for my family my Christian family. That was it. It took me a while to read

No, I can I can believe it well we're gonna be going to a station break and we've already got several listeners waiting to have their questions asked and If you'd like to join them with a question of your own our email address is chris arnzen at gmail .com

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Mormon. Dr Lynn Kay Wilder and her testimony of conversion to biblical

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Dr. Lynn Kay Wilder She is a former Mormon who by God's grace and mercy was rescued out of that cult and became a

Bible believing Christian a born -again sister in Christ and She has written a book unveiling grace the true story of how we found our way out of the

Mormon Church forward by dr. John Ankerberg and Before I return to that book in our discussion,

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Lynn Kay Wilder author of unveiling grace the story of how we found our way out of the

Mormon Church before We find out more about her own personal testimony I just wanted to read a couple of the endorsements by two women who have been guests on iron sharpens iron radio

One is my dear friend Latane C. Scott mutual friend of my guest today

This is the story of how a whole family did its own heart transplant a young man on his lifelong dream of a

Mormon mission his siblings a father deeply and men enmeshed in LDS priesthood and The author

Lynn Wilder a tenured professor at Brigham Young University one by one

They plucked the lifeless works driven core of Mormonism from their breasts and replaced it with the vibrant grace of Jesus Christ remarkable tender account that's

Latane C. Scott former Latter -day Saint and author of the Mormon Mirage and Unveiling grace is the inspiring account of one

Mormon's family journey from error to truth from lying relying a priesthood authority to faith from trusting in temple ordinances to trusting in Christ alone

The Wilder story demonstrates the love of the shepherd as he seeks his lost sheep and that's

Sandra Tanner great great granddaughter of Brigham Young and president of Utah Lighthouse ministry

And it was my honor to have both of those women on my program and those are very powerful endorsements for this book

If you'd like to join us on the air with a question of your own for Lynn Wilder our email address is

Chris Arnson at gmail .com Chris Arnson at gmail .com so you you and your husband join the

Church of Jesus Christ of Latter -day Saints, and then you actually become eventually a professor in one of the most world -renowned

Mormon institutions of education Known Brigham Young University. Tell us about that the

Mormon Church actually has four They own four colleges that they run

The foremost one is in Provo, Utah 36 ,000 students at Brigham Young University And it's a research to university, you know kind of well thought of in the

United States Yeah, a lot of the college sports fans Immediately recognized BYU when they hear that name

Yes Jim McMahon I got it start there

So Mormonism tries though very hard to have kind of a public presence and To be influential in the important institutions around the world.

Of course higher education is one of them So it would not be unusual for a prominent

Mormon to go to Brigham Young maybe undergrad a lot like Mitt Romney did and then step up into one of the

Ivy League schools like Yale or Stanford or Harvard, you know and then even go on and get a doctorate

Mormons will often then go into politics go into the

FBI the CIA military and Those things help

Mormonism kind of have a presence So that other people could look to us as Mormons and want the life that we had

It's it's a little bit of a prosperity gospel the Book of Mormon says those who are

Right Just of course you believe you can make yourself righteous those who are righteous will be blessed both temporally and spiritually so literally when

I was in Mormonism, I Believed that life would be good.

I wouldn't have cancer. I'd have a nice home. I'd have a nice job Wow, are you sure you weren't in Joel Osteen's Church?

And if those things didn't happen to me then I was doing something wrong

I was not keeping up my part of the bargain with God It's very work space and there's lots and lots of pressure on Mormons to be perfect Literally, they believe the scripture that says be perfect.

They don't understand. The only way that you get that way Is to be found in Christ who is your only perfection, right?

but Mormons actually believe that through their works They can please

God and then if they do enough good works and they endure to the end and they are

Worthy to go to the temple that at the end of their life if they've done enough God's grace

Might kick in but you never know that you have eternal life on this earth so you were so sunk into this that you were

Soaking up education and you eventually became Not only a professor but a tenured professor at this prestigious

College And when was it? That you started to think that perhaps you are actually leading young minds astray into very dangerous damnable evil error as a professor

Representing that that religion of Mormonism Well, there were certainly red flags around the way

Along the way one of the first ones was in the 1980s. I read a book called Emma Hale Smith Mormon Enigma about Joseph Smith main wife

And Emma Hale Smith what I did learn through this book was that Joseph had been a polygamist and That he'd actually lied to his wife

About being a polygamist and I learned all kinds of things that made me sick

But I just ignored it and put it on a shelf I really did think

Mormonism was the one true church The next thing that started to rock me was when

I went to BYU I was hired at BYU in 1999 in the year 2000 I was assigned to teach multiculturalism because our accrediting agency at BYU Required it right most schools are required now if you want federal money to teach diversity and so since I was kind of a baby the new hire and Nobody seemed to want to do it

I was assigned to do it and I was thrilled to do it my background is in working with gangs and kids and drugs and homeless shelters and I've had a lot of diversity kind of experience and So I was thrilled to do it

But the way God began to tug at me with this diversity

Topic was that my students at BYU began to tell me that dark -skinned was the curse

I'm laughing at them. I'm trying to teach multiculturalism cultural pluralism And they're they're telling me okay, okay, okay, but but not those with dark skin, right

Wow So I'm asking my students where they're getting this and one of my students said oh it comes out of the

Bible And I remember thinking That unreliable stupid Bible, right?

And because I had that point of view I It was years before I actually went back to the

Bible and tried to see what that whole Curse of Cain mark of Cain thing was when

I finally read it in the Bible. It's like, okay There's a God put some mark on him Wait doesn't say anything about skin color and the mark was actually to protect him to keep other people from killing him

Wait a minute. That's not all what the Mormons were telling me Well, I eventually learned that the

Book of Mormon and the Pearl of Great Price, which are our two Mormons standard works of Scripture There are 26 scriptures in those two books that say things like dark skin is a curse and to this day it says in the

Book of Mormon when the unrighteous Lamanites joined the righteous

Nephites and became righteous their skin turned from dark to white that in the

Book of Mormon so I'm Thinking this is crazy

There's no merit to this and then I began to kind of dig into the history of Mormonism and I found out that blacks could not hold the

Mormon priesthood until 1978 I Found out blacks could not attend

BYU in the 60s I found that other universities were boycotting and wouldn't play

BYU in football because they didn't have any blacks on their football or basketball teams

Finding all kinds of things. I had not known in 30 years of Mormonism And many

Mormons are not even aware of and it's fairly recent history and well, well, you know

I Mentioned an encounter not the one I had in the streets of Carlisle here, but in the 1980s

When I was a new Christian and I actually was responding to a commercial for the

Mormon Church That said if you want a Book of Mormon hand -delivered by a

Mormon elder to your home call this number so I did because I wanted to Confront Mormons with the gospel.

I was a very aggressive Young Christian who wanted to I guess probably test my own abilities or something

But when the young Mormon came with an older man I was expecting the older man to be the smarter one of the two but time after time after time when

I mentioned some Controversial unpopular

Mormon teaching the older man was saying What you are saying does indeed sound strange but I think that you have probably heard wrong things about the

Mormon Church as if he was Reading it from a script and the younger man would it was constantly bowing his head and saying no, that's what we believe

When it came to the issue of race He got very that's when he first piped up and got very aggressive and said who are you to talk?

You're a Baptist and there are Baptists in the Ku Klux Klan There are there are many

Baptists who did not want integration in the south and They're they're very bigoted and I said well first of all

I will tell you right now that there will be many Baptists in hell Even though I'm a Baptist are you gonna say that about your prophets?

There is a difference between the moronic or sinful ideas of an individual who is a

Christian and A prophet speaking as the voice box of God and teaching things as commands.

Am I right? You are right about that the

Major problem today with Mormonism trying to masquerade as a

Christian Option is they have scriptures that teach they're the only true church they have scriptures that say a

Righteous priesthood male can work his way to become a god they say

Marriages for this life and for the next life. These are all things that are contrary to biblical doctrine

They say that polygamy is an eternal principle doctrine and covenants 132 today still says

That polygamy is an eternal principle it is amazing how similar the teachings of Mormonism and Islam are and That is certainly one that you can have multiple women in the next life

So when you were going through this internal struggle of conscience

When you were starting to hear these things, where was your husband at in his faith with the

Mormon Church? Well, we were both really dug in we loved our life

We thought God was blessing us because we were righteous Very prideful.

I was very full of pride A workspace faith if you believe that you can do it, you know, it's all about you and it was all about me boy, when

I got saved I Really got convicted It's Not about me at all it is about the

Lord that I serve Well about this time when I'm having these conundrums going on in my head

Our first son had served his Mormon mission in Russia Our second son had gone to Denmark Our third son was headed the prophet the

Mormon prophet said he would go to Mexico City on his mission

But while our third son Micah was in the missionary training center in Provo Preparing to go to Mexico City out of the blue.

This is this is the God we know His lung collapsed. No one quite knows why

He ended up in the hospital and then all of a sudden the Mormon Church is afraid to send this kid to Mexico City, which is

Really high and the medical stuff is not good for lungs and whatever So they say he has to go stateside.

Well, I don't know if you know in Mormon culture People feel like the more righteous missionaries go foreign and The folks who go stateside or maybe kids who aren't as strong in the gospel

Whatever so it was a little bit of a downer for Micah to have to go to Orlando, Florida Because he was a zealous young man, but Praise God.

He got sent to the middle of the Bible Belt with Christians and what the Bible said

Wow, by the way I don't know if you've ever seen the movie the

Saratov approach About the Mormon missionaries who were kidnapped in Russia.

I was just curious if your son had known those missionaries or Have you ever heard of the movie that I'm speaking about?

You know, I saw something about it, but I've not seen it. No, do you know what year it was?

He was there. Oh one two. Oh three. He went right after the wall came down right after the towers came down I just know that the movie as I'm looking at it right now on the internet.

It's the movie came out in 2013 but I'm not sure When the kidnappings it's actually a very good movie because it doesn't really get heavy into evangelizing

Mormon Theology or anything like that. It just goes by the account of these these young men who are being terrorized as kidnapped victims kidnapped victims in Russia, but that That's something that's an interesting question.

Some might say that I'm wrong for even talking Highly about a movie like that Do how do you feel about things like that now that you've left

Mormonism and we'll obviously go back to the the personal journey you went through but there are a lot of things in Society and culture that may involve a person

Speaking highly of something that a Mormon has done like made of movie or a

Mormon who's running for office Etc. Do you stay clear of any kind of support of anything by Mormons or?

that involved Mormon candidates and political offices and so on or is that something that you would view like many people and View a movie just because of the merits of its artistic artistic value or what have you?

A couple of things first, I think something like Saratov approach might be really good because it helps the outside world understand

Mormons and understand their culture and certainly, you know in order to bring someone to Jesus you need to know them inside and out and how they think and You need to love them and know how to pray for them and that kind of thing so I can see some value in that With our recent presidential election

Here's the thing in Mormonism Joseph Smith the founder of Mormonism in the 1830s made a prophecy

He made a number of false prophecies and one of the prophecies that he made that is not yet seen

Fulfillment is called the white horse prophecy. Yes And the white horse prophecy says that If you ever listen to Glenn Beck, you'll hear him use this phrase

Frequently and this is right out of the Mormon white horse prophecy Glenn Beck is a very strong people -going

Mormon The phrase is the US Constitution is hanging by a thread.

Yes Yes, I remember hearing that in a documentary before Mitt Romney or perhaps it was during Mitt Romney's bid for the presidency a number of years ago and I don't know if this is true.

But a part of that documentary they said that in the Washington DC Temple, there's actually an exact replica of the

Oval Office for the for the Mormon that would be involved in the fulfillment of that prophecy to Immediately fulfill the role of president or something.

It was that fantasy or you know, I don't know if that's true Mike and I were actually

Sealed together for this life and the next life marriage for this life and the next in the

Washington DC Temple really has several levels, you know, the temples typically have several levels

There's a basement level where even 12 year olds are allowed to go in and do

Baptisms for the dead So if you didn't get baptized into the one true

Church Mormon Church during your lifetime and you die you can accept

Mormonism in the next life supposedly But someone has to physically be baptized in proxy for you on earth

So in Mormon temples even young teenage kids will go into the Mormon Temple and just do

Be dunked one time after another after another Dead Mostly what

Mormon temple work is is for the dead then on the next floor you have an endowment room

And then sometimes on a third floor. There's a celestial room That kind of represents heaven and then there are upper floors that even good temple recommend holding

Mormons can't usually go into just church leadership or the

Mormon 12 Apostles sometimes go up there or something called the second anointing

Happens in those upper floors of the temple, you know We've been told as Mormons the only way you can be assured

That you were saved in Mormonism is if the prophet the Mormon prophet himself

Calls you into the temple and washes your feet called a washing and anointing or the second anointing and That's the only way your salvation is assured.

So right before The presidential election and oh eight my

Mormon friends were Posting on Facebook that the prophet had called

Mitt Romney in and given him his second anointing to assure

Not only does it assure your eternal life your salvation, but it assures your godhood

Wow so the white horse prophecy is basically how the

United States is going to be rescued as the Constitution is hanging by a thread and this will somehow become a

Mormon theocracy am I right on that this country? Well, eventually see Christ the

Mormon Christ will return to earth and he'll rule and reign and so because in Mormonism you have three separate gods and each of them have a

Holy God the Father and Jesus have bodies of flesh and bone They are a smaller

God than the Spirit God in the New Testament. Okay, so these these

God men with bodies of flesh and bone can't be all places at once, right?

So like they can't answer your prayer They have to send somebody to listen to you and then report to them kind of a thing

So when Jesus is ready to come back and rule and reign on the earth Just think of this in Mormon thinking

The Mormon Church has to prepare the earth to be ready for Christ to come and rule and reign and so a white horse prophecy

Put would put a Mormon in the most powerful position on the earth so that then

Things are set up so that when Jesus is ready to return he'll have a place to rule from now

When I read the Bible and read that the God of the Bible could like Blow his nostrils and all his enemies were dead

Yeah, quite a difference In fact my favorite chapter in the book one of my favorite chapters is called biggie size your

God Back when McDonald's was the big deal and we were leaving Mormonism. We heard this sermon

Biggie size your God and I thought now that is exactly what you have to do when you come from the

Mormon God to the Well, we have to go to another break right now

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Lynn Kay Wilder a former Mormon who was rescued by the grace and mercy of Jesus Christ and Delivered from the cult of Mormonism and into a genuine

Bible believing Christianity and we are discussing her book today Unveiling grace the story of how we found our way out of the

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Well, we have a listener actually right in the same city where you're from Lynn I don't know if you know this listener, but Mike in Fort Myers, Florida, and it's not your husband and He says greetings

Lynn, I'm in the process of reading your book grace unveiled and it's been fascinating.

Thank you My question to you is this what techniques have you found to be most effective in evangelizing

Mormons? You know my husband in our ministry does not often hit head with Mormons who are active and dug into their faith

God is doing an amazing work right now and tens of thousands of folks are leaving

Mormonism mostly because of the information that is available right on the internet right now

The only place Mormonism is really growing would be in areas of South America and Africa Particularly where people don't have access to the internet they can't

I've been Joseph Smith and find out he had 40 -some wives, etc, you know

And believe that blacks had the curse of Cain on them Which would obviously be something interesting for Africans to find out about you would think and yet Sometimes I talk to Mormons who are dark -skinned who love the faith so much.

They kind of turn a blind Gladys Knight Gladys Knight of Gladys Knight in the pips is a

Mormon and she is being used to aggressively evangelize the black community

It's true. I saw her in New York a few years ago when I was LDS But Well, uh, by the way

Mike Since you already have the book. I will still mail it to you.

If you make a promise you have to give it to a Mormon that's my My because I'm giving away free copies to a selected number of Listeners today and in fact, they've been autographed by our guest

Lindy Wilder and she In fact autographed them each uniquely and differently.

So that's I'm sorry Lin Kay Wilder I didn't mean to call you Lin D Wilder Lin Kay Wilder So if you promise to Give that to a

Mormon and give us your full mailing address We will send that book out to you for your question today

And we have a couple of other people a few other people waiting for their questions to be asked

But I also wanted you to finish up a little bit on the what we were saying before the break the about the white horse prophecy and my question to you was as a former

Mormon and really realizing more than your average person The falsehood that exists in that religion and Feeling that betrayal that people often do when they leave a religion where they've been lied to for many years

How do you feel about people in fact Christians Who would be aggressively and eagerly even supporting?

Mormon candidates for different offices including the president of the United States How did you feel when

Christians were aggressively behind Mitt Romney and that kind of thing You mean like Franklin Graham took off of his website during the election that Mormonism was a cult

Wow After the election really I didn't know that. I mean it actually doesn't shock me that much because of the softness

With which the Burleigh Graham Association and Franklin Graham have had towards some false religions

But I didn't know that he took it off and put it back that was that's interesting It is interesting

How do I feel, you know Mitt Romney probably was a wonderful manager and would have been a great president

But but if someone in ministry this is my concern if you put someone who's

Mormon in such an influential position and Mormon missionaries knock on the door in Indonesia and say well, you know, the president of the

United States is a Mormon, right? You know, my guess is that would help

Tens of thousands maybe millions of people to come into a false faith and to me that's my greatest concern

We kind of have a twofold purpose One is to help Christians understand

Mormonism and For people to know that Mormonism is outside of the body of Christ But then also to help

Mormons understand what those different sizes are because their church does not tell them

Necessarily the truth about Christianity and they really don't know that unless they read the

Bible with an open heart and we have Susan in Newville, Pennsylvania and she asks

I Understand that you were raised in a Protestant home. Did any of your family?

outside of your husband follow you and your husband into this cult and Have any of them been upset by your departing from it?

No Let me see no one on my side

Mike did baptize a sister of his that lived in Connecticut for a number of years and when we left the church

There's been quite a rift between Mike and his sister. She is still in the Mormon Church and quite not happy that we have left

You know, everyone has kind of strong opinions different ways, let me tell you this though Once I read the

Bible and I realized this is not Mormonism I was a little angry with my

Christian family I have a sister who's strongly Christian my parents were strongly

Christian and I don't recall one time in 30 years That anyone any of my old

Christian friends or my Christian family tried to step into a conversation with me

About where Mormonism was or what I believed and why

I believed that and I'm sure people were just So afraid of breaking relationship, right?

I'd be so angry. I wouldn't talk to them again But I was a little frustrated.

Were you gonna let me march out to hell Wow, even tell me about Wow, that is an excellent point and because I have been

Integrally involved in Arranging and orchestrating theological debates since 1995 and I have been ridiculed by fellow believers in Christ Who think that in a day and age?

Where wickedness abounds that we should stop being mean to each other If those who profess to love

God and profess to love Jesus Christ and live Morally, and so on we should be linking arms and we should be opposing the overtly evil society that we face rather than shooting each other and that it really boils down to in many senses a

An ideology where people's feelings are more important than their never -dying souls and I'm so delighted and refreshed to hear what you just said that you were totally frustrated with professed believers in Jesus Christ who would rather You go to hell than hurt your feelings now, even though they might not have thought that through That was really the practical implications of the way they were behaving in your presence

And certainly my mother prayed for me for 30 years had Bible studies praying for me and last about a year ago

I was invited to speak in Indianapolis at a church where my parents had been members and And there was a line of women there who said

I prayed for you for 30 years at which point I cried But but honestly,

I don't remember anyone being willing to have a conversation with me And so God has raised up people like us to be willing to have those conversations in the public realm and yes, we get opposition, of course from Mormonism because they

Want to believe that they're in the body of Christ But we also get opposition sometimes within Christianity and we just keep marching on This is how

I would boil it down Do you believe there's a God that's smarter than you are and do you believe that the

Bible is his word and so If if you say yes to those things

Then you have your standard of truth, you know, and you have your God and that standard of truth believe it or not

Warns of false Christ false gospels false apostles false teachers over and over and over It's been a prolific problem

Pretty much since the church was formed the book of Galatians was written 19 years after Jesus died by Paul Because the church had already gone to pot

Taking the original doctrine that they had set up the church with and was going off in all kinds of false directions

This has always been an issue for the church. And yet I can tell you at Florida Gulf Coast I'm the advisor for a campus

Christian organization and we have lots of Christian youth who grew up in the church all of their lives in the

Bible Belt and Yet when I bring up the false scripture and say what do you think this might mean they have no clue

They have encountered those they had never thought about it. They tell me. Oh, that must be Islam or Buddhism Well, no, this was a problem with and or people who were trying to say there they were within and they weren't certainly

Islam doesn't Threaten Christianity by saying they're

Christians, too, you know, right Well of the motto that I live by in regards to debates that I organize is from Proverbs 27 6

Faithful are the wounds of a friend but deceitful are the kisses of an enemy and We will if we are being honest with those we loved we will often

Hurt their feelings and they may hurt our feelings when they may expose sinful behaviors in our own lives or inconsistencies or erroneous thinking or teaching but if you're doing it with the motivation of love and compassion and wanting to deliver someone out of a false belief system or sinful behavior

How could that possibly be something that a critic a Christian is criticized for by other

Christians? when enemies are Kissing us left and right trying to deceive us with falsehood through their seductive ways of kindness and and false graciousness and generosity and so on so that is something that we have to be very careful of as Christians and by the way,

Susan in Newville, Pennsylvania, you are also receiving a free copy of unveiling grace the story of how we found our way out of the

Mormon Church by Lin K Wilder and it's also as I said earlier, it's autographed by Lin K Wilder as well.

So it makes it even more special and Thank you for providing those Lin and also thank you to Zondervan publishers

So we're at a point when you and your husband have left the

Mormon Church that must have even though you You recognized that that was something that you needed to do

There very often is a great feeling of Pain involved in giving up something like that that you may have cherished for decades

But and then again, there are people who? Giddily run Singing praises without ever looking back when something like that happens.

So not everybody has the same kind of life experience Tell us something about That when you and your husband left there

Well the long and short of what happened was that third that third son

Ended up reading the New Testament About a dozen times while he was on his

Mormon mission because he kept bumping up against Evangelicals and he wanted to understand where they were coming from God actually saved him on one

Monday afternoon Very near the end of his his Mormon mission

Then if God would have it he got invited to stand in front of about 60 or 80 other missionaries to Bear his testimony of what he'd learned over the two years of his

Mormon mission to of course encourage the new guys coming along and He said it was like standing on the edge of a diving board either this

God can catch me or he can't He professed the God of grace

He said he didn't think he needed a Mormon prophet to be saved He'd read in the New Testament that Jesus was the only mediator between man and God He was called in Called a devil called we were told our son had the spirit of the devil in him

He was an Antichrist and they were sending him home from his Mormon mission in disgrace

Three weeks before the end But again, you know this

God is so good I would have marched on in Mormonism till the end of my life even even knowing these silly things about polygamy and you can become a god and and racism

Until God himself had to rock my world and turn me another direction

When this happened to Micah They put him on a plane from Florida and sent him back to Utah where we were living

We only kept him in the state of Utah for two days because the Mormon Church was trying to Excommunicate him and make an example of him and we could not figure out why he was in so much trouble for purchasing the biblical

Jesus we thought we believed the same one and And Micah though before we put him on a plane and got him out of Utah Begged his parents, please

Promise me you'll read the New Testament. He specifically said read it like a child with no preconceived notion and Then the other thing he said was mom and dad

Jesus is enough Wow Wow, so there you have an

Instance where it wasn't the parent leading a child away from danger it was a child leading his parents out of danger about a very very perilous and everlasting danger.

Yes, and Eventually the entire family But it was an emotional roller coaster that nearly tore us apart

But again, God often has to take us to those kind of places I think to get our attention, right?

my Transition out of Mormonism. I began to read the Bible when Micah challenges to my husband did as well we'd sit up in bed at night reading it and Honestly, it was almost as if the

Holy Spirit immediately opened my eyes I read John 1 when I started in the book of John in the beginning was the word and the word was with God and The word was

God. Well, I knew the word was Jesus and I'm going Wait a minute.

He couldn't he wasn't God in the beginning. He worked his way to Godhood, you know, right there

And over and over and over and over Do you know that Joseph Smith the founder of Mormonism actually went through the

Bible and fixed all the things that were wrong with it and It's called Joseph Smith's new translation of the

Bible now Mormons don't actually use it But in their King James version of the

Bible the footnotes will take you to the Joseph Smith Translation to clarify it.

So one of the things I did when I hit John 1 1 and it says

Jesus was God from the beginning But Mormonism had taught me he wasn't I go to the

Joseph Smith fixed better translation, right and Joseph Smith had changed

John 1 1 and not only just John 1 1 but the entire first chapter of John Which is the nature of God so almost immediately.

I knew Wow Mormonism teaches a God with a different nature Than the

God of the Bible they can't be the same now why on earth Don't the

Mormons use the Joseph Smith version? I mean other than the footnotes for it

Why don't they just have a leather -bound Joseph Smith version that they market? Because it's so different from what

Christians have Christians would probably not be drawn into Mormonism That would be my guess, you know, and they want

Mormons to believe that they're a Christian sect There we go.

It's a little bit of deception milk before meat and So you said that it almost tore your family apart when your son

Micah had this conversion experience Were you and your husband? Militating against him initially and being forcefully resistant

We were completely confused about why he was in trouble why he had given up Everything he had it.

He was an astrophysics major at Brigham Young, right? So he can't go back to Brigham Young now in fact

I knew that I couldn't stay at Brigham Young if I ever left the Mormon Church or became unworthy of my temple recommend

Mormonism actually if you are a Mormon student going to BYU and you decide to leave the

Mormon Church even go to biblical Christianity you're not allowed to enroll in classes and you cannot graduate from the university so when

Micah began Encouraging his family to read the word

He starts sharing with his older brother that had gone to Denmark on his mission

And he was a piano performance major at Brigham Young at the time about to enter his senior year

That the biblical Jesus and then had to face that choice

Do I stay underground and lie and even if I'm found out they'll take my they might take my diploma away from me or Do I stand up for the biblical

Jesus like my brother did and let the consequences fall where they may Trusting that this

God has a plan Wow Well, we're gonna be returning to our discussion after our final station break.

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Lynn Kay Wilder formerly a professor at Brigham Young University a

Former Mormon who was delivered from this cult by the grace and mercy of Jesus Christ and she's the author of the book unveiling grace the story of how we found our way out of the

Mormon Church and Our email address if you'd like to join us as Chris Arnzen at gmail .com

Chris Arnzen at gmail .com before we go to CJ in Lindenhurst Long Island, New York with his question.

I want to before we run out of time have a few words About Adams Road the ministry the the musical group that your son

Micah who you were just speaking about is a manager for this group and I Wanted to introduce our listeners who are unfamiliar to Adams Road and their ministry

I hope to get that group at least some of them or at least one of the members of the band on my

Program at some point soon perhaps even Micah if you'd like to be interviewed But if you could tell us about Adams Road, oh

Absolutely when Micah was sent home in disgrace from his mission

He was telling us about this Ministry, he knew that God had laid on his heart now

Mike and I in Mormonism did not even know what a ministry was We had no

Conception of what he was even talking about and yet the day he walked away from his

Mormon mission Was the day he began a ministry an evangelism ministry

To bring people to know a God of grace The book unveiling grace.

There's a Video you can find online Unveiling grace

Teach the differences between Doctrines of work and this whole idea that God saved us by his grace.

There's not anything you can do To please him or to add to what he did for you on the cross

Your job is to surrender your life to him to accept him as your

Lord and Savior Micah's testimony is Extremely compelling if you ever go to hear

Adams Road, you must take your Kleenex It's it's an amazing story of what

God can do Micah then shared with this older brother Matt who was the piano performance major at BYU Matt then joined

Micah in ministry Both of them married Mormon girls and brought them to the biblical

Jesus as well Those families are still in Mormonism Not real thrilled with what we do then

Micah helped one of his missionary companions read the Bible and when he got was

When his mission was up. He was also on mission with Micah in Orlando, Joseph Warren Joseph gave his life to the biblical

Jesus ended up Joining the Adams Road ministry and married my daughter

Katie who eventually also left Wow Raised up this amazing story

Even a Mormon Ward Mission leader that Micah knew on his mission

Micah started sharing the Bible with this man came to know the biblical Jesus and then has

He Has been part of providing a tent making ministry for Adams Road.

They own a bed -and -breakfast in Winter Garden, Florida And their wives run the bed -and -breakfast while the men are on the road about five months out of the year speaking in churches and declaring the grace of God Wow, that's something and I know that the

Adams Road If you'd like to find out more information about this ministry and musical group group

It is Adams Road ministry calm and there is no apostrophe in the

URL Adams Road ministry calm and God willing as I said we will not only have

Micah on at some point soon if he's available and Willing to be on the program, but also we'd like to have members of the group and we'd like to play some music

By the group and so on and it's very moving in a day and age of commercialism

That is saturated the Christian Church They offer their music absolutely for free.

That's highly unusual They do and it's basically the word put to music and it it was scriptures that have been instrumental in them understanding the

God of grace Praise God. Well, we have a questioner as I was saying in Lindenhurst, Illinois in New York CJ He asks

I know that those involved in academics such as professors at universities

Sometimes allow for more freedom of thought than your average person Do you know of fellow colleagues at BYU?

Who really seriously? Questioned many of the claims of Mormonism, but just resisted leaving and do you have any friends who have

Stayed in your life who are colleagues of yours at BYU or have they all shunned you?

Well in Mormonism, you kind of have to shun an apostate and Mormonism The only people that go to hell would be

Satan his minions and folks apostate from the Mormon Church Particularly those like me who speak out so certainly former colleagues are nice to me, but they

Don't really have a relationship with me. Very few Mormons that have remained on my

Facebook. Although a few have I Have learned since I left

Mormonism of many many many many professors at Brigham Young who do not believe in Mormonism Hmm I didn't know them at the time because I was very dug into Mormonism and they would not have come out to me

But I have since learned that there are many Underground I even talked to a janitor recently from BYU questioning this person's faith and Of course, they're all afraid to be public because then they lose their job and their retirement

Wow That's something. Well, thank you CJ and you're also getting an autographed copy of the book unveiling grace

The story of how we found our way out of the Mormon Church by dr.

Lynn K Wilder thank you so much for the question and That is sad, obviously you would think that if these

Former colleagues of yours really believe they had the truth that although they would

Have certain barriers on their involvement in your life just as a Christian would with an unrepentant sinner

That they would still want, you know to extend love and graciousness and kindness to you to a point where they were in communication and wanting you to Return that seems counterproductive actually

Well works based Work space faith often use fear shame and guilt

To keep folks in the faith and kind of when those things don't work, then you're just kind of done

Besides you don't want the cancer to infect your own family We have

Bob in New York City Who says I have heard?

That the only people that will go to hell in Mormon theology or apostate

Mormons This seems like a very counterproductive teaching if you're trying to evangelize people

It seems that those non Mormons who did hear this would be more resistant to join a group where they're the only ones who will be

Candidates possibly to enter hell. That's interesting Well, it is interesting because in Mormonism, of course, you can hear the

Mormon gospel after death And so, you know, why would you kind of do all the rules and regulations during life when you think it through?

As long as you've got somebody that'll do your ordinances for you in the temple after you're gone

Yeah, there are a number of things in Mormonism. They just don't make a lot of logical sense

Certainly if you're going to become a god and have your own world You know, we always believe that we'd be living with our families in eternity

But you know what your kids grow up and get married so they're not going to actually be on your world with you

They're gonna have their own worlds and then how does that work? My husband says you get in your cosmic station wagon and you go visit your kids worlds on at Christmas I mean, there's just a lot that Doesn't even make sense

Is that true though that the only people who will go to hell according to Mormon theology are apostate

Mormons and Satan and his minions. Yes, they have their hell is called outer darkness and it is conserved

Just for those folks Mormons will tell you Hitler is in the lowest heaven

Wow, so how about Those they call Gentiles those outside of the

Mormon Church who are serial killers and all kinds of horrible things Obviously Hitler is a pretty prime example of a serial killer

So I guess you answered my question there, but is that is that the case with just generally all?

Gentiles or those who are non Mormons who are very overtly unrepentant wicked people

Unrepentant wicked people would probably end up in the bottom heaven the third heaven It's called the telestial world the second heaven would be reserved for kind of bad

Mormons and good Christians And then you have you have the the celestial kingdom where you can work your way to become a god as Your highest heaven, but you have to be

Mormon and you have to be temple recommend worthy Mormon So I'm assuming then when you left

BYU as you were saying before about the fear among your colleagues that don't want to come out of the closet as being delivered from Mormonism perhaps a bad phrase to use in this day and age coming out of the closet, but but You have you lost all?

The source of income from BYU as a result of leaving even though you were tenured there

I Of course Opted to leave my job at BYU.

I Hope my retirement will be there. It's still in the account.

Okay So I'm hoping it that works out. I Lost 30 years of friends pretty much when

I left Mormonism as did most of the family That's a very normal kind of thing.

It took me probably and I'm I'm embarrassed to tell you there's probably close to five years to become emotionally stable

To get enough of the Bible in me to get enough faith in the new

God Until I could kind of rise up and move on it's a it's a horrendous

Transition because it's a very different way of thinking but the only way to get into Right thinking is to get into the

Bible and get washed by the water of the word Amen Amen, we have

Christopher in Amityville, Long Island, New York he says that I have been disturbed by Christians who have adopted

Glenn Beck as a brother in Christ Because they say he really isn't a

Mormon Theologically, he may just be one in name only and they are so enthralled and excited about his political brilliance and are on the same page with him in regard to This subject they seem to have lost all discernment in regard to his religion.

Is it dangerous? Do you think for Christians to be? Rallying around a person like Glenn Beck who is a

Mormon still well, that is a decision for each person to make certainly but I can tell you that rumors are that Glenn Beck has been attending a

Christian church in Dallas, I believe Gateway On Saturday night, but going to his

Mormon ward on Sunday morning My guess is that's a deliberate thing to try to melt

The Mormon world with the Christian world and kind of assuage the Christian world So I've heard from many

Christians. Oh Glenn Beck's about to become great Christian or all here Oh Glenn Beck was just baptized into the

Christian Church But I also have friends who have been to the temple with Glenn back there in in the

Mormon Temple there in New York As far as I know, he's a very strong believing

Mormon You can pull up some YouTube videos where he gives his his Mormon testimony

I do not know what is in his heart, but if If you ask

Micah if you can be a Mormon and be a Christian Of course, the answer is only

God knows what is in someone's heart However, if you have become transformed and born again, you are likely headed out of Mormonism Because it teaches a gospel that's contrary to what

God himself taught in the Bible Yeah, what you I'm assuming what you mean by that is that you could be a

Mormon in name But truly be regenerate a born -again believer because you believe in the true gospel.

You don't believe in the Mormon understanding of God and the gospel and so on either

Through being ignorant of what the Mormons teach or for some rebellious reason you're remaining there and Believing simultaneously in Christian truth.

I'm assuming that's what you mean by that right and by the way, you have

Received our last giveaway copy Christopher and Make sure you give us your full address and we are gonna send you out unveiling grace the story of how we found our way out of the

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Cumberland Valley Bible Book Service So keep your eye open for that book Christopher and as I said earlier, it's autographed by our guest

Dr. Lynn Kay Wilder, which makes it even more special and I've noticed that each of the autographs of different unique Inscriptions in there.

So thank you very much for that. Dr. Wilder and I want to make sure not only that I give your website unveiling grace the book calm

Our excuse me Chris our ministry website is unveiling mormonism calm

Okay Unveiling mormonism calm so that's a different website that I just gave

Unveiling mormonism calm and that is the Ministry of my guest and her husband

Michael Wilder and I want to make sure because we only have about seven minutes left

I want to make sure that you unburden your heart and leave our audience With what you most want etched in their hearts and minds before they leave this program today.

Oh My thank you for that opportunity Chris. I Think probably the central issue is whether or not you have the right

Jesus You know doctrine does matter and the way we find out what is true

Is to hear the word from the Word of God himself

That would be Jesus and his word Of course is the Bible which is the authority of every

Christian believer The Jesus of Mormonism very Interestingly was born at a point in time.

He's a created being There was a heavenly father and a heavenly mother. They had sex and then they had these spirit children

Jesus was their first spirit child and Lucifer was their second which makes them brothers

That's not the Jesus of the Bible the Jesus of the Bible does not have a spirit brother by the name of Lucifer the

Jesus of Mormonism Most Mormon prophets have taught he was sired in the usual way and in other words heavenly father came down to Mary and Probably impregnated her in the usual way

The virgin birth is a very important part of biblical Christianity The Jesus of Mormonism atoned for our sins in the

Garden of Gethsemane When he sweat as if great drops of blood Not on the cross

What Mormons say happened on the cross? The only thing that happened is Jesus died on the cross

So they certainly do not revere the cross although it says in 1st Corinthians 1 18

The preaching of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing But to us who are saved it is the power of God It is all about the cross and it's all about the blood and these were

Concepts that were foreign to me in Mormonism Mormon that the

Mormon Jesus has a different nature and he teaches a different way to salvation

Which means to me it cannot be the same Jesus You do have to have the right

Jesus in order to have regeneration and to have salvation the

Jesus of the Bible Has answered prayers for me Given me scripture when

I needed it showed up in my life in the most amazing I almost hesitate to use the word

Supernatural, but they are things that only God could do.

I Have so many of these kind of stories in the book of how God showed up and and made sure that I knew

That he was real I'll just tell one of those here

When Mike and I were trying to get our heads straight in Christianity We were doing a couple of Bible studies a week.

We were going to a Coffee cafe with our pastor once a week helping him with questions and the word all the time

Just hungry hungry hungry for the truth Well one night we were doing a

Bible study called experiencing God by Henry Blackaby and In that Bible study it teaches you that God is always at his work.

He's always Evangelizing people. He's always drawing people to Jesus. That's his work, right?

So we were asked in that Bible study to pray God Show me where you're working around me who you're already working with whose heart you were softening toward the gospel

The next day I go into work at the university and I go down this hall and a colleague of mine is sitting in her office and she says

Lynn I dreamed about you last night. Come here. I Go in her office.

She shuts the door and she said I had the most Amazing dream.

Let me tell you and I want you to ask you what you think Well, this was the dream she said you and I went to Washington DC together and we were at a conference and you

Lynn were speaking and This strange voice spoke to me and said what she says you need to hear and where she goes you need to go

So she said I kept trying to get close to you and hear what you had to say

Couldn't keep up with you and So I finally get in a cab and I'm screaming to the cab driver where she does

I need to go what she says I need to hear She says like I the cab driver takes me to where you are and then the doors won't open and I'm Screaming pounding on the doors yelling what she says.

I need to hear where she goes I need to go and so she looks at me and she said what do you think about that dream?

Now, of course, I'm thinking well, I just prayed that prayer the night before but I'm sure this has nothing to do with that I mean,

I didn't know a God that was big enough to answer a prayer like that in such a profound way.

I Walk out of her office and I say well, honestly, I don't know what to think about that Three days later,

I'm sitting in my office Chris and This lady comes and finds me

She comes into my office Shut the door and she said I don't think you understand

I have been praying about a personal relationship with Jesus and I think he's leading me to you.

I Was so moved. I thought God just hit me over the head with a two by four

This is the God that we serve. This one's real. He's not a bunch of rituals and Stuff you say over again and works that you do

This is a real God who? draws us and has a plan for our lives and after those five years of Horrible transition for me that plan began to unfold even this book being birthed was it was a miracle?

I mean What unknown author ever gets to publish with Zondervan and my

Well, we are out of time now Lynn and I look forward to having you back on the program I look forward to God willing your son being on the program and your husband and I want to give your website one more time

It's unveiling Mormonism calm unveiling Mormonism calm. I also want to plug my friend

Jason Wallace's video That's LDS video LDS Dot video.

I hope you all always remember for the rest of your lives that Jesus Christ is a far greater Savior Than you are a sinner.